bahadurJoe Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Does anyone approach at the gym? “Assuming your wife is attractive” eh?	/r/seduction	29/06/24 09:37 AM
0	I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas. Do you lift?	/r/seduction	26/06/24 09:24 AM
2	LJBF after 2 months of exclusivity + sex It might not be exciting for her anymore bro. It happens. Look to keep her around if you enjoy her company / let her down and keep life moving.	/r/seduction	11/06/24 09:54 PM
29	My girlfriend is very very sexy and she knows how to turn me on, but sometimes I think she holds that as a power over me Control yourself. Problem solved. The fact she can sexually manipulate and tempt you is power in and of itself. Now, will you buckle to pressure or withstand?	/r/seduction	26/04/24 04:18 AM
4	Trying to figure out why I'm so good on dates but terrible during approaches Discomfort within the environment. You’ve a claim to a woman’s time when on a date, but when approaching the same woman on the street as a complete stranger, you aren’t sure about how best to go about it (because she doesn’t even know you), hence your discomfort. Embrace being uncomfortable. Nothing in life is certain.	/r/seduction	25/04/24 02:51 AM
2	Girl asked me to try her drink? Ghosted. Am I just not gaming enough? SUCC THAT DRINK WITHOUT QUESTION. YOU’RE NOT HAVING ENOUGH FUN WITH THESE HOES AND IT SHOWS.	/r/seduction	23/04/24 05:53 PM
2	Attractive guy getting rejected, why? Not as attractive as you think	/r/seduction	14/04/24 11:37 PM
1	20M, have everything to get laid but am scared It’s been time bro. Just do what is required - you don’t need us to tell ya.	/r/seduction	12/04/24 12:40 AM
5	20M, have everything to get laid but am scared You’ve got everything but confidence.	/r/seduction	11/04/24 07:07 PM
2	How do I finally drop the soft nice guy personality and become a bad boy? Do what you think is right, not what is approved.	/r/seduction	10/04/24 08:06 PM
5	How to not be a “nice guy” over text (and on dates)? Don’t want to give off that vibe and be closer to a stereotypical red flag guy! Words of a no-sex getter. /s	/r/seduction	27/03/24 07:40 AM
1	Why do women need constant emotional stimulation to keep them attached? Fantastic response.	/r/seduction	24/03/24 12:58 PM
18	How do you guys handle a long series of rejections? Shouldn’t bother you. At all. Get on your grind. The energy generated from the discipline will bleed into your interaction with these women. They will feel and get a taste of it, and be more enchanted by your presence.	/r/seduction	24/03/24 12:41 PM
0	What to do when a girl says she has a boyfriend Do you care?	/r/seduction	24/03/24 08:49 AM
14	Tip for the guys during dating Immerse yourself in the moment of time spent together.	/r/seduction	22/03/24 05:23 PM
1	It feels like gym reps and I'm losing hope You understand. Now apply.	/r/seduction	19/03/24 01:10 PM
1	What do you do the next day after a one night stand? Text.	/r/seduction	19/03/24 09:40 AM
2	It feels like gym reps and I'm losing hope Too outcome dependent. Just enjoy the journey!	/r/seduction	18/03/24 06:48 AM
3	We should be friends First!? Nothing wrong with that. She likes you, and wants to keep the experiences going without any pressure of emotion. If you value her company and find her interesting, you can make this work. You’re also getting coochie from other women/her (if you act right ;). ) Win-win.	/r/seduction	18/03/24 01:57 AM
1	Women Want You To Be Mysterious Game and the self (one’s character) are one and the same.	/r/seduction	06/03/24 12:06 AM
2	What do you say you're looking for on Tinder when you're just trying to smash? They’re omitting the information on purpose. Why ruin the fun of finding out for yourself?	/r/seduction	04/03/24 04:22 AM
1	"Describe yourself in 3 words" - I've been asked that - is this a shit test or what? I don’t disagree, but OP comporting himself to fall into every woman’s frame is not the answer either (hence the caveat in my second sentence). The interactions will get boring, very fast, and he’ll not get the results he wants.	/r/seduction	04/03/24 04:15 AM
1	Women Want You To Be Mysterious You are correct. But in equal measure, there are facets to oneself that cannot and should not really be readily understood in order for a woman to keep interested in you. This is the entire principle of consistently dating your woman long after you’ve bagged her.	/r/seduction	04/03/24 01:52 AM
7	I shut down once I know a girl’s into me; how can I stop being weird about getting physical? Embrace it lmao. You need to get more comfortable in your sexuality	/r/seduction	03/03/24 02:43 PM
81	"Describe yourself in 3 words" - I've been asked that - is this a shit test or what? Pretty, Huge, Dick. You’re on a no-strings dating app. Don’t take it so seriously.	/r/seduction	28/02/24 11:36 AM
107	Why are girls blocking me after number close? They gave it to you to be nice. They’re not interested. Focus on being a better you so more confidence can emanate.	/r/seduction	26/02/24 12:48 PM
2	What do you say you're looking for on Tinder when you're just trying to smash? Thank you. I don’t use dating apps, largely for the reason that I don’t like the “picking” dynamic in place. What I do is just be up-front about what I want if prompted, and just tease and play them how I please. I’m treating them how I want to treat them. I don’t think it’s over for you though. Assuming you’re keeping up the physical attractiveness, I imagine you’d have a better time finding hot, mature women than I would in general. You can still take ‘em for a spin if they find you hot enough…	/r/seduction	26/02/24 10:57 AM
4	What do you say you're looking for on Tinder when you're just trying to smash? London, 26 years old. I think age is playing a big factor for you. Women around or just below their 40s I find are largely looking for stability. It’s the rare exception that want fun.	/r/seduction	26/02/24 10:52 AM
3	How to develop a “spark” or “romantic feelings” or “chemistry” BE A MAN. BE BOLD.	/r/seduction	26/02/24 08:07 AM
11	What do you say you're looking for on Tinder when you're just trying to smash? The problem is you’re assuming there’s an “approach” that works. If there’s an option, leave the relationship goal section blank. It’s not ideally up to you to validate yourself.	/r/seduction	26/02/24 07:48 AM
13	What do you say you're looking for on Tinder when you're just trying to smash? Hot thick cheeks. Just be open and fun about it - women are mostly looking for the same.	/r/seduction	26/02/24 07:44 AM
1	How do I keep a guy's interest when he seems to be pulling away? Lmao what is your end goal here? A relationship? You don’t sound sure of what you want and neither does he. Your question is a non-starter.	/r/seduction	26/02/24 07:35 AM
2	Why are you scared to approach women? Caveat: I’m not anymore. Only other reason was social embarrassment, but who really gives a fuck lol	/r/seduction	21/02/24 03:31 AM
2	Is there away to persevere through the mountain of rejections Be, or work towards being someone you’re proud of. Confidence needs to be brimming to practice what you’re practicing, so enforce healthy habits that’ll get your mind right.	/r/seduction	19/02/24 03:00 PM
1	Would you guys hook up with a toxic girl? If sex is the pure motivation, yes. The problem is enforcement of that boundary, considering that toxicity is a risk with the wrong woman.	/r/seduction	18/02/24 06:35 PM
78	I keep starting out too "friendly" Project more sexual energy. Eye contact, intentional conversation. Don’t be afraid to express what it is you’re thinking, within reason.	/r/seduction	15/02/24 07:01 AM
3	Hookup Yes. Make some shit up to link.	/r/seduction	14/02/24 08:33 AM
1	I hate talking but yearn for connection Yep. Speak from the heart.	/r/seduction	09/02/24 08:50 PM
23	Why do I get attention from girls at parties but not in everyday life? Girls are at parties to let loose. It's naturally easier there. You're attractive, but don't 'act' like it. Express yourself and your intent more.	/r/seduction	05/02/24 12:01 AM
2	Flirting advices: I struggle to create sexual tension with women You have to dig deep and explore your sexuality. Give perspective as to what really attracts you about the women you seek. That in itself may take days, months or weeks, but it’s a spiritual solution to a practically-framed problem - and something that’s worked wonders for my relationships with women.	/r/seduction	04/02/24 02:56 PM
1	I had sex with a girl that I actively tried to NOT meet - If she likes you, she likes you Gg wp.	/r/seduction	02/09/23 09:08 PM
6	Is your sexual life going to be lower or over once you're past the age of 25? Happens to the majority. Make an effort to get sexier regardless.	/r/seduction	25/10/22 07:26 PM
4	Friend (25M) dated woman (24F) who wants an LTR. He doesn't but told her otherwise. What would you advise him to do next? Lying about that shit is scum. Advise him to come clean. H'es needlessly deceiving this person and wasting his own time.	/r/seduction	27/08/22 03:38 PM
6	Should I just start cold approaching in college? Yes. Put yourself out there - the worst they can do is say 'no'.	/r/seduction	27/08/22 03:32 PM
2	I don’t think relationships are for me You're placing too much stake in her, and not enough in yourself. I assume there isn't much going on in your life yet professionally, as that should take immediate precedence over anything else, and will ease the stress burdened on you from this situation. To your point; as a man, you are the leader and authoritarian of the relationship. A woman who loves and respects you is willing to do absolutely anything to please you. It's up to you to acknowledge your position and not fuck up. Act accord…	/r/seduction	27/08/22 03:27 PM
2	Tinder makes me depressed! Get hotter. Do everything in your power to be more hotter than you are. Tinder is a fairground for females to engorge themselves in free validation, and for the top men to take their pickings. Don’t use it until you feel you’re hot enough to game the system. Jumping the gun will only end in disappointment.	/r/seduction	08/06/22 11:35 AM
1	Make money. Be rich. Lmao good luck with that	/r/seduction	06/06/22 11:33 AM
5	How to stop obsessing over one girl? Find more hoes. “On to the next one, more fish in the sea Girls are like buses: miss one, next fifteen, one comin'!” -Gucci Mane	/r/seduction	06/06/22 08:40 AM
12	I got rejected today and I’m proud as f I agree, but exercise discretion. I’ve seen this happen firsthand: If you’re doing everything wrong personally whilst being friends with this female, that’s an immediate write off. She won’t advertise you as “that guy” to her friends.	/r/seduction	31/05/22 12:21 PM
1	If girls see that other girls they know/associate with are interested in a guy then they themselves will be interested in that guy (not always but I’d say frequently) even if they initially did not think that guy was attractive themselves You're right. Preselection is more accurate here.	/r/seduction	29/04/22 11:16 PM
15	If girls see that other girls they know/associate with are interested in a guy then they themselves will be interested in that guy (not always but I’d say frequently) even if they initially did not think that guy was attractive themselves Social proof.	/r/seduction	28/04/22 11:29 PM