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Not sure, hooked up with around 30 and counting, had around 7 girlfriends, Married once. (Cheap wedding, cheap divorce, she just spent freely during the 6 years we were together). Still with and dating women, I'm Mgtow with my money, dignity, and living solo.
/r/MGTOW14/08/17 12:55 AM
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Read bachelor pad economics by Aaron clarey. If you have any upward mobility coming up it will explain it to you that only a woman can ruin it.
/r/MGTOW09/06/17 06:03 AM
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Lucky set of circumstances. No prenup, no real alimony, other than a informal series of payments for a few months The house had tanked in value by the time we split. I just said if you get half our marital assets, it's a negative number, so nothing. Instead, I just offered her proceeds from my current 401k (I had a much bigger, separate , off limits IRA before marriage) and she went for that, on the condition she signed her name on the house title to me. No lawyers, All in all I told her if lawy…
/r/MGTOW29/05/17 12:41 AM
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Dude, you're 26. You can easily set yourself up for financial independence by the time you hit 40. Or earlier. I was set at 26, great job, $850/month apt. Only a cunt derailed my path to independence by her inability to think or plan ahead and spending money on bullshit. Joke's on her as I kept the house we bought together. It was 45% underwater. I knew it would recover and now it's up 45% over the purchase price. Whatever you do, have a plan, and don't let any woman derail it. If you get involv…
/r/MGTOW28/05/17 07:36 PM
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Not so much went to hell, but she is completely broke. We divorced 7 years ago. I made great money and she earned around 55k. We argued all the time due to her spending. I kept the house (2010 and was underwater, now up 30-40% over what I paid for it. She owes me about a grand and struggles with coming up with $150 a month to pay me. She has nothing saved, no assets, and a broke cheap boyfriend. lol. (edit: grammar)
/r/MGTOW13/05/17 08:35 PM
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Lol. You were being a man and meeting girls and she hated it. You can never reason with these types. She can't even be happy for you unless you're a mangina.
/r/MGTOW12/05/17 09:02 PM
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Is that true? I didn't see that in the article. Would be typical.
/r/MGTOW12/05/17 07:44 PM
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Gender Pay Gap.. the lady has a PhD in Literature... Why isn't she getting paid for that?
/r/MGTOW12/05/17 06:24 AM
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44
/r/MGTOW10/05/17 03:35 AM
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number 13, I would hit that
/r/MGTOW25/10/16 07:07 PM
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That's what I'm taking out of it. Principles to save my dignity and money.
/r/MGTOW20/10/16 07:33 PM
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Did you watch a lot of porn? I'm very happy with my dick. If I compared myself to male porn stars, id be unhappy
/r/MGTOW20/10/16 07:27 PM
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To the OP. Sorry you went through this. I was raised by both parents, but sadly I didn't get much modeling on how to be a man from my father. It took me a while to to gain confidence and it still takes effort to be assertive. Do you have any desire to meet, hook up, have sex with women? You're young, and you don't need to be like your brother.
/r/MGTOW20/10/16 05:59 AM
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I do a little postmates food delivery on the side and women uniformly tip nothing or way less. I even kept a spreadsheet to satisfy my curiousity.
/r/MGTOW19/10/16 05:12 AM
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She just learned the power is shifting to you. Whereas you always knew you'd be successful but couldn't enjoy its benefits until recently. Her success is based on her looks. It won't last. Just remember you have the power now.
/r/MGTOW18/10/16 05:37 AM
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Have you ever tried explaining deferred gratification to a woman? To quote Luke Skywalker: "You want the impossible!"
/r/MGTOW14/10/16 06:59 AM
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I needed MGTOW in 2004. So many things would have been different. Now single, unattached, and going to make the next ten years kick ass and ensure long term freedom.
/r/MGTOW13/10/16 10:17 PM
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Best policy is to not get drunk at the office party. Definitely go home before people start planning for the "after party" at said party. Never discuss your personal life to anyone especially females.
/r/MGTOW12/10/16 06:22 AM
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Long story short, basically the only money my ex got was about 10k in cash over a year or two, and 20 k in 401k funds. She had to cash ALL the 401K funds to pay off her debts.
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 06:13 AM
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Yeah, exactly. You said it better than I could. Can't put emotions on a spreadsheet.
/r/MGTOW10/10/16 02:28 AM
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What's amazing is she couldn't objectively see that you earned more and supported the household.
/r/MGTOW09/10/16 09:13 PM
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Count my ex-wife as one of those who can't rub two nickels together. Been that way her whole life. God forbid I try to explain the benefits saving, investing, etc. Long story short, The wedding and divorce was cheap. It was the 6 years of marriage that was expensive.
/r/MGTOW09/10/16 08:26 PM
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best job I ever had was a sub for a private school system.
/r/MGTOW08/10/16 09:18 AM
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How old are you? Yes, get into a fitness routine. It will feed into everything you do such as mental well being, energy to tackle life's problems, and you'll like yourself more. Start budgeting. Save some money and start a plan for investing. Very few women I've been involved with could comprehend deferring material consumption now, to get greater financial gains later. Compound interest and all that. She was kind enough to let you keep your dog.
/r/MGTOW08/10/16 07:33 AM
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I've been a landlord for three years, and I always laugh when I list my property for rent, and I get emails "Can you do ($400-800 less than I listed) and do you take Section 8?" GTFO.
/r/MGTOW06/10/16 06:02 PM
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Reminder to have a secret account somewhere. Maybe opened in a trusted family member's name. Or a safe loaded with cash.
/r/MGTOW05/10/16 09:06 PM
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Are you happy? Is your dignity, goals, and money intact? Then do what you want.
/r/MGTOW04/10/16 09:28 PM
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I've never taken pleasure in rejecting women. I'm either into them or not.
/r/MGTOW04/10/16 09:23 PM
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I flat out told her even if I gave her more cash, she'd blow it all anyway. So she might as well get less and get back on her own feet without any more of my help. It worked. Yeah, she couldn't plan a week ahead, nor look a week back, to account for previous large $ outlays. It's as if each paycheck was restarted the spend cycle.
/r/MGTOW03/10/16 04:07 AM
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Dude, I married one of those. 6 years of lighting my 120-150k income on fire. I burned her in the divorce, and protected most of my assets. You cannot reason with that type. They cannot comprehend that earning $100 and spending $110 doesn't work. Everything is an emotional reasoning, such as "I need this spa weekend, I deserve it" blah blah blah. Dude, you're 26 (I'm 43), and you are in the perfect place to kick ass over the next ten years.
/r/MGTOW29/09/16 06:05 AM
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that's 31k. Good work.
/r/MGTOW29/09/16 05:35 AM
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I meant to add, I rented it out, it's cash flow positive, It appreciated 40%, and I'm very happy. Live in my own apt in San Francisco.
/r/MGTOW28/09/16 09:39 AM
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I was lucky. We bought the house in 2008 together based on my excellent credit and income. Both names on the title. Divorce comes in 2010, and the house value had plummeted. So I said, "Do you want half of negative 200k to apply towards our joint assets, meaning you get nothing, or do you want to to sign it over to me?" She signed it over, and got about 20k in 401k assets that she promptly cashed out to pay her own debts. Edit: I kept the house, equity bounced back and is 35-40% over my purchase…
/r/MGTOW28/09/16 04:17 AM
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My favorite quotes from this article from the female: 1. "But finally telling myself that I’m enough is what will help me make it through all the difficult and wonderful times to come." 2. I had dreamed of being an editor, and now I am one! That’s enough of a coup without worrying about how much I’m bringing home every two weeks.
/r/MGTOW28/09/16 12:17 AM
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If you do find that unicorn, go for it. I've (M43) only come across MGTOW recently, have already been married/divorced, and have a decent SMV. As a new adherent of MGTOW, I'm using it to filter out any bad choices, such as women looking for a meal ticket, poor financial self-management, or single mothers. I fucked up before in letting a woman emotionally manipulate me into making very poor financial choices, and won't do it again.
/r/MGTOW25/09/16 09:13 PM
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Is your friend physically attractive? I rarely meet or see a poly woman that is attractive. I think the appeal of non-longterm relations, sex with no plans for marriage makes them get more sexual activity than they should based on looks alone.
/r/MGTOW25/09/16 05:33 AM
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I (M43) recommend using this subreddit to protect yourself emotionally and financially. I still love women, been with dozens, some good, some not so good, some downright awful. I'm seeing the use of subreddit to help me identify women to avoid, such as women in their 30s with half assed careers, looking at me as their meal ticket, women who cannot manage their finances. It'll be more helpful to yourself, to be an independent man, before you seek validation with a woman's company. Number one thin…
/r/MGTOW17/09/16 02:47 AM
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It was the comments in article that lead me to MGTOW. Slowly awakening.
/r/MGTOW14/09/16 11:21 AM
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Amusing. I always hear that women can't stand poor grammar in men's dating profiles or messages, yet hers was rife with mistakes. Edit: grammar lol.
/r/MGTOW11/09/16 07:46 AM
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Get rid of her, crumble for a bit, but then get stronger for the next time. Dude, you're human. I've never had anything this egregious happen to me, but close. I regretted not standing up for myself. The initial shock stunned you but move on and learn. This is unacceptable.
/r/MGTOW09/09/16 07:58 PM
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I recommend using this subreddit to protect yourself emotionally and financially. I still love women, been with dozens, some good, some not so good, some downright awful. I'm seeing the use of subreddit to help me identify women to avoid, such as women in their 30s with half assed careers, looking at me as their meal ticket, women who cannot manage their finances. It'll be more helpful to yourself, to be an independent man, before you seek validation with a woman's company.
/r/MGTOW09/09/16 04:45 PM
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Curious how she has been discredited? I don't know anything about her, and a Google search didn't pull up much about being discredited.
/r/MGTOW08/09/16 06:05 PM
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