badgergrahame Archive

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7	FR: Wife accused me of something I didn't do, how to hold frame in those cases?		badgergrahame	/r/askMRP	29/12/16 05:34 AM

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1	FR: Wife accused me of something I didn't do, how to hold frame in those cases? Huh, well that's encouraging. We've been at sex ~2x/Mo for years now, and there have been about 3 times that she hasn't starfished. My level of initiation has gone down as a result, and I hadn't really thought about initiating that night. Ignore the DEERing. In hindsight, inviting her to bed when she said she was lonely is stupidly obvious; I'll do that next time. Thanks.	/r/askMRP	29/12/16 07:24 PM
1	I've decided to go mute.. In saying that, giving her the silent treatment is showing her that you're butt hurt, instead of showing her that you dont give a fuck. This right here is exactly what's going on. I understand, I made the same mistake myself a number of times before it clicked. Her hamstering is not, "Oh no! my man is giving me the silent treatment, I'd better be more submissive, or else he might leave me!" Rather, it's, "Well, I don't feel safe with this beta who doesn't have the balls to handle my mood swings,…	/r/askMRP	05/12/16 11:31 AM