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OP claimed that. Not me. I’m arguing OPs stance, not TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:40 PM
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Well yeah. Ofcourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:11 PM
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When you describe the pills that way then that makes sense. I think that’s misleading though, because redpill is a lot more than focusing on looks, and bluepill is a lot more than compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:08 PM
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the trick to dating and relationships is to find someone who wants the same things as you for similar reasons Well yeah, but that doesn’t have much to do with strategies of pulling women and keeping them inna relationship. A women who wants similar things still won’t be attracted or will lose attraction for red pill/blue pill reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:05 PM
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And both are incorrect. The purple pill is the truth. Middle ground between red and blue pill is best for relationships & meeting/dating brand new people. Red pill claiming looks is all that matters is a joke. Blue pill claiming being nice matters most is also a joke. It all matters to an extent. Purple pill is the correct balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:59 PM
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Really why is 5’9 almost too tall for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:31 PM
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Interesting. I’m unsure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:31 AM
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Read the first post I linked. The guy can and has made women orgasm. Your citing only one of the posts. If a man and women are in a relationship it’s easy for the women to orgasm if he uses hands and other stuff. It’s going to happen. However this isn’t enough for most women. I would like you to show me some evidence that women are happy long term with orgasms even if their partner has a micropenis. I read a post the other day about this, if it was deleted that doesn’t change the fact it’s out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:00 AM
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Everything you say is void after you claimed women don’t want above average height or salary. Meaning you claim women prefer short broke guys. Your opinion is void.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:56 AM
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And your the guy that says women don’t prefer above average height or salary. GTFO my mentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:53 AM
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I read one the other day. So it’s true, and these are close enough. I’m not gonna look for these posts for you. Look yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:51 AM
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It’s a debate lmfao. You commented on every single one of my comments in the thread. Mods should ban you for taking a post personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:50 AM
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Lol 😂. Good thing you can get surgery bro. Maybe you will get over that little package one day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:47 AM
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They quite literally did though. And like I said most posts are deleted like the post I saw a few days ago which made me think of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:46 AM
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Lol. U are clearly offended in here. Don’t worry little guy, you can make up for your small dick with other methods :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:30 AM
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80% of posts like these get deleted within a couple days because of backlash. Here are a few I found in under a minute, however the better ones are always deleted. https://reddit.com/r/dating/s/S05Mhzzaqk https://reddit.com/r/dating/s/s9PXyxXUnP https://reddit.com/r/dating/s/IgW5ggzeVs https://reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/s/KihbXQaNKL https://reddit.com/r/dating_advice/s/oxJQuzFCR5
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:27 AM
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It’s a question and I am debating everyone’s responses for a healthy debate. I think the person that is hurt here is you. You’ve responded to like 12 of my comments in separate threads. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:14 AM
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Yes. Women on average prefer above average height & size. They also on average prefer above average salary. What else is shocking to you? Is this forbidden knowledge? Maybe I’m wrong. Women on average prefer under average height, size, salary. Is that what you believe, little one?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:11 AM
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They are saying that. Step into reality. I’m proposing a scenario asking which they prefer of the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:08 AM
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Is it though? Why do women on average prefer 5-7 inches then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:01 AM
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Yeah, not caring about height and size is pretty out of the ordinary. She could be telling the truth but if she has a history of not answering questions that make her look bad then I wouldn’t believe her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:00 AM
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Lol. I’m asking women their preference. What the hell are you talking about being “pro-man”. Give me a break. Welcome to reality where height and penis matter to women. Shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:56 AM
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What’s with the personal attacks? Do you have a small penis or something? Lmao. This is a debate. If your gonna get salty you can go elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:45 AM
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I didn’t say a “man isn’t a man bc xyz” it’s actually women who feel that way, which is why I’m asking women. Maybe read the post next time. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:44 AM
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Kinda. I’m asking what they would choose given everything else equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:43 AM
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Again not sure where this is coming from. When did I say anything about online dating? You assume women that sleep with a 6’3 guy only sleep with 6’3 guys. They might prefer taller guys (probably do) but they have still slept with a 5’9 guy. They know the height difference and they know they prefer a 6’3 guy. However do the prefer it enough to stay with him if he has a micropenis?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:36 AM
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Who would you choose if the 5’9 guy is now your height, 5’7?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:33 AM
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Your contradicting your original comment and this comment does not relate to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:32 AM
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It’s not silly though. Women generally care about Height and dick size. For some height can be a dealbreaker and they will make sacrifices for dick size and vice versa. It’s not silly at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:30 AM
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In a perfect world… Many women care about height. A 5’3 women doesn’t want a 5’5 guy even though he’s taller when she’s in heels. Cmon man… do you really believe what you said?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:27 AM
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I don’t think a micropenis satisfies any normal women. If you are satisfied with it then I believe you. You are just the extreme minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:26 AM
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Could be made up drama forsure. But are they all made up? Why don’t we assume every dating post is made up? what is your argument against public interviews? Anonymous surveys? Mens experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:25 AM
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It’s a hypothetical scenario. It doesn’t matter who they date. I’m giving the options and asking which they would choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:24 AM
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You seem to be the only person here offended. Don’t respond to the thread incel shaming. I’m looking for a healthy debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:21 AM
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Yes it is. Your not understanding what I mean. There are countless posts on dating subs. A women is with the “perfect boyfriend”. Everything is perfect. He makes sure she has an orgasm everytime. At first she could put up with his 3 inch dick because she was still having an orgasm and really liked the guy. However over time she craves a normal size dick. Craves it enough to leave the perfect boyfriend, because she just isn’t turned on sexually long term by a micro penis. It’s not her fault. It’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:19 AM
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I’m speaking in a relationship sense. The 6’3 guy will probably get laid anyway. But is 3 inches enough to keep the women happy long term? Does his height and body make up for this long term? I’m assuming both men can sleep with the girl. Because being 5’9 and skinny is no excuse to not get laid. Once the women has experienced both, who does she pick long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:17 AM
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Below technical average is 5 inches. 3 inches is a major difference. Which is why I’m wondering if women would sacrifice height for a non “detrimental” penis. Many women care about height, and I’m surprised it doesn’t matter to you being 5’7.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:15 AM
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I agree. This is true. However many women also enjoy an average or above average penis much more than under average. Orgasm aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:12 AM
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How? LOL. You can’t be serious right? Asking if women prefer larger penis’s or better height/body is on the same level as incel forums? Is that supposed to be some sort of adhom attack at me? I’m surprised you say this post goes “far beyond” incel forums. have you ever been on r/inceltears ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:11 AM
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? When did I say it does?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:08 AM
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How tall are you? Also, you are with the belief that size does matter to an extent? Many women here are already claiming it does not matter, however that contradicts real life evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:08 AM
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Have you ever had a man with 3 inches though? That is crossing into micropenis territory. You didn’t answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:06 AM
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Ridiculous? Or ugly truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:05 AM
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I love that you are quick to defend 3 inch dicks, but please, keep it honest… we are all anonymous here. Countless personal experiences, talking to female friends, watching public interviews, talking with other men, reading unlimited stories on the internet, is enough for me and everyone else to come to the conclusion that: A 3 inch penis is not large enough for the majority of women and the majority do not respect their man no matter what. I didn’t say men protect with their penis. Your clearly…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:01 AM
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Yea I agree. I would never be in that situation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:38 PM
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You make the friendzone sound not too bad in this scenario, when in fact it’s much worse. Other levels of friendzone can be not bad at all. Other scenarios, it’s not a massive deal. However this scenario is the worst one. He has feelings. He gets shutdown, he continues to have feelings and decides to become her friend just to spend time with her because he likes her so much. She knows this but plays dumb because she loves this attention and has someone that follows orders on command. He has to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:34 PM
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The people who I am applying to train build your bridges. Good for them. I don’t trust them personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:57 AM
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Well they cheated and left. More power to them. And yeah you give me the vibes that your crazy like those girls. Just ur vibe 🫡. You said escort consent depends on the amount they charge. You have a low iq view on this. No offence to you personally, I’m sure your a nice girl but your argument is standing on air… it makes no sense. What type of stuff do you engineer? I don’t trust engineers at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:47 AM
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Your comments on this thread. Didn’t say you deserve to be cheated on, just gave condolences to your future partner
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:40 AM
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Was never planned to happened. It just happened haha. They were unstable before, but your clearly the same as them. Condolences to your future bf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:29 AM
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The fact that I’ve heard hours of phone calls between those crazy chicks and my friends. Not gonna get into it but those girls were crazy, manipulative, abusive, the list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:21 AM
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Their GFs deserved it but you wouldn’t understand, because GFs are always perfect right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:18 AM
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Then why did they tell me they’ve charged guys $100,$200,$500? They wanted to hangout. Go on a boat party at night and offered to sleep with me for $30 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:07 AM
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Check my other comment. They don’t charge everyone $30. I got that price because they found me attractive and wanted to sleep with me. Other guys will have to pay 5x,10x for the same girls because the girls don’t want to do it. These women make great money compared to working at a restaurant or other normal jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:05 AM
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News flash: those escorts will do it with or without me. Attacking my moral compass because I did it is laughable. Maybe you should attack the girls moral compass if it’s that large of an issue to you? Guess what: they don’t charge everyone $30. Some guys will pay 5x, 10x for the same girls. They charge based on appearance (crazy right) so when someone who is attractive wants to do it they give a price next to nothing because they also want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:04 AM
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if the escort is barley surviving on $30 which isn’t true, that’s on her and has nothing to do with consent. That’s just HER price. In her economy. And what disease risk are you talking about? Protection was used and everyone including the girls were very careful about protection at all levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:58 AM
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Dude just date normally here and go to Mexico couple times a year and get some for $20-$60. Stop wasting your money $400 for sex. Unless they are extremely attractive and you have money to burn. But I would only ever spend $400 on an escort unless my time was worth more than $400/hr.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:55 AM
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Yes it’s indeed funny. It’s funny you think the difference between consent with an escort is the amount of money she charges. What a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:50 AM
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They aren’t depending upon that money for bare survival 😂. That’s just their price. I’ve clearly won this argument. Thank you. You have nothing to combat my points. You have lost and you say “goodbye” as your dying words in the argument. LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:48 AM
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You don’t need 20 dates to know if you wanna have sex. Your entitled and your using the guy. If you take things slow then make that clear early. Don’t string the guy along and let him pay for you on multiple dates and then don’t have sex after 3-5 dates because “that’s not how relationships work”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:46 AM
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Thank you. Someone who isn’t entitled and delusional. If a women makes it clear she takes things slow, I have no issue paying for dates anyway. I won’t spend a lot but I don’t have any issue with that. It’s the girls who never make it clear they take things slow. Show signs that they obviously have gave it up before very fast for others. And never even offer to pay for anything on dates, and THEN don’t want to have sex after multiple dates. That is entitlement and I’m glad you agree with me and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:44 AM
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Which part isn’t consensual? They offer a service and I accept it. In another comment you said “I have no issue with girls charging $5k an hour” You are DELUSIONAL So let me get this straight. If I pay a girl $30 to smash it’s non consensual. But if I pay a girl $5k to smash all of the sudden it is consensual. I’m sorry, but do YOU know what consensual means? It seems that you just can’t wrap your head around the fact that I’m getting a good deal in Mexico, instead of beta buxxing away and wasti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:41 AM
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Is it my fault? The Mexican hookers I got on the boat told me their price. $30 was their price. Is it my fault that they charged that? Was anything non consensual about that, when in fact it’s their job? I think your just salty hearing the fact that beautiful women will have sex with me for $30 in Mexico. I’ve never paid for it anywhere other than Mexico and never will. Like I said I actively date and don’t really have issues dating or pulling women like OP does. If most guys got the opportunity…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:39 AM
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Your reaching here buddy. He wants sex on the spot so he pays. To each their own. I have had relationships and actively date, but I still have paid strippers while on vacation during some wild nights, and it was a crazy good time I’ll never forget. Consensual escorts are pricey? Lmao your looking in the wrong spot. I’ve gotten 5 escorts on a boat in Mexico at night for $30 each. All beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:31 AM
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Forreal. How is it entitlement if a man expects sex after taking a women on multiple dates, spending any amount of money on her, & she never once said she isn’t comfortable with sex? Why is she coming to a 2nd, 3rd date if she won’t give it up? What am i? A wallet for her? A joker to give her a good time? Atleast jokers at the circus get paid FFS. It’s not entitlement. The women is the entitled one in this situation, thinking she deserves to be taken out and treated well without giving up sex AN…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:59 AM
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Dating apps are garbage. Even for “successful” guys on the app, they are never really successful. For 75% of the guys on the app it’s completely useless and can be demoralizing. For the other 20% of guys on the app they have “success” in getting matches but most if not all of time the women are purely using it for validation. It’s a complete waste of time. For the final 5% or less of guys I would say it is not a waste of time. So if your not the top 2,3,4% of guys in attractiveness then it’s ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:52 AM
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What are you talking about? What fetish? Lol. Ad hom attack in a debate. And 50-75% I believe would do it for 10k. Marriage probably not as many.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:07 AM
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75% of girls that have never cheated would cheat for 10k.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:00 AM
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His time is worth more than the money he spends paying for it vs time spent without paying. It’s pathetic to you because you can’t fathom your time being that valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:59 AM
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I don’t hate it. How do you feel that these women are also in committed LTR or marriage and are cheating on their man for this “easy money”?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:58 AM
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He does it with celebs in committed relationships. Doubt most of them are sex workers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:54 AM
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You realize he isn’t paying “hoes” right? Hoes are the girls that come home from the club with me that just met me when I have nothing to offer them other than sex. He says in the video he strictly does this with women who have serious relationships. Wether it be boyfriend or husband, they are in committed relationships. Why does he do that? He realizes that women in serious relationships are better than single girls, because clearly the one in the relationship has stuff to offer vs the single g…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:52 AM
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Real.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:51 AM
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Responded wrong comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:49 AM
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What relationships? He doesn’t want a relationship at all. He wants sex on the spot with otherwise impossible women to sleep with on the spot for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:45 AM
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For the right price of course. Many already do it for free. $8k Infront of them with no repercussions? Why would they decline that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:43 AM
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He didn’t say he does it everytime. He can get free sex anytime anyday with normal girls. He said he does this with girls that have a lot of followers & have boyfriends. Something you can’t do without paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:40 AM
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Lol you seem upset about it. Comparing it to being gay. That makes no sense. Are you jealous? How is paying a celebrity that’s married to sleep with you comparable to being gay? Your argument makes no sense at all. He doesn’t want to settle down and date one girl right now. Why would he? Again argument makes no sense. I don’t even fully agree with what he is doing but atleast come with some logic when you debate it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:33 AM
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Really? The ones in serious committed relationships or marriage like he says in the video are prostitutes? Have some common sense. He does this with girls in LTR because they are the ones that ARENT hoes. He doesn’t want the groupie hoes, they aren’t worth any money. The girl that’s been in a relationship for 4 years has value to offer clearly that’s why the man is keeping her around. She definitely isn’t a prostitute like you claim they all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:30 AM
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You realize he isn’t paying “hoes” right? Hoes are the girls that come home from the club with me that just met me when I have nothing to offer them other than sex. He says in the video he strictly does this with women who have serious relationships. Wether it be boyfriend or husband, they are in committed relationships. Why does he do that? He realizes that women in serious relationships are better than single girls, because clearly the one in the relationship has stuff to offer vs the single g…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:26 AM
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How is he paying for them to pretend they like him? He’s paying for sex, no strings attached. If you watch the video he explicitly says he doesn’t want the girl to get attached or like him. That’s why he mainly does it with women who have boyfriends or husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:22 AM
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What a dumb argument. Your way off track
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:19 AM
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Changing sexual orientation is different. I would have sex with an obese grandma for $10k anyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:21 AM
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They are models and celebrities. They don’t work part time. They don’t work. He’s just exposing the reality that everyone has a price, wether that’s something you can’t wrap your head around is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:18 AM
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Every woman would do it for the right price. So would every man. So everyone is a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:16 AM
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Everyone has a price
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:11 AM
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He’s sleeping with married celebrities though. Isn’t that a bit different?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:09 AM
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He does have groupies. Celebrity women that have a man aren’t going to sleep with someone for free obviously. Sure he can have free sex anytime he wants, but it won’t be with models and celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:08 AM
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These girls aren’t prostitutes at all though… they are celebrities and IG models and most of them have a man. He makes it very clear he isn’t messing with prozzies. He offers normal attractive girls money to get what he wants right away. Everyone has a price man. U don’t need to be a prostitute to accept money for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:06 AM
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How do you know she wants you for you when your famous and rich? How do you know sleeping with celebrities and IG models that have husbands is exhausting? You’ve never done it. Which part is exhausting in your mind? He is literally doing everting to NOT make it exhausting. He pays, gets sex, and that’s it. You know what’s exhausting? Texting all day, going out on dates, waiting till she’s “ready”. He clearly doesn’t want to settle down. So he doesn’t want one girl. He wants the rush of sleeping …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:04 AM
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What about height
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:57 AM
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You cannot read. And apparently if someone is going on dates they aren’t allowed to be in PPD? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:44 PM
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Sure going out with friends is better but I barley even stay with my friends once I’m at a bar/club. On Saturday we went to a club and we instantly lost eachother and kept seeing eachother for a few mins every 30 mins. I was hanging out with girls I was meeting the whole night lol and so were they. No friends isn’t the reason your scared of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:35 PM
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I don’t care about the Middle Ages. Are you Fr? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:24 PM
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Idc what you consider an appropriate place to have a conversation with a stranger. I will talk to a stranger anywhere if I feel like it. Sometimes it’s awkward and uncomfortable. Do I care? No. Me and my friends will go to a bar and approach dozens of girls. We smile and laugh about the ones that reject because it actually gives us more motivation to not get rejected by the next. Do we even remember the ones that rejected us? No. But we definitely remember the ones we brought home that night. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:24 PM
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No. Attractiveness is objective for the most part. Peoples “types” or “preferences” are subjective, but attractiveness is objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:04 PM
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Why do you infer the nerd is happier than me? Why do you infer I’m having trouble getting dates? Did you even read what I said? I only go on dates with 7+ and 7s are on the low end. These girls that are super attractive have tons and tons of high value options which is why I said OP is speaking the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:03 PM
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Lmao when did I say I’m having trouble? I only go on dates with 7-9/10s. Which is why I relate to OP, meaning these girls have lots of guys hitting them up so they are always looking at other options and going out with tons of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:02 PM
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The nerds wife is probably average looking. OP is definitely speaking about dating attractive girls 7/10+ and most likely on the younger side with the mention of social media/apps. OP is speaking the truth. And I can relate to him and vouch that it’s the truth. You know why that nerd got the average looking wife? Because she’s average or worse. No one wants her. So yeah you can play it differently when you have no competition. Compared to the 8/10 20 year old that has dates lined up constantly f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:01 PM
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OP speaking facts atleast for dating young attractive girls
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:56 PM
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50 year old 7/7 days. Would rather be celibate forever tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:59 AM
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Ok let’s bring up some guy that’s 0.01% of attractiveness. Like nah that doesn’t mean anything. We are speaking in general here and this applies to above average looking guys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:18 PM
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One of the smartest things that’s been posted here recently. Say it louder for the ppl in the back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:16 PM
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Spot on. Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:15 PM
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Women definitely do approach or give obvious clear signals especially in social settings. I’m approached multiple times everytime I go to a bar or club. And I see other girls approaching other dudes. Yeah most guys are never approached but it happens often to some.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:14 AM
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Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:53 AM
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“Learn” to get women can be social skills and game, which is almost as important as looks. Sure you can be born attractive but you still need to learn how to talk to people and how to pick girls up. That takes time and experience. But yeah if you aren’t there looks wise I agree it’s over for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:06 AM
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One is definitely in a monogamous relationship. They are probably getting married. The other one was definitely a side piece for a while and has been leaving / running back hoping for monogamy and maybe they are monogamous now but idk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:08 PM
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My parents questioned why I never had a LTR as a teen. They said I should easily have found someone by now for being myself. I had to explain that dating is different now with social media. They didn’t believe me. They compared me to my female cousins. “Both your cousins have boyfriends. Where’s your girlfriend?” Both my cousins are dating athletes that are verified on IG. (Before u could buy it) and have 50k-100k followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:17 PM
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I’ve seen “one of the boys” type of pick me girls. I’ve gone out with one before. What a disaster that was. The worst type of pick me. The other “pick me” girls are just normal girls that aren’t masculine. I don’t see them pride themselves in being super feminine, but you see other girls shame those girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:11 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s a bonus in general. Because stats show white girls still choose white guys on average. So for the niche amount of white girls that do desire black guys and give them a bonus it evens out with the stats. Ide say black and white guys are pretty even when girls are choosing, it all comes down to everything else. Unsure about other races though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:05 AM
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A lot of (white) girls don’t care about race. They care about everything else. So if your a top 10% guy then it doesn’t matter if your white or black, girls will want you. These people arguing with you pulling up stats doesn’t mean a whole imo. I see plenty of interracial couples and It’s not because of race it’s because of everything else. If you go into real life you will see it. Last night I was at a club and one of the best looking girls was in line with her boyfriend. He was black and she w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:24 AM
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No. There’s a lot of things that would stop most dating issues, this is no where on the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:43 PM
1

If someone wants to travel to date that’s fine I think the people against it are trolls. It’s like people arguing against travelling to go hiking or surfing or something. “You are exploiting those local beaches/mountains” “It’s immoral to travel to xyz mountain to hike, that should be left for locals only” These arguments make no sense lol. I’m damn well gonna travel wherever I want to hike the best mountains, and someone else can travel wherever he wants to have the best dating experience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:00 AM
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Another word for “we don’t have a real relationship”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:09 AM
3

Agreed. But quality of life also suffers when I waste time effort and energy without “low vibration antics” and don’t get what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:35 PM
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This doesn’t make a lot of sense. Of course you don’t believe in manipulating, but it works
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:29 PM
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This advice is a double sided sword. When I’ve acted like I know my worth and known what I want from the start, it hasn’t worked out great. Most the times I’ve been upfront and honest about my intentions of not wanting a serious relationship and telling the girl we have a “private relationship” or “temporary relationship” they get mad and some stop talking to me. They can handle the truth over text but when I say it drop dead serious to their face they get upset. So lying and manipulating is cle…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:26 PM
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Probably option one. Girls wanna live their best life in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:20 PM
12

A minority doesn’t change the fact that it’s a lot of people still
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:59 PM
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I get where your coming from but this really only applies to average+ to above average guys. There definitely are unlucky guys that are born super ugly, or autistic. And everything in the world has a bit of luck involved
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:48 PM
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Yes it is. Texting 5 people is easier than texting 500. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:13 AM
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Idk if you know how hinge works. It shows you who likes you for free. I don’t even swipe on the app, I just filter through the likes and around half I match with. Much better than tinder, except hinge makes you pay to see people near you… so that’s a major flaw because a lot of my matches are 30 mins to an hour away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:29 AM
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My female friends also say they use it when bored and rarely to never ever meet anyone on them. No I’m not really gonna focus on my matches, because hinge shows people that are up to 2 hours away. I’m not interested in driving more than 15 minutes to meet someone. All my matches are 30 mins to an hour away that I’ve asked so I don’t bother
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:27 AM
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Completely Disagree. I can totally see how they are overwhelmed. I have female friends who have thousands of likes/matches. They don’t answer most of them and I wouldn’t either. I started my hinge account a bit over a week ago and I have over 100 matches. I’ve probably sent 1 message to half of them and 2 messages to 1/4 of them. I’ve had a decent convo with maybe 10 of them, and 70% respond the same day. It’s alot to sift through and honestly the initial talking stage is boring af. When you bar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:20 AM
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when you are a Chad, personality doesn’t matter This is false. Unless your in the 0.1% of attractiveness, personality still matters. The top 5-10% guys looks wise still need personality as they are competing with eachother for the best looking girls
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:33 PM
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Realistically possibly yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:30 PM
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When did I say they don’t? When did I say it’s news?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:23 PM
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This isn’t even extremely masculine these days. Try: She 1. Almost only has friends that are guys. Has a guy best friend. 2. Has attitude, extremely sarcastic, talks like one of the “bros”. 3. Insanely argumentative. Disrespectful at times. 4. Broader shoulders then a lot of girls. 5. Non submissive, annoying to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:56 PM
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It’s not in his head. Why deny the truth? Avg and hot guys have 2 completely different experiences going out with the same girl. The average guy gets toyed with, the girl gives mixed signals, she doesn’t feel the need to win him over. The hot guy has a COMPLETELY different experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:46 PM
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Claiming to be a PUA is cringe. Just talk to people. Be normal. The comments saying “taking to strangers is antisocial behaviour” are chronically online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:42 PM
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Depends the age imo. Guys under 30 it’s easily 85%. Under 40 probably 50%. And above that the number keeps dropping.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:54 AM
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If she’s super hot and they knew they could get away with it forever, probably 85% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:52 AM
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Lmao sounds like your just low iq and hating on successful people. Don’t hate one someone for running a successful business, just because you could never grasp it. Don’t hate on someone for owning real estate and profiting, just because you could never grasp it. Don’t hate on someone for making money in financial markets, just because you could never grasp it. Sorry some people are born smarter than others, it’s clear your not smart enough to do any of the former and that’s completely fine. Some…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:49 AM
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So your indirectly tricking. The argument that money doesn’t help is money doesn’t help when you don’t spend a cent on the women. You taking them on a yacht, buying stuff, paying for expensive dinners, is no different then offering them cash for sex. They want your money anyway. It’s not like they are hookers. Your offering normal girls money for sex that otherwise don’t do it, giving them cash is just the shortcut instead of wasting time and energy going shopping and on fancy dinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:19 AM
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I mean yeah, skip the planning anything and skip letting the guy talk more, and he still woulda committed. For the rest of the points, they seem like basic normal simple things guys want. It’s crazy these days it’s abnormal for a women to let the guy know she’s into him or give him head. This isn’t a “pick me” at all. This is literally just being kinda normal in a world of fuckery.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:23 AM
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lying can be good sometimes. If my girlfriend is pregnant and asks me how she looks today, I’m gonna say she looks good. I’m lying, but in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:02 AM
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You can’t seem to read a subreddit description before you post, so I commented twice in case you can’t read comments either. no hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:50 AM
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This isn’t a politics sub. It’s a dating sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:46 AM
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Has nothing to do with dating and men/women dynamics. r/lostredditors
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:44 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:42 AM
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Status is overpowered. Youtubers, athletes, rappers, it’s too easy for them. Girls throw themselves at them. It’s true, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:26 AM
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Irl leads to something better when it’s successful . Online is easier but outcome is worse. For example meet a girl irl and she’s into you, it will lead to something better Vs Matching on an app, and then going on date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:22 PM
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Factual. Based. This is the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:35 PM
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Pay for it. Go to Mexico tomorrow and pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:06 PM
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Mad? Someone had to wait every time he had sex. Sorry to break it to you bro but you don’t turn women on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:09 PM
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Yup. If both parties really want to do it the first time meeting the sexual and physical chemistry is crazy, which leads to bomb sex. The best sex I’ve had has usually been the times where it’s on the same night we met. Of course there are exceptions like me sleeping with a girl way under my league the first time meeting because I’m bored… the sex is trash for me because I’m not really into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:45 PM
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Your right. It’s mostly due to circumstance and context. Here are two random recent experiences: The girl who I met on vacation that slept with me right away, would definitely make me wait if I met her in a coffee shop normally. The girl on tinder who didn’t initiate anything right away, would probably try and sleep with me instantly if we met at a college party. However even with non ideal circumstances/context, women will still want to sleep with the man right away if she’s SUPER into him. Con…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:18 PM
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She knows if she’s truly interested after a few times of being with them. I never said the first date or first time meeting. As crazy as it sounds, the faster a girl wants to sleep with me, the more I respect I her. I also never bring it up or ask, I wait for them to make it obvious or flat out say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:27 AM
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Body count matters for women once it’s big numbers like 30+ imo. Sure girls shouldn’t have ONS with someone they just met every week, but after getting to know someone and vetting that they are a good person, they shouldn’t hold out sex if they are attracted to them. If a long term relationship doesn’t happen cool, but it should atleast be a situationship for a good amount of time, meaning their body count shouldn’t go up too much over the years if this repeats. Personally I will never seriously…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:17 AM
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All depends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:05 AM
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woman wanting to sleep with but not date them. Yeah men are way more blindsided by this, women see the opposite coming. I wish more women were like this tbh. Normalize men and women sleeping together without needing any relationship. When I’m seeing a girl and after a few times of chilling she isn’t actively trying to sleep with me, or she brings up the fact she wants a “real deal” relationship, this makes me know that she was never super into me, she just wants to use me and hold sex like it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:31 AM
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🤡💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:10 PM
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Yeah I meant who cares if you lie. Trust me never admit your a virgin it’s a deadly turnoff. Never admit no matter what. Never. Lose weight and get out there and get it done. Put some time into looks maxxing for 6-12 months and I believe you can do it. Don’t give up and put some effort in
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:22 PM
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I would never admit it. So keep lying. Who cares? But the real question is why are you still a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:58 PM
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Your coping hard in here. Replying to everything with an excuse and cope. Stop making excuses and get it done. Stop playing the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:34 AM
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Agreed. Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:06 PM
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I slightly agree. There are lots of outliers but it isn’t that crazy of a theory. For people arguing some don’t like tongue in general, it can be replaced with intimate grinding, moaning, aggressiveness etc. First kiss shows a lot. This theory is based.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:57 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:43 PM
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They realized they don’t have any valid opinions on dating when they’ve never dated before. All they have is a victim mindset. “Dating is xyz”… how would you know? You’ve never dated. “Sex is xyz”… how would you know? Youve never had it. “Girls are xyz”… how would you know? You’ve never had any.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:07 PM
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They are. Tons of them are. A lot of younger women don’t even care about money bro. They want someone their attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:37 PM
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I have struggled. But I still managed to get dates here and there and get laid here and there. I put myself out there and it’s definitely doable for lots of average looking guys, you guys just have 0 game and 0 charisma. You don’t know how to talk to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:33 PM
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Are these from dating apps? It’s actually pretty common for this to happen with online dating. Especially attractive younger girls. They have so many options that they are quickly looking to move to the next if anything isn’t perfect. What you just described is my exact experience with these apps. Some did lead to hookups but nothing goes the distance. Meeting someone in person is completely different. Even if the girl is just as attractive and has just as many options, meeting them in person ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:31 PM
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Get the option. Put yourself out there. Get it done.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:24 PM
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Exactly. When your young, dumb, and broke, you will learn everything you need to know for once your successful. Not only how to not be seen as a lick, but how to correctly date girls. I’m young, I’ve gone on countless dates and dated countless women, and I’ve made TONS of mistakes. This is needed or you will get hustled once your successful with no experience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:27 PM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:54 PM
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Depends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:54 PM
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Yup. Women need to be doing a bit of chasing or trying atleast. That’s how a relationship will succeed. If the guy is too easy / clingy / desperate it’s over. But most people don’t understand it. Fine for me… more for me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:19 PM
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They only respect the guys that they chase
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:15 PM
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Crazy people are crazy. Doesn’t have much to do with how attractive they are. I know 5/10 girls that are crazy and lame af. I know 9/10 girls that are mentally stable and have shit going on for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:07 AM
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You’ve never had better than a 6. You would get on your knees for a 9. Humble yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:01 AM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:53 PM
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I could agree with the first part. But women still have more quality options, young ones atleast, on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:53 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:29 PM
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Is that why everyone in this thread is disagreeing with you and saying social proof is very real in every aspect of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:23 PM
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They come hangout and talk to me. They approach me / my friends if attractive women came with me. Why the hell would they try to fight the girls im with? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:22 PM
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We have different definitions or attractive women then. Or your just larping. Social proof is real. Especially within dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:21 PM
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I agree to disagree then. In my personal experience young attractive women are quick to dip if they sense red flags. They don’t care about communicating or working on it, on to the next. I don’t think younger women are easier to manipulate. Women with less past partners are easier to “manipulate”. A girl can be 27 and only had 3 partners, she would be easy to be around. Another girl can be 19 with 35 past partners, it’s gonna be a lot harder to be around her or “manipulate her”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:20 PM
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I live in reality. When I show up with attractive women other women flock. When I show up without attractive women it’s not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:14 PM
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Exactly my point. When people are younger they aren’t looking for positives right away like you described. When they mature and get older things change, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:12 PM
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young, attractive women are greedy, delusional and have bad attitudes Yes. I do think that. I don’t mind it, it’s just the truth. I would be the same. Who wouldn’t? They have hundreds of guys texting them everyday, constant attention and validation…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:10 PM
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Social proof is massive. Your take is wrong. If I show up to the club alone or with a few other guys, it will be harder to get women. If I show up with a group of 4 attractive women, other girls will flock toward me. It’s social proof and it’s a very real concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:07 PM
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Your friends are married. They are probably over 30. It’s different these days with attractive women under 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:59 PM
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it’s male privilege to ignore red flags, it’s about survival for women. What? That makes no sense. Your being extreme. Men ignore red flags such as women talking to a bunch of guys, women having guy best friends, women cheating on their ex’s, women being annoying, disagreeable, boring… the list goes on. They ignore all of this just because she’s attractive. It’s not male privilege to ignore these things, women have the privilege of not ignoring them because they have so many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:58 PM
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Exactly. I have a group of close friends. I also have a best friend that has deep talks with me. We talk about everything, and go very deep. We have a great intimate friendship, we’ve known eachother all our life’s. This doesn’t change the fact we want women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:54 PM
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That’s true but doesn’t have anything to do with my point. I have the opposite of a victim complex. I work hard, and have a ton of worth accomplishments for my age. This is not about women not finding the guy attractive. We are past that. This about them leaving the guy for the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:51 PM
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How old are you? 30+ forsure. This is for young attractive women these days. Big difference then older women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:49 PM
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I don’t need to be in a serious LTR to have a relationship. I can have chill causal relationships because I like having women around me. I enjoy their company, I enjoy being wanted, being desired. I enjoy not being touch starved. Your a girl so it’s not gonna be easy to relate to me. If I don’t have tons of options right now, what’s wrong with settling for a women I don’t like a whole lot just to have one around me? I didn’t say it’s gonna be a super serious LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:48 PM
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My sample size is not 10. Lol. I said I slept with 10 women in one year. My sample size is close to thousands. I’ve been in early stages / talking stages with countless women. I’ve kissed close to 100 women. I’ve seen my friends go through many relationships. This sample size is now around 1000. I’ll admit it’s only for younger women (under 25) but it’s still a valid sample size to make what i say true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:46 PM
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No. They aren’t seeing the potential. I will rephrase to “what I could have”. They are constantly comparing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:42 PM
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I’ve had sex over 100 times in a year, with over 10 different women. I’ve also had sex 0 times in a year. Never been touched for a whole year… After being on both sides of this, I’m taking what I can get as long as she’s not fat. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:46 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:36 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:36 PM
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You didn’t listen to what I said, you just came to argue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:35 PM
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I’m 19. I’ve dated 10 different girls atleast, some lasted longer than others. A lot of my friends have been in relationships. Nothing to do with getting older.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:35 PM
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Yeah guys cling to the first chick that tolerates them, but that doesn’t mean they necessarily come off desperate. They can have no options but not be super clingy with the women that tolerates them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:33 PM
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This makes sense. Unfortunately most men will never live like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:30 PM
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Not seeing the potential. It’s wishing they were different… “grass is greener”, xyz guy is better with a certain thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:27 PM
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Yeah, and those girls find a reason to dip
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:26 PM
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Nothing to do with that. I’ve seen it with my gf’s, my friends gf’s. Lack of options isn’t what this is about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:25 PM
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If you have only been on 3 dates ghosting is totally reasonable. I disagree. That’s wack. Ghosting on the first date is fine, but 2-4? Nah… Also manipulating women is impossible… Your kidding right? Anyone can be manipulated. Sure some women are harder than others, but someone who is good at manipulating can easily do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:05 AM
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Facts, if you have the money who cares? I’m not rich and I’m young, I’ve paid a few baddies in Mexico and it was a great time lol. I’ve had 10x more pussy from real connections but I still enjoy the times I paid. If I was rich af, why not pay women to get what I want right away? I don’t wanna be the “texter” the “time waster” etc. If I was rich af how would I know if women weren’t using me for money anyway? Obviously they would be put into my lifestyle and getting money one way or another wether…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:16 PM
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So what’s the best way of getting it? Being straight up at the start? Yeah right lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:52 AM
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By attractive I mean 5.5+ anything above average… which is alot. And young is anyone that actively uses social media. So the number is a lot higher than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:45 AM
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This is all young attractive women. They don’t need much time to be entertaining options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:33 AM
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Be a man and try and talk to women and say: “all I want is sex” Good luck. Leading women on for it is the only way to get it. Women lead men on all the time. They are talking to 10 guys at once and are serious about 5 guys at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:47 PM
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True. Just dating apps made things worse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:39 PM
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Blocking with no warning is completely insane. Even ignoring conversations and answering every few days is a form of ghosting, but blocking with no explanation is super messed up… can’t see how people can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:01 PM
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That’s not flaky. Especially after a date happened and they are acting completely different than before the date? That’s ghosting if they won’t even engage in conversation with you anymore. Flaky means they are still talking but make excuses or cancel plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:59 PM
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Agreed. I think social media / dating apps has been 1000x more damaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:56 PM
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Exactly. Ide even say that If someone texts the other after a date and the other person acts completely different, basically ignoring for days, one word responses and eventually no responses is also ghosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:52 PM
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I think it’s even. But a girl ghosting before sex vs guy ghosting/ghosted before sex, puts the guy at a larger disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:48 PM
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This is true. I agree with you. I think the reason people could see it’s worse for women after sex vs men before sex is because once a man has had sex with her, he has accomplished what he initially wanted when he first ever texted her. For her she’s the dumb one that got ghosted after giving the man what he wanted. After sex is had, for the first time since the initial text, the man is no longer chasing. The women is now chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:04 PM
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Agreed. But she’s also not wrong… as a man I’ve only ever ghosted them after sex, and only been ghosted before sex. But why is one worse than the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:56 PM
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Maybe a one sentence message saying “I didn’t feel a great connection” or anything at all, other than leaving the other person wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:53 PM
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Who says hooking up can’t lead to more though? Unless it’s explicitly mentioned beforehand that someone or both are only interested in a hookup, how does one know that’s all it’s going to be? For example two people hookup on the first date, it wasn’t ever mention before that someone was only looking for a one night hookup. After the date let’s say the girl wants another date, and the guy ghosts her. Is this morally fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:52 PM
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What about dating apps that turn into dates with or without hookups. Do you think ghosting is acceptable after a date? Let’s say two people are showing high interest in eachother for a week online, FaceTime, calling, etc. after the first date let’s say they madeout but didn’t have sex or even had sex, should it be okay for one person to never talk to the other again with no reason given? This is common these days, but is it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:44 PM
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No. Short term option still counts as an option. A guy hitting her up wanting sex is an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:50 AM
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She’s already talking to him, and when she spots a flaw in you, all that comes to mind is the other guy(s). This applies for any semi attractive women. 5.5+/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:45 AM
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100% truth. People these days hate to admit it. Imo this really applies to younger people and people using dating apps/social media. The reason these are two polar opposites is rooted from the options each has. Men have less to no options. Women have more to unlimited options. This means men are always forgiving negative traits to keep what they can get around. Women are looking at the cracks or issues in the positive traits comparing them to the vast amount of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:28 AM
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Even then, money/mysterious is not enough to set you apart atleast for casual dating. As bad as it sounds, I think slight manipulation/how well you can use your words/how good your game is in person is the ultimate thing that will set you apart. If you are 7-8 range with money and a mysterious aspect, you can still say/do the wrong thing and she will lose attraction. However if your 7-8 range without that money/mysterious aspect, if you know exactly what to say and how to get her hooked to you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:50 PM
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True, I guess your advice is good for a 3-4 man attempting to date looksmatch/average. But once you get into 6-7-8 level man that is going for looksmatch it gets a lot more difficult due to the options she has.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:16 PM
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This is bad overused advice. Atleast for getting above average/ attractive women. Having a good wardrobe is bare minimum in society, anyone can get great looking clothes for cheap, so women are just used to that. Being funny and smart? Thats just bare minimum again… remember average guys are competing with way higher status guys for women that are slightly above average… you need many more qualities, like A+ social skills, great charisma, and something that makes you stand out from all the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:09 PM
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These days attractive women have unlimited options. Wether those are short term or long term options, they are still options. Your point about social skills is facts. A women with unlimited options can be the most dry/shy person, and the man has to say everything right in the early stages or else she will drift to another option after losing any attraction. This only applies to decently attractive girls, but to even have a chance with them you need to be close to the engineer type of guy your de…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:51 PM
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