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Discussionbad_nerves/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:41 PM
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women tend to evaluate looks based on grooming, men tend to evaluate looks based on biological determinants; hence the discrepancy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:31 PM
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how often do you approach women? do you objectively think you have good game (better than the majority of your own male friends, assuming your male friends are neurotypical and had or have gfs)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:30 PM
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looks don't matter for 80-90% of people, anyone who believes it matters to such a significant degree is likely average themselves and angry they don't get the treatment that very attractive people do (top 5-10% of the spectrum) or may genuinely be part of that bottom 5-10%
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:29 PM
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what's the point of this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:24 PM
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you've tried everything but approaching first yourself, maybe try approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:01 PM
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average men wouldn't need $100,000 of surgery, maybe $10-20K which can be spread out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:34 AM
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i've seen similar
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:31 AM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:51 PM
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i agree OP. the information you consume shapes your thoughts and behaviours and will make people achieve the reality that they've "procured". the people who i see happily dating aren't the people on PPD who i see complain about things and pedestalize sex and all this other bullshit, they're just people living their lives.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 04:46 PM
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men are becoming women, complaining about not being pretty enough, talking about a wall now for relationships as though women are the gatekeepers of not only sex but relationships. fuckin shape up
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 04:43 PM
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i'd say i'm a objective 7.5? i'm above average in every aspect in what would be on most 'bucket-list' for physical attractiveness. cis man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:25 PM
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it's true for men; my friends who are facially unfortunate have had random girls find them attractive from them just living their life. there's a certain charm to people who do everything for themselves; though the less attractive one is the longer the interval between finding a partner will be. men still find relationships though through just existing, as long as you live a social life where you go out and have a good friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:23 PM
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mexican is always a hit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:05 PM
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that is the dilemma; she sounds pretty self aware though that if she tells the truth there is no chance that relationship will last
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:02 PM
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i joined a while back on the one automod has linked and i didn't find the people there very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:57 PM
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extremely
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:39 PM
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u damn near ready to push that hoe off that midget and hop on his dick bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:20 AM
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you mean incels
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:19 AM
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people here don't go outside and its remarkably obvious when you find out how many people here are genuinely friendless easy to make friends though i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:35 PM
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men who don't struggle with getting women will want more from their partners while losers who struggle to get women will accept bare minimum. pedastalizing isn't anything new. more news at 6
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:53 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:58 AM
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i agree, there's a bit of a loser bias where people attempt to blame some unchangeable characteristic of themselves for why they're unlovable. i used to have similar loser-y thoughts but an elder friend of mine when i was younger told me that you're always going to be looking for reasons why someone else has what you don't, instead of focusing on my own mission. back to the adhd topic though -- my observations are that adhd people tend to be a lot more quick-witted and entertaining, and tend to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:44 PM
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adhd broadly is an attractive personality disorder for men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:40 PM
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of course but again why would i keep tabs? do you know what happened to your 3rd grade teacher? you'd feel some ways if they died but it's not like you're going to actively keep tabs of someone you used to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:38 PM
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i have no issue with single moms, few of my friends were raised by wonderful women who worked hard to provide for themselves and their kids solo. i do however think that having single mothers isn't a good thing with absentee fathers because it comes with many sacrifices for mother and child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:18 PM
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it's not spiteful to not care; they are people who i used to know, not people that i care about now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:16 PM
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i don't see them as "broken" but yes i would see them as for "recreational use" because i do want kids in the horizon. this inherently makes those women not compatible with my long term goals. i'll still date them but there is an inherent expiry date on the relationship because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:14 PM
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in your real life you should be able to observe some of your friends are constantly in relationships despite not being chads. this is because they have a good personality for dating. other friends may sporadically find relationships but they don't find them as easily because their personality isn't ideal for dating. the idea that personality doesn't help for dating is absurd and comes off as someone who doesn't have much of a social life to see the disparity that personality creates in outcomes.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:11 PM
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at the end of the day marriage has a certain connotation that people expect of relationships rather than the contractual side. while i agree with you, i wouldn't want the women in my life having 2 kids and being unmarried
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:25 AM
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life as a man is working for what you want largely. the game isn't fair and you are expected to rise up to the occasion. winners and women look down on loser men and that's the frank reality of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:33 PM
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it's all about self serving-ness in the examples you provided; you shouldn't have to change and if they're the one for you it'd be natural (FOR YOU). THEY should put extenuating effort because you're such a prize that the right one will see you for all your worth. it's typical individualistic garbage spew.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:41 PM
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attractive and mildly autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:41 PM
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no preference, depends on ethnicity green/blue 5'7 slim thick ideally equal, don't mind either way though doesn't matter as long as it's good work 0 - 3 0 - 6 ideally atheist or religious in the woo woo "my connection is between me and god" kind of way heterosexual 18-26 (4 year age band) not into politics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:24 PM
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it's called betabuxx not alphabuxx for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:21 PM
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the amount of children on this subreddit is concerning for a subreddit that talks about adult dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:21 AM
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Dm me too
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 12:05 AM
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if my options are the 2nd and 3rd woman in your examples yes, but if they are the 1st and 4th i'd rather be single
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:07 PM
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a lot of men are more gay then they'd like to admit. Prison gay is still gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:04 PM
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snark isn't answering my question. I don't count it as them paying for a bill, in the way described of the person I responded to originally, if they're cohabiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:03 PM
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older women are just more forward and it could because of lack of options. I don't mind it though, I like it when people flirt with me regardless of my attraction to them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:00 PM
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did you downvote me? Also, I don't see how paying the rent when you live together is paying for sex. Plenty of men pay for their girlfriends rent (by merit of paying for the household rent). Does that make them hobosexuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:55 PM
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vast majority (I'd say above 95%) of 300+lb women aren't paying men's bills so they can have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:45 PM
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agree. I feel bad for women who are in this situation, dating is harsh for most in the dating sphere who are actively seeking companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:00 PM
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honestly East Asian society and Western society to me are inherently different that I struggle to see a convergence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:57 PM
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while I agree, it's easier said than done to switch locations
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:49 PM
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if they're having sex with you then they find you sexually attractive, they're just ashamed of acknowledging that they found you hot enough to bang. whether they find you attractive enough to claim publicly is anyone's guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:48 PM
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as Dave said: "I love chilling with broke bitches man book 1 flight and they’re all impressed"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:06 AM
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never had proper wagyu, is it worth the hype
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:05 AM
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guy who is better than you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:04 AM
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this just reads like loser theory that men who get laid are the "assholes" of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:04 AM
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definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:03 AM
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i've got female friends who when they did not get approached on a night out they were actually crying... these aren't reddit type women they're part of my drinking/party friend group who aren't really online like that. women generally when they go out want to (and expect to) be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:01 AM
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they're trying to be funny and falling flat. people generally want to be funny and the only way to become funny is to practice (which is what they're doing with their lame jokes)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:56 AM
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not necessarily content creators but find a niche they can excel in that is attractive to women. there's plenty of unattractive musicians yet they slay, being an entertainer is an attractive lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:51 AM
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successful career, easily
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:49 AM
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Who are these "experts" and what makes them qualified to be "experts"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:03 PM
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the difference is simply abundance mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:31 AM
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women want to be chased and are in the position to not need to. they don't want to ask you out because it just doesn't appeal to most women's fantasy, especially when they have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:30 AM
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men can ask out their female friends, majority of my relationships were from dating my female friends. we're already compatible on a platonic level and if feelings develop then it's just natural to start dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:29 AM
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not sure how you want me to answer this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:41 PM
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sure -- but there's plenty of young 20 year old women who are dating dudes older, have fetishes for older guys, or enjoy the wealth that older (25-35 y.o) men have. turning 30 doesn't turn you geriatric as long as you take reasonable care of yourself. the reality is that women are okay with dating older guys and will be hooking up with the slightly older dudes at the club who can afford a table generally, not this incel fanfiction that they're trolling the floors looking for some "chad" amongst …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:09 PM
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university aged women don't expect university aged men to pay the bill ime, that only changes when you're older and start earning money
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:46 AM
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awesome you're dating a hot woman (always a perk), it's pretty much like being a millionaire in terms of the status you have with a pretty lady on your arm. they're no different to regular women, though a few of the hot women i've dated did seem to have absolutely no personality beyond being hot. something that's unique to dating hot women is that dude's will try to approach your girl the second you turn your back. they are pretty much always going to get approached by other men the second your …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:49 AM
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since when are discussion threads a "dear diary"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:47 AM
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agree, the only time i ever seem to get ioi's is when i'm not looking for the right opportunity to approach. might as well just talk to someone if you feel the urge to so you spend less time thinking and more time speaking organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:01 PM
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thought it was pretty normal to do your laundry with your SOs, regardless of gender norms
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:46 PM
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does she have any passions? is she someone who i feel will push and motivate me? what's her view on family? does she cherish her relationships (platonic) or have a high turnover rate on relationships? is she someone i'd be proud to be with? is she organized and clean? does she have good financial sense? is she all of these and more are questions i would want to be positive before i'd be willing to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:00 PM
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starfish 10
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:58 PM
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corny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:33 AM
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no hate man, just make sure you do your research. i didn't mean to advise against it, just be aware of what you're getting into is all. after looking at your post history, would recommend taking gear for the goals your looking to achieve. make sure you research about AI, PCT, know how to pin. these are all terms you're going to have to research and find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:36 PM
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it's a lot more discrete than you think. one of my friends is notorious for approaching pretty much every pretty woman and he's very slick about it -- leave him alone for 2 minutes and he's off chatting up some girl. it's def not super common but you wouldn't notice most approaches because they're very fast and guys who are good at talking to women make it look natural. if you can notice a direct approach then it's from a guy who isn't very good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:47 PM
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steroids and sarms would speed the process up. friend of mine went from dyel to being jacked to women on a sarms cycle after about 6 months. up to you if you wanna take gear, i lift natty. if you're planning on going to the gym for a long period of time, almost all my friends who were on roids / sarms eventually hopped off the sauce anyways and would've looked the same if they'd just been natty and lifted with good programming tbh. mainly because girlfriends didn't approve, they didn't like the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:27 PM
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are you on the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:28 PM
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i only dispute the argument that body shaming for men is "not okay". i don't think the big boy song is a big deal, i don't have any issue with promoting body standards for changeable factors. women saying they prefer buff men, fat men, etc. isn't a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:24 PM
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some people have more relationship oriented personalities than others and assume that if you're well spoken, well groomed, gainfully employed (all the basic checkmarks) then you should logically end up in a relationship. they project their personality onto others. however, not all personalities are conducive to relationships and may cause a much smaller niche of people to be attracted to them for them, leading others to be single for longer as they navigate the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:10 PM
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ideally under 4 years old. i want more than one kid though so i wouldn't mind adopting an older child once that initial need is met.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:07 PM
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any child in need of love and family would be welcomed by me. i would want to stagger them ideally because being a parent to a child who's being brought into a new environment would be stressful for all of us i would imagine. i would consider adoption whenever i'm financially able to support the cost and demand of kids, ideally 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:01 PM
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in regards to popular media directed at men, complex would be an example of a magazine which has a primary demographic being men. vice started out as a primarily men's oriented magazine, not sure if it still is. cracked used to be a popular men's magazine. nme, hypebeast, highsnobiety etc. the list goes on. they don't talk about women in the same way as women's magazines do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:59 PM
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sure, here you go, popular media angled at women: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/justin-bieber-pretty-much-shows-us-what-his-penis-looks-like-on_n_6108750ae4b0497e67027361 https://www.thecut.com/2015/10/there-are-images-of-bieber-penis-on-the-internet.html https://www.eonline.com/ca/news/789154/usher-has-something-to-say-about-justin-bieber-s-penis-pictures https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/justin-biebers-dad-jokes-about-sons-penis-after-new-nude-leak-w433134/ https://www.buzzfeed.c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:58 PM
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i would want to adopt, and if she is not interested in adopting, then we will have to get a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:41 PM
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i don't think it's "shaming" women to glorify small waist, big butt, thick thighs etc. it is promoting a body standard, not necessarily shaming. and yes, shaming men is allowed. celebrity men have their dicks voyeured by women (justin bieber, kanye west, etc.) and are talked about for their size on popular magazines. imagine if popular media for men were talking about leaked nudes of women (i am aware of the fappening, but that was largely suppressed by the overarching media outside of nerd circ…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:23 PM
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women also have a larger social net where people are generally friendlier to women and more willing to hear them out. i remember the other day i went to the gym with some of my friends and while me and my bro went to go do our ppl, the women were getting approached by guys pretty much every 5 mins. guys who've been going to the gym as long as i have yet i've never talked to were all going out of their way to talk to them (not that i have an issue with it, i don't like talking to randoms at the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:18 PM
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takes much longer than 6 months but you should be seeing improvements as is. https://twitter.com/MrBeast/status/1674429048095916032 MrBeast has worked out for almost a year and still doesn't look like a super fit guy -- despite having a dietician, personal trainer, and working out obsessively pretty much every day. progress takes a long time, but by the 2 year mark you should be where you want to be (although, by that point, you'll probably have shifted the goalposts as all fitness freaks do lol…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:11 PM
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never, any woman who tells me that she doesn't want kids will never be seen as more than a fling to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:57 PM
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i've never heard the second part of that statement ever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:45 AM
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can't really complain about the other sex for not meeting your needs if you're both the same sex because you'd tend to view your own in a positive light. if you're homosexual then you'd have different complaints than a simple gendered approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:39 AM
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romantic films can't be used as an example of what women find romantic also OP: Honestly I haven't dared to watch a romantic movie for years because of all the crap being marketed as romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:06 PM
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benched 205 for 10 today, ran 3 kilometers, now to go and read. happy canada day folks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:02 PM
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i think love languages are another form of useless categorization but i do recognize that people do place more/less importance of certain things. that being said i think the systemization is largely useless because people will largely filter themselves in terms of relationships (sans opinions on gift-giving)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:00 PM
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i think people do find their partners on niche communities, but at the same time, i think they eventually push ideologies etc. that are harmful to people. internet communities have a habit of eventually pushing ideologies and detracting from the original purpose IMO. i think that the real world is a lot more tame comparative to the internet especially on young minds, i don't think it's a good thing how it's pretty much unrestricted access. 30 years ago young men had to hide their porn and gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:55 PM
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i'm against the influence tech has had on interpersonal relationships as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:57 PM
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you say that like regular women behind the screen aren't already ignoring dudes or time wasters lol. who cares, more catfishes the faster these useless apps will go to ruins
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:42 PM
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because women have thrown tantrums online beating men over the head about how we shouldn't be controlling their bodies and some men have decided to listen like fools they are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:39 PM
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everywhere is fair game, stop buying into retard propaganda "omg we don't want men to approach", when they say that the average woman means creepy cat calling dudes. if you're a well groomed, well spoken man, she will at worst tell you she's taken / not interested. remove these inhibitions from your mind, they're unhealthy for you and you sound weak for having them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:38 PM
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there's this idea perpetuated in RP spaces that men do not care for a woman's education or job because the only relevant thing that she brings to the table is her looks. looks OP has drank the kool aid on that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:04 AM
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i do not know what compels some of you to write these 5000 word essays and what compels others to read through this much bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:02 AM
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how is your flair green
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:01 AM
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women automatically subtract 1-2" from any male height on OLD so you'd be silly to not play the game (unless you want to be perceived as 5'9)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:50 AM
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i think both men and women prefer the west broadly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:04 PM
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yes because a lot of dating advice is not about converting AFC's to chad's anymore, it's about getting losers to becoming AFC's now (the base line). for men who are AFC's then early TRP is perfectly sufficient in explaining concepts, that's why a lot of TRP's PUA aspects is about how to talk to women in general guiding concepts rather than concrete "how to's" as it is to make you as attractive as YOU can be as an individual by codifying what makes men sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:13 AM
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i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:12 AM
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your entire post is moot because "sex sells" is not the tag line of the sexual revolution nor was it spurned by corporate elites. this post is fundamentally wrong and there's nothing to change your view on as it is wrong from first premises
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:11 AM
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3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:08 PM
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yeah it definitely does, lot of hysteria in the sub is because people read too much shitty op-eds from publications that no sane person gives a shit about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:38 PM
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"anyone who is manipulatable is a chump" aka... wearing revealing clothes as a waitress to gain more tips is manipulative
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:54 PM
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people who are more attractive receive greater tips, sexualizing yourself gives you an unfair advantage as i've previously explained
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:02 PM
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doesn't change the fact that it is obvious that revealing clothes influences greater tips...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:12 PM
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manipulative definition: especially : serving or intended to control or influence others in an artful and often unfair or selfish way revealing clothes influences others in a selfish unfair way (it'd not be feasible for older waiters/waitresses and male waiters to take advantage of the same process to gain more tips)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:59 PM
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a woman wearing clothes that accentuate their form to get more tips that are unrelated to the actual service in and of itself is manipulative per its definition
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:42 AM
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yes, it would be better for men to be arrogant and tone it back than to be submissive and try to work towards being 'confident'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:41 AM
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they would be better off going and approaching women for 1-2 hours a day than goign to the gym for 1-2 hours a day. the only way to get better at getting women is actually interacting with them. going to the gym to get bitches is a fools errand and so removed from irl dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:40 AM
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women are only attracted to men who live according to their own rules even if they're abrasive because women would rather bend to his will than teach a man how to live
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:44 PM
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i don't agree, the longer you stay single the less good options remain on the table. given women prefer older men, this means the pool of suitable men narrows the older one gets compared to trying to find a good guy who has good ambition and potential. i don't think they should settle for the first guy who comes along but it's foolish to pretend that GOOD PARTNERS aren't getting snatched up while others play the bachelor/bachelorette game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:59 PM
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i agree that status and money triumphs looks but people here who deny it have no status to leverage. local popular musicians fuck plenty hot low rent women because they have high local status. ugly frat boys run through college girls. it's apparent when someone compared manager to cashier, when both jobs have no status in practicality, that men here have no fucking clue what status is practically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:04 PM
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you are correct regarding "neutral in looks". women have a stop light system for men (red, yellow, green) where there's very very few men in the "green" and a ton of men in the yellow. men who are "yellow" are men who are "decently attractive" who they'd be willing to entertain if the guy played his cards right, which is where personality would come in. this would still necessitate "physical attraction" but it's not the visceral lust dudes here think it is, rather, it is "this guy looks good eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:57 PM
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only if they're terminally online weirdos
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:31 PM
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the thread title said "how damaging has OF been to credibility of women in society"; OF women are OF women, regular women are regular women. it has not changed the status of regular women because some are whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:25 PM
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the thread title said "how damaging has OF been to credibility of women in society"; OF women are OF women, regular women are regular women. it has not changed the status of regular women because some are whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:25 PM
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the thread title said "how damaging has OF been to credibility of women in society"; OF women are OF women, regular women are regular women. it has not changed the status of regular women because some are whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:25 PM
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to normal men nothing to men who are terminally online a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:27 PM
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i don't think autism is a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:01 PM
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i wasn't done bad by a red haired woman, i simply observed the trends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:31 AM
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i like colored hair, my specific issue is with red hair solely
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:40 PM
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i don't mind colored hair, specifically red. girls in my area dye their hair red whenever they get out of a toxic relationship and/or got cheated on and to me its always been a sign of emotional baggage which i'm not interested in. i am in my 20s though, so i see what you mean re: your second point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:17 PM
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i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:14 PM
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red hair (if not her natural hair color)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:10 PM
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i don't see how "just because" something takes a lot of time and effort means that women must reward you with sex. you get jacked for yourself, getting jacked to get girls is a fools errand
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:13 PM
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why do you sign your comments off
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:32 AM
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looking old and young is a facial problem, not a bodily one. that being said if you're built like a greek god you're probably not gonna be mistaken to be a kid, but 15" arms aren't big enough to be that level
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:31 AM
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it helps a lot in some ways -- women tend to auto perceive jacked guys as fuckboys and you get a lot more respect from men. there's no downsides to being muscular unless you're trying to go into runway modelling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:30 AM
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in terms of impressive to those who know fitness 6'3 230 but in terms of attraction 6-pack 6'1 is more impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:29 AM
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ok grampa we get it you know big words
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:28 AM
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he's into you but is scared to be direct so he's doing creepy subverted ways of signaling interest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:32 AM
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none of the girls i'm seeing are ones i want a relationship with
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:08 AM
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men who seek out all male spaces are homos
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:53 AM
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the way these internet bw equate money with pussy is hilarious, it's like they're trying to be perceived as whores
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:53 AM
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where do people claim that if you're unsuccessful with women it means you're a misogynist in normal peoples media
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:51 AM
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the way some dudes jerk off over this guy jerking himself off is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:50 AM
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don't be upset that you're not the beauty standard
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:46 AM
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i'm 6', handsome, jacked, and i think i have an interesting personality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:45 AM
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my standards aren't that she's a virgin my standards is that she's hot and slim and has an interesting personality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:34 AM
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i support this coz wages would go up for the rest of us
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:29 PM
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if we stopped coddling young children and babies and let pitbulls enforce their natural selection, future survivor generations of babies will be more resilient and virile
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:22 PM
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I think most women are functionally incapable of taking a picture of ANYTHING scenic when they are travelling without inserting their face into 3/4 of the picture like they are photo-bombing themselves! good coz i honestly dgaf when girls post a slideshow of scenic pics on their insta i'm tryna see some ass and titties who gives a fuck bout their vacation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:14 PM
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agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:55 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:53 PM
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agree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:24 PM
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men who have a high body count get shamed by women with a low body count. women who perceive me as a fuckboy inherently have a different attitude towards me than they had when i appeared more nerdy/beta
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:54 AM
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i do not find women of that body type attractive at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:52 AM
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if he's getting aggressive then i'm gonna step in, she's my girl
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:52 AM
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this is retarded, the women who've asked me out and i dated were far more into me than i them. the idea that it's unattractive (when she asked me out) is absurd lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:27 PM
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i would say probably more these days than in the past, the more egalitarian a society is the more women tend to ask out men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:16 AM
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boo hoo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:05 AM
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toxicity towards men has always been there, toxicity towards women has become less commonplace and a faux pas
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:50 AM
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this post is retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:49 AM
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assuming that suddenly men became more picky, there'd be far less relationships as men's role in relationships is to be the active aggressor while women's role is passive and filtering. lesbians find getting into relationships pretty hard, or at least the ones i'm friends with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:49 AM
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person 1, attraction isn't negotiable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:45 AM
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just means the ad man gets paid a bigger dollar for expanding a company's market to a wider consumer pallet reflecting current demographics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:48 PM
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the latter is the active ability to generate leads while the former is passive and highly dependent on the actions of the other
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:10 AM
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being very rude, hotter women have a lot of leeway and a lot of men will perform absurd mental gymnastics to give such behavior a pass
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:32 AM
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i think all young men are capable of having at least one woman liking them, but being able to find one when you want one is a different wheelhouse that i do not see many young men capable of
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:30 AM
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i don't have any personal issue with ugly women, i just am not attracted to them even if they have great personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:13 AM
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unless you have a good real life i would not advise these kinds of subreddits a lot of people here are terminally online and very obviously come here to seek an echo chamber where a lot of people's "experiences" are very obviously gleaned from the internet rather than experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:58 AM
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only 2 before i became good looking after that 0 my standards increased as i became more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:56 AM
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skinny is far more likely to be healthy than fat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:17 PM
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1) your metabolism aint gonna carry you forever 2) caring about your physical health is something to me shows a person who's driven to be successful in all aspects 3) it's a PC way of saying no fat chicks regarding yourself, if you're walking 10+ km a day i'd say you are a pass
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:17 PM
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i like being healthy and i feel great being better than lazy shlubs who can't do what i can
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:11 PM
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there's many types of women who prefer differing archetypes of men, once you figure out the audience that you land best with, they come off like having no standards. if you haven't found your niche as a man then they come off like unreasonably high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:26 AM
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OP needs to be put into a lab to be studied like the zoo creature he is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:33 PM
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disagree that most people are undateable ; touch grass re: men not calling out bad behaviour in women, i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:13 PM
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men approach whoever they want and have unlimited options, women are largely restricted to those who make their intentions obvious and filter from between them. obviously it comes off as easier for women because their job is to filter their available options
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:44 PM
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outside of a relationship if you're friends you observe them that way, if it's precursor to the relationship (talking stage) then you see how they treat others around them and the reputation they hold amongst the people around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:39 PM
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personality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:25 AM
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vast majority of umc guys i know are betas and don't date broke bitches but i've seen some rich prole taste guys date broke bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:24 AM
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google maps tells you also you can look at the signs posted above the road and look at the text on your phone to tell you which lane to be under
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:21 AM
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trying makes you come off as unattractive with women you aren't approaching with intent while calm and confident may be more appealing -- furthermore, it could just boil down to your body language / other factors especially with night game
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:19 AM
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most men are out of touch with what women find attractive and don't style themselves in attractive ways or groom themselves in styles that women find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:14 AM
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bro this post is useless, other men on here are ugly as fuck so you even getting a match a year makes you chad. standards here for chad are rock bottom because of how many dudes here are fuckin losers, most normal guys, including me, get ~3-5 matches per day if not way more unless they're genuinely ugly, which apparently a ton of men here are. if you're not getting results on OLD you are not average, you are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:07 AM
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