badbarrow Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Oneitis caused me to improve myself, now I feel I'm too good for all the girls I meet?		badbarrow	/r/seduction	20/04/16 12:17 AM
3	Would girls see me as un-needy, or as a loser?		badbarrow	/r/seduction	02/05/16 08:32 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Does anyone feel the same way? I'm Tired of Nonsense in between Meeting and dates/sex Which is exactly why I can't bring myself to do a cold-approach. I don't meet girls the usual way (parties, friends of friends, hobbies etc) so my only option is to approach random girls I find attractive. I'm a nice guy who listens more than he talks, but I feel asking out a random girl feels very unnatural to me. I think deep down, the reason you gave is why.	/r/seduction	28/10/16 11:02 PM
1	Why you aren't getting the hot woman you want. That's why you leave her the fuck alone. Be the one guy she can't get. Don't do shit for her. Show zero interest.	/r/seduction	24/07/16 01:59 AM
1	A message to all the younger guys out there. If you are the lonely guy that never had a girlfriend in their late highschool years or 20's. You have to fucking acknowledge that there is something seriously wrong with you that you have to change, stepping up. Some guys, like myself, develop the desire for a relationship AFTER school/college. I'm 23, and only recently started desiring a relationship and I found my way to r/seduction. Saying there is "something seriously wrong" with guys my age with no relationship experience is not correct at…	/r/seduction	04/07/16 07:04 AM
1	Good answers when being hit with "I have a boyfriend"? In this case, I'd simply say that you should probably have tried to ask her to hang out one on one long before 4 months. Maybe within the first 2-4 weeks, at the most. I was considering it but after reading a lot on this sub I decided that I shouldn't "shit where I eat". Sure I have some regrets, but I don't feel as bad as I would have if I discovered she was single. Also I would have been quite disappointed if I found out she said yes to me while she had a boyfriend. She didn't seem like the ty…	/r/seduction	16/05/16 10:23 AM
1	Good answers when being hit with "I have a boyfriend"? I've thought about this a lot ever since I met the girl of my dreams. I knew her for about 4 months before she even mentioned her boyfriend of 2 years. I only got to talk to her maybe once a week for about 2 hours so our interactions were very strung out. I felt we were getting on really well and had loads in common. She really lowered her voice when she mentioned her boyfriend as though she was expecting me to start crying or something.	/r/seduction	16/05/16 07:13 AM
1	What is putting a girl on a pedestal? live in a foreign country What isn't a foreign country?	/r/seduction	15/05/16 12:44 AM
1	How do I remain mysterious for those who always want to know what I am doing with my life? Agreed. It's important to answer the question they asked. You can then change the topic once you have answered the question. Avoiding the question is just rude.	/r/seduction	13/05/16 12:27 AM
1	How to not be scared/embarrassed when talking around strangers? I take it you are young. As you age, you naturally realise this and it becomes easy.	/r/seduction	12/05/16 08:26 AM
1	I feel like only desperate girls likes me how do i get rid of this feeling I agree with this. You have to make yourself believe that you are someone a girl would want to be with.	/r/seduction	09/05/16 12:25 PM
1	Would girls see me as un-needy, or as a loser? You say you work out - in the Gym or at home? At home. If you are confident you can do all kind of BS and still be attractive. I am very confident. I just don't put it to good use. I think I just need to get out more and be more sociable. I want a girl that is fine that I like my alone time, and a lot of it.	/r/seduction	02/05/16 10:35 AM
1	Would girls see me as un-needy, or as a loser? If you can find a girl that likes your lifestyle (doubt it, most girls want to have FUN)... That's the thing. I was having fun. And that isn't to say I don't have fun with others when I do go out.	/r/seduction	02/05/16 10:26 AM
2	Are girls who are too tied down by work worth chasing? I have always wondered this too. Also, what if her job takes her overseas? I was in the same situation once where the girl I really liked aspired to work overseas. I never even told her how I felt since I didn't want to deal with the whole long distance thing. Having never been overseas before, AND never having had a girlfriend, it was just too much. To comment on /u/AttractandSeduce answer, I wouldn't want a girl to MAKE time for me. It would make me feel too uncomfortable and like I can't rela…	/r/seduction	27/04/16 09:09 AM
1	Oneitis caused me to improve myself, now I feel I'm too good for all the girls I meet? Thanks for answering. I'd never heard of the Dunning-Kruger effect before. So if I pursue girls I could be doomed to take a hit to my confidence? I find happiness is directly proportional to my confidence. Therefore, wouldn't it be better to maintain this level of confidence and therefore happiness? Why make the effort to get a girl only to try and get back to the same level of confidence?	/r/seduction	21/04/16 03:09 AM
1	Got a number, asked on date, said she is seeing someone but still down to go out as friends? Unless your game is tight enough to get her to cheat But if OP wants a serious relationship, he shouldn't follow that advice. Who would want a girl that cheats on her boyfriend?	/r/seduction	21/04/16 02:39 AM
1	Made up an excuse not to talk to this girl, wow was I wrong lol	/r/seduction	15/04/16 12:56 AM
1	Made up an excuse not to talk to this girl, wow was I wrong Or she was desperate.	/r/seduction	07/04/16 08:59 PM