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There's also not a body type preference because its subjective and most people will lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:18 PM
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- Hey, excuse me, I know this is an awkward place, but I've thought you looked cute and wanted to come talk to you. What's your name? ... then do a normal conversation. If she says No, apologize and leave. If she continues the conversation, get her number and text her after a few hours to suggest a date. Word of caution: only ~5% of women you approach will end up going on an actual date with you. So you'll need to do this 20 times for a single date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:40 PM
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She told that indeed approaching strangers is bad, creepy, it is not womens fault, not womens problem, nor a womens duty to explain men how can they approach. Just don't - leave us alone. Predictably there is a chorus of approval, comments say that men who compliment/approach stranger women are obviously bad, because they judge women by their appearance only. Why do you give a shit though? Stop caring about the opinion of literally anyone in the world and you'll do great. Those who care are dest…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:25 PM
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"Hey, sorry to bother you, but I've thought you look cute so I wanted to come talk to you. I'm Electronic_West_1831, what's your name?" It's too boring for a TikTok video but also direct
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:26 PM
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"Hey, sorry to bother you, but I've thought you look cute so I wanted to come talk to you. I'm Trazyn, what's your name?" Then do a normal convo and ask for her number in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:25 PM
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That's literally the situation with my current partner, yes. I don't really care about blowjobs all that much, unless the girl is super talented at doing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:24 AM
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I don't enjoy doing BDSM with you doesn't equate "I don't enjoy sex with you". For example I genuinely hate the way some girls do blowjobs and have literally asked some girls to not do it because it's bad. We still had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:53 PM
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I like playing chess. But I don't like playing it with complete amateurs. So if my SO is a complete amateur, I'd rather not play chess with them. It also makes sense in the case of anal: "I like anal but you're too huge to make it work".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:34 PM
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Is it really a problem that the average men faces that he cant get sex? Depends on the man. Some are asexual or have a low sex drive, so they don't care. Some are just hoping to find a girlfriend and aren't too picky on looks. Some have a girlfriend/FWB/situationship and are perfectly happy already. Some have a girlfriend/FWB/situationship but don't find her attractive enough and are trying to find someone hotter. Some can get an attractive girlfriend/FWB/situationship but want a lot of variety …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:08 PM
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"You looked like your photos, you had a kool personality and were attractive, but I didn't 'feel it.'" It could mean of four options: You are objectively more attractive that the median guy in our city, however you have certain unattractive qualities that are a dealbreaker for me, such as being too shy, or smoking, or having tattoos, or not liking dogs, etc. But telling someone "I've thought you're too shy and your tattoos are bigger than I've thought" is generally considered impolite. You are o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:51 PM
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In fact I don't even see "average" people having sex with other average people "all the time". How often do you go outside? I'm seeing plenty of average men in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:30 PM
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How do you explain all the evenly matched couples out there? Visit any kids playground on a Sunday and you'll dozens of examples. Most women have reasonable standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:43 PM
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No, it's like the kid who really wants a gaming PC but his friends give him a PS5 instead. Both are very expensive from the kids perspective but one is not a full replacement for the other. So you can have a resentful kid even if on paper they should be happy. Meanwhile an adult who has the funds for both a PS5 and a gaming PC will never be upset by choosing either, because it's a free choice and they know they can always resell/return their purchase and get the alternative. The "PS5" can be a "…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:36 PM
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Sure but even then you won't be asking women you don't find attractive, right? And any given event will mostly consist of unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:09 PM
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Bro where is this room where 30% of the attendees are attractive women? A Victoria's Secret party or something? I'm probably not cool enough but I've never seen a party with more than 5 women who were: Within my league, realistically speaking In my age range Not with another dude You're living in a fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:39 PM
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Lmao nah you won't get arrested if you don't harass anyone. No cop is going to arrest you for politely going up to people and asking them out. Don't corner women, don't touch anyone, stay polite, and there's zero reason you'll ever get arrested. Heck, even if the girl's boyfriend happens to be nearby, politely asking someone out won't land you in a fight. But sure, go ahead, keep on sitting in your basement telling yourself a lie about how you can't go out and cold approach women because you'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:33 PM
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You know who doesn't give a fuck about any of this? Jonah Hill. Dude's got "fuck you" money and plenty of fame to carry him through the rest of his life. You know who does give a fuck? Weak men and neurotic women who's own love life is a disaster. They all wish they had "fuck you" money and A-list status but they don't, so instead they write mean comments about him on the Internet. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:20 PM
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Currently I'm just gonna assume no woman was ever interested in me because that's seems very likely in my case Bro, do the opposite. Explicitly ask out every woman you find attractive, with zero fucks given about the opinion of anyone in the world. Some fool on Reddit saying it's creepy and unacceptable doesn't matter - in real life that dude or gal will never dare say anything because they're probably a neurotic, socially anxious person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:09 PM
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And men don't all want a select few women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:12 PM
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Most men who don't want a side chick couldn't get one either though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:11 PM
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Nah, if you've got a six pack and solid muscles women will look at that as well. But 99% of dudes either don't have a six pack or have small arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:10 PM
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it’s okay to settle on some things. realistically it’s highly unlikely to find someone who’s a 10/10 on all the traits you’d look for And ideally you should settle on looks, not on other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:09 PM
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Apps work fine for men if you're willing to lower your standards a bit. If you're a 7/10 and willing to date a 6/10, you'll do fine there. But if you want to date a 7/10, you have to do IRL approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:07 PM
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Not every "Chad" is extremely attractive. Lots of them look a little above average but compensate through sheer will and not giving a fuck about anyone's opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:12 AM
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I'll take a 1/50th chance of happiness any time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:33 PM
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Who cares? Seriously, who cares what people say or whether you "interrupt the train of thought"? Don't touch anyone all of a sudden, don't corner anyone, always stay polite and friendly but otherwise... it's fair game. You're never going to regret interrupting someone's "Best of Taylor Swift" playlist at the grocery store. But you will regret not approaching them in the first place. You want to be a "Chad"? Act like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:00 PM
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ie. gym, grocery store, transit, walking on the street, etc are all horrible places to do this and should not be attempted Says who? Reddit? Dudes who get laid a lot (or just have a GF/wife they really like) say otherwise. But sure, it's easier to listen to the basement dwellers who's only expertise is coding and playing League of Legends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:25 PM
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Yep, exactly. The "Chad" doesn't give a fuck about rejection, no matter how bad it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:24 PM
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Even the younger ones are more likely to be dating someone than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:06 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brad_Pitt#Personal_life Lots of relationships with 10/10 women if you look up his history, even during his 20s. Same for most actors in Hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:54 PM
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If the 8/10 guy is more rare, then he'll date a 9/10 woman instead of wasting his energy on casual sex with 6/10 women. Or at least that's what most 8/10 men do. Just look up Hollywood actors - most are married or are in a stable relationship, even though these are 10/10 men who could have any woman in the world. I.e. Brad Pitt dated 10/10 women (Aniston/Jolie) rather than being a permanent playboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:38 PM
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Most of those top guys would be dating a top girl and not involved in casual sex. What would you prefer: consistent sex with an 8/10 woman or having sex with a new 5/10 woman every week? Most guys would choose the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:15 PM
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Polygamy with attractive women is not available to the vast majority of men. I've swiped right on poly profiles many times out of curiosity and the only times I got a swipe back was when the woman in question was highly unattractive. I can easily match with and go on dates with 7/10 girls but if I switched to polyamory, I'd have to sleep with 4/10 girls in the best case scenario. Thing is, there's a lot more poly dudes than poly girls, so it's only really worth it for the best looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:22 PM
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Or worst of all is that these men aren’t in fact attractive at all and are overrating their own appearance and shooting for women out of their league. I'm a man and I'd say this is the #1 problem right there. Tons of men don't realize that their "league" is an overweight woman with poor skin... because guess what, they're themselves overweight and have poor skin. Look up the stats - the average 25 year old dude in America is medically overweight, but I'd bet a lot of the single 25 year olds are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:08 PM
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That's why I said 80% and not 100%. The actors are also at ~8% bodyfat during the shoot which cannot be sustained by most people without major organ failure. But you can have pretty big arms/legs, well toned abs and stay at 10% which is still quite shredded.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:55 PM
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Zac Effron in Baywatch is a prime example, he's 5'8". He used steroids for that movie but you can get to 80% of his physique in 3-4 years at the gym without steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:26 PM
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I'd say 5'6" or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:37 AM
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The average 6ft3 American guy is overweight and won't turn any heads, sorry. But a shorter guy who's spent a few years working out religiously will get a lot of stares.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:40 PM
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I literally did it myself, went down from 25% BF to 12%. Count your calories and you'll get there. "Watching your diet" is not enough, you need a very accurate count.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:13 AM
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I'm currently at 155 pounds and can bench press 160-170 at 10 reps. Aiming for 230 but I have shit genetics and growth is very slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:12 AM
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Dexa is garbage. If you didn't have a six pack you weren't at 10% bodyfat, period. But yeah, if you feel like garbage it doesn't make sense to stay at a low bodyfat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:08 AM
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Welp, I'm wrong then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:07 AM
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Like... you personally have a solid six pack, you can bench press a respectable weight, and you're still struggling? Well... I guess I'm wrong then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:19 AM
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Is it that you believe that if you become fit that women will be all over you? You'll still have to initiate in real life or on online dating but yes, the difference in attention is night and day compared to being overweight. I’ve been working out for about 3 years now What's your bodyfat percent and how many pull ups can you currently do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:18 AM
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Yeah but if you're struggling with dating, being fit helps potential partners overlook a lot of other problems such as social anxiety. It works the other way too - guys will tolerate almost anything if the girl is hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:16 AM
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Well, no, this won't be enough to get a girl as good looking as Olivia Dunne. But you could get someone moderately attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:15 AM
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Are you at <12% bodyfat? How much do you benchpress/deadlift?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:14 AM
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What is "great physique"? Are they at <12% bodyfat? How big are their forearms/shoulders?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:13 AM
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Obviously its even better to have huge arms but you're right, that takes several years of effort unless you use some "juice".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:12 AM
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Absolutely, HUGE difference. Those last few percent are where it's all at.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:12 AM
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Dude of course women need to do this! Maybe not lift weights per se but diet can change a woman's looks immensely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:11 AM
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Some women like "strongman" kind of dudes. Some women like tall, super skinny dudes. I'm not sure that many women like the average dad bod physique. You want to be an outlier, not average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:10 AM
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Are you just walking around with out a shirt? Not unless I'm on the beach/pool but I do have tight fitting clothing. Girls can tell the difference because at 12% bodyfat your face is a lot more chiseled as well. Ab photos also work great on Bumble/Hinge, mine is a classy beach photo where my shirt is half open. Not "in your face" but also makes it obvious what my stomach looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:09 AM
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If you're a gym pro, 15% is not a problem. If you're struggling with women, 10-12% is a much safer bet to maximize looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:02 AM
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What's your body fat percentage and how much do you bench press? I admit I could definitely be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:00 AM
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You’re wrong because once someone gets to that level they don’t want to settle for a mid. Well, at least you'll be able to date a mid, which is better than nothing? I presume most single guys are willing to date a mid but aren't attractive enough to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:59 AM
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Dieting is almost no work, you just eat less and that's it. Plus 2-3 protein shakes a day. Working out takes 5h per week at most. Unless you're working 3 jobs at a time, you can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:58 AM
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When guys "put in the work" for a nice body, they expect interest from women with a nice body as well If before the gym you were willing to date a 5/10 but could only get a 3/10, shouldn't you be happy with the 5/10 after spending a year working out and eating well? Otherwise it's a never ending quest for perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:57 AM
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If you lift heavy and you have low body fat percentage, women will care. If you can bench press 300 pounds but you're overweight, no one will care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:56 AM
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Idk, for me 18% vs 12% is night and day. The former is "a bit better than average", the latter is "peak shape".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:55 AM
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Do you know how much work is required for someone to look good If you're a mess, you might as well be a good looking mess I guess? Should increase the amount of BS your partner is willing to tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:54 AM
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Done?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:53 AM
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