backyard87 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	[FR] Going out solo, a couple opens & number closed an HB9, but I'm not feeling like she's interested. Inner-game problems as usual.	Field Report	backyard87	/r/seduction	09/06/13 05:59 PM
1	[FR]--Opened, built attraction & escalated twice briefly, then face book # close. But, she moved away for the summer the very next day.	Field Report	backyard87	/r/seduction	29/05/13 05:49 PM
1	[FR]--Month+ long hook up with HB 8.5-9; no f close; girl ended it this week. Lessons learned. BUT, your analysis? What give? Outsider's perspective on this?	Field Report	backyard87	/r/seduction	24/05/13 11:37 PM

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4	Unfriending lost cases: taking it too far or necessary? Men don't fuck with facebook. Don't be a girl about it. I don't see any harm in keeping connections with girls. I mean I have so many people I hardly know on there anyway, what's one more. Deleting girls shows you're weak in the head.	/r/seduction	22/06/13 05:36 PM
1	[FR] Going out solo, a couple opens & number closed an HB9, but I'm not feeling like she's interested. Inner-game problems as usual. Sound advice. I'm going to read this before I go out tonight and attempt to keep it in mind.	/r/seduction	10/06/13 07:24 PM
1	[FR] Going out solo, a couple opens & number closed an HB9, but I'm not feeling like she's interested. Inner-game problems as usual. Beautiful write up, thanks. It kind of reminds me of something I once read: Feelings are like the weather; don't chase feelings; don't runaway from feelings; whatever you're feeling is okay.	/r/seduction	10/06/13 07:23 PM
2	[FR]--Opened, built attraction & escalated twice briefly, then face book # close. But, she moved away for the summer the very next day. Yeah, this is what I was thinking too. Thanks for the response.	/r/seduction	29/05/13 10:57 PM
1	[FR]--Month+ long hook up with HB 8.5-9; no f close; girl ended it this week. Lessons learned. BUT, your analysis? What give? Outsider's perspective on this? Your advice is true & harsh. Thanks for your respons. I agree with you. I was holding on to false hopes of great sex. This led to oneitis. I started day-dreaming about dating the girl. Became needy. And blew it. But I think maybe your advice would end it to quickly. I mean I usually pull pretty hot girls, but I'm not fucking casanova by any means. And I don't pull 9-10's too often; ha and, consequently, when I do, I tend to date them for at least some time. I think I'm a bit shallow.	/r/seduction	25/05/13 05:17 PM
1	[FR]--Month+ long hook up with HB 8.5-9; no f close; girl ended it this week. Lessons learned. BUT, your analysis? What give? Outsider's perspective on this? Oh I totally agree: I can't think up a better learning/self-improving opportunity. Well said.	/r/seduction	25/05/13 05:13 PM
1	[FR]--Month+ long hook up with HB 8.5-9; no f close; girl ended it this week. Lessons learned. BUT, your analysis? What give? Outsider's perspective on this? Ha yeah, our situations are identical. haha except you had sex. 1. I totally agree that the lack of sex was due to her insecurities; I was actually amazed at how much she could control her obvious cravings--i mean I know the girl was stupid horny. She did, however, tell me several times that she didn't really care for sex and that she only has it when it's "special." But shit man, I feel like a month is a long time to make a man wait. How do you handle this? Just drop them and move on? Or do you…	/r/seduction	25/05/13 05:08 PM
1	[FR]--Month+ long hook up with HB 8.5-9; no f close; girl ended it this week. Lessons learned. BUT, your analysis? What give? Outsider's perspective on this? I totally agree. I was very aware of the oneitis as soon as it stepped in--roughly the 5/6th time we hung out. And I was aware that it was growing throughout the time. It become bad when she wasn't down with sex; I just could not stop thinking about her. I just didn't know how to stop it. I even tried going out with other girls, but they just weren't as hot and I ended up just wishing I had went out with the HB8.5-9. And, MAN, I feel like I get initial oneitis with girls so easy, especially with…	/r/seduction	25/05/13 02:22 PM