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| 6 | A friend of mine was king hit by his ex and made a good post about the double standards. Its getting a lot of support on facebook and i thought some people on reddit might like to see itSpeaking of double standards, I love how the guy is like "HOW DARE YOU SLAP HER I WILL FUCK YOUR MOTHER AND SISTER BRING THEM HERE" Also, i'm gonna start saying "i will hit you in the gooch motherfucker" | /r/MensRights | 28/09/16 08:42 PM |
| 3 | This is literally the best example of the cool/funny kind of confidence I've ever seen.I mean, you're critiquing this guy's game as almost not being worth learning about because it only works on 20 year olds, but given that the guy is that age and presumably so are a large number of readers of this sub, it seems like a perfectly valid thing for them to work on/aspire to, at least presently. | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 11:08 PM |
| 3 | This is literally the best example of the cool/funny kind of confidence I've ever seen.well this guy looks like he's in his early 20s soo.... | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 10:37 PM |
| 7 | Where has this community gone from the beginning?The reason there are no new ideas or innovations is because there are no new problems. There is one problem: "I don't get laid as much as I would like" Around 10 years ago (back when you still thought girls had cooties) Neil Strauss wrote "The Game" where the solution to the problem was basically 'follow these steps and you will become the kind of guy girls want to bang' Now it's 10 years later and the solution to the problem is still "Become the kind of guy girls want to bang" only instead of t… | /r/seduction | 16/03/16 03:40 PM |
| 9 | If you behave like a "nice guy", and then complain that you get no sexual attention/reward from women for doing so...I think you would be surprised at how many guys are out there that think if they are just nice to girls then the girls should obviously want to have sex with them. The thing is these guys have a different definition of 'nice'. From their perspective, being 'nice' and 'respectful' typically means buying girls presents, doing favors for them, being a shoulder for them to cry on, listening to them complain about their 'asshole' boyfriends, secretly wanting to have sex with them but pretending like … | /r/seduction | 13/02/16 09:05 AM |
| 3 | A real guide to seductionI think his point was that when you're 20, you're still learning about how to navigate your place in the world, so as long as you are trying and putting yourself out there in your 20s, then growth and self-improvement is just natural and bound to happen. However, once you're in your 30s, 40s, etc it takes much more effort to improve yourself or change aspects of your life you don't like. | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 05:22 AM |
| 1 | So... how do you guys avoid getting girlfriends all the time?If a chick doesn't want a ONS, she's not likely to go home with you as soon as she meets you right? Or she might, thinking she can catch you or change you, but then she's the one misrepresenting herself. Basically, as long as you are being clear, genuine and upfront about what you want, you should be fine. | /r/seduction | 06/08/15 05:42 AM |
| 10 | Kind of a boring guy. Need helpSo lie about the things you do? Yea I'm sure that will fix the problem | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 02:00 AM |
| 8 | Kind of a boring guy. Need helpSeriously. It's the difference between "I went kayaking today" vs "I read about someone who went kayaking today" | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 01:01 AM |
| 8 | Why are women all of the sudden interested in you if they see you with another girlFor me it's more like 1, oh damn so sorry I swear that usually doesn't happen well cya | /r/seduction | 18/06/14 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Am I being a player? Or is this just how things are done in the adult world?I personally prefer dating one person at a time and expect the same from the women I date, but I make that clear. But I agree with you that it would be selfish and unfair to date multiple people while expecting them to not do the same | /r/seduction | 02/06/14 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Am I being a player? Or is this just how things are done in the adult world?Being a "player" isn't necessarily bad, although to some people it is. Only dating one person at a time isn't really considered to be oneitis. Oneitis is focusing too much on one girl while not progressing the relationship with her. | /r/seduction | 02/06/14 02:32 AM |
| 1 | It happened again! Opportunities happen in the most "randomest", unexpected moments only for me to think an minute later and go, oh! Doh!I totally get what you're saying. Unfortunately, this is one of those things you only get better at with practice. By "this" I mean realizing when the opportunity arises. I guess what I'm trying to say is when you realize (too late) that you had an opportunity to do something, don't spend time imagining what you COULD HAVE DONE, rather think about how you can recognize that same opportunity sooner the next time it presents itself. Keep this in mind: There is almost always an opportunity to do. K… | /r/seduction | 31/05/14 06:04 AM |
| 1 | It happened again! Opportunities happen in the most "randomest", unexpected moments only for me to think an minute later and go, oh! Doh!Stop spending so much time imagining and start spending more time doing | /r/seduction | 31/05/14 02:21 AM |
| 2 | I realized my problem - availability.Another issue you may have is that you talk (or at least type) like a freaking robot. | /r/seduction | 27/05/14 05:29 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl you've chatted with before, but it's been 30+ days since you last talked?What about maybe she's not that into you? | /r/seduction | 27/05/14 05:21 AM |
| 15 | So a guy used pick up techniques on me last night...In addition to that, there are some legitimate creeps and douchemongers that hide under the veil of pickup/seduction to promote their misogynistic ideals and ruin the perception for the rest of us guys just trying to learn. | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 09:53 PM |
| 1 | What are some good flirting games?I've only ever done it one on one. It was a good way to either gauge her level of comfort or escalate after isolating. | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 12:13 PM |
| 35 | What are some good flirting games?There was an old routine where you only ask three questions. Something like "How many boyfriends have you had", then "what's the craziest place you ever had sex", and finally "Do you want to kiss me?" and then depending on what she says you either kiss her or if she says no you respond with "I didn't say you could it just looked like you had something on your mind" Then you could continue with the questions game as normal or whatever else you wanted to do. It's been a while since I used this but… | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 01:48 AM |
| 10 | [FR] (UPDATE) I just went on a date with the hottest girl in my college "I've never had anyone be so sassy to me before."I don't want her to think I'm like the rest of the pleaser beta males she likely has clamoring for her attention. I feel like you're really hung up on this. I mean sure, you obviously don't want to let her walk all over you as you supplicate to her every whim, but there's absolutely nothing wrong with opening up a little once in a while. You don't need to have some sort of "alpha, take no shit, apologize for nothing to no one" facade up all the time. I mean, it's not like she got uncomfortable a… | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 01:39 AM |
| 8 | A note on confidenceNah man I disagree with you. I think people need to focus on reading comprehension before trying to meet girls. | /r/seduction | 21/04/14 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What are your favorite routines?If you think that telling a joke that you find funny to elicit laughs is a bad thing, then you have a very flawed idea of what seduction is. Hmm, I'm pretty sure that's not what I said. | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 04:58 PM |
| 1 | What are your favorite routines?I think the whole point of seduction is to become a better man. The kind of man that other guys want to be and women want to be with. You shouldn't need to "manipulate" girls into liking you, you should just be the best version of yourself you can be, and some will like you. Those that don't aren't worth pulling your hair out over. THAT is what seddit is about. | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 04:57 PM |
| 3 | What are your favorite routines?If you think the true meaning of seduction is to manipulate, you're gonna have a bad time. | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 02:06 AM |
| 4 | Any older virgins successfully turned it around?The girls who are becoming sexually active at 14 are more likely than not the outliers, not the norm. I also know a lot of girls and guys who started having sex around 14 or 15, but I also know a lot more that didn't. A cousin of mine (same age as me) started having sex at 14, I didn't until I was 18, but I slept with more girls than he did by the time we were both 21. Does it mean anything? Not really. | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 10:55 PM |
| 2 | The Most Useful Quote I've found on ConfidenceIsn't that what confidence is though? I can't control how people react to me, but I am confident enough in myself as a person and as a man so that no matter how they react to me i'm not fazed. | /r/seduction | 30/03/14 01:08 AM |
| 0 | You and a girl are at a music venue. Older, more attractive, and more "alpha" dude walks up and starts hitting on the girl. What do you do?Why would she come back if the other guy is superior? | /r/seduction | 29/03/14 01:16 AM |
| 3 | How to approach at airports and more specifically, on the flight (with the girl right beside you)?studying aerospace is helping me land chicks. Hah! nice | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Im going on a cruise in about two weeks. Seeing as how I am sixteen, what are some good ways to go about getting women in this setting?Unfortunately for you there are few women your age. But if you're looking to have fun with girls your age, the basic rule apply, with some consideration on your part for the closed off proximity for however many days. | /r/seduction | 08/03/14 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Im going on a cruise in about two weeks. Seeing as how I am sixteen, what are some good ways to go about getting women in this setting?You don't have to worry you're not in any danger EDIT: I feel like you just aren't understanding what I'm saying! | /r/seduction | 08/03/14 10:27 AM |
| 12 | Im going on a cruise in about two weeks. Seeing as how I am sixteen, what are some good ways to go about getting women in this setting?because of the implication.... | /r/seduction | 08/03/14 01:55 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Went to a college party, used routines and got 3 number closes!Something about my buddy keeps a picture of him and his old girlfriend in his nightstand and his new girlfriend found it and it acting crazy jealous. Do you guys think she's right or wrong? something like that I think. It's from The Game. | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How I get girls phone numbers.Retaining interest through texting and phone calls shortly after is the defining factor and most difficult aspect of seduction. Is there an app for that? | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 11:20 PM |
| 2 | I am a woman and I wrote an article about seduction from a woman's point of view. I would like some feedback on it ..more info insideSome of the women I know are more inclined to hide their sexual exploits from each other, while they have no problem sharing them with me. | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 09:57 AM |
| 2 | I am a woman and I wrote an article about seduction from a woman's point of view. I would like some feedback on it ..more info insideHow about 1st? Since this is largely from your point of view. | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 09:50 AM |
| 4 | How Do I Change My Mindset?The mindset you want is one of "outcome independence." You actually have this mindset already! When you talk to girls you aren't attracted to, you don't worry about getting rejected because even if they do "reject" you for some reason you don't care, because you aren't interested in them in that way. All you have to do is treat girls you are attracted to the same as you treat girls you aren't attracted to. | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Overwhelming amount of things to keep in mind, how does everyone manage to keep tabs on all this stuff when in action?I think the idea is that over time, you internalize the important ideas so that it just comes "naturally" without really having to think much about it. | /r/seduction | 12/01/14 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Why does girls feel "safe" with me ?Exactly, they get the vibe that you'll "protect" them and not push for anything more. | /r/seduction | 15/12/13 01:43 AM |
| 3 | [Serious question] What's the main reason you believe you don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend?You're right, I know. I was just having some fun. | /r/seduction | 08/12/13 12:52 AM |
| 8 | [Serious question] What's the main reason you believe you don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend?Girls are more mature at this age hooo boy that's a good one. Just wait till you get to 25, you are gonna look back at this and think "Man, what was I thinking!" Sure, I could fake it. But they're going to be able to see right through it. At your age, they're most likely faking it too. | /r/seduction | 08/12/13 12:47 AM |
| 4 | What do you say to a girl if you just want to hook up again?Everyone says that any excuse to come over to your place works. Pizza, movies, tv show, whatever. Just make it happen! I'm gonna have to agree with this. OP you say: I feel like that's kind of pointless and the girl knows I just want to get her back to my house. To which I respond: So? If you already slept with this girl, and you had a good time, you can assume that if she accepts hanging out with you under whatever pretense that she probably wants to sleep with you again. If she doesn't want to… | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Above all, don't reject yourselfI think that basically you just have to not take it personally. Some guys can get mean and petty when they get rejected, so avoiding that and remaining amicable, even if she decides not to be, would be best. Personally, when I get rejected I just shrug and say "enjoy your night!" or something along those lines. | /r/seduction | 01/11/13 05:10 PM |
| 2 | If you look in the mirror and see an ugly dude looking back, how do you disassociate yourself from that and "pretend" you look better than you do?We can't help you. | /r/seduction | 27/10/13 02:01 AM |
| 1 | If you look in the mirror and see an ugly dude looking back, how do you disassociate yourself from that and "pretend" you look better than you do?Ok, maybe you are ugly. You're probably right, and there's nothing you can do about that. But, what you CAN do is take action and approach the women you want. Or you can start slow by approaching ugly girls. Shit that's what I did and I'm a handsome motherfucker, but i lacked confidence. You can be ugly and confident or ugly and not confident. | /r/seduction | 27/10/13 01:31 AM |
| 1 | If you look in the mirror and see an ugly dude looking back, how do you disassociate yourself from that and "pretend" you look better than you do?Then you need to accept that you're ugly, and not let that get in the way of meeting women. Think about it, you know you're ugly, but you feel great about yourself until you look at yourself. So just accept it, own it, and move on. | /r/seduction | 27/10/13 01:18 AM |
| 1 | If you look in the mirror and see an ugly dude looking back, how do you disassociate yourself from that and "pretend" you look better than you do?Stop looking in mirrors. | /r/seduction | 27/10/13 12:29 AM |
| 5 | Judge me on my approachWhat approach? You just creeped around for a half hour. | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 12:35 AM |
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