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backhoff/r/seduction11/02/15 07:46 PM
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Down to chat.
/r/seduction12/02/15 04:46 AM
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Gave me a good laugh! And it speaks the complete truth!
/r/seduction11/02/15 09:24 PM
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Holy shit... that is on heck of a response. Thanks bro. In fact, I just watched that Tedtalk yesterday! It turned some lights in my brain, I hope that it clicks into it. I'll tackle the stress/nervousness head on, see what happens. I think I have all the mental tools I need, just have to put them to practice. Will update on how it goes. Also, my opinion on that text, It's a pretty straightforward text. I think it will polarize her enough for you to know if shes worth your time or not. I.e., you …
/r/seduction28/10/14 07:07 PM
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Yeah man, people love me...from what I know, I'm funny, I can lead a conversation and make small talk, but I think I am way too invested in this girl to the point that I care about what their friends think about me.. or something like that.. Idk man...
/r/seduction28/10/14 02:44 AM
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BRAH, Been doing that for the past year or so, every morning when I wake up, i look at the mirror and say something like "Wow, wow, thats one sexy motherfucker. You tiger" or something like that. It's a big confidence boost. Thats what I meant by working on my inner game, but still...the problem persists. Will try and have it sorted out by the end of this week.
/r/seduction28/10/14 02:43 AM
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Yeah, I think too much. I'll prove you wrong on that last part. ;) Thanks for the help
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:59 AM
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Well, this happens with most girls I am interested in, but still applies to the current one. Thanks though. You are right, shouldn't be afraid because of the nerves. Will work on it.
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:55 AM
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The worst part, is I already have her number, but haven't spoken with her in a big while, maybe that's it ? But yes, the fuckit mentality is something im working on./
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:50 AM
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18 Never had a gf, she showed attraction, which I may have lost because of my lack of a sack. lol
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:48 AM
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I am not sure, if she were alone I would go for it no doubt, but I can't really make out the thought process of my brain when the girl is with a friend... And i fucking hate it man... I haven't talked with her for a month maybe because of this. (haven't seen her on weekends, don't talk to her at school) It also helps mentioning she is younger, I don't share classes with her.
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:44 AM
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and I don't like it when people watch me walk over and talk to a girl. They jealous broo! Shit aside, learn to not give a fuck about what people think of you.
/r/seduction01/10/14 03:12 AM
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I'm not an expert, not even close. In fact I'm bad at 'game', but reading about the topic has made me realize a few things I did wrong for years. I was needy, I thought I needed a gf and that it was all I wanted, and that is a fucking turn off for girls. Read about it, there a few good book recommendations on this sub. Don't read shit like 'Pick up lines' and that kind of stuff. Work on your lifestyle. Make yourself interesting. EDit: Also, addressing the part of you getting upset when you don't…
/r/seduction21/09/14 11:01 PM
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Read 'Models' from Mark Manson. It explains why this happens and how to avoid it.
/r/seduction19/09/14 06:07 PM
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I am reading 'Models' right now, it's so good, and I'm only like 85 pages in. Yeah you are right about the idea that Mark is more of a Long term improvement and having long,fulfilling relations instead of just one night stands and that kind of stuff.
/r/seduction19/09/14 12:18 AM
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