bagman_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Names that have an affinity for you	Field Report	bagman_	/r/seduction	01/05/25 11:57 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Tall 31yo black dude from Canada struggling with women - dating apps have been useless lately. Can I DM someone for some looks advice? Brother we talked for an hour yesterday 😔	/r/seduction	30/07/26 07:48 PM
2	Feel like women view me as a tall, black, scary giant I’m of similar stats in the same place and do just fine, show me a pic of your face and I’ll tell you the deal lmao	/r/seduction	29/07/26 02:55 PM
0	do you go to a high end gym? If you’re respectful and generally gregarious it works just fine (i.e.: don’t only talk to women)	/r/seduction	17/07/26 07:13 PM
1	Complete lack of validation from women in Toronto as a tall black dude has me depressed af ngl I’m in the same situation as you but probably way more broke, there’s gotta be something else. Toronto is an easy place to pick up, and I don’t think I’m that handsome	/r/seduction	14/07/26 05:32 PM
1	At what age does it get weird to have no experience? You have to do things that make you cringe. The longer you wait the more cringe you become	/r/seduction	03/07/26 11:52 PM
1	If you have been banned from dating apps or have given up on them this is for you Find a transfer if you can, this is the best time for you to do it. No attachments and a boring social life, you have nothing to lose	/r/seduction	30/06/26 11:47 PM
1	If you have been banned from dating apps or have given up on them this is for you Move away man	/r/seduction	30/06/26 11:44 PM
2	How to have female presence benefit you even if you don't like the girl who wants to be by you? With the second one you can straight up ask her to wing you, depending on the terms of your relationship with her. I’ve seen “monogamous” women do that for their partners to decent results	/r/seduction	23/06/26 06:54 AM
5	What are your seduction unpopular opinions? Whomp this was meant to be a separate comment not a reply, I figure you’re there too ahaha	/r/seduction	18/06/26 10:42 PM
6	What are your seduction unpopular opinions? Sleeping around isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. You’ll see once you get there	/r/seduction	18/06/26 10:26 PM
8	I keep encountering this shit test? “Don’t worry, I always make time for my favourites 😉”	/r/seduction	16/06/26 04:10 PM
2	Day Game in Toronto (Looking for Wings) Fuck it, down	/r/seduction	04/06/26 05:20 AM
33	At a club/bar, does this mean anything? Buddy waited till he got home to type this instead of just turning around	/r/seduction	25/05/26 06:08 PM
1	do you think men enjoy giving head or they fake it? I don’t do it to everyone but when I do I’m in 100%	/r/seduction	19/05/26 06:11 PM
1	What is the best response to rejection? Take the L and keep it rolling	/r/seduction	18/05/26 03:10 AM
2	I approached and talked with a girl for the first time. Congratulations brother. And you are definitely not ugly, I can tell you that much. Keep working on your confidence and your world will open up	/r/seduction	07/05/26 07:54 PM
9	Dancing one of the most attractive things a man can do If you go out with a group just create a good vibe by having genuine fun dancing with them, the girls will come to you	/r/seduction	07/05/26 05:58 PM
2	How many times does a women sees a man and goes, “damn he’s muscular and hot” Buddy you're hot	/r/seduction	03/05/26 07:37 PM
7	For the men who have casual sex a lot, how physically attractive are you? I’d say I’m a high 7 low 8, granted i’m 6’2 so that helps	/r/seduction	02/05/26 04:23 PM
1	I think we overcomplicate it a bit Like I said, stats influence effectiveness but I’ve seen it work with short dudes many a time. Being social in general is the skill that gets you there, a tall guy isn’t gonna magically take the girl home without developing that muscle either	/r/seduction	28/04/26 03:59 AM
4	I think we overcomplicate it a bit The effectiveness will vary based on your stats obviously but OP’s friend has a sound technique. Overcomplication is what leads to being a 35 year old virgin in the first place. Be chill, have conversation, test for further attraction; it’s as easy as that.	/r/seduction	27/04/26 04:40 PM
2	The loser mindset of "I don't know what to do / say" Situational awareness is king… if you can’t muster any, stay home and read some books instead	/r/seduction	19/04/26 12:09 AM
2	What is the “hair done, makeup and gorgeous outfit” equivalent for a short king (as opposed to the ladies)? Haircut and a nice outfit, same as with everyone	/r/seduction	13/04/26 05:07 PM
57	Is the life of promiscuity worth it? It gets boring, there are much more edifying things to do with your time	/r/seduction	13/04/26 12:31 AM
1	Has anyone here been able to pull hot girls irl but unable to on dating app? There’s certainly a meta for dating app looks, I’ve always done decently on them and with a fair ratio of hotties but my friend who kinda resembles Aragorn is playing an entirely different game than I am ahaha. Makes it look like child’s play compared to even my (significantly better than average) spoils	/r/seduction	08/04/26 06:24 AM
3	Dating before and after going bald I used to shave my head for years, still got girls	/r/seduction	02/04/26 10:07 PM
5	do you approach while with your guys group ? Depends on the context. Sometimes you excuse yourself and go talk to the girl one on one, sometimes you make comments on the situation aloud to get their attention	/r/seduction	01/04/26 05:41 PM
1	Sexual allure is not hard to build up, and it's your fault if you don't have it All facts over here	/r/seduction	29/03/26 10:44 PM
4	What principle or belief do you always rely on? Straight bars	/r/seduction	06/03/26 01:28 AM
1	I like girls with meaty labias Oh he’s absolutely spitting but it’s such a random post to make here	/r/seduction	05/03/26 08:23 PM
242	I like girls with meaty labias Bro this is a Wendy’s	/r/seduction	05/03/26 03:01 AM
7	Being direct and flirty isn't working for me. You’ve outlined your problems but ignore their impact. Get fit, find a social circle, do stuff that you like out in the world. Those are your priorities. Even handsome and outgoing dudes get rejected in real life approach like 70% of the time	/r/seduction	03/03/26 02:09 AM
30	Anyone notice patterns in the girls they attract? Steak too juicy lobster too buttery	/r/seduction	02/03/26 06:09 PM
1	What miss ratio would you guys say is normal to expect even if you’re attractive and charismatic? Buddy… I’ve missed thousands of shots at this point	/r/seduction	01/03/26 09:49 AM
17	The first time you fuck a girl you have to slowly escalate to it without asking. But every other time you can just ask her, why is that? It's not awkward if you can be grown up about it	/r/seduction	25/02/26 11:53 PM
1	How do you go out to bars/clubs alone and still meet women without looking awkward? Take a shot, hit the dance floor, talk to people that look interesting (not just girls)	/r/seduction	17/02/26 11:39 PM
7	Tea app caused a cancellation I agree with this logic but one look at your profile tells me there’s a litany of other reasons to cancel a date with you	/r/seduction	14/02/26 12:07 AM
4	What's the most women you've had in your roster at any given time? 8 or so? Definitely not worth the time and energy	/r/seduction	09/02/26 05:19 AM
26	Best city to learn game? Listen to this, Austin is a fun place with very friendly people. Great food and tourist culture to boot	/r/seduction	04/02/26 03:17 AM
450	to the pros here, You go to a house party you barely know anyone and in the distance in kitchen there's a girl all by herself. “This the time out corner?”	/r/seduction	02/02/26 04:26 PM
6	I went out with an 'expert' - still really feels like a numbers game though, tbh Your point absolutely stands but those numbers seem a little off, you should be doing much better than that in any decent city	/r/seduction	24/01/26 01:47 AM
1	minorities who have had success with women. what did you do in order to have that success? Not playing victim, I genuinely want to learn what you guys did. Being tall, sociable and living in a metropolitan area will help anyone	/r/seduction	21/01/26 12:28 AM
16	Here is current META of meeting women, based on analysis of my life dating scenarios Develop a few moves, have fun, and don't care	/r/seduction	14/01/26 02:51 AM
2	I can get a few women interested but retaining them is very difficult. Not saying his story is true but I’m in a relatively similar situation and have a similar BC (did not pay for any of them), it definitely happens. Granted I do have several consistent groups of friends and can hold onto my short terms for a while, but I think he might just need some help	/r/seduction	07/01/26 06:03 AM
1	Anyone else just burnt out from dating and this whole seduction circus? I feel it too brother, sometimes it feels like we’re just meat suits piloted by the electrical impulse to fuck despite diminishing returns	/r/seduction	11/12/25 10:04 PM
1	The stock sex partner “Glad to be of service” and go about your night, why overthink	/r/seduction	09/12/25 05:02 AM
1	Another night - More FR's Do you write all these down right after they happen?	/r/seduction	06/12/25 10:54 PM
6	How do you actually attract the calm, grounded guys instead of the high-energy party types? You need to have a tolerance for the lower-energy conversation on an app, small talk isn't everyone's cup of tea but selecting for the immediately flirtatious energy will get you more of the same instead of what you want	/r/seduction	02/12/25 10:40 PM
1	How do you guys stay positive? Everything is learning, there's better coming for you if you don't give up	/r/seduction	15/11/25 08:34 PM
1	How do you deal with the waiting? Go outside or shut up, those are your options	/r/seduction	14/11/25 03:33 AM
1	Guys who find it easy to get sex on the first date -how? Be charming and comforting	/r/seduction	10/11/25 02:51 PM
2	Can Someone Please Explain What Sex Appeal Is? It’s a vibe that indicates comfortability with yourself. You can be hot and have no sex appeal, or conversely be less attractive but so much joie de vivre that people are drawn to you anyway	/r/seduction	14/10/25 12:03 AM
13	Numb to getting girls numbers Takes a level of social navigation most guys don't have, the focus is often on "completing the interaction" regardless of interest shown which leads to what OP describes in the post	/r/seduction	07/10/25 05:01 AM
1	Had To Deal With A Flake Even the idea of having to make a concession (planning the next one or getting the first round on the raincheck) is too much for some to handle, it’s wild	/r/seduction	05/10/25 09:02 AM
1	Had To Deal With A Flake It’s cope but can absolutely play in your favour later ahaha	/r/seduction	05/10/25 08:59 AM
7	For beginners: 8 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my dating I call that phenomenon "medium change degradation", it's best to keep it on the same platform till you meet imo. If anything only text once you've set up the date, no small talk till afterwards	/r/seduction	03/10/25 05:15 AM
2	Is it common for you to get laid when you are least focused on it? Do tell	/r/seduction	02/10/25 06:39 AM
3	Best thing a woman has said/did to you that made you feel extremely desired? Been told I resemble a Greek statue a few times, that one is always nice. The times it’s been said I’m a perfect balance of masculine and feminine is also nice, or the time I went out with a girl visiting from Japan and she complimented my pronunciation after a karaoke session 😂	/r/seduction	28/09/25 12:07 AM
1	Stop measuring interest by how fast she replies. It's ruining your dating life. That kinda game gets you put in the “fuck only” category	/r/seduction	25/09/25 09:14 PM
3	Any guys 5'4" or shorter doing amazing in dating ? I have a short friend that resembles a brown jack nicholson and he does just fine. Get your charisma up and make some money + hit the gym	/r/seduction	24/09/25 04:11 PM
1	What's the fastest you've hooked up with someone ? Outside the club, an hour maybe? Complimented her dog and she offered a walk and smoke to me	/r/seduction	20/09/25 12:00 PM
7	Got First Date Uber Home - Told Her Text Me When You Get Home But She Hasn't Yet Aka avoiding accountability	/r/seduction	18/09/25 07:53 AM
22	Girls only lust after me, but have no interest in dating If it makes ya feel better I’m in the same boat despite being 6’2. Maybe we need better personalities 🤣	/r/seduction	30/08/25 01:09 AM
1	Does not reaching sex when escalating physically make women distance themself from you? Not a happening exclusive to a first date, it’s happened on a second to me as well. No need for the downvote	/r/seduction	21/08/25 03:43 PM
0	Does not reaching sex when escalating physically make women distance themself from you? Diff phenomenon I think, it’s not about banging on the first date or not but reaching so close to the intimacy but not going all the way resulting in a downturn of connection. It’s happened to me before too	/r/seduction	21/08/25 03:22 PM
1	Does not reaching sex when escalating physically make women distance themself from you? Are we supposed to believe a crypto stock bro isn’t using AI to write their comments?	/r/seduction	21/08/25 03:19 PM
59	Why liberals get more casual sex Turns out not shaming women for enjoying sex leads to more sex. Who woulda thought	/r/seduction	21/08/25 02:12 AM
1	Short men success stories? One of my best friends is 5’5, brown and balding and does great. Charisma>>>physical stats	/r/seduction	20/08/25 08:50 PM
2	Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical. It worked pretty well in my early 20s, he could be telling the truth	/r/seduction	10/08/25 07:33 AM
8	Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating? I'm a leftist and most of my friends are, we do well for the most part	/r/seduction	28/07/25 07:02 PM
1	Guys with a lot of female friends — did you actively try to befriend women, or did it just happen? How did you go about building those friendships? Lotta girls I hook up with end up being good friends (where I have no desire to hook up again), not sure what that suggests psychologically but it’s been a fairly consistent phenomenon my whole life	/r/seduction	19/07/25 11:57 PM
5	what’s a unique thing that turns you on? Arm hair, dangly earrings, bigass glasses, huge forehead	/r/seduction	11/07/25 04:14 AM
2	Men of Reddit who have successfully gotten plenty of lays through cold approaching? What have you learned and what is your most effective methods for doing so? It happens, depending on the venue and timing	/r/seduction	02/06/25 08:15 PM
26	Stop using Instagram to get women Once every 2 years, semiannual would be 2 in a year	/r/seduction	05/05/25 04:39 PM