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bajafishtaco/r/askTRP06/06/21 06:19 PM
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Really ? Do i need to copy and paste a bmi index showing that at a bmi of 23 that is in the normal weight category ? And dad bod is just a lack a of muscle definition it doesnt mean you are obese. well w.e the case im not fit at all compared to what i used to be. Yeh you got a pretty stocky build. It all depends on how you carry it really. Have a buddy with your height and weight but its all muscle. He looks a bit stocky but the girls like his fitness for the most part i assume.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:37 PM
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Really ? Do i need to copy and paste a bmi index showing that at a bmi of 23 that is in the normal weight category ? And dad bod is just a lack a of muscle definition it doesnt mean you are obese.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:50 PM
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About 1.88(6.2 ft) and 85 kg (185lbs). Just got out of a ltr with what i would define as an 8 to maybe 8.5. Got a date set up for tonight(think im going to bail i just puked twice this morning) with a solid 7 and another date friday with another 7ish maybe 7.5. i can let you know how it goes.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:13 PM
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Yeh thats not much of a career. Thats one of those pass the time easy jobs. I dated a girl like that. They have no concept or appreciation for the hard work that goes into creating a six figure career nor do they have a good grasp on the value of money since they just have to ask you for it. This is obviously a huge personality flaw in a life partner. I only date women that some sort of real job since usually the work ethic seems to trickle down into their personality outside of work. Also out o…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:37 PM
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I just pull the maga hat out when im done with them... Jk i never had one since id probably get shot wearing it in the liberal infested shithole i live in.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 05:27 AM
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Im sporting a dad bod and going full steam ahead.... Just go for it unless you are like obesse.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 05:24 AM
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Cant say shit about this... Im always late
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:50 AM
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5 mm in cash... Then just get good at reinvesting it(make a sport out of it).... ideally in real estate (its a fun business).
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:44 AM
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You were basically trying to support a girl with no career. She has no way of making money other than guys throwing money at her on instagram or being married (in this case you). If you dont have your monetary situation set up (cause obviously she doesnt) you are both essentially fucked. She realized that you are both in a messed up financial situation that is going to be miserable for the both of you so she left for someone that is financially capable and that she is going to bleed dry. Count y…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:30 AM
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i just say hey whatsup or something like that... i just make sure that she gives me "the look" before i go in so i dont get blown out completely by a chick wainting for her bf to come back from the washroom or something like that. As long as you are not socially retarded most decent females will be fairly amiable even if they are not interested.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:23 AM
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virgin and nofap ..... jesus christ ... you wont last longer than 10 seconds if you actually manage to get a girl. First cut out the nofap crap, its retarded. Its just something guys blame their failures on and use it to make themselves to feel like they have achieved something ( all you have achieved is making your ballsack nearly explode). I guarantee you most guys on here fap several times a day and still get laid. Maybe you should focus on your social interactions more than on not fapping fo…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:20 AM
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if you want to learn how to invest a degree in finance/economics would be a good basis (although not sufficient). Honestly if you dont even have a basic understanding of accounting/economics id seriously question whether you really knew what the fuck you were doing investing in stocks. How long do you think youre not going to have to pay rent for? I would say go for the finance degree if investing interests you. If it doesnt I would say cs degree is really useful these days and would be a good s…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:11 AM
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Just swipe left on the crap and try to match with the better quality ones. I just set up my first date sunday after a 2 year ltr. I got a decent amount of matches and i know my pics are garbage. So you must really be doing something wrong. I would bet your pictures are not very good. I would suggest maybe looking into getting a photographer and taking 3 solid pics. Ive been meaning to do it but ive been too busy with other stuff.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 11:15 PM
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Lol, yeh im the one with the cringe post. You still got that teenager cockiness that is cringe af. That shit is socially awkward and i can feel it through the screen. It must be why everyone is ripping on your post.... Hint hint
/r/askTRP18/06/21 07:26 PM
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I would even say ghost her right now and if she tries to reschedule just do the same thing to her. Then ghost completely.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:51 PM
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Rofl... This post reads as "how do i dump my gf without alpha widowing her because i am such an alpha chad". Relax junior, youre not even in uni yet. Dont worry about her, she will be "finding comfort" during frosh week and probably not remember what that stain at the corner of her mouth is in the morning.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:48 PM
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Show your girl pietro boselli on instagram. Observe how her eyes change and then tell me with 100% confidence that if she was alone with someone like that she wont get dicked down.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 12:43 PM
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Do not go the psychology route. That whole counselling bs you need a phd for and that is prime time to be making money in accounting. Your earning potential is limited in psych. Accounting will give you a wide range of options. You can go work at the current accounting firm and get your cpa and then you have several options. You can go the partner route where you can end up making seven figures or go work in corporate at a company and start of a bit lower salary (70k out of undergrad) but work y…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:40 AM
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Its not false, a ton of dating sites have shown they are the least chosen out of all females. White dudes from a decent background would never even look at them as a possibility. Of course they have to be less picky out of necessity. Dudes just arent showing them the attention they want.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 11:19 PM
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Case and point most people are animalistic in behaviour if you catch them an opportune time. Dont pretend that side doesnt exist and that you can choose someone that doesnt have that side. Get a supermoel to hit on your girl and 9/10 she isnt turning him down. Its just nature.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 11:17 PM
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They have lower smv than white girls. Thats pretty much it.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:20 AM
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It wasnt my friend, it was my friends friend who i didnt really care for and didnt know prior to the night. And i guarantee you it did happen and probably happens more often than you would like to think. To this day i still wonder why she did it.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:23 AM
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I have a nice story that will clear any sort of romantic fantasies you might have. I went to a st pattys day party a few years back with 2 buddies and my fwb at the time. My buddies brought along 2 of their friends and one of their gfs. We were drinking having a good time in the club until one of the new guys that brought the gf overdrank and ended up puking in a stall in the club. While he was doing that his gf starting rubbing up against me (we were vibing at the pre drink but in my head i tho…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 02:59 AM
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its not really a lot for a large city where a 1 bed costs around $2k a month. You can easily take a sales job and make that if you really want. Its not a target that is as far off as you think.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 02:49 AM
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My guess is she was joking. But yeah, that vibe is what bothered me from the start. That whole “friendly” vibe she has with outgoing people. even if she was joking id be really uncomfortable with that sort of behaviour. Unless she was setting up one of her gfs she is basically hitting on a guy in front of you. IN my last LTR we went snorkeling in greece and the instructor was this really good looking greek dude and super fit. I was pretty self conscious if im honest comparing my white collar bod…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 02:45 AM
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100k is a lot lol? This is like the basic income to live a decent life in a large city.... also yeh just cut her loose she is being disrespectful. Dont even say anything just pull back even more than she does and start looking elsewhere. If she doesnt react to this its a green light to go ahead and do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 02:39 AM
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you banged a hb9 on a first date? Clearly im doing something wrong but in my mind a hb9 is like a victorias secret model or maybe like an insanely hot insta model. Impressive if its an actual 9.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 02:29 AM
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start wanking 3-4 times a day, preferably before the act. Youl have the opposite problem after a month of this routine.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 01:58 AM
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I did naht hit her ... I DEED NAhht
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:57 PM
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I mean they can find it all they want, good luck enforcing it. And if im sensing its not going my way in court im out of here anyways.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:46 PM
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Yep, that was enough information for someone to find it... It wasnt bragging im just saying that was my fail safe in cas everything goes to shit.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:43 PM
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Just have foreign accounts if you have a second citizenship. I keep half my money in europe in a somewhat shady country. Good luck to those attorneys trying to find those accounts.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:20 PM
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Yeh it is, but i understand where they are coming from. And if you have kids they will have a 50/50 chance to get the bad gene. You can do a test for this but i still havent done mine (too scared lol). Well youre doing better than mr i havent really worked out that much lately.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:23 PM
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Yeh i mean, one my parents passed away from cancer and my ltrs always bring it up as if im a goner already. In your case this is amplified 100x more than likely. The obvious thing to do is focus on your recovery and get back to your normal strong healthy self. Not much else you can do the moment. Do you still look like yourself before cancer ?
/r/askTRP15/06/21 05:10 AM
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Honest truth is, people are going to write you off because you have cancer and there is a good chance it comes back. I think its best if you dont bring it up until its necessary. I would not date a woman that has cancer, straight up. Life is hard enough, you dont need to add to it.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:53 AM
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why the fuck you working for 5 dollars an hour. Thats like a third of min wage. Go work at mcdonalds and triple your income. Also fuck that shit. Focus on your next steps. 500 a dollars a month is insignificant when you get older.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:37 AM
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sure send it over.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:32 AM
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when you are looking at the top of her head
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:29 AM
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are you one of those guys that does extreme cuts and gets below 10% body fat? That will mess with your junk.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:28 AM
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Might as well go out back to where the trash is and stick your dick in it. This is the equivalent of what you are asking.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:27 AM
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you gotta work at it.... both of you need to keep active and keep stress down. My last ltr had a stressful job and so do i. The sex went to like once to twice a week and i was okay with that because my libido was shot from stress (she actually initiated a bit more than i did). Case and point self care is important for both of you and if you dont prioritize it will mess with your sex life especially as you get older.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:25 AM
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when i was fkin born
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:22 AM
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i always felt lonley when i was in a ltr. I always felt more alive when i was just living on my terms. Now i have covid so its all shit anyways lol...
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:22 AM
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The pua community seema like a bunch of losers honestly. One of my buddies tried to get me into and the guys i met there were some of the most pathetic guys i have ever met.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:47 PM
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i work 70-80 hrs a week on average in a high stress environment. I dont complain about it almost ever because i dont want to think about it and because i know its boring to other people. If youre okay with putting up with the complaining all the time thats okay. But personally id end up fantasizing about decking them in the mouth.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 03:16 AM
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i dont think paying more money for a shitty communal pool where some kids takes a dump on a weekly basis makes any sense. If you current spot isnt a shithole just take the extra money and invest it.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:23 AM
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congratz you bagged a hoe. Release her back into the wild for the next guy to use as a cum dump.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:21 AM
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i wouldnt worry so much about the bodyfat as long as he is not fat. Ive been doing fine and i have worked since corona started. OP share your profile so we can judge the shit out of it.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:20 AM
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i mean i dont think that is nurse specific... you just gotta let her vent. Youl probably end up cutting her loose if its already getting on your nerves.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:16 AM
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Also what makes you think you were lower SMV then her BF? I only consider frame and looks to be indicators of SMV, not your current job outlook i mean she was exposed that night, one of my buddies got so butthurt that he told his buddies that one of their gfs just shamelessly raw dogged a stranger essentially next to her bf. He was a good looking kid a few years younger than me and i was still sporting a dad bod from my previous banking gig. It doesnt make fkin sense the amount of disrespect and…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:02 AM
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yes, i was unemployed once for a few months and went out with a bunch of friends and their friends. I didnt care for one of new friends and his gf was digging me so i ended up raw dogging her in a bathroom stall while the guy was puking his guts out a few stalls down. I was essentially a broke loser and she still got down and dirty. It fucked up the entire night when he found out.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 12:55 AM
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i used to bang one,,, i dont know about dating them.... but i cant tolerate their incessant need to constantly brag about how important job their is.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 12:50 AM
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first of, you dont help a fwb move or do any other favour like that. Second of all why did you even hang around at the beach when she made it fairly clear that she was about to fuck this guy instead of you and rubbing your nose in it? It was done then and there, at that point just leave. Yes it feels fkin shitty, but sticking around just made it worse and she probably accomplished making you jealous. She also probably fucked that guy that night.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 12:49 AM
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I have a family friend that has been renting a place at one of our houses since i was a kid. He works as a librarian and writes poetry. Everytime i go stay at that house (my family rents out the top portion since we only stay there in the summer) i see him bring home new women (they are all hot) every other week and he is in his early 50s and has been doing this since i was a kid more or less. He is broke with no real career but does have some interesting hobbies. Make of this what you will.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:31 PM
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i dont eat dinner at my acquaintances parents house over the summer when i go to their cottages. The redpill offers some good advice but it also fosters a breeding ground for anti social males..... and i did live home until 30 .... now because of it I own my own condo... which i bought in cash. Its nice not having a mortgage or rent.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 09:21 PM
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you didnt answer my question? why are you so hung up on this ? The red pill advice is to not be an orbiter. A well socialized person (aka a higher status person) will inevitably have female friends. Now if you cant control yourself and you absolutely gotta fuck them.... they are not your friend. But as outlined above there have been clear benefits from having female friends (not orbiting).
/r/askTRP06/06/21 09:16 PM
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yeh none of those girls ask any of the guys to buy them shit or do them favours... that would be weird. The entire group is about 50/50 female/guys, anyone of them doing some weird hook up or try to use sexually someone else would fuck up the group dynamic. Most of us are just interested in keeping a good social circle with like minded people. Hook ups are easy enough to come by for both guys and females. Good friends are much harder to come by. why do i care who they sleep with ? why do you car…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 09:08 PM
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yeh none of those girls ask any of the guys to buy them shit or do them favours... that would be weird. The entire group is about 50/50 female/guys, anyone of them doing some weird hook up or try to use sexually someone else would fuck up the group dynamic. Most of us are just interested in keeping a good social circle with like minded people. Hook ups are easy enough to come by for both guys and females. Good friends are much harder to come by.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 08:59 PM
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okay i think i have already said this... i am not trying to sleep with any of these women... why would i buy them shit ? If i sleep with any of them that would more than likely fuck up the group dynamic and i would lose a group of friends... thats a lot harder to replace than a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 08:48 PM
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theyre all married and have kids.... all the guys in our group are friends with their husbands and they are friends with our gfs (none of the guys got married). Stepping stone for what ? They dont get anything out our relationship other than my friendship. Are you like socially retarded ? Were you one of those loser kids in high school that didnt have any friends?
/r/askTRP06/06/21 08:37 PM
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first of all i dont cry.... second of all we have had this group of friends since the end of high school and i havent really had to ask for big favours, but a few of them did help me move a few times in university .... even though i didnt really ask or need help. Its called a friend... maybe go and get one.. you dont have to fuck every female you encounter you realize that right?
/r/askTRP06/06/21 08:30 PM
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why ? cause I have different circles of friends ?
/r/askTRP06/06/21 08:23 PM
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we were already friends for 4 years or so at this point so all sexual tension was gone.... also my gf at the time which was friends with them would've probably not appreciated it . Also its been 11 years since i became friends with them and our entire group was at one of their weddings a few months back... so you have no fkin idea what you are talking about.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:43 PM
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why not? its something im having trouble with.... im good in some areas and weak in the others ... i have covid right now soo i just want something other than whats online... since i cant go out/// im too exhausted to go out anyways.... In person I havent had trouble closing since i was 22.... however for obvious reasons that is not an option right now and i just want something thats low effort and offers a bit more stimulation/excitement than whats online.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:07 PM
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ive managed to do it before,..... but consistently it doesnt work that well. Hence why i am asking for tips or strategies.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 06:56 PM
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i get it,,... but you bought it and put it at your house... she didnt pay for it... according to asktrp you gotta make her chip in or you are a beta provider.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 06:54 PM
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I dont think you read the part where i said.... I have covid .... So you really want me to go put?
/r/askTRP06/06/21 06:50 PM
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do you make money in the navy ? o.O
/r/askTRP06/06/21 06:05 PM
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If they are fun to hang out with and broaden your social circle just accept they will complain about guys to you which is okay. Despite what this forum thinks, i still enjoy having female friends. Its generally more fun when you plan cottage trips/Caribbean/ any sort of trip or get together when its a more mixed crowd. This just comes with the territory and also you will learn a lot about female nature just observing them when you are not a sexual prospect. For example i learned a few female fri…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 05:59 PM
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Yeh honestly i dont think these guys get out much and just follow ask trp without using their brains.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 02:28 PM
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Do you make her pay for the wine lol? According to the geniuses in this thread if you dont you are beta bucks.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 02:27 PM
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Who tf goes on 3 to 4 dates a week lol? Thats a lot of time spent on dates. Do you do this every week? Between work social obligations/staying fit/ starting a side business i dont have time to do that consistently.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 02:26 PM
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If you are a billionaire 5 dollars doesnt register as money for you. If i go on a date i want to enjoy myself. I dont know what dive bar youre going too, but 5 dollars doesnt even get you a coors light at a decent spot. Im getting 1 beer and probably another if she is pleasant enough. Im not going to make my date stare at me while i drink because im too cheap to spring for a corona. You being so worried about being beta bucks is pretty beta.. like enjoy yourself. Usually this serves as a pre dri…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 02:23 PM
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Yes i agree with the rationale... But its 20 dollars.... Like if 20 dollars hurts your wallet i wouldnt worry you about being beta bucks... You are just simply beta rofl.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 05:18 AM
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Or you could you know god forbid... Try dating a higher class of woman ... Gasp ... Mind blown...
/r/askTRP06/06/21 05:13 AM
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This might be beyond the red pill. Anger issues i would think are rooted in being unsatisfied with your life. Generally speaking you are not going to be very angry if you wake up in a 5 mil yacht in the amalfi coast everyday. Maybe if you work towards having the situation you want that would help improve your anger issues. Thats all i got... Other than go seek a therapist.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:55 AM
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You have to take some initiative. As in talk to them... Like they are human and ask them out... Lol
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:48 AM
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Lol... I had a friend like you who had some serious anger issues. This is beyond asktrp.. you need a therapist. We tried to bring that dude out to parties and he would start shit out of nothing with someone every single time. Eventually we just stopped inviting him. Dont be that guy
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:45 AM
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This is awful advice.... Are you trying to slam every town bicycle ?
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:43 AM
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This is terrible advice. The guy is broke.... I moved out when i had half a mil saved... At 30. You dont even know his salary. If he is living pay check to pay check this advice will essentially financially ruin him.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:41 AM
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How tf are you going to xlubs in a pandemic. And just cut her loose, shes old af and her ovaries are drying up fast. Shes checking out other men ? What are you getting out of this.... This is a net net loss for you and you need to see this from a non emotional perspective.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:38 AM
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I didnt read the rest of the post... The fact you dated this creature is just natural selection at work. Noone can help you if you cant tell how retarded that decision was.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:35 AM
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Its not beta provider buying some drinks... Like if you go out with a friend do you really split a 20 dollar bill? Like the effort of going through splitting the bill is not worth the money. If you cant throw around 20 dollars like its nothing you are probably a pretty big fuck up.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:34 AM
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I would get off the meds. I struggle with anxiety and i have taken a meds for it but honestly they made me feel physically ill so i went of them pretty quick. If your career is in good shape next thing you can do is focus on getting in shape. With the pqndemic its a bit hard but i got some dumbells and a chin up bar for quite cheap. Next thing to do is get some experience with women. Dont start of hoping for 9s and 10s. Aim lower and build experience with what you can get. Get one or two plates …
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:30 AM
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I dont think its something you can train. Ive always been the opposite, retardedly rebellious. Both sides of this have disadvantages. Check out jordan peterson i believe he has some advice regarding assertiveness training.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:25 AM
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Nope. I realized op was retarded when he said "dated left wing feminist". Might as well just stab yourself in the eye while youre at it.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:22 AM
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How broke are you .... Like 3 or 4 beers shouldnt hurt the wallet that bad.. whats thats like 30 40 dollars ? If i go out even with friends im probably spending that... Like enjoy yourself a bit
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:19 AM
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You may think they are living life on easy mode but they have two drawbacks. Either they have a career that will drain the looks and age the shit out of them fast or they have to look for a rich husband to support them maintaining themselves looks wise. Neither are ideal situations.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 03:40 AM
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This is such an easy question. As someone that has been through college being single throughout most of it was the best decision that I made. If you go to a party school and have even a bit of game youre going to meet a ton of women during frosh week and your first year. You dont want to be calling every night to some needy twat. You will already be busy enough with studies and what should be a very active social life and hopefully some gym time. ​ Secondly girls dont care about your work. I hav…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 04:26 AM
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Hard nexting is the easiest thing a man can do. You don’t gotta do anything lmao. This comment is just jerking yourself off to how great you are. Each and everyone of us will feel guilt when dissolving a relationship. Our brain is programmed to behave in this way. Stop pretending like you are an exception to the rule.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 04:12 AM
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They are giving you a one word reply because they dont think you are hot. Try to get a date or just move on to the next.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:47 AM
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Agree with most of the posts are saying, demote to plate. Hell id go even further and say dont even tell her she has been demoted to plate. Just cheat to your hearts content and be sure to be even more disrespectful. Make sure to showcase you are pulling attention from other women. Post photos with girls ar parties etc... If and when she brings it up just act like there is nothing wrong with it and you are shocked that she would be so unchill and clingy. Dont even bring up this photo.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:45 AM
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Approach a girl and have a conversation that is pleasant. Get her number and text to set up a date and take it from there. Its rare that you are going to bring back complete strangers that are hot the same night
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:30 AM
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This is weird, ny last gf was attractive and would get hit on all the time but it never happened when i was there. I dont even lift and i dont have an intimidating appearance. Care to post a picture? Maybe you look like a pussy and guys think they can just run you over. Doesnt sound like it from the post.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:09 AM
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If youre going 50/50 or even 60/40 on most dates and you get to sleep with a 9 how are you being ripped of financially or being obedient ? Where is this coming from?
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:16 PM
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It does have to do with looks. You cant be alpha and be 5'3. That doesnt exist, sorry to break it to you. And you can be as alpha as you want, there just are some women that wont jump in the sack on the first or third date. As long as he is not dishing out money for dinners and expensive crap, there is nothing wrong with continuing the pursuit. Does it really matter if it took 3 dates or 6 to sleep with a 9 ? Do you think there are hordes of guys out there sleeping with 9s on the first date on a…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:50 PM
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3rd: he alrdy stated he wasn't attractive. you can't lift away an ugly face. at least OP realizes the truth. Yes you cant change the package, but you can attempt to improve it. Like it or not you can spin plates till your blue in the face but most guys want kids eventually. So you will have to bite the bullet and take a risk at some point unless you want to become that old dude that is weird af. When you bite the bullet you want to bite the bullet with a chick that has her own income and contrib…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:41 PM
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And you are dating the wrong women, it should usually be a roughly 50/50 split for basic expenses. M y solution is be actually attractive or at least attempt being attractive. For people that arent attractive naturally yes you can try to compensate with money,,, but that only goes so far.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:23 PM
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i dunno try going up a bit more. I guess it depends on your build but at 170 i was still very skinny looking, maybe you are different. Basically try getting a body like pietro bosselli. Even if you dont have the facial features like he does a body like that will go a long way. Also dressing well is important as well.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:12 PM
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bill gates looks like shit, elon musk is a pretty good looking guy and would get girls anyways despite being on the spectrum. According to you everyone is beta bucks. Who isnt beta bucks then? Like why are you so obsessed with this? The snap chat guy is a tall good looking white dude with a degree from Stanford (i think)..... like he would have a hot white girlfriend anyways. You have no point? So OP should abandon pursuing this woman because he "might be beta bucks" ? Thats fkin retarded. Are y…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:59 PM
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okay... you are a bit delusional.... the guy has good looks/height/good genetics and is worth billions while also being extremely smart. He is one of the few guys in this world that could probably get almost anyone he wants. If that guy is beta bucks then the rest of us are worthless dog shit by comparison.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:46 PM
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You need to look into some corporate FP&A jobs if you are getting your business degree. The work is fairly easy and the hours can be good at the right company, you can get your CPA which is super cheap in like 3 4 years and be 25/26 being a finance director making six figures. The physical part is easy..... you know what you have to do. Sometimes we let ourselves slip, at 21 you have your entire life ahead of you and are just a kid. Make sure you graduate and just take easy courses so you can ge…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:40 PM
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It's not, she will use you for the money and fuck a guy that she is actually attracted to when you are not around. IS that the guy you want to be? The rich cuck?
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:33 PM
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I’ve cut down to 155lbs and my face just doesn’t give a fuck. It retains water weight and fat like nobody’s business. 155 ? youre way too small at 6 foot. You need to be at least 180 and fit. I know when i was going through puberty i was like 150/160 and 6'1. I was way too skinny and it showed in my face as well. As soon as i got up to 180/190 physically even though not fit i seemed to have a lot easier of a time getting girls. You need to bulk up so you actually look like a real man.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:33 PM
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There is no such thing as a quality sucker. What you are describing is a beta with money. High smv women dont want to be seen with some nerd even if he has money as it ruins their status. OP said he works out plus has good finances hence it would fit this womans description of what she is looking for. If she isnt asking for him to pay for everything this is not a beta bucks case and nowhere in the post did it seem like she was.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 03:43 PM
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This girl has a good job + good looks = status. She is not going to be seen in public with a sucker just like a guy that had a good job plus looks isnt going to introduce the 7 from the bar to his friends and family. She is more than likely looking for the full package guy to show off. You can screen for hoe behaviour once the sex starts and also you will never 100% know for sure. Just make sure there is genuine sexual interest and then be on guard for hoe behaviour like you would with any other…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 03:03 PM
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Congratulations youre officially the fat chick from the bar you took home one night after having like 10 shots and 5 beers. She doesnt think youre hot. That is all.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:37 AM
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Some of these responses are really retarded... She seems to be a high quality female. These girls obviously want someone that is also high value and wont put out for any loser that gives them the time of day. If its going well otherwise keep seeing where it goes. If when it comes to being intimiate thats where you have to see if she is into it or not. If she really is into it she was just screening you hard, if she isnt she might be looking for beta bucks.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:34 AM
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Tell her she is going to get fat and chads arent going to want her anymore if she has a kid.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:30 AM
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This is a classic, pretend you dont care, stay in the relationship and basically act as if you're single. If you're out together when she isnt beside you feel free to get a hot girls number. Dont forget to be truthfull about it, we wouldnt want to be unethical. Keep doing that and see where the new numbers take you. If you can score with a new chick dont hesitate. She needs to be put in her place. Edit: youre first response should have been" are you fkin kidding me?" Dont understand why guys pus…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:28 AM
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Simple: 1) Be a success. Everything else will follow the money 2)Never jeopardize grades/business for women. If she is a keeper she will understand this priority benefits the both of you. If you have different goals she is not the one for you. 3) Workout until women give you attention, then you will have the ability to choose the women you want, rather than just stick with her because she was the only one willing to touch your willy. 4) Develop a rigorous list of qualities that you want in a wom…
/r/askTRP21/05/21 02:49 AM
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We have a friend like that in our group. This guy starts dumb shit with everyone and is a nightmare to go out with since he is about as socially calibrated as a KKK member. He is the ultimate cock block as he creeps girls tf out with his aggresiveness. Whenever we go out he will do shit like grab women by the arm to get their attention, call them sluts if they reject him and generally dumb unchill shit like that. We eventually stopped going out with this guy and its a lot more fun without him an…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 12:33 AM
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I mean if im already attracting the type of women i want how much better can i do ? Models and actresses (and i dont mean some insta model lol)? Youre not getting there without fame or money, nor would i want to date someone that high maintenance, i dont need a second job.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 01:44 PM
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I mean i dont wear a suit on weekends or in bed lol.. still havent noticed a huge difference. I think as long as you look mostly fit youl be fine. Most girls dont seem to go for the bodybuilder look anyway.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 06:48 AM
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In my experience it hasnt made too much of a difference. Maybe thats cause after work i usually went to the bar straight in my work clothes, so its hard to tell at a bar through a suit if a guy is shredded or not. The only notable difference i found was i felt better physically and mentally when i worked out probably due to the extra endorphins.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 12:19 AM
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I work 60 to 70 hours a week (banking), plus doing a part time mba. So for now i just dont have the time. Once in a while il fit in a run or lift session but its been quite rare. Mostly just fit in 30 to 40 min runs for keeping heart health but as far as lifting goes its taking a pause until mba is done.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:48 PM
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Yeh you should def get a credit card. Just make sure to have enough cash you pay it off monthly in full. You get all sorts of points towards travel and stuff so its definitely worth it to use it all the time as long as you pay each balance in full. As for moving out if youre in a high col area youl be living paycheque to paycheque and not accumulating any wealth. I stayed home until i was 30 and making six figures because i knew if i moved out id be living like a peasant (i live in a high col ar…
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:56 PM
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Lol stay salty.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:49 PM
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Not muscular, out of shape but not fat.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:15 PM
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When i was pulling the hottest and most girls i had a dad body... I still have a dad body and my gf is at least an 8 (imo). Girls dont really care that much about you being overly muscular. At most look like one of those ig models, they dont go for the body builder look usually.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 08:22 AM
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Go on instagram and look at all the instagram models. Now after scrolling through many pictures, try to find the perfect woman (no such thing). Suddenly after looking at many of these gorgeous women you will begin to notice their flaws and these hb9s will stop making such an impression on you as you notice their flaws more and more. Now your mentality should be that they are good looking but far from perfect. Also try to keep some 7s and 8s on the side while pursuing the 9s. Youl be less scared …
/r/askTRP24/09/20 07:40 PM
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