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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	My mom has my dad worked and now she's dangling divorce over his head One thing that I agree with redpill whole heartedly is own your shit. That means you take charge of your own life and happiness, and you definitely get your own shit in order before trying to instruct others. You're 28. You're not in a LTR and you don't have a job with a living wage. You obviously have mommy issues. Take care of your own shit before even attempting to judge/"help" anyone else. Your life is a wreck but you have the power to make it better. Focus on that.	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/02/16 05:43 PM
1	My mom has my dad worked and now she's dangling divorce over his head Maybe you should focus on getting the hell out of their house. The fact that their nearly 30 year old "child" is suddenly inserted back into their lives is probably stressing their marriage. Stop worrying about your parents and get a damn job already. You gone from their business will probably help more than anything else will.	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/02/16 08:36 PM
2	What do you wish you knew before your divorce? He'd most likely lose custody of the kids that way.	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/02/16 12:55 AM
2	Was Referred Here - Sidebar Read And Wanted Some Recommendation You met a 22 year old who followed you because she had no direction. Now you have a 24 year old that is starting to think like an adult woman. That means that if you want her to follow then you need to actually lead. She's putting less stock in you being older and wants a real captain. Also, wtf kind of relationship has sex fall off after 2 years? You mentioned kinks and said she now associates sex with pain. Did you take the bdsm too far and hurt her? Because that paragraph is screaming at me. …	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/16 02:50 PM
7	Edging the Main Event Poster said that he wants his marriage to work with wife as first officer. For that to work, she's going to need something in it for her. I am assuming that she isn't a troll or a total brain dead idiot, so he's going to need to be providing something for her. I agree he doesn't NEED her. But he wants her. So if he wants to keep her he needs to provide something for comfort and not just be an asshole to be an asshole. I checked out this subreddit bc a buddy of mine in a crap marriage asked what …	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/01/16 08:18 PM
4	Edging the Main Event Guy says he still loves his life and wants his marriage to work. That says to me that he shouldn't torch it by being a douche. He wants more sex, he needs his wife to be more into him. Getting comments from her friends about how fit he is getting, seeing other women react to him in a new way = good hamstering. Wanting to work to keep him. Seeing him suddenly without his ring for no given reason, dressing nicer, and flat out telling her that it isn't his job to provide her with pleasure = hamster…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/01/16 06:32 PM
21	Edging the Main Event The not wearing of the ring is high level dread. I think you might be pushing too much too fast.	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/01/16 09:27 PM

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