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Never had this happen on a date but did have this happen on a one night stand before sex. I was upfront with her friend. She wanted to make sure I wasn't just telling her friend lies. I even showed her my driver's license to prove I was who I said I was. We ended up having sex that night. I didn't take it as a shit test. She was looking out for her friend.
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:01 PM
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Be bold and your good enough for any woman.
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:09 PM
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Socially awkward that was me. I think that applies more to men then to women. Women really don't have to do much to get a guys attention. My dad never gave me any advice. I had to learn it by reading. This was before YouTube and reddit. A lot of men just don't like rejection. So you have to have a thick skin and some just don't put enough effort into it. They try one or two times and get rejected and give up. Me personally I thrive on it. No one bats a 100% I learned that from a ladies man. So t…
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:43 AM
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Yeah I always mention that it is hard work at first. Your changing all your old habits. Some guys think that it just happens over night. It takes time to process the information and then to act on it.
/r/seduction04/07/22 10:46 PM
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I would start by read Intimate connections by David Burns. Its an older book but its my bible when it comes to getting dates and being attractive to the opposite sex. Look up some videos on youtube on how to get women attracted to you. It does take some work but its well worth it. Stuff that seems awkward will soon become second nature. I find myself flirting with women now without even thinking about it and I was shy virgin at the age of 20 something. Until I read Intimate Connections. That boo…
/r/seduction04/07/22 02:31 AM
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Flirting takes work at first. The more you do it the easier it becomes. Until it starts to become automatic. Also like others have stated if a woman is attracted to you she can make it very easy. I have never been a talker during sex however I do like to take charge in the bedroom. I go off by moans and I love to go down on women. I enjoy foreplay.
/r/seduction03/07/22 05:35 AM
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Read the book intimate connections by David Burns. Do what it says in the book. Enjoy your success. This can be bought at Walmart, Amazon and many other places. This book changed my life. I have enjoyed success with women thanks to that book. I have friends instead of just people who casually know me. It's like the Bible on how to approach and get dates. I was 20 something when I lost my virginity card. Get the book and read it and try the steps in the book.
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:07 PM
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I like the word outgoing rather then creep. A lot of guys seem to think they have to be creepy to attract women. Most just need to be more vocal.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:40 AM
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If you can read the body language of a woman then you won't have to risk being creepy. Most woman will let you know they are interested in you. Eye contact while playing with her hair. Sitting really close to you. If she won't make eye contact with you while your trying to talk to her its probably wise to move on.
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:52 PM
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Like others have stated start dating other women. I'm not gonna say cut all ties but treat her as if she was a guy and do not pursue her. That's the worst possible thing you can do. I had a situation like this happen to me and I finally had to cut her from my life. She wanted favors from me like helping her move but when I needed a friend she was unavailable for me. It wasn't easy but I moved on with my life. Good luck.
/r/seduction06/06/22 06:27 AM
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When a woman comes up to you and says something. Thank her and state your name and then say something back. You can act excited but try to be cool and try to be interesting or funny. Also most women love to talk about themselves so yeah questions about her. Ask if she has plans for the day and try for a date.
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:30 PM
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Try a different approach then just doing cold calls hoping to get lucky? Im not gonna knock trying to meet people when you go out but if its not working for you try something else. Try a dating app? Try a meet and greet where you are at. Perhaps joining a club? Try asking friends if they know any women that might be interested in going out with you or that are single. If your old enough try a bar that is popular or a pub or some nightclub. If you can get a buddy to go with you to the bar. Meetin…
/r/seduction28/05/22 07:18 AM
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My sister cheated on her husband. She eventually broke it off with the other guy after about a month. My sister and her husband are still together and they now spend a lot more time together. So I do think people can make a mistake and learn from it. That being said some people are born cheaters and will never learn.
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:57 AM
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We talked about bondage. Neither one of us was into it. I enjoy reading hot books but just seeing a naked women close to me makes me clam up and to want to enjoy her body. I doubt I could read the entire 5 minutes. I would be like 2 minutes into it and then want to kiss her all. Thats just me though.
/r/seduction26/05/22 11:27 PM
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Man I wish I could talk dirty during sex. I'm so concentrating on her pleasure I lose my ability to speak. The rest of it I do already.
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:39 AM
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I made a script in my head. So when I went on a date I would have at least have something to talk about. You could do the same. Just write something out and memorize it. It doesn't have to be word for word. Try to make it funny and interesting. I talked about my job in inventory and the time I went into state prison. We were doing inventory for the state.
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:02 PM
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I feel you. I was 25 when I lost my virginity.
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:14 AM
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Dating can be rough no doubt. I was a late bloomer. I was over 21 when I lost my virginity. You can still buy intimate connections the book on Amazon. It helped me out with dating and making friends. Some of its outdated but a lot of it is still relevant. Don't stop trying to make the best version of yourself.
/r/seduction08/05/22 01:56 AM
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Fight back. Read books, look up YouTube videos on how to get women and make friends. If I can get laid anyone can get laid. I read a book and tried what that book suggested. The book is called intimate connections. That book changed me from a mouse into a lion. It did happen over night but in 2 months time I had gotten laid.
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:54 PM
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Its up for debate if Andy really died a virgin. A few sources say he did have sex before he died. I like your point.
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:24 PM
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I don't have sex with them. If I'm going to have sex with someone their has to be some kind of spark.
/r/seduction01/05/22 06:11 PM
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I've been lucky in having women approaching me first. I thought they were all attractive. It helps if you have a outgoing attitude when talking to a woman.
/r/seduction01/05/22 02:47 AM
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I did. I was a late bloomer. So I did a lot of one night stands in my day to make up for it. I was also insecure about myself in general. I'm a lot older and more in touch with myself and what I want. However back in the day I went at it hard and got great results.
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:24 PM
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Read books and watch videos on how to attract friends and get dates. Do what those books and videos recommend. Get out of your comfort zone. If your really good in a month or two you should be able to get a date. Most people are not gonna be famous and I hate needles. Being funny and witty can help with the ladies. Also if you know a ladies man hang out with the guy to learn what he does to attract women. Those would be my tips.
/r/seduction20/04/22 06:29 AM
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Some guys are better at making conversations then others. Dating is hard. You will have to work at it. I took notes on my opening remarks to women. So I could stand out from the other messages women were getting.
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:53 AM
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A dating app is a tool. If your good at it you can get dates very quickly. Its also very efficient. Its like the difference between walking to work or driving yourself to work. Eventually you will get to work by walking but it takes much longer to get to work.
/r/seduction06/04/22 07:05 PM
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I take pride in getting rejected. If your dating your not gonna appeal to every woman you go out with. I accept it and move on. It used to bother me but not anymore.
/r/seduction06/04/22 06:57 PM
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Read books and watch videos on how to get dates with woman and how to make friends. Do the things that those books and videos recommend.
/r/seduction05/04/22 09:07 PM
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My general advice. Dress to impress. Look good when you go out. Read or watch videos on how to talk to a woman. Reading was key for me. Try to make guy friends. Sometimes they will know a girl who wants to have fun. Try different dating apps. These are just general advice because your short on information.
/r/seduction26/03/22 11:13 PM
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My take is this. I like Porn. I watch porn. It hasn't affected me dating women. It hasn't affected me trying to pick up women.. To my way of thinking masturbating makes you less thirsty and more clear headed when it comes to dating women. As long as the Porn doesn't hurt anyone or yourself or take over your life why not? This topic reminds me of the video games debate. Does playing violent video games make you more violent?
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:15 AM
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Want to see the new Batman movie tomorrow? Her answer Ill think about it. I like the idea behind your idea but if she isn't interested in the guy phrasing it in a different way isn't going to help. I just don't think she is into the guy. Most woman are eager to go out with a guy they like.
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:21 AM
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I had a crush I still think about and it has been over for about 20 years. That being said I still went out and had sex with other women after we broke up. Do not stew in your breakup. If anything my crush breaking up with me lit a fire under my ass. This was before tinder or dating apps. I became a social butterfly. Do not get in your own head. That will lead to nothing. Accept that you tried and it didn't work out. You can find someone else that wants to spend time with you. If it helps have y…
/r/seduction08/03/22 02:27 AM
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"and sex is not even that great when you sometimes don't even know each other's name". I respectfully disagree. Sex is like bad pizza both are good. I do agree that if your looking for a long term thing going to a club might not help. That being said I have known a few people who got together long term that met in a bar. I just think its rare.
/r/seduction12/02/22 10:02 PM
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What do you mean by legal safety? Did you get accused of something at one time in your life? Just wondering.
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:23 PM
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Yeah he will learn. When your dating or trying to hook up with women you need thick skin.
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:35 AM
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I had this conversation with my nephew. He asked about being rejected. I told him accept it and just move on from it. Do you want a pen pal or to get a date? Try to get dates and not just endless talking to one women. This was about an online dating site he was using. No guy is going to appeal to every women. He got rejected and he got annoyed by it. He tried to set up a date and she ghosted him. I said she did him a favor now he could move on. What does he do? He broods and stews on it. Ugh.
/r/seduction01/02/22 09:28 PM
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If a women makes eye contact with you go and talk to her..Be ready with a smile when talking. Try to be flirty fun. Make eye contact with the person you are talking to. Do not be overly aggressive with sex talk. If she offers to head back to her place but she says no sex tell her your cool with it. If she wants to go to your place don't be like only if we're going to have sex. I had a wingman says this dumb thing to these two women I was trying to get to go to my place. They were turned off very…
/r/seduction30/01/22 06:25 AM
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Yeah I've done it more then once. Most of the time they will initiate and I will respond. I do sometimes go up to girls but it's mostly they will hit on me. I've had a ton of luck in bars and almost zero in dance clubs. It helped that I had a ladies man to guide me. He taught me tricks of the trade. The cool and relaxed cat gets the most milk. So it does happen. Most guys either miss the signs or are way to over eager.
/r/seduction29/01/22 11:10 PM
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That girl in your group is weird. You did the right thing.
/r/seduction25/01/22 10:45 PM
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Its like asking a women out on a date. You can think about it to much and just talk yourself out of doing it because she might turn you down or she might laugh or some other excuse. Just do it. I passed up a few dates by over thinking and not doing something. I sometimes think that dumb people have the edge in dating because they don't think they just do stuff.
/r/seduction25/01/22 09:00 AM
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Try not to over think when it comes to talking to women. Thats a big mistake because you can reason your way out of doing things you should be doing. Dont think about doing something just go and do something. The more you do it the easier it will be for you.. You are over thinking things. Your picturing a bad outcome before you have even started.
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:46 PM
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I've never had much money. I have been fortunate with women. Mostly it comes down to being approachable with women. Most guys are over eager and to aggressive with women. They are just to direct. I've made the same mistake myself. Being laid back gets you more. It sounds counter intuitive but it works. I had a women invite me to her place telling me once we got there I'm not sleeping with you. I was like cool let's just cuddle on the bed. Next thing I know she is grabbing me down their wanting s…
/r/seduction18/01/22 05:26 AM
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I hope you never give up trying. I was a very late bloomer in life.
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:38 PM
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Your defeated before you even try. I'm tall I admit that but I'm not model attractive. It's how you talk and approach a women. All I'm saying is never think it can't happen to you. Always be trying to close the deal. Just don't be pushy about it. Pushy men repel women.
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:02 PM
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Looks do help. No lie but personality goes a lot towards getting laid as well being confident in yourself.
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:37 PM
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I'm not projecting anything. Just because you've never done it doesn't mean it can't be done. I am explaining that it can be done that's it. The more you know the better off you are in the long term.
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:31 PM
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Wow bitter much?
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:56 AM
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Im not that great looking. Ive been invited to a woman's place before. More then once. Now it doesn't happen every time i talk to a women but it has happened.
/r/seduction17/01/22 01:35 AM
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My approach is to talk to them like they are a long lost friend I haven't seen in some time. So I make eye contact, I flirt, I joke around. I try and see if they mind if I get close to them with my hands or arms. If you think they are already friendly its much easier to talk to someone. Thats my approach.
/r/seduction17/01/22 01:15 AM
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I've driven one hour for sex. Its was worth it.
/r/seduction07/01/22 11:12 PM
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Do things that build up confidence in yourself. Write down what you think might happen at an event and then go do that event. Later on review your notes on the event. My second point is embrace rejection. Your going to get rejected. That's a fact on going out on dates and trying to get dates. Accept it and learn from it if possible. Your not gonna be everyone's cup of tea. However do not get discouraged by rejection. Its a trap a lot of guys fall into. One girl rejects your offer of a date so yo…
/r/seduction06/01/22 01:04 AM
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Yeah its strange because its like telling a man who is so thirsty not to drink the water. I had to learn all these lessons the hard way.
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:35 AM
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I think with the proper mindset almost any guy can hook up with a women. You can increase your noticed by dressing well when you go out. Like they say dress to impress. Make sure you smell nice and your hair looks good. Do not be afraid to talk to anyone at the bar or what ever event your at. Be it a guy or girl. The more relaxed you seem to be the more women will be attracted to you. Do not over think things. Do things. When I was dating using an online app called OKcupid I would make little no…
/r/seduction25/12/21 09:23 AM
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I've gotten laid going to a bar alone. It's not easy but can be done. The funny part is I didn't do much but look at them and talk to them. I didn't say a great pick up line. I was relaxed and just joked around with them. I try and talk to women like an attractive friend I haven't seen in a very long time. It's a little easier with a wing man. You can tell if a women is interested if she keeps eye contact with you. When it comes to getting laid go against your base instinct. Be talkative, try to…
/r/seduction24/12/21 11:21 PM
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Not the driving force but yeah its nice to have sex with a women. One of the reasons I like to read posts on seduction is to help me get dates with women and work on my game. That being said you cant act like your desperate for a women. Most of the time playing it cool with a women will get you laid or a nice make out session. Its sounds weird but it works. If you play it right women will want to sleep with you. Now that's assuming they have any interest in you at all. Your not gonna be everyone…
/r/seduction20/12/21 07:05 AM
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Smoking can shorten a person life. That's terrible advice. Talking about surgery to get a deeper voice? Yikes.
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:01 PM
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Let your friends know your looking. Try dating apps. Try apps like bumble that are for getting groups of guys and girls together for events.
/r/seduction30/10/21 06:57 PM
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My advice just keep pushing yourself to be a better you. Just keep trying. Read and or watch videos on how to talk to women. Talk to your friends and let them know your looking for a date. I was a late bloomer myself. I pushed myself to be a better version of me.
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:34 PM
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I've been approached by women in bars. A lot of times. I've had a fair number of one night stands. It seems to happen more in just regular bars without a dancing floor. Never had any luck in a nightclub. I'm just a regular looking guy.
/r/seduction23/10/21 06:25 PM
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Try to make guy friends. It helps. Perhaps they need help fixing their car? Hang out with them. Resist the urge to just hang out by yourself. Other guys can hook you up with women they know. Dress for success. Dressing poorly makes you look like you don't care. Don't wear wrinkled clothes. Losing weight can be tough. I know a few fat guys that are able to get laid. Do they get get any women they want? No. However they are able to get laid. One is married currently. I'm not telling you not to los…
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:41 PM
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Remember nothing happens overnight. It took me 2 to 3 months to get a women in bed with me. It also didn't happen with just getting women to like me. I had to like myself first. Good luck on your journey.
/r/seduction17/10/21 07:29 PM
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To build up confidence try doing things by yourself. Write what you think will happen when you do the event. Then write down what really happened after the event. It will change your outlook on life in general. Like for an example. Going to the movies by yourself. I figured I would be made fun of and looked at weird. People would stare at me. I went to the movie and nothing like that happened at all. It built up my my confidence in myself.
/r/seduction04/10/21 12:13 AM
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I had a friend who was a ladies man. He did a lot of one night stands. He got held up, the women he was with set him up. He said it was very scary having a gun shoved in his face. I've done a few one night stands and never had anything close to that happen to me.
/r/seduction24/09/21 10:36 PM
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Yep. I was 25 and never had sex. By 26 I got laid and was dating other women. It didn't happen over night but it did happen. The way I turned it around? I read books. I changed my mindset. I gained confidence in myself, I smiled and talked more to people. I went from everyone hates me to thinking they might like me if I talk to them. I tried the trick of smiling and saying hello. Most will smile back. I worked on flirting and being able to talk to a women. I dressed better no more wearing wrinkl…
/r/seduction23/09/21 08:24 PM
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Yeah if I just keep getting one word answers I figure she isn't interested and I move on. A wise man said it's a numbers game and he is right.
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:11 AM
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Its just the opposite for me. My imagination fuels my desire to want to get out and go out on dates. I watch porn but most porn is dull and boring like watching a car piston goIng up and down. I like porn with a story or unscripted porn. Most porn is over produced. Good porn can give you tips on where to lick and how to lick and kiss. Its not about just getting your tongue down her throat as quick as you can. Sadly good porn is rare and bad porn is the norm. I say do what works for you. If it he…
/r/seduction12/08/21 07:38 PM
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Perhaps it's just me but when a girl isn't friendly or comfortable then no romance. When she is comfortable and friendly romance is in the air most times. Not all the time for sure. However when im flirting and making them smile or laugh it's a great start. I think the man just needs to set the mood. Just my personal experience.
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:07 AM
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You didn't do anything wrong it's just the way it is. I had the same thing happen to me. Went to this girl's apartment first time meeting her. We talked and we had some drinks and food. It was a nice evening and at the end of the date we made out. It was nice. Next day I text her and nothing. So no biggie and then 2 weeks later she texts me wanting a date at her place again. I said ok and again a fun date and we make out again. Text and try and call her the next day and nothing. Some women are w…
/r/seduction06/08/21 11:33 PM
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The main one was don't be be afraid to go out by yourself. Movies for an example. It builds up confidence. Dress well when approaching women. Be confident when asking out a women. In my case I thought everyone had a dislike for me. When I changed my way of thinking more people were attracted to me. It didn't happen overnight. It took around one month for things to click for me. It took 2 months after reading the book for me to have my first intimate relationship with a women.
/r/seduction29/07/21 05:37 AM
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Intimate connections by David d burns. Came out in 1985 but it's still a solid book even now. Buy it do the steps inside of the book and your on your way to getting dates. You can buy it on Amazon. I bought other books but this one clicked for me.
/r/seduction28/07/21 11:58 PM
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I'll tell what I did when I was 25 and never had one girlfriend. I read one single book that changed my thinking and that changed my life. I got confidence by doing things. Going out to a movie by myself for an example. I dressed up to improve my image with women. Instead of a glum outlook I greeted anyone with a smile and a hello. I also started asking women out on dates. Don't be afraid of rejection. Treat rejection like a badge of courage. Embrace it and try again. Use whatever you need to ge…
/r/seduction28/07/21 11:41 PM
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That's what I used to think as well. Try this trick when saying hi to someone smile. Most will smile back. Instead of thinking in the negative try thinking in the positive. Also try things by yourself to build up your confidence. Like going to the movie by yourself. Try this trick rate what you think might happen when your going by yourself. Then rate how it really went. Things like this can build confidence in yourself.
/r/seduction26/06/21 10:45 PM
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Try not to over think it because if you do you will talk yourself out of it. If a girl is showing interest go up and say hi say your name and then just talk about anything. The weather is always good. Try and flirt a little if possible. Like compliment her hair style or her clothes just something to see how she takes it. If she is all smiles why not set up something like coffee or a dinner date? Again try not to over think it. Just go for it. By the way it's not easy but the more you do it the e…
/r/seduction08/06/21 09:49 PM
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Even good looking guys can have issues getting dates.
/r/seduction06/06/21 10:23 PM
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Yeah I agree totally. Changed my entire life for the better. Its what I recommend to everyone who is looking to make friends and get dates.
/r/seduction18/09/20 09:54 AM
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It can be tiring however the payoff is hopefully a happier you in the long run. I will also say in the beginning its not easy. However the more you do it the easier it will become until you start to do it without even thinking about it. You will start flirting with people without even thinking about it. You will easily make friends. In the end its all about making yourself the best you can be.
/r/seduction17/09/20 11:43 PM
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I think sometimes people just need the right tools to be successful. If I can help just one person become the person they wish they could be. I will be a happy man.
/r/seduction17/09/20 08:16 PM
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I never took up dancing or karate or hung at the gym 8 hours a day to get a women. I was still able to hook up with women. I worked on myself first. I changed my mindset. I changed the way I talked to people. I changed the way I dressed myself. Needy people turn off women. That sounds rough but its the way it is. The more relaxed and confident the more women will be attracted to you. Dating and interacting with women never came easy for me. I had to work it at. Like you say some guys have the gi…
/r/seduction17/09/20 08:11 PM
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Like someone else mentioned flirting and being playful will get you further with women then bringing up sex. I did the same mistake back in the day. Just chalk it up to a lesson learned. When your learning to date your bound to make mistakes. Its part of getting better at having women attracted to you.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:10 AM
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I met up with an ex girlfriend in a town. We went to this nightclub and everything was going great. This other women in the club is giving me the eye. I go to the bathroom and I came out and the other women is waiting for me. Next thing I know she is kissing me. I was happy with it but I explain to here that I am with someone else. We ended up leaving the club because a couple of women were talking about me kissing that women and being on a date with another women. Crazy times. That being said I…
/r/seduction06/07/20 11:15 PM
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Someone online gave me some great advice. Its a numbers game. So if one person doesn't want to text you move on to someone who will text you back. If anything she is doing you the favor of not wasting your time. Time to move on to someone else.
/r/seduction24/06/20 06:00 AM
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Perhaps they are on the outs and she wants a backup boyfriend in case they break up?
/r/seduction18/06/20 10:47 PM
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I think almost any man can find a women if he is willing to learn and to try new things to attract women to him.
/r/seduction18/06/20 10:43 PM
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giving a woman a pill so she gets drugged and can't make rational decision is rape. You need to grow up.
/r/seduction10/03/20 07:38 PM
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Prison time is just a bonus after doing that.
/r/seduction06/03/20 11:14 PM
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Having a wing man is ideal. Going alone always seems a bit tougher although it can be done. Scored more then a few one night stands.
/r/seduction18/08/19 12:51 AM
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Don't let being a late bloomer hold you back or make you feel bad. I was a late bloomer myself. I was in my twenties 23 I think before I got laid. Part of my problem has been over thinking things and looking to far in the future. Try to think less and do more. It sounds like your on the right track. Your getting help with your depression. I also suffered from panic attacks. I have gotten over both of these things now that I am an old timer. Keep your chin up. Practice on your game whenever you c…
/r/seduction08/08/19 08:30 AM
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Like some one else mentioned just keep doing it. Flirting, try to to let her know you like her without getting vulgar. Setting up a date with her and getting to know her. Look for signs from her like does she play with hair while talking to you? Does she make good eye contact with you? These all are great signs she is into you.
/r/seduction10/07/19 06:25 PM
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I feel you man. I was their at one point in my life. What I did was read books on the subject to see what I was doing wrong. This book changed my life. It got me close friends, a girlfriend and showed me how to gain confidence in myself. Its called Intimate Connections by David D. Burns. ​ I followed the steps. I did what the book recommended. I got friends and soon started having sex with women. Its not easy to change but sometimes its a good thing. The book is on Amazon. Linked. https://www.am…
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:56 PM
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This is gonna sound dumb but I think it depends on the women your with and if you have a really strong attraction to her. I always do my best work when its with a women I have some connection with. Perhaps the women your taking to bed don't interest you enough. However I could be way off base. Just the way I think. ​ I was also a late bloomer myself. I feel you man. I am an old timer now. In my 50's.
/r/seduction15/06/19 09:23 PM
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For some its not about diet its about being able to talk to women and having confidence in yourself to do it. What good does it do a guy if he looks like superman and can not talk to women?
/r/seduction22/05/19 10:25 PM
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This is just my general thoughts. I always scout a room. I just take a look around to see if any woman is giving me good eye contact. If you get good eye contact approach and say something good. Like Hi for an opener perhaps say your name. Go from their. ​ Cold approaching is tough. Doing weights and looking good are helpful. However like someone else said perhaps your vibe is off. Is it all about you giving out a hooking up vibe or just having a good time vibe? I find that if your having a good…
/r/seduction04/05/19 10:02 PM
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Their might be I have no idea. Sorry.
/r/seduction22/04/19 09:05 PM
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I had the same issues. I didn't get laid till I was 20 something. Like others have said work on your social skills in gaining friendships then work on getting women. ​ That is how I did it. I read the good book and it guided me well. It was written by David D. Burns called intimate connections. Linked https://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Connections-David-D-Burns/dp/0451148452/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1528733340&sr=8-1&keywords=intimate+connections ​ Get the book and follow its advice. You will soon ha…
/r/seduction21/04/19 09:30 PM
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I feel you man. I was in your spot at one time. However I read a book and it changed my life for the better. Soon I had a ton of close friends and got dates with women. This is the book. https://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Connections-David-D-Burns/dp/0451148452/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1528733340&sr=8-1&keywords=intimate+connections ​ Buy the book. Read the book and do what it suggests. Do not give up hope. I was in your spot at time. Now I am very happy with myself. Just to give you some perspective…
/r/seduction11/04/19 04:45 PM
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I joined OKC. I had fun with it. To me its less of a crutch and more of a tool like a hammer. You use it to get the results you want from it. I dont blame the hammer when I miss hitting the nail. ​ The thing is getting woman interested in you enough to want to go out with you. Someone said its a numbers game and I do believe that is true. You go out with enough women one of them is going to sleep with you and perhaps like you enough to out with you long term. To me the OP has it all wrong. He is…
/r/seduction10/04/19 04:39 PM
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I had a girl tell me she had a boyfriend. She was with her girlfriend and we were all drinking at the bar. I was cool with it. Later on we had sex at her place that same night. I do think if your confident and she finds you somewhat attractive you have a better chance if you just play it cool. Be flirty, funny and relaxed.
/r/seduction04/04/19 06:16 PM
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/\\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\//\\/\/\/\ Exactly this.
/r/seduction15/03/19 10:26 PM
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I feel you. I was never married and divorced but I can relate with the confidence thing. It takes time but I am sure you are on the right track. I used self help books and they helped me change to be a better version of myself.
/r/seduction20/02/19 06:29 PM
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Well like I said it might be love. Love can do and make a man do strange things he wouldn't ordinarily do. Love is a weird feeling. If its really not making you happy then ask yourself why your in that relationship in the first place. Is it for the sex only? Or do you really enjoy being with her?
/r/seduction07/01/19 05:59 PM
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It sounds like your first intimate relationship. Perhaps its all coming so fast its making you nervous and perhaps your stressed thinking it might end at any time. Perhaps its love? That could make a man stressed out and happy all at the same time. ​ People sometimes change when they get into a relationship. You might not play video games as much, spend less time on the computer or with friends. That all sounds normal to me. My advice would be to try and relax. Do things that make you happy and …
/r/seduction07/01/19 05:22 PM
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I suppose I just find that people can come up with excuses for almost anything. Its video games holding someone back, its that they masturbate to much. Its eating to much sugar or this or that. Getting a women is a mental game as much as its getting yourself in order. I had one guy tell me he gave up everything he enjoyed doing just to get a nibble from women. He gave up video games because he thought that might be holding him back. He gave up porn because he thought that might be holding him ba…
/r/seduction22/12/18 07:01 PM
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Some people have great social skills and some do not. I did not not have great social skills and I had to work at mine. Even to this day I still have to work on it and I am 50 years old. ​
/r/seduction22/12/18 03:15 AM
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Remember do more and think less. Do not over think it. That was also something I used to do. I would talk myself out of stuff. Like asking a girl out. Just be casual about it. Ask her out for coffee. Ask her out for lunch. See how it goes from their. A lot of guys who get women just do not over think. Try and be that guy. Take that chance.
/r/seduction20/12/18 05:57 PM
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I have gotten women to go out with me after just texting for a few days. A lot of women will take you up on your offer to go out with them if they are interested in you. On the flip side I have also gotten the polite brush off from women as well. Even after having texted for a couple of days. It all depends if she thinks your worth going out with.
/r/seduction20/12/18 05:51 PM
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Regrets are bad. Trust me. Take a chance. She might say no. However she might say yes and you guys might be together for a long time. So just take that chance. ​ I had a similar situation happen to me a long time ago. I did not take that chance and it has bugged me ever since. Learn from my mistake.
/r/seduction19/12/18 07:12 PM
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I think what is happening is your planting ideas into your head that are not really their. If she wanted to go out with you why did she say Ill look into it? Does this sounds like a person who wants to hang out with you when she gets there? Sounds like a brush off to me.
/r/seduction19/12/18 07:02 PM
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Just because your with a woman does not mean that all your problems are going to vanish. You can still feel alone and trapped by the person you are sleeping with. Honestly I am now much happier now that I am single then when I was in a relationship with a woman. Hang out with friends, make your own fun. I played video games my entire life never hurt my chances at getting laid. I am 50ish now. Do what makes you happy. Entertain yourself and perhaps the fun your having will transfer over to someon…
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:52 PM
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My younger self I would tell him to read more about how to date and to be happy with yourself. Also more confidence in yourself and be willing to let go more. Also never date a married chick. Ugh.
/r/seduction07/12/18 05:55 PM
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Ah I got it now. I was in the same boat you are. I feel you. Just remember sometimes good things take hard work.
/r/seduction05/12/18 06:20 PM
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Uh perhaps I am reading this wrong but don't you want to date a single girl that is friendly? I was 25 when I finally got laid. ​ Like anything that does not come natural you just need to read up and try what works for you. Reading and then doing is what helped me out.
/r/seduction05/12/18 06:04 PM
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She is taking you for a ride in my opinion. She told you about the boyfriend so she can have some excuse to make if you try any moves on her. Sounds like her boyfriend is just some BS story. Just give her the friends speech in my opinion. Let her know hey I like you but I think were better off as friends. Then if she still wants to hang out then you know. If she doesn't then again you know. Take the lead do not be the follower.
/r/seduction02/12/18 07:18 PM
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I think it would depend. Is it just you and her alone hanging out? That might be a good sign she likes you. Try flirting with her. Just playful stuff. See how she responds.
/r/seduction29/11/18 07:34 PM
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I was 25 when I lost my virginity. So I feel you. I was never embarrassed by it, just frustrated by it. I was friendless and never went on a real date. However I read up on books and practiced what they preached. Now it didn't happen overnight. Reading books and doing what they preached probably took me 1 to 2 months before it all clicked. Friends and women soon followed. The book that changed my life is called Intimate Connections by David D. Burns. You can buy this book on amazon. This book ch…
/r/seduction25/11/18 03:04 AM
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What about asking one of your friends to see if they know any single women? Ask other girls if perhaps they have a girl friend that would be open to going out? Make them aware that hey I am open to dating. Worse comes to worse use a dating app. I used OKcupid and had good luck with it. Perhaps you come off as your not interested in dating anyone.
/r/seduction24/11/18 07:23 PM
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Are you vocal? Do you engage people in conversation? Do you dress to impress? Most men who can get dates are vocal and talk to women. They flirt with them and do the push and pull thing. That doesn't mean be a jerk. Be playoff be flirty be fun. Stand out from the crowd. Otherwise you just blend in with the wallpaper. For me personally it took some work. I had to read about how to interact with women. I had to do what I read.
/r/seduction24/11/18 07:09 PM
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"I've never been a tough guy, and I know this type of personality attracts the ladies. " Some ladies probably do like tough guys. That being said confidence, personality and being a good talker will get you long ways. I don't think you need to be a tough guy to attract women. If your getting the friend zone its probably how your steering the conversations. ​ Be flirty with a woman your interested in. Always dress to impress. I know some do not like dating sites but I have good luck with them in …
/r/seduction15/11/18 07:45 PM
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Good on you. Hope it goes well.
/r/seduction14/11/18 06:19 PM
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Playing with your hair while looking at him.
/r/seduction08/11/18 07:24 PM
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Why did you think I only had one at a time? I did have sex with other woman while dating the married woman. I just do not think its worth the hassle of dating a married woman. To many tradeoffs for the sex involved.
/r/seduction20/10/18 05:23 PM
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I once had an affair with a married woman and would never do it again. It caused me to have panic attacks. The sex was great the trade off was that she never got to spend any time with me and she had cover her tracks. Overall I got lucky. The husband never found out about it and she never got pregnant. After less then 6 months later I ended the affair. Plenty of single ladies out their looking for a guy. Never again.
/r/seduction17/10/18 05:49 PM
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I recently got back into the dating game. I am 52. I had a ton of dates using a online dating site. I was using Okcupid. I had no issues lining up dates. It is not all over. Keep on keeping on.
/r/seduction20/09/18 06:05 PM
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Hey Rome wasn't built in a day.
/r/seduction26/08/18 06:31 PM
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I usually just go up and start with a hi and just go from their. I know their are mind games and lines however I have rarely used those for one night stands. I just try to be chatty and funny/charming. I let her know I am interested in getting to know her better with out being overly creepy. I try not to be just focused on sex as that tends to turn woman off. Better off doing the soft sell approach. That's just my approach on it.
/r/seduction25/08/18 05:41 PM
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I would use this as more of a suggestion of what you could do. Its like a tool box the more tools you have the better. Not everything is going to work for everybody. You could always put your spin on it. This just gives you an idea of what to say to spark an interest.
/r/seduction27/07/18 09:16 PM
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Personally if I was talking to a woman and she was playing with her hair and laughing at my jokes I would set up something for later that day or as soon as possible. A phone number is ok. Dates with her and you are a lot better. Instead of just asking for only a phone number why not get the phone number and then setup a casual date somewhere? Most women like food. Get a number and then ask her for a dinner date somewhere. Something along the lines of Hey I hate to eat alone how about you and me …
/r/seduction25/07/18 12:05 AM
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Sex was uneventful. I was terrible at it and she was very nice about it. I didn't think I was bad but hindsight being 20/20 I really did a terrible job at it. Little to no foreplay on my part and I did not last very long. However like I said she was very nice about it. I explained this was my first time doing it afterwards. So it was not a big deal for her. Most woman even if you do a terrible job at sex will still try to make it a positive experience for you. I have yet to have a woman say that…
/r/seduction20/07/18 07:52 PM
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I acted instead of just waiting for the perfect time. When a woman looked at me and smiled I went over and started talking to her. I didn't think about what to say and how to say it. I just went over and did it. I flirted with women. Example complement her about her clothes, her style, her personality. Just say something to let her know your interested in her. Nothing overtly sexual but something that is flirty. I also gained confidence in myself and gave up preconceived ideas I had about people…
/r/seduction20/07/18 07:12 PM
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Look no one starts out being the best lover and kisser. It happens thru trial and error. The more you do something the better you will get. However you have to be open to wanting change. It sounds like your holding back because your either scared of rejection or afraid of what might happen afterwards. You are overthinking everything when it comes to woman. Don't think so much and just do it. If a woman asks you out. Do not think about what could happen just go on the date and have fun. If your j…
/r/seduction18/07/18 04:31 PM
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In my opinion if your dancing with a girl you are half way there. She is comfortable enough to be very close to you. The other part of course is making a connection. Flirting being funny and engaging while not dancing.
/r/seduction16/07/18 05:16 PM
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If she wanted to do something strange then so be it. As long as its consensual and it doesn't hurt anyone why would it bother you? It sounds like your sort of looking for a virgin who has never talked to a man in her entire life. That sort of woman is going to be hard to find in real life. I prefer a woman who has had some experience.
/r/seduction07/07/18 04:41 PM
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Why would you imagine your girlfriend doing that? Some women just want a one stand. Some want a long term relationship. As long as its consensual I see nothing wrong with it. I have had more then a few girlfriends and some did some crazy stuff. I just brushed it off. I didn't care. What really counted was how they treated me in our relationship. Sex is only a small part of a good relationship. I think your over thinking things when it comes to sex. If you look online and search long enough you c…
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:32 PM
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Nice job. . I really wouldn't worry about your lie. What does it really matter in the long or short run? It does you no good to tell the truth. Just gloss over it. Be mysterious. Woman love that sort of thing.
/r/seduction24/06/18 06:31 PM
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The lets have sex might turn off a few woman. I like to use the soft sell more then the aggressive approach. Something along the line of why don't we go to your place? My place? I tried the hard approach once and got shot down hard. I should have played it soft and I would have gotten laid. That's just my opinion. I am older so perhaps its ok to be blunt about it? I am 50 years old.
/r/seduction23/06/18 01:50 AM
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Imagine a woman says something positive about your clothes or hair. That would make you feel good about yourself. Its the same with a woman. They like attention. Also it can help you decide if she has any interest in you or not. The trick is to get her talking to you. Starting a conversation is the first step in setting and getting a date. In 2003, J.R. Martinez sustained severe burns to over 34 percent of his body while serving as an Army infantryman in Iraq. His face was horrible disfigured. T…
/r/seduction13/06/18 12:25 AM
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Sure good looks do help like being physically fit. However personality also goes a long way. Being flirty with woman. Being confident goes a long way. Do you really think every guy is really that great looking? I am just an average looking guy. I have gotten a lot of dates. It helps to look attractive. For sure. However it also helps how you dress. Do you wear wrinkled looking clothing? Do you dress to impress? Are you flirty with single woman? Do you make eye contact with woman? Picking up a wo…
/r/seduction12/06/18 05:00 PM
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Ill let you in on a secret. I was a very loot bloomer myself. I didn't start dating a woman until around 25 or 26. I did not know how to talk to a woman or even how to ask a woman on a date. I really didn't have any close friends either. I read this book called intimate connections. Its still available at amazon.com..https://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Connections-David-D-Burns/dp/0451148452/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1528733340&sr=8-1&keywords=intimate+connections I did exactly what the book said to do…
/r/seduction11/06/18 04:16 PM
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A car is good. A motel/hotel? Perhaps a good friends house? Its always difficult when you don't have your own place.
/r/seduction09/06/18 07:34 PM
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Just keep on trying like others have said. Like anything your probably never going to learn how to do it right the first time. The more you try approaching girls the easier it will become. Rejection is going to happen that's just a part of trying. Good luck.
/r/seduction07/06/18 06:37 PM
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While good looks help. Personality counts as well. A women wants a confident man. Try doing stuff by yourself to get confidence. Example go to a movie by yourself. Before you go to the movie rate how you think its going to go and your fears. Then go to the movie and afterwards rate your experience. As others have said read the sidebar. However if you need a more direct book to read. Its by David D. Burns called Intimate Connections. Changed my life forever for the better. Read the book and pract…
/r/seduction25/03/18 07:16 PM
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Man I was in the same spot as yourself many years ago. I was a virgin at age 20 something. I read books and worked on my inner self. I practiced what those books preached. As I gained confidence I started attracting woman to me. I was also able to get woman to go out with me on dates with ease. However like I said it didn't start out that way at first. It took me going out of my comfort zone and having a different mindset. Also put your education first. Graduate. A guy with a good paying job is …
/r/seduction14/02/18 09:14 PM
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Picking up and getting woman attracted to you is like any thing it takes work and practice. That means doing things different then the way you have been doing. Use the guides on here. Practice what is in those guides. It will feel weird at first. However just keep practicing and before long you will be doing it automatically. If your looking for good books to read I do recommend the Author David D. Burns. His book changed my life for the better. It helped me get close friends and to get laid. Ho…
/r/seduction01/02/18 09:18 PM
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I know a guy who is married to a very attractive women. She is in love with him and that counts more then his money/status. The guy is super obese. They have been together for more then 12 years now. I think your underestimating emotion/love being a factor.
/r/seduction22/01/18 07:20 PM
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I know a guy who is married to a very attractive women. She is in love with him and that counts more then his money/status. The guy is super obese. They have been together for more then 12 years now. I think your underestimating emotion/love being a factor.
/r/seduction22/01/18 07:19 PM
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I had great results with a dating site. OK cupid was the site. I have picked up woman in bars before however I wanted to try something new. You might want to give it a try.
/r/seduction31/12/17 08:53 PM
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The cases that make the news are not flirting at all. Asking a woman do you want to watch me masturbate in a shower is not flirting. Fondling a woman's breast isn't flirting. A lot of what I have read online is way past flirting. I doubt any woman is going to scream rape if you compliment her on her hair, shoes or outfit. Don't be handsy and don't be creepy. Example of being a creep. Asking a woman if she wants to watch you masturbate. Asking a woman if you can watch her masturbate. Both creepy …
/r/seduction20/12/17 05:44 PM
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A lot of picking up woman is knowing what to look for and how to talk to them. I was a virgin till I was 25. I read the book Intimate Connections by David D. Burns. It turned my life around. 3 months after following the books advice I had lost my virginity card. Its a old book so some stuff is out of date but the basic principle is still sound. My advice is to read books on how to attract women. Its easy when you can read the signs of a woman. Look I get it. I was in your shoes. Read as much as …
/r/seduction03/10/17 09:23 PM
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I get that. However my point still stands. Tons of people have sex after they smoke pot and or drink. Its not unique. Its not rape. That was my point.
/r/seduction26/07/17 05:54 PM
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You might not know this but a lot of people drink before they have sex. A lot of people smoke pot before they have sex. This doesn't equal rape.
/r/seduction26/07/17 05:41 PM
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Yeah. I was thinking more about America culture.
/r/seduction05/07/17 04:40 PM
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I can usually tell where a date is going to go within the first 30 minutes. Does she make and keep eye contact? Does she play with her hair? Does she get close to you? Does she mind if your hand gets close to hers? You have to read her signs. Also if she aint feeling you then even if you go for a kiss she might be like gross or pull back. Then you know its not going to go any where. I think its like anything the more you go and do it the better your going to get. I have never tried this before b…
/r/seduction04/07/17 07:08 PM
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Their are many guides on the site. Here is one of them. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ero8h/new_to_seddit_a_concise_guide_for_recovering_afcs/
/r/seduction25/06/17 06:55 PM
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I know a guy who has been always over weight. He got a girlfriend and later married his girlfriend after several years being with her. He has some health problems because of his weight but they are still together. She is an attractive looking women. Now I dont think its a great idea to be overweight. However I also dont think it will prevent you from getting a woman. If you want to attract a lot more women then follow the tip guides here. Not all of the tips will work for you. However pick what …
/r/seduction23/06/17 08:02 PM
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Attraction is one factor for sure. I dont think its the only factor for women though. Humor, personality go a long way with women.
/r/seduction10/06/17 09:53 PM
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Probably nothing wrong with you. Just lack of confidence in yourself. Use the new here guide on the right hand side. Just remember like anything the more you practice the better you will become. Fairly soon it will be automatic. You wont even think about it. I was a late bloomer myself. I had to practice like crazy. It did not come easy for me.
/r/seduction10/06/17 09:49 PM
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I have been to one that did have a pool table inside. Not many though. Just an example. My example is doing stuff with her. Interact with her.
/r/seduction01/05/17 07:29 PM
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Let her know your interested in her. Talk about her for an example. What she might be wearing. Her hair her eyes. Her eye popping shoes. Women love to be noticed. Then move on to other stuff. If your in a club and talking and she is interested ask her for a dance. If they have a pool table perhaps play pool with her? Do a shot with her? Let her know your into her. Touch her arm or perhaps her back. Be flirty. Signs she might be into you. Eye contact and playing with her hair while looking at you…
/r/seduction30/04/17 07:32 PM
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I think anytime you interact with someone who you really like you risk something. Now in your case if you show her you care perhaps you waste your time? Seems like a small price to pay. When you fall for someone it does feel as though your vulnerable. However push thru that and look at what the benefits could be. You dont have to be a lap dog. If you feel like she is only using you for favors and not giving you anything in return then it might be time to move on. Not talking about sex but friend…
/r/seduction19/03/17 09:01 PM
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The site appears to be down.
/r/seduction07/03/17 08:03 PM
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Yep have offered to cuddle with a girl that said no sex for you. Next thing I know she is grabbing at my crotch. Sometimes less is more.
/r/seduction02/12/16 10:58 PM
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I get where your coming from. I think its a number of things. Some women will expect a man to be bad in bed. Not all men are good in the sack. Some women wont mind. Not all but some. I had a friend who got married and had kids and never went down on her. He just couldnt do it. I lost track of him but they were together for many years. They might still be for all I know. I also think it depends on how much she is into you. Love can make anyone overlook a lot. Third read and watch people having se…
/r/seduction25/06/16 10:15 PM
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The most hardest part is changing your perception of people. Try to smile more at people. Most people will smile back its human nature. Try to be happy with yourself. Go out to a movie by yourself. Develop confidence. Having sex with a women is a great feeling. However it wont change everything in your life. I was a late bloomer myself. I was around 22 or so before I got laid. I had to change my way of thinking. It takes practice and before long it becomes habit..
/r/seduction17/05/16 12:53 AM
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I had this same thing happen to me. I didnt understand how to talk to women or how to make close personal friends. A book helped me out on how to get dates and how to like myself. It took about a month to get comfortable with the ideas. People thought I had lost my mind because I was so happy with life and finally getting it. Almost like Scrooge after the 3 ghosts visit him and he changes. The one thing I kind of regret doing is going into a relationship with a women that was married. This was d…
/r/seduction13/05/16 11:40 PM
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Reading and doing is the key to getting comfortable. I get the feeling you need to change your mindset. Reading and doing is the key. I was the exact same way. Think of it this way. If you needed to fix your car would you just start removing nuts and bolts or reading a book or looking online on how to fix it? Do things different that take you out of your comfort zone. Think of it this way. If they are so stupid why are they getting women and your not? They must be doing something right.
/r/seduction27/04/16 09:01 PM
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I wouldnt mind it. For a one night stand generally no. For a long term I have no issue with it.
/r/seduction19/12/15 08:44 PM
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Hey man dont sweat this sex thing. I was a late bloomer myself. Never got laid till I was 25. I found my groove and made up for lost time. Your ahead of the game in a lot more ways then I was. I didnt have a lot of friends or socialize much. I do have crooked teeth. Never got in the way of getting laid. I would hang out with a single person that way you can hit on ladies together. My issue was with perception of people. As soon as I turned this around life got a lot better for me. Not perfect bu…
/r/seduction17/12/15 03:35 AM
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The way she talks, the way she looks at you. Her body language. Does she seem tense or at ease? Does she want to sit very close to you or at arms length? Those are some of the things I look for. I agree with the other comments on the top. Just keep trying and working at it. Good luck.
/r/seduction22/09/15 06:00 PM
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Yep learned this from another ladies man. This does work.
/r/seduction19/09/15 05:14 PM
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I dont know about attractive but I hung out with a ladies man and I got a lot of good tips on how to act and how to attract women.
/r/seduction14/06/15 04:03 AM
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I agree. I have had a few dates turn out this way. I just move on. She might call him back and apologize for missing his text. If that happens he should think about getting with her again.
/r/seduction21/05/15 06:52 PM
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I think this is a good idea. Not sure how many people can afford therapy for issues though. It sounds very expensive. I think instead of hitting the Gym I would say be physically fit. Although my opinion on that is not popular here on seddit. Overall its a nice flow chart and I find myself agreeing with it more then disagreeing with it. I do most of these without thinking about them when I am out and about. Mostly due to practice.
/r/seduction12/05/15 10:50 PM
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I have used a few public restrooms. Most were not pleasant. I could never do it in a nasty public restroom.
/r/seduction12/05/15 06:55 PM
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Ive had women approach me in bars.. I have no secret I just play it easy and friendly. I mostly look for eye contact and if it looks good sometimes I will approach them or sometimes they will approach me. I think I am an average looking guy. I think what other people have posted here is confidence and being approachable are very good points. Perhaps your just shy and not very talkative? People want to be next to someone who looks like he is having a good time. If your able try to take a wingman …
/r/seduction04/05/15 08:40 PM
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I would urge you to read the entire article. Its got some good advice. However the choice is yours.
/r/seduction28/04/15 08:00 PM
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I am very experienced in bed now. However just like any new dude I struggled with how to do foreplay well. I had a female friend who told me what she liked and needed and it helped out a lot. In my experience most women wont do that. I would say that for guys read up and practice helps of course. I honestly didnt think this would get many responses.
/r/seduction28/04/15 03:05 AM
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Good article. I wish more women would tell men what they need in bed. Most women I have been with give almost zero hints as to what works for them. They expect the man to be experienced enough to read minds. I actually like it when a women gives me some signs what she wants or needs in bed.
/r/seduction27/04/15 09:19 PM
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I think the same thing could be applied to a women. The 2 long term relationships ended when the women pushed me away. I was upfront what I wanted and they both agreed. Later on they both lied and did not want to change. I was ready for a long term they were not. They were just fooling themselves.
/r/seduction13/04/15 08:00 PM
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I gave my opinion on what I would do nothing else. See I said Me and I? I call people out on stuff. . I like to share my opinion.
/r/seduction04/12/14 02:00 AM
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Me personally I would bring it up. Like what the hell I took you out to dinner? Cmon man. On FB. If they still ignore you then your better off not taking them out for dinner. I call people on that shit.
/r/seduction03/12/14 05:36 PM
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Girls cheat, but only if she's drunk. This one is wrong. I dated a married chick and she wasnt drunk. She cheated for a lot of reasons. " If she insults you, she's trying to fit in with her group. Don't judge her like this" Not sure I understand this at all to be real with you. If someone insulted me I would not stand around waiting to be insulted again. I would move on to the next girl/group. If your wanting for someone to leave you alone then I suppose you would insult them. Perhaps you meant …
/r/seduction28/11/14 10:02 PM
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Yeah I had the same experience with a women. Drove one hour away we did it and I was like thats it? We ended up just doing it the one time and then I lost touch with her. I look back on it and I was kind of a jerk to her. Ill admit it. Relationships are a minefield. I think it depends if she likes you enough to keep in contact with you. My feelings is call her up and try hooking up again. If she makes some lame excuse either thru texting or over the phone as to why she cant make it just move on.…
/r/seduction15/11/14 11:13 PM
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Usually when a women invites you into her house for drinks. Chances are you dont need to say much of anything to escalate it. This is just my personal experience only. However I have had a a lot of girls make the first move on me after I enter their house and they have been drinking. I am an average looking Joe. Half the time the stuff we talked about it I can never remember afterwards or I look back later and think what was I talking about. Example would be us talking about pets and then having…
/r/seduction15/11/14 08:16 PM
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I read it and found the picture to be insulting to men. Its like saying all women should cook and clean and stay home for their man. Would women find that cute? I just dont like the sentiment of the picture. I think the article is fine.
/r/seduction14/11/14 10:10 PM
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One of those pictures just made me roll my eyes. The one that really got me was "expect every girl to be smarter then you." Uh ok, sure. Not saying that most women are not smart but cmon. I agree with petriomelony take action if a girl is into you. Try the line of didnt we go to high school together? if you need an opener. I heard a guy use that line and I thought it was corny but could be kind of funny if played right.
/r/seduction14/11/14 08:22 PM
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These sound more like when you have a girlfriend and need something to do. I wouldnt do much of these on a first date.
/r/seduction12/11/14 07:07 PM
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I hold eye contact for a few seconds. Smile and then I would then go over and talk to her. I am usually pro active in these situations. Most women who give you the eye want you to approach them.
/r/seduction10/11/14 10:01 PM
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Honestly if I am attracted to a women enough doesnt matter who is listening. Mechanickingpin summed it up nicely." Don't pay attention to anyone but the girl you are talking to. "
/r/seduction06/11/14 03:50 AM
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Funny story. I was at work and knew this women who I got along with very well. I looked at her kind of like my mom. I had no interest in the women at all sexually. So I asked her if she wanted to see a movie. Mostly just to hang out. Later that same day she asks me if I think its a date. OMG. I told her absolutely not. I never had the heart to tell she reminded me of my mom and I had not the slightest interest in her at all that way. I just liked her personality. I thought it was funny later on.…
/r/seduction06/11/14 03:45 AM
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Yeah I hear you. I took a break myself. Just now trying to meet people. I think now its easier to meet women due to online dating services and what not. Just a little nit pick. Using paragraphs will help make this a lot easier to read. Good luck and remember to be safe out there.
/r/seduction04/11/14 06:28 PM
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Nice. Approaches can be tough. No doubt. Keep up the good work.
/r/seduction02/11/14 04:49 AM
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Just a few quick things. Try doing things by yourself. Example would be going to a movie theater by yourself. Before you go write down what you think will happen and then rate it after you go. You can do this with other activities as well..it helps to build confidence. Also Read Books and try out what they recommend. Here is the book that gave me a ton of tips and led me to many a date. How To attract people to you or the other book that people recommend is How to Win Friends and Influence Peopl…
/r/seduction01/11/14 09:05 PM
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What about going to her place?
/r/seduction30/10/14 07:44 PM
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This is true. I have had great success with going to bars during the weekday. Funny because I was thinking about getting in the game and going to bars during off nights such as Wed or Thursdays. I was also thinking about going to bar where drink specials are in effect on the weekday.
/r/seduction27/10/14 12:07 AM
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I was once with a women who was married. It didnt turn out the way I wanted. We did end up hooking up. Later on she thought she was pregnant with my kid. While I enjoyed the sex I started having anxiety problems after this. We ending up finally calling it off because she was never going to leave her husband and I got tired of just being her part time lover. Thats my whole story. Their is more to it but thats the short version. At the time I thought it was the right decision. Getting hooked up wi…
/r/seduction24/10/14 07:41 PM
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I feel like this could use more details. When you say checking you out are you talking about at bars or in public places like grocery stores or at a library? I also think your being to hard on yourself. I have known a ton of short guys who got plenty of women. I think it can help if your taller but it doesnt eliminate all hope. Also just a few other pointers. Dress nice, it will help you look better to women and make you look like you care. Be confident. Your already working out so that should h…
/r/seduction21/10/14 07:14 PM
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Eh dont let it throw you. I was a late bloomer myself. For me a lot of things changed very rapidly. Things I did to help out my game. I read up on how to attract people to me. I made friends with a ladies man, meaning he got laid on a regular basis with different chicks. I listened to his advice. I also think you kind of need to change your way of thinking. You should be thinking why not me? Personally I would go with Plenty Of Fish.com to try and line up dates. Mostly because its free and for m…
/r/seduction20/10/14 04:58 AM
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Yeah he was bummed about it and he did blame himself afterwards. Not sure what ended up happening with those 2 girls. She was probably better off my friend was a player and wasn't really a one women guy.
/r/seduction05/10/14 09:07 PM
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For a first date. I have to admit I am usually not very aggressive on a first date. Not that I have not scored on a first date because I have. However I use it as a feeling out method. Usually the second date I will get more flirty and suggestive. Its funny because the women I am with usually make the first move on me now that I think about it. Go figure.
/r/seduction04/10/14 08:31 PM
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I was the wingman for this kind of thing. My buddy went on a date with this girl and she had to bring a friend along so he brought me with him. The girl was hot but just not my type. He ended up sleeping with the friend she had brought! Crazy but true. The friend said something like I need sex right now and my friend said Ok right in front of his date and took her into his bedroom. We had been drinking. I was left with his date and it was awkward. I felt bad for her. He did get a second date wit…
/r/seduction04/10/14 03:15 AM
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Look you sound like me 15 years ago. I had this exact same problem I didnt feel like I was good enough for her. You want to know what happened after I passed on my chance? She met someone else got hooked on drugs (by the boyfriend) and later I got friend zoned out. That has been my one regret in life to this day. Now I am not gonna tell you it would have worked out for the best or she wouldnt have gotten hooked on drugs. So what I am telling you is your the better man. you be the man for her. Th…
/r/seduction30/08/14 03:15 AM
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I was a very late bloomer myself. I never drank alcohol and didnt socialize much with others. I was 25 when all that changed however you shouldnt feel low because I have been there. I was living at home at 25 and had a job. However the thing I was missing was being comfortable with myself. Try this first go to a theater and see a movie. Before you go write down what you think will happen to you. When you see the movie write down what actually happened. The result may surprise you. Also try smili…
/r/seduction24/05/14 05:01 AM
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Maybe her laughing to much is her way of getting your attention. However if its a group maybe your just a funny guy?
/r/seduction02/02/14 06:51 PM
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I read this as Stuck instead of suck and I had to read this a bunch of times to understand what it means.
/r/seduction30/01/14 08:05 PM
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I agree with the socialize part. Look like your having fun and people will be drawn towards you.
/r/seduction28/12/13 06:53 PM
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I think it takes some people longer then others. I read one book about 15years ago and it changed my life in how I interacted with people. The book is called Intimate Connections by David D. Burns. Now some of it is a little out of date however the basic principles are still the same. I still think most of the advice in the book is still solid.
/r/seduction23/09/13 08:40 PM
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I agree. "You've gotta learn to like yourself. Nay, love yourself". While I agree with most of the post I have to say I slightly disagree about Diet and exercise. Most guys can get away with being a little heavy and a lot of women wont mind. Just my personal experience, however if your trying to get a ton of dates then yeah being fit and muscular helps.
/r/seduction22/09/13 04:31 PM
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My first was very late in life. I was in my 20's, I explained it after we did it that she was my first. However I was awful at my first time and we never had a serious relationship. However I did run into her about a year later and I was a lot better at it by then. Booya. Her words not mine. So that made me feel better about it. I think if 2 people are into each other it should not matter. Let nature take over.
/r/seduction11/09/13 06:02 PM
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I will agree that the best way to handle things. Keep it civil, no one can bat a perfect game all the time. I will say that women can and do change their opinion on men a lot so who knows she may ask you out eventually. However till then just play it cool.
/r/seduction05/09/13 02:39 PM
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A little secret here I got bizzy at age of 24 so dont beat yourself down for it. I was a late bloomer and didnt really kiss anyone till 24. I have had a lot more one night stands and a few girlfriends after 24. The thing I learned is be happy with yourself first. Try doing things by yourself and rate how you think it would turn out and then after doing it rate it again and see how it goes. Movie theater comes to mind. You can also try to join groups such as pool tournaments, dart contests, etc,e…
/r/seduction14/08/13 03:11 AM
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I would say this is somewhat true. I used to know a guy who would go out alone and score or get dates. However its not easy. I dont know about insults, however it does make it a lot harder if your alone. I have scored when I was by myself. Just because your alone doesnt mean that you cant score just makes it tougher.
/r/seduction27/04/13 09:45 PM
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/r/seduction09/03/13 02:03 AM
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I think maybe what you need is a wing man who is successful getting into social situations. I had a friend who was a master at the game of getting laid. The wing man could help with the pitch so to speak. I think finding the wing man may be tough however any buddy who is comfortable around women could help you out.
/r/seduction23/02/13 09:02 PM
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