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| 1 | [question] Advance Game - Has anyone got with two girls who were friends - together or one after the other? What is the protocol? Share your story!This is gold | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 05:05 PM |
| 1 | (Question) Indian guys here - what are you TOP 3 seduction resources: books, podcasts, coaches etc? List them with 1, 2 and 3. I’ll go first…Smartass 😂 i agree tho | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 11:05 AM |
| 9 | A small tip from a girlBad advice. It only works for extremely higher value men. You have to display higher value than her before she can get into you, and at the first interaction, she might not be interested because your display of value didn’t pass her threshold. That doesn’t mean she will never chase you. You can build rapport through multiple interactions, and then eventually have her chase after you. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Why Waiting for Women to Come to You Never WorksYes. This is the truth. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 11:04 AM |
| 1 | DHV storiesYou don't need to memorize routines or jokes, because that will mean you are "playing" the part of someone high value. Be actually high-value by following these easy steps. - Dress well. For the female gaze. (GQ style, aesthetic and with a good fall, nothing too tight) - Wear a great perfume - Chanel Bleu, Versace Eros.. something on those lines - Be extremely confident - obnoxiously so. That is manifested in how you walk and sit (shoulders back, upright, fast) - Talk louder than everyone else a… | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 05:42 AM |
| 10 | Skill issue ~ I rarely know how to carry conversationsShe seems open to the idea of more. I thought M stands for Male (you) and F for Female (her) and was gonna say that she is into it. But she is not yet fully convinced so you are gonna have to let it simmer for a while. Add her to your "close friends" and start posting stories of cool things you are doing like eating out, partying and stuff. Eventually if that gets her attention and she starts reaching out, you can schedule a meet. Also you can send her funny reels on Instagram and get to know he… | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Want to ask out barista but also don’t want to loose my regular cafe?DON'T "ask her out" explicitly. It is not like in the movies. Most girls in real life who don't even know you beyond perfunctory pleasantries will turn you down if you just "ask them out". You need to build rapport first, so you should talk to her more and more every single time when you go to that cafe. Start with topics beyond normal coffee transaction topics like the weather or weekend plans. Foray into background, probing questions like "where are you from?", "how long you been in the city?"… | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 04:11 AM |
| 5 | What has your experience been with San Diego?One of the best places to game. Was there for a couple of years. Get a place in north park or hillcrest or little italy. Tons of tourists and college girls. Can get laid almost every night. Avoid PB, downtown or northern areas. Very slow and elitist - the rich white girls there go only for surfer dude types. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | [LR] From the past, 31 yo dental office front desk chick closed over 3 dates - about a month!I keep the touch points on constantly until some sort of sexual activity happens. Nowadays I will send funny reels or something interesting we may have talked about earlier. Once something sexual has happened - sex, make out, blowjob or something - it is okay to wane off the texting between dates. Things really flip in men’s favor once sexual stuff happens. But until then, I keep the texts going somehow. BTW it does fizzle out quite a few times for me. You win some, you lose some. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 05:44 PM |
| 5 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?Can you articulate what is unethical according to you? This conclusion is from the assumption that women don’t want to fuck on the first date, which is not the case. Sex in the context of game can be just like a goal or basket in football or basketball - what’s the point of getting the ball through the ring and into the net? None in and of itself, but we still call it a goal worthy of pursuit and celebration. And that is OK. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Who has dabbled in prostitutes, sex workers, escorts, massage parlors, strippers, and how has that affected your seduction abilities?LMAO +1 just for the “learnings” | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 06:48 AM |
| 5 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?Not necessarily. For some, game is truly that - a game of stats, wins and chases. There is nothing “ew” about that. Honestly the sex part is just like a milestone for a lot of us. It’s not even about the actual sex, although obviosuly that is a great reward. The pursuit, the strategy and the uncertainty are the exciting part. And you have to have that mastered in order to consistently get laid on the first date. That’s why it is not “ew”. Most people who are masters of game could easily get into… | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 06:46 AM |
| 17 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?My friend, we are in the seduction sub here. First date lay is the gold standard of seduction. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Who has dabbled in prostitutes, sex workers, escorts, massage parlors, strippers, and how has that affected your seduction abilities?Kudos dude. You have to be secure in yourself to date a stripper and not lose your mind. | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 05:32 AM |
| 68 | Who has dabbled in prostitutes, sex workers, escorts, massage parlors, strippers, and how has that affected your seduction abilities?Don’t know about the others on the list, but I love to hang out with strippers at this one club in Las Vegas called Centerfold Cabaret every time I’m flying through through Vegas and have a layover for a few hours. I find strippers to be really, really amusing and fun to talk to because they have essentially transcended human society. They are rich as fuck, hot as fuck and extremely well-connected because they have clients from all walks of life. A lot of them also engage in sex work, but they s… | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 06:39 PM |
| 2 | [LR] 26 yo Doctor Closed in 6 DaysAll relationships are transactional relationships. Not saying no. This one is a good one. Will fuck her again and see if we vibe to see if it can be more than just sex. | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | [LR] 26 yo Doctor Closed in 6 DaysWill have enough money to be a sugar daddy by then 🤞🏻 | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 06:08 PM |
| 2 | [LR] 26 yo Doctor Closed in 6 Days27 | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 05:26 PM |
| 2 | [LR] 26 yo Doctor Closed in 6 DaysYep. Not me. | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 05:25 PM |
| 2 | [LR] 26 yo Doctor Closed in 6 DaysI make my own luck but yeah, God helps those who help themselves. | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 10:38 AM |
| 2 | [LR] 26 yo Doctor Closed in 6 DaysThis one was a fun lay. | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 10:35 AM |
| 2 | [LR] 26 yo Doctor Closed in 6 DaysExactly. | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 10:34 AM |
| 20 | [LR] 26 yo Doctor Closed in 6 DaysShe had a good body. Tall, a lil thick but huge rack. Face wise 7. Made the cut for me. After a point, it is about the vibes. Even if a girl is not that cute or gorgeous, if I like the vibe or if she has a unique personality (kinky, sportsy, artsy etc) I am into it. | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 07:29 AM |
| 7 | [LR] 26 yo Doctor Closed in 6 DaysYeah no, save that one for the kinky ones that are into scat play 😂 | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:23 AM |
| 13 | [LR] 26 yo Doctor Closed in 6 DaysHere is what I believe - if a woman is into you and wants it as bad, she would be expecting some sort of a move. So even if she has seen it, she’d make something up like “let’s watch a different one.” | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:22 AM |
| 1 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!lol that is a fine attempt at trolling. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 07:08 PM |
| 1 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!One time a woman turned me down a few times after going on a couple of dates with me, I started flirting with her best friend and took her on a date. I took her to the exam same “first date” spot, made her sit at the exact same place that the first friend sat on our first date, and snapped a photo of her and sent it to her friend (the first girl) to show her how replaceable she is. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Stoic. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!How often does that happen? I got asked out a lot when I first started dating in high school. However, it was never the top top women that asked but rather sixes and sevens.. what I realized was that nines and tens never really ask guys out because they always get asked by so many guys. That’s when I learned game and now, even though there are some women that will still ask me out every now and then, the ones I go on dates with are usually the ones I have asked out. I prefer going after the ones… | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!WDYM by play the ball back in her court? Give examples? | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 05:09 PM |
| 3 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Ask and report back for data. 😂 | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Makes sense. How often do they turn down meeting the first time you ask? | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 05:06 PM |
| 1 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Same. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 05:01 PM |
| 2 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Agreed. This is often times my approach. Vicinity breeds familiarity and comfort. Comfort is necessary for attraction. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Can’t chill. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 04:59 PM |
| 3 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!“Plenty of fish” psychology is way too simplistic. There may be millions of women but the hot ones in your areas - the “viable” ones that are in your city, age group, social class etc. are not that abundant always | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 04:58 PM |
| 3 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!2 is a decent number. At the third time, a pattern begins to emerge. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Makes sense. By couple of times I meant to ask if she has turned you down couple of times with a good reason. See when you go after the really good 8+ ones, they always have options and so usually they won’t come back with a plan by themselves. Cuz they are so used to being chased and asked over and over by other guys. So the question was meant more for that scenario. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 04:56 PM |
| 2 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Agree fully. Better to go after more women rather than fanning a dead flame. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 04:53 PM |
| 3 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Same. I used to outright move on but now I am more in the persistence camp. After all, at a time the supply of women is limited and just brushing it off by saying “plenty of fish in the sea” is a little too simplistic. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!But sometimes the girls are already seeing someone so they will turn you down. Do you reengage after a few weeks or months to see if it is a better time, or simply let it go fully? | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 04:49 PM |
| 2 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Yes report it back!! | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 04:49 PM |
| 1 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Solid one | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 04:48 PM |
| -2 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Yes but how do you balance it with persistence? Cuz with a lot of women, patience and persistence pays off. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 04:48 PM |
| -3 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Agreed, I often set boundaries this way. My go-to line - “I guess we’re just destined to keep running into each other every now and then, and like each other’s insta stories for the rest of our lives” | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 04:47 PM |
| 5 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!kill is to death ratio.. online gaming term | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 10:33 AM |
| 2 | What to talk about with girls at a party???Golden ruling it, I see. Thanks for making the world a warmer place 🫡🤗 | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 08:44 PM |
| 2 | What to talk about with girls at a party???LMFAO contrary to popular belief I do NOT condone date rape. Funny song tho. jk | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 06:57 PM |
| 4 | What to talk about with girls at a party???Exactly. DON’T shy away from approaching even if you see a girl with a guy. Many times, you’ll prolly be doing her a favor by rescuing her from a lame or boring guy who doesn’t get the cue and had the balls to approach. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 06:49 PM |
| 4 | What to talk about with girls at a party???The og comment didn’t specify that the guy and girl were a couple. It just mentioned that the girl was talking to the guy. If it is an attractive girl, yes, men will come and talk to her at a party. And yes, she is fair game unless she herself says no or is clearly with her bf. Conflict is a good thing if you are strong. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 12:30 PM |
| 2 | I don't know how to woo womenDon’t start with a compliment. It is an advanced opening. For guys new to game, it invariably comes across as creepy. Flirting is showing interest without being needy. You can show interest in her without complimenting her. Before that, get the basics right. Well dressed, well groomed, fresh breath, good smell and upright posture. Once you have that nailed down, go have a normal conversation about the weather or location you are in. You eventually learn to get in a compliment or two. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 12:14 PM |
| 4 | What to talk about with girls at a party???I always lead with my name and assume interest. Some women are shy at first, and by first I mean for multiple meetings. So it is not necessarily a signal of disinterest if she doesn’t ask your name or anything about you in the first couple of hours of your interactions with her. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 12:12 PM |
| -23 | What to talk about with girls at a party???Do it as much as you want. If you can steal a girl away from a guy, that guy didn’t deserve her in the first place and you are the better man. Welcome to the jungle. The polite ones aren’t the ones making the big bucks here. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 12:09 PM |
| 6 | What to talk about with girls at a party???Don’t ask for the name. Don’t compliment her on her looks. Don’t introduce yourself. Start with “Hey, what are you drinking? Looks good!” Algo - she tells you what her drink is. You start a conversation about whether it is her “go to” drink. If yes, ask her how many it takes to get her tipsy.. from there, you could take the conversation to a fun place like what is the stupidest thing she has seen people do while they were drunk. Don’t embarrass her by asking her what her stupid thing was. If no,… | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 07:59 AM |
| 1 | How to become good at flirting?Okay then read Without Embarrassment by Michael Pilinski. | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 06:19 PM |
| 2 | How to become good at flirting?Flirting is basically displaying desire without being needy. GENUINE compliments show desire without sounding needy. Not like “I should worship the land you walk on” but more like “how are you doing, gorgeous”. It should be clear that the vibe is not friendly but intense and sexually-charged. No reason to avoid sexual topics but also no reason to shoehorn them in. It depends on the mood. Read The Game by Neil Strauss. | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 01:00 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate after a makeoutThis is it. | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Girl calls me bro after the night we had sexMy ex calls me bro. A girl with my dick in her mouth just moments earlier called me bro. That’s just how our generation talks. Not a bad sign if she calls you that after you have smashed. Before smashing, it’s a sign of losing respect so slow down on the niceness and be more aloof, cold and withholding. Always remember - the frame fully shifts in our favor the moment something sexual happens. | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 10:44 AM |
| 4 | Do I always have to say hi first?Women like men who make moves. It subcommunicates that you are aggressively willing to take the social risk of getting rejected and go after what you want. Men who expect to be approached will not be able to live up to their full potential, no matter how attractive they are. From experience. Make the first move and say hi! | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 03:16 AM |
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