backintheddr Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	friendzone help Well you said it yourself, You've mentioned this girl fucks everyone but you? If she's getting action easily and you're her friend, why on earth would she fuck you and ruin the friendship? She doesn't want to talk about it because you're making her uncomfortable. You need to start working on making yourself a better person, if you're overweight then start running and hitting the gym, if you're stupid then start reading (I don't know if English is your first language but your writing isn't very a…	/r/seduction	19/12/16 04:56 PM
2	Been feeling like I'd rather be doing hobbies than dating. Could you elaborate on how your establish this? My online messaging style is all about being polite and not threatening to meet with. I almost never say something explicit, probably the boring route but it's a numbers slog. How do you lay your marker ?	/r/seduction	08/12/16 12:35 AM
6	At 32, I'm tired of just fucking random girls, and just want a loving romantic relationship Took about 10 rereads to see it :D Well spotted.	/r/seduction	07/12/16 04:17 PM
–	At 32, I'm tired of just fucking random girls, and just want a loving romantic relationship I'm the 23 year old version of you. Recovering nice guy/ homeless romantic. Came out of my shell a year ago and never looked back. I went from having the lowest self esteem in the world to pulling plenty of Girls, some amazing, some average, some verry bad, doing it because you can not because it solves anything. I think the game can be a poisonous influence, where I used to Feel almost a warm burning Sensation when talking to a pretty girl, I've slept around and been discarded enough now to bec…	/r/seduction	07/12/16 01:19 PM
9	How to not be creepy and desperate? Well, the only real way is to not be desperate man. Do you have self esteem issues ? Start going for runs and hitting the gym. Nothing to talk to people about? Look for better hobbies. In the short term though, not looking for constant validation off people is one. You need to be comfy in your own space, everyone is far too busy thing about themselves to notice whatever self consciousness you have. Read "how to win friends and influence people", read "The Game", read in general actually, it's ea…	/r/seduction	26/11/16 10:50 AM
2	My text game is so weak I just don't know how to text women anymore I think it does depend on personality to be sure. What you describe just doesn't work when I've tried it, I have a friend who sends full essays when he texts and has plenty of success. There is no right or wrong way really, it's what works for you. Mainly do what you think is fun, if you're texting three Girls and they're all loving the attention then who am I to say quick go cold on em all? Just I do believe it's possible to over-text and in the past it did hinder me.	/r/seduction	20/11/16 04:21 PM
–	My text game is so weak I just don't know how to text women anymore Most important rule of texting is do it as little as possible, though sometimes you gotta put the work in . 1. Be stupid. I'm serious, make a moronic and outlandish joke, make fun of yourself or something yous spoke about. If she's sort into you or open to that, she'll giggle and feel less intimidated. Whenever I've tried a serious opener I get ignored or a bad response, be an absolute idiot it's what's worked for me. Example: Her "Yeah I'm doing a Post grad in animal studies" Me" That's impossi…	/r/seduction	20/11/16 12:54 PM
2	Kissed on the 1st. When on the 2nd? Certainly don't open with a kiss, just gotta let it happen man, if she's into it she'll give a signal. I've had Dates stop dead in their tracks while walk-in somewhere, pause Netflix movies and just ask "what's up?" , clearly stop paying attention to what im saying and make really strong Eye contact. All fairly strange no? My point is if she wants to kiss you she'll put you on the spot so you can make it happen. Otherwise get some casual drinks into the equation and you can both loosen up and sa…	/r/seduction	20/11/16 12:33 PM
–	How do you flirt with and pursue a girl your only connect to over social media? Generally social media is a means to an end, get her out somewhere where she's comfy to talk and build a connection, if you're blowing up her Facebook messenger everyday but not doing something decisive, she's gonna dismiss you as a viable option. It may already be too late, ask her out , you could omit the word date to make it more casual but she might assume you're hanging as friends. Personally I think it's best when you don't label it, you're at your most attractive when you are completely i…	/r/seduction	20/11/16 12:25 PM
3	Something that I have found out is quite important in game, and it is probably considered by many as an adverse side-effect of being in the game. I agree that game is dangerous if misused , I got super into it several months back , ended becoming an overzealous flamboyant force of ego at one point, I was so busy exhibiting game I wouldn't even notice that I'd already passed the point where a girl wants to kiss and I'd just spout nonsense in a manic frenzy in these situations, women do see through this if you over-game. Had a friend who originally introduced me to this world, he seemed to have it all, charm, looks, the adoration of women. …	/r/seduction	29/09/16 09:37 AM
2	Night 3 report, got attacked.. You're a very strange bloke. Odd worldview.	/r/seduction	05/08/16 10:25 AM
1	Night 3 report, got attacked.. I didn't downvote you buddy, even now I still haven't. I'm sorry, im a retard? Because I literally see women as so little of a threat that I can take their shit on the chin (literally) when the situation warrants it? I'm comfortable enough in myself that I can control my emotions in such situation, you obviously can't. Who said anything about worshipping women? I call it being a grown up you manchild. Im not the one who cried because a Girl's (whose glass you were holding.......hmm something I w…	/r/seduction	05/08/16 10:05 AM
3	Night 3 report, got attacked.. I've been slapped by crazy drunk girls before, never in a million years would I lay a hand on them in response. Your response was reckless. She sounds like a nasty piece of work herself that I'm in no doubt, but reacting with anger to any crap a woman gives you is immature and wrong, not to mention a poor showcase of game. Alot of the guys here some to be applauding your reaction which I find to be the very distasteful part of PUA, you're lucky the dancefloor didn't turn into a lynch mob.	/r/seduction	05/08/16 09:25 AM
4	Conversations not going anywhere Have a similar problem sometimes friend, talking itself is sometimes in itself the fail part, women don't care what we're saying, we need to meet several criteria and just being interesting or chatty in itself isn't enough. If you were doing it right you'd barely be talking to this girl. I almost never cold approach alone, I find the lack of opportunity to socially proof myself leaves my game then lacking. If you just talk and talk trying to validate yourself to her on the street or in a Club sh…	/r/seduction	25/07/16 06:22 PM
3	My experiences of 2 years into Seduction/Pickup Absolutely, you might not be amazing looking, but if you Push your Looks and style to the limit and just be a fun social guy who's able to provoke emotion from women and make them feel comfortable while providing tension as well you are attractive as fuck, Looks are almost irrelevant if you have this, the social proof of other people make you more attractive than you alone could ever be, you do not need to be incredibly handsome, just reaching your potential.	/r/seduction	25/07/16 06:03 PM