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You have oneitis for a girl who visits only when she wants to.
/r/askMRP03/07/25 02:56 PM
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No. "I've always pictured myself with TWO girls with bigger tits."
/r/askMRP02/07/25 01:47 PM
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I have just one question: "Can you tell us where the covert contract is in what you wrote, please?"
/r/askMRP03/06/25 02:18 PM
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I have just one question: "Can you tell us where the covert contract is in what you wrote, please?"
/r/askMRP03/06/25 02:18 PM
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You were having sex but she was dry AND she didn't want to stop.... so at this point you pull out, and give her some amazing oral. Your saliva will compensate for the dryness until she gets going. You will look massively competent and in-charge. Don't ask her, just do it [unless you're hitting a hard consent boundary of course]. But importantly don't have a discussion/debate like "would you like me to go down on you?"
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/25 02:11 PM
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100% agree.
/r/askMRP03/06/25 11:10 AM
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I'd suggest that you are in HER frame sexually. You value HER giving/allowing monkey-sex as 10/10 - higher than you value everything else. See who holds the power there? You treat all the rest as a giant covert contract for that sex. Go have raw monkey sex with some other hot girls for 4 wks and you'll soon understand what I'm getting at. EDIT: I'll come fuck your wife during 10-out-of-10 week and I bet I'd rate it only as a 6. You should evaluate it the same way.
/r/askMRP03/06/25 11:09 AM
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I just ended a 9yr relationship - slowly over the last few years I've been learning how to think and act like a man who understands all this redpill stuff. And I started filtering my thoughts and actions in the relationship through that lens. Eventually, it became obvious to me that, that I didn't hold my own frame, that I didn't have a clear plan for myself, that I was validation-chasing and that I didn't have an abundance mindset. So I kept trying and doing and evaluating and trying again and …
/r/askMRP03/06/25 11:04 AM
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You have massive covert contracts and she feels zero dread - she knows what she's doing and she knows that you can't do anything about it. You constantly signal to her that she has power - stop doing that.
/r/askMRP21/01/25 09:37 AM
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If it spontaneously came from her mouth then it may be an indication she's responding to the new vibe he's laying down. The hamster has started it's engine?
/r/askMRP18/01/25 02:01 PM
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Abundance can be achieved by swapping cash for sex. You don't mention any sex so I'm guessing it's been zero times for you? My advice: start swapping cash for sex and you'll discover the root of your abundance problem goes away. You can then start to build an abundance mindset that will transform how you view sex - and you'll then project that into your relationships. I'd also guess that your LDRs are full of covert contracts.... "if I build this talking up with this girl then one day she'll suc…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/25 10:43 PM
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She is totally taking the piss. You are completely allowing her to take the piss.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 09:53 AM
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If she behaves like this once, it's unfortunate or accidental; twice is a mistake. Three times is a choice. Step back, do your own thing. You wouldn't spend time petting your dog if it was yapping and snarling at you. You'd send it out to the yard to cool off. Can you explicitly state your boundaries in this situation?
/r/askMRP14/01/25 11:49 PM
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You are looking at the guys in the porn as a benchmark - you're then looking for validation that you are equal or better than them. You look for that validation by whether you can make your wife make you feel how you imagine THEY feel. Knowing this, who's frame do you think you are in? [Hint: it's not yours, and it's not your wife's]
/r/askMRP15/12/24 08:58 AM
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I know a guy who's wife of 20+ yrs was banging the guy who regularly delivered chicken feed to her parent's farm; the story however STARTED with "he's banging my sister" (which he was) and he's also had her mother... no-one will ever know the true order of events but one thing is sure: women are attracted to guys that other women are attracted to.
/r/askMRP15/12/24 08:51 AM
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Whether it's good or bad is not the issue. Whilst ever your mind is asking that then you are in HER frame. Time to get in YOUR frame. She's in someone else's. You know the actions required. Don't wait for us wankers to validate it (don't be in OUR frame....)
/r/askMRP14/12/24 11:09 PM
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Reminder to us all: textual-intercourse is also non-obligatory 😉
/r/askMRP02/12/24 03:07 PM
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Only when you ask the question solely of yourself have you truly reached the end.
/r/askMRP02/12/24 03:06 PM
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The social consequences are in your head; you have an overblown worry about how she perceives you. Women use your fear of social consequences to manipulate you... that what she's doing here.
/r/askMRP29/11/24 02:57 PM
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You're trying to manipulate her response to make her stop behaving a certain way. You can't control anyone else's behaviour. Stop trying.
/r/askMRP29/11/24 02:31 PM
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You failed the shit-test. The evidence of failure is that you allowed yourself to take the bait. What will you do next time to not fail the same test? "...tried to be kind and compassionate to her..." - you say you read NMMRNG.... I think you need to re-read it.
/r/askMRP28/11/24 03:13 PM
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One-itis. She doesn't need to be on stage because you already have her on a pedestal. You also think she is way hotter than you. You are lifting, right? Does she think you are a top-class catch? If not, then that is your problem. And that is an intractable problem.
/r/askMRP17/10/24 08:51 AM
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Because: In THEORY the practice and the theory are the same. But in PRACTICE they are not.
/r/askMRP06/10/24 09:50 PM
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Your statement is only true IF you choose to not OWN the narrative - IF you divorce her this is exactly what you need to do: 1 - tell her SHE crossed the line, and the consequence is you are separating. 2 - tell family and friends AS SOON as you've told her that she told you she is IN LOVE with another guy AND she refuses to NOT stay away from him. 3 - do NOT get drawn into psychological warfare, tit-for-tat, he-said-she-said OR any other talk-based nonsense* 4 - REPEAT the above CONSTANTLY.** 5…
/r/askMRP27/07/24 02:11 PM
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You definitely have "1-itis" because of the way you talk about her 10/10 score - so spend some time thinking about what you do, because you have her up on that pedestal, that you know you should not be doing?
/r/askMRP15/07/24 09:32 AM
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BPD - I guess you mean Borderline Personality Disorder? This is a red flag - she's approaching the wall and wants a provider. You are the target.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/24 03:17 PM
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You already know the answer to this question.
/r/askMRP20/06/24 03:15 PM
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You need to just get comfortable saying no.
/r/askMRP11/06/24 12:26 PM
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You think you were "red pill"... until you actually had to act red-pilled...whereupon what happened?
/r/askMRP22/11/23 12:56 PM
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Jonah is suffering from one-itis. That's at the root of this.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 08:42 PM
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The stay-plan is the same as the go-plan.
/r/askMRP21/06/23 03:14 PM
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Never forget: the business model of most online content is outrage-clicks. You get outraged, you view, THEY get paid. You get outraged, you share with your friend, he views, THEY get paid. Media companies and their algorithms constantly try to work out what outrages you the most. You help them do that by sharing and clicking.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/23 02:43 PM
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Think you should reflect on what actions you are doing that prove you are still in her frame. I'd start with the angry sex humiliating her.... if you didn't care you wouldn't be getting off on making her feel that way. You definitely still care about getting one over on her. Hence you're in her frame still. Put your dick away and get your brain out.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/23 12:43 PM
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The whe thing is a shit-test. Your friends are shit-testing you to see if you hold your frame or succumb to peer pressure. The female friends are testing if you are beta or alpha. Resist and you'll find they all want you 😉
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 09:26 AM
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Indeed it is. Life is hard but you get to choose which "hard" you want. Being alone is hard but being in a relationship is hard. You choose. Being poor is hard (worry about your next meal, insurmountable bills, closed opportunities) but being rich is also hard (time sacrifice, pressure to perform, the specific demands of a job that pays well, lack of time with family). Choose which hard you want.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 10:18 AM
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Go out and walk, take a bus, ask a friend for a lift or take a taxi. Don't worry about doing these EVERY time. You need to do it at least once. (And we don't want to hear excuses as to why the bus doesn't go near your house or why the taxi is too expensive or you have no friends nearby.) Kepe that up for 2 weeks. Report back here every week and let us know how it's going. Simple. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/22 06:42 AM
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Dude. The bad news is you're nowhere near being Red Pilled. The good news is that anger is the 2nd stage of the grief cycle. You got yourself through the 1st stage, Denial. You now have the other 3 stages to go through: Bargaining (if I do THIS THING they will do THIS OTHER THING), Depression (I don't even care about THEM any more) Acceptance (I understand THEY are different, for a reason, and I accept that for what it is without trying to change it. I accept what I MUST DO differently to deal w…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/22 12:41 PM
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It's the old adage: you can't talk(think) your way out of something you acted your way into. You became beta, whether by action or in-action (which is still action) so to become alpha you need to act. You need to BE. You need to DO. Do or do not; there is no "try".
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 09:56 AM
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AWALT - should come as no surprise to regular readers of this blog or anyone who has spent more than a day in a relationship that not only will they use shaming tactics ("you are creep") but will also apply double standards when it suits. Telling you that your friend is creepy was a kind of shit-test-by-proxy - and probably a shit-test aimed at you - to see how alpha you are by how you respond.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/22 02:25 PM
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We're just annoyed at being taken in by a lie - because to be convinced by a lie really means we lied to ourselves. This is the basis of growth though: get-it-wrong -> try-again -> repeat
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 10:27 AM
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