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Okay, I’m going to base this off the fact that I 1) quickly skimmed through your post and 2) someone just idiotically recommended you to watch “Scarface”. Sir, you have infinite value as a human being. Don’t let anybody tell you you don’t. Second, EDIT: scrolling back up to finish reading your post—you have to take care of yourself. Stop looking for validation from other people and recognize that you are a luminous fucking being, not some crude matter. I’m serious. What you don’t see in yourself…
/r/askTRP11/11/19 10:39 AM
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Either way, but out through the mouth helps with circular breathing, don't know if it affects gas exchange but for meditation and mindfulness training it's in through the nose, out through the mouth
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:13 AM
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People don't realize that diaphragmatic breathing is not only is better for regulating your sympathetic nervous system and calms you down, but also helps you drop your vocal chords to something more natural. So yes, what other people are saying is correct, breathing deeply from your diaphragm through your nose, and out through your mouth
/r/askTRP19/10/19 07:40 PM
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Dude stop overthinking it, you’re traumatized. It’s okay, she understands, you feel guilty for almost killing a human life on accident. You’re a good person, relax. You are going through a process, focus on yourself and give yourself time to heal. If you’re concerned about “losing frame” then forget it, it’s already happened. What I’m saying is that if your woman is supporting you emotionally she sounds like a good person, too, which is probably why you feel so guilty. Go easy on yourself, picki…
/r/askTRP04/10/19 05:46 PM
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I am very familiar with that "alpha female" stereotype in the cubicle farm/business environment, but in hospitals I think most people are so hardened and zero tolerance for bullshit that either they don't have time for drama and antics or just project it onto the bureaucracy, which is at least my experience. I haven't worked registered, only around and as a student, however I've had years of in-hospital experience so I'm intimately familiar with how health care professionals interact, and I can …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 10:20 PM
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It's very variable in the US, some states have very relaxed non-union regulations and makes it difficult to prevent under-staffing, other places like California have some of the strictest and therefore best conditions for nurses, one of the reasons everybody wants to work there
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 10:18 PM
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Nursing is a great opportunity for this. Guys who become nurses are benefited by flexible work schedules, fantastic starting pay and increases + management positions, AND you are SURROUNDED by beautiful women as working in a female-dominated field. I won’t be only doing nursing, but as my “day job”, it’s definitely the best decision I ever made for myself in terms of looking for maximum maneuverability
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 02:58 PM
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This. As someone who's recently found himself and his life's mission but also is in current treatment and therapy for PTSD and anxiety, I can say for a fact that this quote They don't realize that by letting go and simply feeling, they can break the cycle. Is 100% accurate. Emotions are meant to be felt, stoicism is good but some things are meant to be emotionally expressed like grief and sadness. Repressed emotions that come out later in life are at least way better than allowing it to eat at y…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 01:56 PM
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I haven't thought of it like this before, I guess the place where I tend to fall into conflict with TRP is when it comes to raising children, it seems like TRP doesn't have an opinion on it as much as I would have hoped, and so I keep coming up short because the decline of committed monogamy means that raising a family becomes harder, but not sex, that's where I am still struggling with answering the question of family and child-rearing. I shouldn't be concerned about it, I'm 24, but I come from…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 09:38 PM
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Maybe that's because you're dating superficial sloots that don't care about people EDIT: or maybe you're right and I just don't have enough experience, I don't know
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 02:10 PM
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I think everybody has a conscience, it isn't a bad thing. Sex is an intimate act and we are social creatures, so that intimacy coupled with our desire for connection makes things like ONSs bad for our social psyche, I firmly believe that. I have really struggled with this way of thinking because I am inherently not that guy, I always looking for deep connections with people before I would consider something like sex. It isn't beta behavior, it's human behavior, and what I don't think TRP handles…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:43 AM
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God you're right about cancel culture, it's too dangerous not to just abandon certain parts of the game even while playing it just to avoid the crazies, it's even worse when you accidentally get sucked into an abusive relationship, but I guess we all learn the hard way or through TRP
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:33 AM
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What are the dangers of fucking on the first date besides obvious STIs, I only got close to an ONS once and I stopped because I was in a bad place at the time. I guess girls could falsely accuse you of rape, in that case just have documentation that it was consensual? I feel like at that point it's just better to bed girls that would be STR/LTR/marriage material anyway, not criticizing anyone just posing a few curiosities
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:30 AM
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Maybe my favorite composer is Debussy and I listen to Hancock and the greats like Davis and Duke Ellington, my Reddit history is nothing more than a place to find role models that I didn't get in life, if you're going to judge me based on that then whatever, RatM is good for people who didn't get that in childhood, just because I'm catching up doesn't make me a lost cause, I'm still young and just got my life back
/r/askTRP16/09/19 01:36 AM
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The ironic gestures of a wine snob
/r/askTRP16/09/19 01:22 AM
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I am familiar with Rodney King, and I am a classically trained musician, so before you start shoving your musical dick in my face maybe reconsider the fact that people have different tastes, and that repetition and simplicity do not equal a reduction in subtext significance.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 01:17 AM
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Your criticism is bad, most popular music has repetitive lyrics, and if you are actually asking that song is about the proliferation of white supremacy in modern politics, specifically that in the West
/r/askTRP16/09/19 12:47 AM
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Rage Against the Machine is pretty straight red-pillled but it goes beyond sexual dynamics, they are the de facto anti-establishment band in my eyes, see “Fuck you, I won’t do what you tell me!”
/r/askTRP15/09/19 11:43 PM
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I was domestically abused physically and psychologically for years as a teenager and I entered a relationship with a pwuBPD as a result. I developed horrible codependent strategies in order to keep myself afloat during this time as I was always focused on my academics, and I never had the chance to take care of myself until I started getting flashbacks of my previous trauma in nursing school
/r/askTRP15/09/19 08:40 PM
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I like posts like these, I’m 24 and figured my life out but it’s helpful to see what other people recommend and typify as best practices
/r/askTRP15/09/19 04:55 AM
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That’s what our SMV is, and I’ve been told that your 20s are investment time and I’ve found that to be true. Do you think you have a better social/sex life in your late 20s or is it just a matter of quantity rather than quality? Is it both?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 05:40 PM
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I would guess the only reason for settling down is to raise a family, but most people see that as a risky move. I still want a family personally but I don’t see how following the crowd on this one is going to make anyone or anything better. I understand and fully accept the reality, when all is said and done. I guess it will take a giant wave of single and barren women in their 50s to change this all around
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 05:38 PM
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I absolutely have a journal in which I write absolutely anything and everything that comes to mind. It really is a part of my routine, along with the meditation and mindfulness and all that. I do think it's good for men to have an outlet to where their energies are placed, I have mine and other guys have theirs. In fact it's necessary, we have to figure out what he have to do and then do it, simple as that
/r/askTRP11/09/19 09:56 PM
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I don't like this post because it tells me what I want to hear. I like it because it's true. Most people are doing way better than they think they are, and one thing men aren't told often enough is that AS human beings, we need self-love just as much as anybody else. TRP likes to focus on the physical but we are luminous fucking beings with a core that nobody can take away from us. I wish anybody that stumbles into TRP looking for answers to understand they have infinite value as a human being, …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 09:30 PM
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I don't subscribe to the falsity that men don't have and aren't emotional beings, we may not prioritize but we do have feelings. The difference I've found is that your goal is prioritized, and so that is what defines you and so you focus on that rather than your emotions. I also should clarify what I meant by "venting", primarily because I have been diagnosed with PTSD and anxiety recently and my interpretation of venting has been more of a protective mechanism against anxiety-based reactions. I…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 09:20 PM
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No u
/r/askTRP11/09/19 09:15 PM
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I like this, thanks man
/r/askTRP11/09/19 09:12 PM
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Since when did we start shaming people for investing in us? Do you want people to see your value or not?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 09:45 PM
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This comment was originally removed due to reference to another affiliated subreddit, but I re-posted it for posterity. It’s like this post was for meeee. In all seriousness, I just posted about Monk Mode in another subreddit and I almost completely agree with this, except for one thing and it’s a nitpick. I think people need to start rethinking what they mean by self-improvement and that they actually mean self-actualization. You have all the information you could ever need, monk mode just give…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 09:44 PM
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Thank you, I really like this approach to monk mode. In all honesty I don't believe I'll be truly out until I've moved and am in a new city, and I am completely okay with that. This is investment time for me, everything is about me right now, and it's so that my investments have the maximum ROI in the future. I know that relationships with women right now is a waste of my time, though I really want to get back into that world. In that case, it looks like I will have been in monk mode for 2 years…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 01:00 PM
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Honestly? I almost lost everything. Shortly after starting an abusive relationship with a pwuBPD (person with undiagnosed Borderline Personality Disorder) I got kicked out of nursing school, lost a job a month after, and watched my expwuBPD move to NYC and subsequently discard me while talking to someone else, meanwhile my entire life was in perpetual chaos. I was downtown with friends and her doppleganger pulled me out of a crowd in a club and took me home, but I didn't have sex with her becaus…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:21 PM
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Lmao I kind of am, especially because my last (and first) relationship almost killed me. I just don't want to get distracted, but I know it's way better than wasting my sexual energies on porn, thanks for the help I might give that girl at the gym another pass. I really am surrounded by very attractive women at all times being in a college town and being in nursing school
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:39 AM
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First off, I don't want to make you cry lol And your business is your business, but if you're okay with me digging deeper into this a little bit with you, feel free to PM me and we can discuss it in private. In the meantime, I think you have a hard time saying good-bye to people because you never gave yourself the closure of saying good-bye to your father. You were very young and still pre-puberty, and so the life lessons a father or father figure are supposed to give you probably weren't there.…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:33 AM
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Happy cake day! And yeah I'm pretty high SMV for my age and most recently got flirted on by an HB7 at the gym so I'm good there, it's just priorities at the moment I'm 100% focused on the future
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:13 AM
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Same boat, but I'm finishing university and have a customer-focused job so I get plenty of face time and social interaction. However, I feel after the nth IOI you get it starts to feel like you're dropping grapes
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:11 AM
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Well first off it's good that you have convictions against acting rude, it shows you have good moral character which is part of being a good man. Second, I think you should acknowledge and accept that you feel this way, and that it's okay to feel this way. However, I don't think it disqualifies you from being strong and confident all the way to the end of the conversation. For example, let's assume two people are entering a conversation. Let's call them Person A and Person B. Since your problem …
/r/askTRP07/09/19 12:31 AM
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Nut up and don’t be such a fucking pussy faggot /s No but seriously, what part of exiting the conversation is bothering you? Is it the anticipatory anxiety or the anxiety caused from being at the end of the conversation and not knowing how to proceed?
/r/askTRP06/09/19 10:48 PM
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Aren't animals prone to rape and other amoral behavioral tendencies for the purpose of reproduction? What happens to the people who can't mate due to the alphas scaring them off? I guess I tend to fight for the weaker and dispossessed but what I'm saying is that because TRP is amoral and operates on an amoral framework, it doesn't take into account those are crossed off the genetic list. In other words, there are many life experiences that are nullified by TRP, some who would benefit or even cha…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:57 AM
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brifaults law Oh shit you're right. Okay so in this case I have a question. What the fuck happens when, and this is a hypothetical question, most if not all men are weak and or unfit to meet the impossible standards of women? I am aware of the 80/20 rule, but can the pendulum swing that drastically in the other direction?
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:46 AM
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I just tend to focus on the good in people, not just purely the animalistic hindbrain tendencies of human beings. I know that's what TRP focuses on, but it definitely challenges my moral compass, even though I accept and agree with it. It's not harder than just paying attention, agreeing to reality is merely just acknowledging observation. But I know human beings have evolved beyond tribalism, but that is an individual decision I suppose, not to be enforced by religious structure or sociocultura…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:42 AM
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While I am only 24 I know that things tend to balance themselves out, and very quickly this will snap back into place, but it will ricochet in the other direction. Cat ladies, single "career" women in their 40+ with no children, people forget that people used to work because they had to. Most PEOPLE don't have careers, they have jobs. And the fact that all this instability affects everyone means that survival instincts will take into affect and those who would overreach are going to either feel …
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:39 AM
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I know exactly what you're talking about now, and that is the problem isn't it. It seems like the only way to have offspring and not get divorce-raped is to have either a symbolic marriage with no ties to the state, OR to have a state-sanctioned marriage but keeping assets separate, which still sounds like a noose agreement. Fuck man, this sucks lol Maybe this is freeing, knowledge is power, I just need to process this, I want to have kids someday, I know this isn't my priority at the moment. I …
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:32 AM
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You could also have a marriage ceremony without signing with the state, if it comes down to that. That isn't a bad idea, I have also read on here and in other places that there are certain marriage agreements that do keep assets separate and independent. Now how effective a strategy that is I don't know the facts, but I think at the very least the symbolic gesture is nice. And this is where I get called a pussy for wanting a wife, I know it's TRP on hard mode, but I think it's a very interesting…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:26 AM
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I'm really trying to understand your analogy
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:18 AM
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Thanks for your response, I think I know I'm stirring the hornets nest but trying to do so to actually change and evolve my perspective on the matter. I know the current marriage statistics are abysmal, and the legal realities indicate that marriage for men is mostly, if not exclusively, a liability from all aspects. I know that my desire to raise a family conflicts with and is risking assets, and that the best way to keep my leverage is to avoid tying myself to a contract weighted against me, e…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:15 AM
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Well, first off, marriage is just super skewed in favor of the highest earner in the relationship, which is usually the male. Perhaps that is actually the reality of marriage, that it is at its core a means of financial security between an institution of two people for the sake of resource management and appropriating those funds for children. I think redefining marriage for love is a much more sophisticated conversation, but I know TRP is way more focused on maximizing male potential in the cur…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:06 AM
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I honestly have a much different understanding of TRP's stance on marriage now that you describe it as neutral. I guess that the ambiguity of my question came with my ignorance to TRP's true position on marriage. I have been following TRP for almost two years, but I think it's taken a while for me to truly decondition from the position that marriage is the only way to raise a family. I have perused the RPChristians and askRPC subs as per your input, but yeah without the religious structure it's …
/r/askTRP06/09/19 03:42 AM
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Is there a way for people to evolve so that provision is not the debilitating factor it is for men? At least in the 1st-world, most people nowadays are self-reliant and thus can and do date to find someone they would enjoy spending their life with. I know the laws do not reflect that, and I understand that is why marriage is seen as a noose to red-pilled men. I just find it extremely hard and conflicting with my desire to raise a family, and that's why I continually ask TRP about this question, …
/r/askTRP06/09/19 01:30 AM
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I think I got to the core of my curiosity in my response to u/VasiliyZaitzev. Also, I didn't mean to get defensive, but if I want to know and nobody cares, how am I supposed to know? That's why I keep questioning TRP about things so I can understand the perspective, I am challenging it because I want to know why TRP and its subscribers do certain things that may conflict with my point of view. It's why people say to read the sidebar, but I would also like to ask the people who have put it into p…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 01:19 AM
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I think I got to the core of my curiosity in my response to u/VasiliyZaitzev
/r/askTRP06/09/19 01:14 AM
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So the end goal is to have offspring without marriage, and that happens. I know this, maybe I need to restructure my understanding of what it means to leave a legacy. I know partners have families, one of my goals is to have a family due to the broken family I was raised in. I would like to leave a legacy behind, but more importantly I would like a family. Maybe it is my way of satisfying my social needs, but is that so bad? To want something that wasn't granted to you in childhood? I understand…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 01:07 AM
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I grew up Baptist so I can attest to this, but I think there's more to it than that. Some religious girls are absolute freaks, and some were actually raised on good morals and so tend to be more selective than others who weren't
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:33 AM
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As in religious people and marriage, or using religion as a supplementation for marriage?
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:21 AM
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I am very aware about how the world works, instead of assuming how about you ask me what I've been through before judging me through a subreddit. If you want to fuck married women, who am I to stop you. But don't assume you know who you're talking to before you begin to judge me based on who I am as a human being
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:20 AM
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Why are we acting as if everybody is the same and isn't capable of doing better? What if rationality and logic have their limits? What if there's something to us that's better than pure statistics? What if we're part of the problem?
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:06 AM
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What haven't I read from the sidebar that is going to change my decision about marriage? I seriously want to have a discussion about this, everybody just gives the exact same answer here as if we can't be better as people. Yes, human beings are tribal by nature, sexual dynamics will operate on the basis of human nature, but why can't we be better than that?
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:03 AM
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50% of marriages don't end in divorce, why are we so focused on the negative instead of focusing on the positive and successes
/r/askTRP05/09/19 11:30 PM
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I see marriage as to have children, and LTRs to result in marriage to have children. I want kids, always have. For that you need a partner that is marriage material, I don’t see how being the father figure I never got is blue-pulled, sure it’s beta but providing is just as sexy to some women as having a hot body. I guess it all depends on the person and what your goals are, I didn’t have a stable family growing up so I want to make that a reality for my kids. Also I would definitely not marry so…
/r/askTRP03/09/19 04:37 PM
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I completely agree, and yes in terms of communicating emotions, I really do see the lack of responsibility of emotional response to be the key to "turning off" women. I never thought of it like that before, great fucking insight EDIT: I would like to add that the vice versa is also true and should be the focus, which is to confirm self-assuredness in the face of challenges and obstacles in your mission
/r/askTRP03/09/19 05:16 AM
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I think most people, especially those who are new to TRP, don't understand the "women don't know what they want" thing and see it as misogynistic. I have interpreted as "women don't know what they want until they've seen it", which is more along the lines of what TRP actually teaches, which is that in terms of provisional and social status, men who are of higher value will be under the radar of a lot more women, and I mean A LOT more women. For men, that goes a different way, most men just want …
/r/askTRP03/09/19 05:06 AM
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To add to this, don't go where most people go. Ie if you're Puerto Rican and go to New York, every other fucking rat-raced fuck is a PR Latino (can confirm, am Puerto-Rican-Cuban but I look nothing like a traditional Hispanic and more universally white than anything else). Now, go to the South or somewhere out of reach like LA and you will be a fucking magnet. Exotic = leverage, use it
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 05:54 AM
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You're right, my apologies if I got it mixed up, I'm in nursing school but haven't done my pathophysiology in a while lol
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 03:36 AM
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Glucose does turn into fat, insulin resistance doesn't mean your body stops producing insulin, but it does mean your pancreas' beta cells grow tired and stop producing ENOUGH insulin, which means the liver sends that excess glucose into the fat cells. This is the beginning of insulin resistance, prediabetes, and diabetes. I agree with what you said, but I think you misunderstood me. Insulin resistance does relate to higher body fat, not weight loss
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 07:53 PM
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It's not though. Insulin resistance doesn't mean you can't transport glucose into any cell, if that were the case people would die from hyperglycemia. My dad has Type II diabetes, insulin resistance refers to your body's inability to readily use glucose for energy. That glucose DOES in fact become adipose tissue, it isn't just about calories in vs calories out. You have the macronutrients--proteins, carbs, and fats--and they are not created equal, you can't say that for people with diabetes, it …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 06:53 PM
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/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 04:32 PM
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What dsgk said, those miserable fucks probably hate themselves anyway, any self-loving person wouldn’t treat you like shit. Try keto if you struggle with losing weight, you may have insulin resistance like I do. Buy yourself some nice clothes and then realize you need to buy new clothes because you’re shrinking lmao
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 04:25 PM
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Been wondering if MMA is worth it, but I would probably kill at kickboxing since I've done leg sports (soccer, martial arts, etc.) most of my childhood. It wasn't until college when I focused on lifting, but aside from the punching bag in my university gym I don't know how to get in, most MMA gyms are fucking expensive from the places I looked into.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:25 AM
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I really hesitate to tell you that you don't need validation right now, you deserve to have peace and love. Community, people need connection, and right now it sounds like you're looking for that. I would ask if you had any friends or family who could help you through this time? Just to get you back on your feet? I may be projecting here but it does sound like you are trying to reach out and find a support system, and there's nothing wrong with that. Take advantage of this time to focus on yours…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 07:21 PM
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That almost happened to me, thankfully what I can only attribute to as divine intervention stopped me from almost ruining my life. I didn't have a strong male role model growing up so I had things like TRP, the Greek stoics, JBP (yes JBP), and other successful figures teach and coach me on how to conduct myself accordingly. It's been years since my childhood but I am currently working to complete closure with my past, it's been a long road but I've feeling gotten to a point where I am no longer …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 04:57 AM
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I think it's always a temptation to fall into those things, but an amount of steadfast self-control, and an eye on the prize is always a means of establishing your capacity to rise above. Let the masses eat their own tail, I'll be over here drinking tequila from a bikini girl's navel EDIT: a few words
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 04:22 AM
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Whisper in her ear "Hail Hydro"
/r/askTRP24/08/19 04:01 AM
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If that's your goal in life who am I to stop you. It isn't my job to tell you how to live your life, only that there's something better if you want it. Who's to say you can't do drugs, fuck hoes and play video games but also have a net worth of $3 million? It's way easier than you think it is
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 03:44 AM
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Really puts the whole "enjoy the journey" thing into perspective, I couldn't believe it when I came to that realization
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 11:44 PM
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Humans are incredibly adaptable and will find ways to make things objects of desire and dopaminergic activation in ways that you wouldn't expect. For example, when I was doing keto full-time because I have insulin resistance and wanted to get down to single digits (didn't hit it but I am currently returning to that regimen and got into the best shape of my life), I craved salty and fatty foods as opposed to sugar. That dopamine kick occurred when I ate something like a piece of steak or fatty ch…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 11:43 PM
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In a word? Fulfillment. Happiness and positive emotions and peak experiences and all that. I think of TRP as the individualist perspective from the male-centric viewpoint. It's why WE focus on things like getting to the gym, "Mission 1st", etc., because that's OUR cross to bear. Women have a very different perspective, they have to maximize their sexual capacity before they hit the "wall", or whatever point their sexual availability wears out and then they get the scraps. They know they're on a …
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 09:04 PM
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I think the real lesson is that most people are deliberately self-interested and won't sacrifice their individuality and will always be looking for the next branch to swing to. Men do this, too, I really get the whole "hypergamy is real" thing, but today that bridge is getting smaller and smaller as most people can just fend for themselves and have their own independent lives. Most TRP guys will probably downvote this but I believe the real goal of TRP is to become the strongest individual you c…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 05:34 PM
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I can attest to this, definitely a great way to loosen up and learn how to communicate, pick up on signals, lead confidently, etc. I recommend salsa and bachata, bachata is easier for people who have less experience dancing
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 03:39 AM
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I'm going to have to agree with you and graciously disagree with people claiming him and anybody else who adheres or at least admires JBP to be "cucks". So far I haven't seen or watched, read ANYTHING that indicates JBP's teachings go against TRP philosophy. The only bluepilled thing about him is he married his childhood friend, which I get it casts his entire life in a bluepilled light, but he's pretty red-pilled from an epistemological standpoint. He accepts and readily dictates sexual marketp…
/r/askTRP11/08/19 05:01 AM
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Really don't know why guys have sex with ugly women, I guess I just hate the idea of using people for "practice" but hey, ugly girls need loving too
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:14 AM
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Thank you for this, a lot of people would benefit from condensed material like this, it gets straight to the point. Sometimes I feel like I'm 30 based on all the life experiences I've had, and while I don't 100% with everything said on this subreddit, occasional things like this stick out to me. Find your dream, people. Find your life mission, make it your priority, make the right sacrifices, and pursue forward bravely. Watch people make their mistakes around you and learn from them. Know you ha…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/19 04:07 PM
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she's never going to be yours...it's just your turn. Please stop with this myopic viewpoint of Red Pill, it isn't true. Your goal as a man is to become the best version of yourself so when the right person comes along, she will be able to align herself with YOUR mission, and so she will be YOURS. That is, of course, if you want to have a family, something that's so ridiculously unpopular in this day and age it's insane, it's like people forget where they come from. Stop it, it's a defeatist mant…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/19 08:19 PM
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The real lesson is in the comments
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 06:09 PM
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Are people seriously saying this shit is okay Checks comments section Jesus fucking Christ.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:21 PM
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Dude, first, get off Tinder. Waste of your time. Second, yes there is some more egalitarianism in the SMP, but otherwise you're still playing the same game your ancestors were, except now you have the chance to become Superman, so people have no excuse but to become the best version of themselves. Just focus on yourself and find the people you want to have a good time with, and who you want to spend the rest of your life with. If you build it, they will come.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:25 AM
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Get out.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:56 PM
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I love this post so much. I agree with a lot of people in this sub and TRP. Not always, but there is enough overlap in every man's life where we can agree on certain talking points, and then the individual natures of our lives will color and the flavor the context of our individual situations. We must understand one thing, as men. Our lives determine the lives of others. Ultimately, we are the ones who have to take charge and dominate our destiny. It is dependent on US to determine the future. I…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 08:47 PM
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Dude, TRP saved my life, I come from a really bad history of domestic abuse and learned recently even my parents' marriage is built on sand, you will find the right girl OP, just know your value and don't settle for crotch-grabbing whoooores
/r/askTRP04/03/19 07:32 AM
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I find that by telling the truth, your tonal voice reverberates in such a way that you are more naturally attuned to, so your voice naturally lowers because you don't have to lie and that brings your pitch right up to your face. I know it sounds crazy, but I've tested it out, and Mark Twain was right, "Tell the truth and you don't have to remember anything." But that also has the added benefit of allowing your speech to be flowing and accurate, to your credit this list is fantastic, and I would …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 05:44 AM
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You do realize there are crazy people who disregard boundaries period, right? Some people are just abusive no matter how "alpha" you are
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 08:35 PM
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This is exactly what I needed to read right now, thank you
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 08:38 PM
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Yup, and there's always a way to regain respect/frame, it just depends on the context of the relationship and the two parties involved
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 09:27 PM
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It gets replaced by your ability to handle them, as well as the ability to create more lasting and better habits. You might also want to do some reflecting as to why you have this urge to degenerate, it's a natural tendency but there is an origin and it's okay to have those feelings.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:59 PM
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Do things that equally entice your serotonergic pathways, it increases your sense of dominance. Also, focus on good dopamines like exercise and eating healthy, watch productive YouTube videos like lectures. Dopamine helps orient yourself to rewarding activities, make those things that have a compounding interest.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:21 PM
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Real love is a slow burn, rather than the cocaine high sugar rush of infatuation. It's when you think a person's life is just as valuable as your own, and you want to see that person succeed. It's care for someone, it's being disappointed and hurt when they betray your trust, and being illuminated and rejuvenated when that person does something for you without you even asking. It's life perpetuating life. Healthy relationships are based on foundations of trust and mutual respect. Without that, r…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 12:23 AM
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Look up "codependency" on Google, OP. It's going to be an eye-opener, you know she's bad news so just do it. I understand it's difficult, be kind to her, maybe there's a way for you guys to be friends with benefits, if she's been alpha widowed 2x and she's been riding the CC, there's a reason. Break up with her, get off the weed and make yourself better. You will see how you find better, healthier relationships, and that includes building a social network of high-quality people in your new city.…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 11:04 PM
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I describe 2018 as three years crammed into one for me: Shattered - Learned in my penultimate semester of nursing school that becoming an RN was a glass ceiling - Learned the relationship I had at the time was a recreation of my parents' pathological marriage - Learned that my family dynamic is way more toxic than I realized - Learned my ex, mom and sister have BPD - Learned I had issues of codependency due to my abusive childhood and experience in nursing school - Learned I was being lied to by…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 06:27 PM
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I haven't read the book yet, but this is sort of a Jungian concept about the conflict between the Self and the Ego, or persona. The persona is the mask we use to put up a front in daily interactions, and the Self is a development of our personality. From my understanding, when someone says to "kill their ego", they're really referring to the removal of that mask so that genuine development of the Self can take place, and in circumstances that demand a persona for which people can interact with, …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/19 12:20 AM
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This is gold, as always
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 01:17 AM
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Why is that become such commonplace? And what does that say about people, specifically men in their 20's who are most susceptible to hypergamy, that these women are accomplishing the feminist dream and becoming "urban goddesses", yet are completely unhappy and only find their solace in a few bad boys that have no reliable prospects? It's so fucking backwards man, as a male in my 20's who has always lived in major metropolitan areas, I find the struggle is real to find anyone worth their salt who…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 10:54 PM
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I'm fucking wheezing
/r/askTRP03/01/19 07:01 PM
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Right now dealing with exactly this from family and some past friends, the fact that you don't blend neatly and stick out like a sore thumb is the consequence of being an individual in a generation that does not exalt individuality as it does the groupthink and mindshare that supports left-leaning political movements. Hold onto your ideals, always question them, but remain steadfast, you may actually find someone like-minded as you if you speak your mind. Source: ex-nursing student, the hospital…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:18 AM
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This was godly, and yes, life is weird as fuck On the topic this is what's happening to my friends and family right now, I'm starting to thin the herd with what I want to happen in my life and it's people dropping like flies down to the few that exist to make my life better, it's growing pains and it'll get easier over time as you get better as a person forwarding yourself into the future. Don't let life pass you by OP, do what you want and envision the life you want for yourself, make it happen…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 09:44 PM
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Eat pussy. IF it's someone you trust. I've only had the chance to eat pussy with one girl but goddamn if it's sometimes my favorite part. Watching her squirm and moan, put some fingers in there, honestly OP, love eating pussy and the women will know. Also mix it up, 69 is one of the best ways to eat pussy, sometimes it becomes a competition to see who gives better head
/r/askTRP22/11/18 03:22 AM
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2018 was a constant series of punches in the face, but the best year of my life. I can attest to that
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/18 03:13 AM
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Thank you for this, this is exactly what I needed to see right now, my ex ghosted me when she moved to NYC and has since been trying to contact me to "see how I'm doing", this wisdom is keeping my head straight and my heart focused on my mission and my goals in life, that person will be there when I'm ready
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 05:55 PM
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Great addition to the list, this shows mutual respect and she is willing to give you the chance to reject her, which shows established trust and a chance to create deeper emotional connections, integral to any healthy relationship. And great job finding someone that fits this description, something we all strive for, one of the "good" ones
/r/askTRP15/11/18 08:50 PM
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This post is exactly what I need to read and re-read for the next week, thank you sir for your insight
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 03:15 PM
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Alright here we go: Porn Games Alcohol Reading at least 20 pages a day of anything, a book, constructive content on Reddit, articles, anything not related to my studies
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 07:19 PM
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You have some unexplained trauma, or something in your past that is staying with you and affecting your ability to act on your desires. Before you face your fears you have to know what they are. Accept it for what it is, and move on from it learning more about yourself. Do some introspection, suicidal thoughts are dangerous. You can PM me if you need somewhere to vent, OP
/r/seduction09/02/18 06:54 AM
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PM'd
/r/seduction31/12/17 01:06 AM
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