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Great advice. Every girl should read this.
/r/seduction26/09/13 05:56 PM
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Thank you for your 3 day comment. It's a known amongst women that if a guy waits 3 days to contact you, he is playing games. Who invented that rule anyway? Edit: Also great advice about feeling the girl's texting habits. I fall into the "responsive" category, only because my job is extremely boring so I am constantly on my phone. If the conversation is going, keep it going as long as she is responsive. I hate when men initiate a conversation, I reply immediately and they respond hours later, it …
/r/seduction09/09/13 11:11 PM
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I'm surprised that no on has asked this, but what exactly do you think you're doing wrong on these dates that is making them lose interest? Do you think it has anything to do with the fact you are getting older and might be looking for something more than the casual hookup?
/r/seduction27/08/13 07:58 PM
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I honestly have no idea. I think texting in general is such a horrible way to communicate. I understand people are busy, I work full time too and go to the gym and have a social life, but if I'm having a conversation with someone, I don't just fall off the face of the planet half way through and respond 4 hours later with my reply. Every time I read some advice column or listen to my girl-friends discuss dating and they say that one should wait at least 5-10 minutes in between texts to not seem …
/r/seduction27/08/13 07:08 PM
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Me?
/r/seduction27/08/13 05:04 PM
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Very good play, and I just want to reiterate how carefully this needs to be done. It can end very badly if the girl is being firm and you continue pursuing. In this case, I really have to say that the girl was already game to have sex. She had already said that she was planning on doing it, OP just moved up the date! Awesome.
/r/seduction26/08/13 11:47 PM
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No problem! I hope it all works out for you!
/r/seduction26/08/13 11:41 PM
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The girl obviously wants assurance. When someone stops in the middle of making out and flat out says she has never had sex with someone that wasn't her boyfriend, she's pretty much saying that she's not easy and she doesn't want you to think she is. I'm guessing the girl doesn't think you're into her, if you are, just say that you are. Tell her when she says, "I'm not pretty," "you might not think so, but I think you're dead sexy," etc. About the forgetting about her, that's on a moral basis. If…
/r/seduction26/08/13 11:28 PM
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"Find what you love, and let it kill you." -Bukowski
/r/seduction26/08/13 11:11 PM
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The Aries wouldn't want to end it because she hates rules and the Virgo would have trouble letting go... All fire and brimstone baby.
/r/seduction26/08/13 11:01 PM
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Agreed. I meet way more attractive, beautiful and educated women than men. Take some time off for yourself and you're going to come back with even more game.
/r/seduction26/08/13 10:55 PM
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You seriously hit the head of the nail on that one. Especially with the whole "drink" part. You know what, I thought she might be an Aries when you wrote about the whole "showing up at the bar thing," I actually thought that it was something I would do. The worst part of the aries/virgo relationship is that when an Aries first meets a Virgo, he is exactly what she wants, someone that is steady and sturdy, I used to tell my ex all the time that he was my rock that kept me grounded. Then time pass…
/r/seduction26/08/13 10:46 PM
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I will say that in my experience, you Virgos are suckers for us Aries... we drive you guys fucking nuts though.
/r/seduction26/08/13 10:32 PM
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Really interested in hearing how it all spans out, and I wish the best of luck to you! Remember, just be your charming self and I'm sure you'll be back in "pretzel position" but the end of the night! Not a Virgo, I'm an Aries, we're the crazy sign. You know Virgos only fall in love once and after that nothing ever compares, just some food for thought. I get your whole brunch scenario, but if it was me, I would just say something along the lines of, just got here, text you when I'm done, I realiz…
/r/seduction26/08/13 10:28 PM
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You know what, I read the whole thing you wrote and I actually understand where you are coming from. You're like a guy, me. I guess maybe I also need to understand the line between neediness and interest as well. I think in your story that if it was already established you were going to have a casual relationship, then you played it right with the next morning text and it seems like her response was very welcoming, also I think that the fact she showed up to the bar shows that she was interested…
/r/seduction26/08/13 09:11 PM
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Do you mind me asking if this has worked for you? In my experience, I actually tend to lose interest in a guy that takes awhile to respond to my texts, acknowledging my invitations and being aloof. I just feel like he's not that into me and distance myself and we end up pretty much losing touch. Just wondering...
/r/seduction26/08/13 07:20 PM
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Girls that fit your description are girls. Real women know better and would not want to date a self-proclaimed Asshole.
/r/seduction25/08/13 12:17 AM
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I don't think the thought, "oh he's so busy, I want this d," has ever popped in my head. In general, I think it's safe to assume that a girl that is decent looking and single probably is talking to 2-3 guys and yes, she will pick the one she wants to spend her time with. I completely agree with you, you're wasting your time if you're not the guy she's picking, if you continue to pursue you're just going to be a "back-up."
/r/seduction25/08/13 12:08 AM
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I'm sorry but I have to disagree, I don't think any person should waste their time on someone that isn't interested in them. If I am willing to spend my time with you and you are not, why should I bother trying? If a girl is into a guy, she will make the time. And if she won't then she is probably not into you. Also, I have to say that in my opinion attraction is pretty black and white. It either is there or it isn't. And when one tries to force it because this person is "good" for them it ends …
/r/seduction25/08/13 12:02 AM
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Are you guys serious? Maybe if you want to be known as a douche and spend the rest of your life alone you would want to take this advice. This is definitely the wrong type of advice to be posting here. If I picked up an important call (and it would have to be important if I was answering it on a date) and you left me there, I would never speak to you again. Most women you date [hopefully] work and Thursday-Saturday are ideal nights to go out, especially if you are planning to stay out all night …
/r/seduction23/08/13 10:13 PM
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I agree with u/randomperson32, if a girl is into you, she would want to hang out with you whenever both your schedules correspond, if she's into playing games or is out at the bar and guys 7 nights a week, she's probably not the kind of girl you want to get involved with.
/r/seduction23/08/13 09:53 PM
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When she asks how whatever you lied about went.
/r/seduction23/08/13 09:51 PM
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No, I think you're right. Often when a guy asks me out, if I'm interested, I will give him the nights I am available. Honestly, if a guy texted me that he was doing something this day and was busy that day and this day and a deadline on this day, I would just say for him to text me when his schedule freed up. I think your approach of, "I'm busy this week but have time on x day, how is x bar/restaurant for you," would work much better.
/r/seduction23/08/13 09:48 PM
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^ followed with this.
/r/seduction01/03/13 08:10 PM
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^ out of all of the responses, I think this one would work best.
/r/seduction01/03/13 08:10 PM
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I don't really think it's the length of the phone call or even the context of it that I find appealing, I think it's just the fact that they are calling, people in general seem to rely so heavily on text messages these days. I even know girls that purposely refuse to text back immediately, rather choosing to reply back at a later time to "not seem so available." Actually, I recently met a guy at a bar and after texting back and forth for a few days, he called me to arrange a dinner. The conversa…
/r/seduction01/03/13 07:47 PM
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Honestly, I think this would work for me. I would find it so refreshing if a guy actually called instead of just text.
/r/seduction01/03/13 05:47 PM
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