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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKbakalabalak/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:26 PM
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you seriously think that was an aborted baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:20 PM
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Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness. This is just as bad. "Rightfully expect to get women" is such an entitled sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:42 PM
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You’re just going against reality. Most people get married in their 30’s and I’ve found men in their 20’s are not looking for serious relationships and aren’t nearly mature enough for one. This just reads like some sort of revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:00 PM
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Sex is not a need. Sure, sexual gratification might be, but that can be overcome in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:42 PM
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What do you think an average woman looks like 💀I’d love to hear your examples
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:44 PM
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Smartest redpiller
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:19 AM
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Not everyone has the time. Also sometimes bad genetics is just bad genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:00 AM
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What exactly would encouraging entail?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:00 AM
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I wouldn’t get with a woman if her body count was above 15
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:49 AM
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So forcing an abortion is somehow not a violation of a woman’s body?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:46 AM
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How exactly do you control your glutes without months or years of daily rigorous exercise and a specific diet? I’m not a fat woman lmfao you cannot change the size of your glutes just like that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:44 AM
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Are you kidding? These women are all above average looking and not all of those men are 10/10. Way to out yourself as someone who’s never seen a woman outside of porn before
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:41 AM
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Do you really think women can control the size of their ass and boobs? Also, makeup can’t fix an ugly face. Expectations for women are far more detailed and niche compared to expectations for men. I’ll see so many gorgeous women with men that look like rats, but I’ve never seen a 10/10 man settle for an ugly woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:29 AM
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I think all that just further proves how much happier women are without dating or marrying men. They can do so at any time, but choose not to because they understand that dating most men absolutely sucks. Single men are looking for a maid and a mother and expect without giving. They’re lonely and depressed because they spend the days imagining how their perfect gf/wife would treat them and being jealous of so called “chads”. Single women literally have a higher life expectancy than married ones.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:12 AM
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I don’t mean exactly 5’9” to the T, we can’t even tell. Like 70% of men in the us are above 5’8, and even if you aren’t, it’s just a hindrance. Not a dealbreaker at all. Obviously women work PREFER taller men. If you’re fat people won’t want you. Simple as. Men need to lose weight then lol. Also, looking overweight is different to being overweight. A lot of men with higher muscle mass are overweight but don’t look the part at all. That’s my bad, I should have said “doesn’t look overweight”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:16 PM
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I’m sorry? Are you claiming that wanting an average sized man is a cartoonishly high standard? Ffs there’s no hope for people who think like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:10 PM
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How exactly has this been “documented”? Also, you’re confusing the standards men have for a hookup with the standards women have for a relationship. Completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:08 PM
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What exactly counts as cartoonishly high? Not being overweight, washing your dick, not looking like a chopstick, having good hygiene (brushes teeth, washes ass), nice hair, and at least 5’9” is more than enough for the majority of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:34 AM
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Where do you think it’s possible to meet girls then. In your fantasy universe, men and women just…? Don’t interact at all? What point are you trying to prove. How do men get women then? How does any man who isn’t “chad” get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:18 AM
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Just get off it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:55 PM
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How do you expect to meet people if you don’t do anything? Sports, school, yes clubs, parties, gatherings, whatever. Also, you aren’t “required” to do anything. It’s not some kind of rule that you need to buy her a drink, but it signals that you’re interested. You’re buying a drink because you WANT to buy her a drink. Even so, why the hell do you expect her to go out with you just because you bought the drink. That sort of entitlement is crazy. I’m at a loss for what you actually want to happen.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:38 PM
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How exactly are you “being beaten violently over the head”. If that’s not an extreme exaggeration I don’t know what is. Most women don’t care if you approach them as long as you’re polite about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:30 PM
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Damn you’re being pretty emotional. Bit of an overreaction no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:40 PM
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Single part absolutely matters. Why would a woman in a relationship have any interest in a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:57 PM
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Umm yes you do? Conversations happen. Women speak. Class has a ton of group work and you probably sit next to a couple women. How tf have you not naturally had conversations? If you haven’t, it’s probably because you act creepy or just don’t talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:56 PM
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That’s what they inherently believe. Women aren’t stupid, it’s pretty easy to tell if a guy is redpilled or listens to alpha male podcasts by the way they speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:53 PM
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The point is to build a non-romantic relationship first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:52 PM
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No? Women don’t think mutual smiling is creepy. You’ve made up some crazy standards for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:46 PM
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If you don’t talk to women, obviously you’re not going to have female friends. What kind of crazy stuff do you believe man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:44 PM
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That’s because men think they’re “talking to women” but are harassing them. They cross social boundaries, say audacious things, and then act like the victim for just “trying to talk to a girl”. Most men also think it’s ok to pick up women at the gym or as they’re walking down the street. That’s not ok. Then they go and blame women for being mean and awful and evil creatures who hate all men under 6’5”. If you go up to someone and say “Hi, I think you’re beautiful, may I buy you a drink?” there w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:41 PM
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My bad, it's still the same answer for both.
/r/AntiFeminists26/01/23 12:14 AM
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uhh ok? I'm sure they do. I don't really get what your point is, I was just answering the question the post asked. Thats what women think men are saying when they complain about dating.
/r/AntiFeminists26/01/23 12:14 AM
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I am literally answering the question your post asked. That is what women think. Jesus Christ
/r/AntiFeminists26/01/23 12:12 AM
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It’s because some men seem to think women are vending machines. They put in money, kindness, an expensive date, and expect sex. Key word SOME men. However, many women have had bad experiences with men like that, so when men complain about how difficult it is to get sex, it sounds exactly like entitlement.
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/23 08:39 AM
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She addressed those points in her edits, which came after my reply. My bad. ​ a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it. This describes the US government perfectly. The US House of Representatives has been 72-80% male in the past 10 years. We have never had a female president 76% of all republican elected officials are male. White men make up a third of the US population, but around 65% of politicians. If that's not a patriarchy, I don't…
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 07:27 AM
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Was my point not clear? Life was terrible for women and minorities when the “nuclear family” was common.
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/23 08:38 AM
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Feminists have acquired equality in the west. I hear nothing out of feminists but toxicity and hatred of men. What are you fighting for now? She clearly listed this in the post. ​ Feminists fought for equal rights. You got them. But you did not give up your female privledge and demand equal responsibilities in society. You don't even recognize female privledge. You did not fight to be required to register for Selective Service like men. You did not fight to be treated equally to men in family co…
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 08:43 AM
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So... you have a shitty boss who treats your team of mostly women and you very horribly. Why did you write this in such a misogynistic way with so much emphasis on her being female?
/r/MensRights22/12/22 09:28 AM
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who's your fav composer?
/r/MensRights21/12/22 07:40 AM
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Of course you've successfully pissed me off. I don't recall ever interacting with someone this stupid in the real world. ​ All you did was fancily write "it does" with a lot of words and no source. Isn't that what you did? Do you also mean "it doesn't"?
/r/MensRights01/12/22 08:07 AM
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trolll lol
/r/MensRights01/12/22 08:05 AM
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This isn't the side effect of being a male and having autism, it's just the side effect of being autistic. There's nothing misandrist happening here. Autistic people have trouble understanding social cues. Sometimes, regular people are made uncomfortable by it and they are cruel. I wish that wasn't how it worked, but this is not a problem based on his sex. Having a disability makes it more difficult to navigate a world designed for neurotypical people. Girls having autism is absolutely not seen …
/r/MensRights21/11/22 05:28 AM
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You are seriously an idiot. I have been giving you nothing but evidence proving my point for why a kick to the fucking testicles isn't lethal. Since you aren't bothered to read it, I will list all the evidence again. Also, I am not advocating for men to be kicked in the nuts. I am simply saying you, and many other men, are exaggerating how bad it is. Thinking that a kick to the balls kills people is wrong. 1) There is no medical, correctly documented evidence that a kick to the testicles is fata…
/r/MensRights21/11/22 05:13 AM
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No? How would you get anything even remotely close enough to that from anything I said? You: Incorrect statement Me: That statement is incorrect You: Do you HATE men?
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:13 AM
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I did look through google. Every source says there is no link or proof for it. Literally, think logically. What would the cause of death even be? There isn't any blood loss, and internal bleeding far away from the vital organs isn't fatal. Testicular torsion doesn't lead to death, and in 97% of the cases, even the testicle survives. Yes it is painful, but you've got to be really stupid to call it deadly.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 01:34 AM
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is that seriously all you got from my comment? Accept that you're wrong and move on.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 04:03 AM
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Oh pretty please give a source. edit: LOL is it this random thing from a blurb on wikipedia that has been labeled "controversial" and nominated for deletion? In extreme cases, a hard strike to the testicles can cause one or both testicles to rupture, potentially sterilizing or even killing the victim." I'd argue that death only occurs indirectly and not as a direct result of the groin attack. For example extreme pain can trigger circulatory shock (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shock\_(circulator…
/r/MensRights11/11/22 10:14 PM
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kick to the nuts won't cant will never kill ya
/r/MensRights11/11/22 09:07 PM
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it can't, dumbass. Look it up you stupid fuck.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 12:48 AM
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wha... Nobody cares about the evil minions. It's a side role. The evil minions don't even need a gender. I really don't care about that.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 05:26 AM
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Testicular torsion doesn't kill you. Seriously, where did you hear that from? 97% of the time, the testicle even survives.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 05:01 AM
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I'm being so serious, are any of you guys capable of intelligent thought? A scrotal injury is not fatal. In 97.2% of testicular torsion cases (many of, which weren't from a kick to the balls in the first place) even the testical survived. Does everyone on this subreddit lack a few brain cells? A kick to the nuts won't kill you, dumbass.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 01:37 AM
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First of all your stats are wrong even in the 6 hour window thier is a 80 present chance Someone doesn't know how percentages work. Yes, up to 6 hours, *there is an 80 *percent chance the testical will surivive. It drops to 60% in 8 hours. Still, overall, in 97% of cases, the testical will survive. In many studies, this number is far higher than 80%. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28953100/ Do some actual research before pulling words out of your ass.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 12:04 AM
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Yes, I read the article? Did you even read my comment? Or the snopes article that literally acknowledges your article? What even is your point here? In a handful of extremely rare cases (not even from a kick) of trauma to the testicles, the very shoddily documented victims died from unrelated causes. Is that really all the evidence you have? 1) in 1843, someone squished a guy's testicles in a fight, and he died. There wasn't even evidence that any testicular injury had a part in his death. 2) A …
/r/MensRights03/11/22 09:31 PM
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Why aren't you mad when it's one man cutting down 40 men in a single scene? Why is it suddenly a problem when a woman does it when both scenarios are equally impossible? The "evil minions" are usually men, because it has been normalized to be that way. (The same way where a man is usually doing the crazy stunts and not a woman). If the evil minions were all women I'd imagine you would absolutely have a complaint about that as well, considering how it's "unrealistic" and "feminist man hating prop…
/r/MensRights03/11/22 09:09 PM
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Testicular torsion absolutely doesn't kill you. That's one of the most stupid things I've heard all day 97.2% of the time even the testicle survives.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 05:56 AM
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that doesn't kill people
/r/MensRights03/11/22 05:56 AM
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Funny how not a single death in the article was caused by a kick to the nuts, and they were all also caused by non-related and underlying causes such as heart conditions. So pathetic. There have also only been 4 or 5 cases in the history of all recorded medical science. Get a life and learn to take the L
/r/MensRights03/11/22 05:55 AM
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Lol so dumbbb. A kick to the balls is absolutely not fatal. It's as fatal as a kick to the leg or any other non-vital place. You've got to be a troll if you genuinely believe that a kick to the balls is lethal. Snopes even checked this stupidity. https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/swift-kick-groin-die/
/r/MensRights03/11/22 03:31 AM
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And yours REEKS of stupidity
/r/MensRights03/11/22 03:20 AM
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Women expect men to pay for dates. Not all women. Also, is this such a big deal? If you hate it that much, don't date women who expect you to pay. ​ Women who are not able to do equal work (e.g. Most of the building trade, Firefighters, Army, Police, warehouse work etc.) demanding equal pay. What are you talking about? Women demand equal pay for the same job where men get paid more. Two firefighters that have the same rank and differ in gender should absolutely get paid the same or similarly. ​ …
/r/MensRights02/11/22 07:30 PM
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Why do you need one "just for men"? Just use the regular fucking homeless shelter lmao 🤣 Women don't have "homeless shelters" just for women. They usually aren't categorized this way. They are called domestic abuse shelters or family shelters. Women placed into shelters housing only men is a terrible idea. They get raped and beaten, and since the woman is most likely weaker than every single other occupant, there is nothing she can do to fight back. There is also no space for children or support…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:18 PM
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it can kill you it kills men every year A kick to the balls absolutely doesn't kill people, that's the most hilarious thing I've read all day. ​ but people just make jokes about it it makes no sense to me there are so many video of women kicking men in the balls and it is supposed to be funny. Men are also laughing at these jokes. It makes no sense to blame women for this when it's mostly MEN making the jokes. Countless shows and movies directed by men use this gag. There are groups of men on yo…
/r/MensRights02/11/22 07:05 PM
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There's homeless shelters for men too so...? Also, how does homeless shelters for women benefit any woman who isn't already at rock bottom?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:36 AM
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As a woman, what specifically do I get? What "safety net" am I provided that a man doesn't have?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:00 AM
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It is a fact, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:20 AM
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no matter how much you exercise your hip muscles, they wont get rounder. Hip dips are permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:14 AM
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babes the hip is a bone, not a muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:23 AM
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No.. no they are absolutely not. Making your stomach thinner will absolutely not round out your hips. If you have hip dips, they're not going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:28 PM
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you can go to surgeron for nose. There are surgeries to make you taller, and both of these things can make you look even uglier, mess up your nose, and it may not even work. ​ Breast implants or fat transfer or get fatter if you got good enough genetics for it. Besides you can do other gym stuff like lifting them on that most of women are not even aware of. Exercise will not increase boob size at all lol, and most men hate the way breast implants look/feel. You can't fix age. You can prevent it …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:29 PM
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I'm gonna go with height on a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:23 PM
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You cannot make your hips rounder with exercise lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:22 PM
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A very, very small minority of feminists are on Heard's side. Even on super young, feminist social media like Tikt*k, there's so many people making fun of her and that's enough proof for me. (source: feminist)
/r/MensRights24/10/22 12:25 AM
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Most feminists/women/humans in general are on Depp's side, so this isn't very reliable.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 03:33 AM
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It's still her right, her body, and she obviously sees the baby as her own child already. It's a horrible situation but it's how it should be.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 12:49 AM
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Wow that is absolutely crazy dude
/r/MensRights16/10/22 08:10 AM
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Obviously. Not a huge difference, but there will be some difference.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 08:07 AM
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Of course not. Did I say anything about that? I was just saying that hoodies are unisex. They are built practically the same. This is true. Idk why everyone is mad at me for that
/r/MensRights16/10/22 07:52 AM
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Yuh, and?
/r/MensRights16/10/22 06:56 AM
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1) Again, WHO are you talking about? This might as well be your own projection of the make believe feminists in your head. I can say the same thing. “Men’s rights activists think that all women have extremely easy lives and they all hate women” 2) Nah, you’re missing the point. There is a ton of sexism in STEM. People can make all the “girls groups” they want but it won’t do anything unless the root of the problem is solved. Female doctors make less money despite being better at their jobs than …
/r/MensRights16/10/22 02:31 AM
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1) No, I am not. 2)Nothing is preventing men from voting, the majority of college graduates are female yes, but absolutely not in areas such as STEM. It’s mostly in humanities majors. (Which are pretty useless lol) Also, once out of school and in the real workplace, demographics instantly shift. A degree is worthless if you don’t have a job for it. Women are the primary receivers of donations and this is a problem caused by the patriarchy where men as seen as strong enough to be on their own, bu…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 01:41 AM
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Feminists aren’t a hive mind either. There are many various levels, and you guys tend to argue against extremists and 4th wave feminism most of the time. 1) no I am not 2) Patriarchy, or a society ruled by men. Men are at the top. Regardless of if whether men are at the bottom as well, this is a patriarchy. Men make the rules, rule the working class, etc. I don’t see any room for confusion. 3) Feminist policies? Such as?
/r/MensRights16/10/22 01:22 AM
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Isn’t the image you linked a perfect example of how the patriarchy hurts men? I feel like that supports feminism more than your own point. Men at the top are making men and women under them suffer. Women are stuck in the middle and never get to go to the top. Men have the ability to go to the top, but once they are on the bottom they receive no help and resources to make it to the middle.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 01:05 AM
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Sexed hoodies are rare. When you think of a regular ass hoodie, it’s the same and a popular choice for women and men both. Even sexed hoodies are very similar. The neckline is the same for both. Arms are not skinnier for women lol, the general proportions are the same except for the waist. I do a ton of thrifting and shopping for clothes. Women wear “men’s” hoodies all the time and it looks just the same.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:59 AM
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They basically are. If you’re looking at fitted hoodies, then women’s will have a smaller waist. That’s about it.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:52 AM
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Not a simp. Just a silly emotional woman. Sorry, my bad. Back to the kitchen I go.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:37 AM
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Are you ok? Hoodies for women don’t have a built in boob pocket or anything. Men and women’s hoodies are basically the same.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:26 AM
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😬 she’s an idiot but come on man
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:24 AM
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Do you have any source to back this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:24 AM
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Maybe your friends are all great. Who knows. Just telling my experiences, and that friends don't know long term spousal habits.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 08:00 PM
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Wait, so generalizations about a gender is sexism?! Have you spent more than 5 minutes on this sub? If you used the same logic instead of being such a hypocrite, you'd know this sub is very very misogynistic.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 05:23 PM
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Lol, obviously you would be respectful around a guest or as a visitor. It's very different living with someone for a long time.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 05:44 AM
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You need to leave her. This is an abusive relationship. Please don't think that this can be solved in any way while you continue to stay with your wife. Physical abuse is too serious to put aside as any other marriage problem that can be fixed. As for now, do you have kids? If you don't, the best course of action would be to start putting together the divorce papers and leaving the house. This may be a hard ask, but collect evidence for court. Photograph all of those scratches and bruises. Try t…
/r/MensRights03/10/22 05:25 PM
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That's just you then. Also, how would you know anyway? Do you live with your male friends? How would you know these small, daily habits?
/r/MensRights03/10/22 05:12 PM
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Easy. Just count. Three uses require the seat down, one requires the seat up. Also, it's very very unpleasant to sit down on the toilet when the seat is up because the person behind you put it down. If you put it up, you should put it back down.
/r/MensRights03/10/22 05:12 PM
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It's very common. Obviously, there isn't going to be a scientific study done on the number of toilet seats men leave up or any of the other problems I mentioned. It's just something that happens, and all of us women know it.
/r/MensRights03/10/22 05:21 AM
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ok? cool
/r/MensRights03/10/22 05:18 AM
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You can't have it both ways. You're working on the assumption that if a man doesn't do something it's because he's lazy, whereas if a woman doesn't do something it's because he won't let her. Formally, this is a begging-the-question fallacy, or circular reasoning; all you're really claiming here is that men are bad because of the badness of men. The proof of this is easy; you can flip it round the other way and it makes just as much sense: She knows that if she doesn't learn it, her husband will…
/r/MensRights02/10/22 11:54 PM
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Personally, I've married a good man, and my experiences with men not knowing how to load a dishwasher properly have been only from exes. For example, men won't put their clothes in the dirty basket, but right next to it. They don't put the seat down after pissing. They don't close the toothpaste lid after brushing their teeth. They leave beard and mustache hair in the sink after shaving. They don't close Tupperware properly before putting it in the fridge. They'll leave a mass of dirty dishes in…
/r/MensRights02/10/22 11:47 PM
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House hold chores are not multiple times a week. I’m a 31 year old single man, I do all my own house work once a week, usually a Saturday morning & it takes about 2 hours if that. Do you not eat food every day? How about that, but for 5 people? Including toddlers. Have you ever had to pick up after a toddler? SAHM work on average 98 hours a week.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 11:42 PM
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Mowing the lawn is easy. Changing oil in a car is also easy. It's just not comparable to the fucking ease of putting dishes in the dishwasher and turning it on.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 11:39 PM
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What can a mother teach that a father cannot? nothing. ​ And if we're being equal why do women get 90% of sole custody cases? Men don't fight for custody, and when they do, they get custody more often. Also, men are usually the abuser, not the victim in domestic violence cases. ​ Numerous studies have shown that children do better when both parents stay involved. The idea that fathers or mothers are unimportant is feminist propaganda and a form of child abuse. A child deserves both parents. This…
/r/MensRights02/10/22 11:38 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j9Yn3i-DMKw This video is hilarious. He is ignoring the main issue head-on. Obviously, there are fewer important women in history. Obviously, there are fewer women in science and STEM. Obviously, most achievements and milestones have been accomplished by women after their male counterparts. Do you ever stop and think why, though? Men will not spare a single thought deeper than the surface level of a hair, and chalk it up to "haha women are stupid and they don't kn…
/r/MensRights02/10/22 11:34 PM
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Seems like there trend lately of women online getting angry whenever their husband's or sons can't do anything and are coming up with these conspiracies that all men are manipulators that purposely do everything wrong so they don't have any responsibilities. The term used is "weponized incompetence" and is often about things like not loading the dishwasher correctly, not being able to cook well, etc. Apparently if you're a man and you can't do these things you're an evil sexist manipulator If yo…
/r/MensRights02/10/22 02:49 AM
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It makes perfect sense, how are you so blind?
/r/MensRights02/10/22 02:20 AM
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Yeah, I’d make an actual response and explain but I don’t care to for a femcel weird how you kept going after this statement. “if a man does this would I like it?” If the answer is “no” don’t do it otherwise you’re worse than most men are. ? ok, cool haha
/r/MensRights02/10/22 02:19 AM
1

Yes, I agree, it's just an old tradition that has carried on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:16 AM
-2

What can a father teach that a mother cannot?
/r/MensRights02/10/22 01:54 AM
14

expecting him to lead social situations, particularly with strangers Nobody does that, where did you get the idea from? Girls and guys are similarly extroverted, so idk why you say this. ​ planning & paying for dates As of current times, this usually isn't the case. But it's just a patriarichal, old, sexist concept that has stuck. Has nothing to do with women wanting a father for a boyfriend ​ solve problems for her As any good partner should. ​ do manual labor around the house Like... what? Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:35 AM
0

Right, knew you wouldn't be able to find one.
/r/MensRights01/10/22 04:25 AM
0

Bruh, give me one single example of a post on reddit against women like this that people were making fun of that was "clearly a joke". A single one, bet you can't, because there isn't any.
/r/MensRights01/10/22 04:01 AM
0

Because they're never actually joking genius. Nobody posts obvious jokes like these and throws a hissy fit about it. Learn to see the difference.
/r/MensRights01/10/22 01:46 AM
0

It's different because women actually have fewer rights. Making a joke out of the underdogs usually is much worse than making a joke out of the winning team since they aren't being affected by it. Nowhere in the world are people actively taking away men's rights. It's fiction, so you guys only get offended at jokes. Be glad.
/r/MensRights01/10/22 01:44 AM
-33

The people taking this seriously in the comments is making me cackle
/r/MensRights28/09/22 11:32 PM
-2

It's almost like men don't care or try to create a body positivity movement and complain when there magically isn't one for them.
/r/MensRights27/09/22 05:43 PM
3

well, it's a medical right and probably don't want to see the sub turn into a cesspool of political debate.
/r/MensRights27/09/22 04:58 PM
-1

What did I even say wrong? I'm just pointing out a very obvious problem in our society. Women are paid less than men. There are a variety of reasons for it, and I'm not blaming men for it. It's just the way society is structured. You're the only one with a closed mind here and I'm completely open to a discussion on why the wage gap could be debunked. I don't hate men or anything like that so you should stop looking at every woman who disagrees with you as a radical feminist. Just a word of advic…
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/22 02:46 PM
3

Well, I think in a discussion like this there's no use in pointing that out since each side thinks the other is sexist no? :)
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/22 08:18 PM
3

Maybe there are less women in medical leadership positions, beacuse they are less women in field No, there's disproportionately less. ​ Beacuse women go on medicine to find a husband and then they would rather to work 1/2 of time to have more time for families. More women finish medicine than men, but more men finish residency - women dont want to do this job. Its not boys club - its just hard work and women would rather marry a doctror and be a housewife than spend 60h/week in work Baseless mis…
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/22 10:23 AM
3

It's not all bad here. All countries have their own problems and I think the West treats women better than many other countries.
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/22 07:53 AM
-9

Men have a higher average IQ . Did you know that IQ tests are biased towards men? Women used to perform much higher than men in IQ tests, so the tests were adjusted so men started performing higher instead. Also, as of today we are roughly equal. The curves look different but there are more stupid men than average women, and more very smart men than average women. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/beautiful-minds/200901/the-equality-the-sexes-i-fact-or-artefact ​ Women have never been oppr…
/r/MensRights26/09/22 07:31 AM
2

Obviously, that is part of the issue because the burden of childcare is disproportionately placed on women. However, if the study is adjusted to this fact, there is still a large wage gap. In fact, despite spending more time with patients, women still get paid less. Also, women experience widespread bias in the medical field regardless, they are less likely to get big research grants for the same work, and are less likely to hold leadership positions. the gap is about 2.5 million for surgeons, a…
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/22 07:07 AM
2

Alright, fixed.
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/22 05:34 AM
1

yes.
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/22 05:34 AM
0

Thanks for keeping an open mind it's hard to come by these days haha. I'm just here because feminists spew way too much exaggerated bullshit these days. It's unfortunate that this sub just seems misogynistic most of the times. I'm against 4th wave feminism and many feminist talking points but I still believe in this day and age there are a bunch of problems making women suffer that need to be fixed.
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/22 02:34 AM
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I see. It's a multitude of factors, and a lot of radical feminists get it wrong as well so I don't blame you. Even taking extra hours into consideration, women are paid disproportionately less. Now, this doesn't affect all jobs. Mostly jobs in STEM and other predominantly male jobs. Female doctors are paid less than their male counterparts. Actually, female physicians are paid about an estimated $2,000,000 less than their male counterparts during their careers despite the fact that female physic…
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/22 02:14 AM
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Because it's far more nuanced than that. It seems like you don't fully understand what the gender pay gap is. Obviously, businesses aren't paying women less for blatant the reason they are women. It would be shockingly easy to take someone to court over that. Also, it's called businesses. Or why dont bisnesses hire exclusively just women since they can just pay them less than men. That would also be illegal. Also, you don't seem to understand how society or the world works in general. There woul…
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/22 01:16 AM
-4

Thing happens? Think again! It's illegal so it clearly can't happen!
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/22 01:08 AM
1

Then what’s the issue? It’s your jewelry, she’s just trying it on. There’s no complicated legal loophole for this problem that doesn’t exist
/r/MensRights19/09/22 06:52 PM
0

I do, end of story. If you can't handle dark humor there's no point in crying about it. I accept that you don't find it funny. It's not some grand crime against men, so just move on.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 04:55 AM
-8

men ☕
/r/MensRights19/09/22 04:54 AM
1

Please, you can't start "it's not a competitive sport" when the entire point of this post and the comments is calling women crybabies and men stoic warriors for having to deal with way worse medical embarrassment.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 04:54 AM
-2

Right, so why is everyone getting mad when I say the two cannot be compared?
/r/MensRights19/09/22 01:08 AM
-6

Because its all about women? Are you replying to something I said? What's all about women? ​ What is it about men's issues that you cannot accept and a feel compelled cite juvenile comparisons with unrelated issues as if this somehow negates the experiences of men? Because a prostate exam is objectively very different than any of the medical procedures that women undergo to their genitals. ​ Just because you have issues doesn't mean everyone else is forbiden to talk about their own experiences. …
/r/MensRights19/09/22 01:07 AM
1

Lol, grow a spine. If you don't think that video is tame you clearly haven't seen much.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 01:04 AM
1

If you're buying it for you, it automatically doesn't belong to her so I don't see why you're asking such a stupid question. And yes, if you're acting so immaturely your relationship is doomed.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 01:02 AM
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You’re being dramatic. You're being willfully ignorant, and I'm not being dramatic. ​ Pap smears shouldn’t hurt. They do hurt for many women. ​ Used as a contraceptive and is medically unnecessary for most women. Shouldn’t be compared to routine medical procedures. Not to mention that sedation is offered if you want it. Donating or giving a sperm sample is also medically unnecessary for most men. Sedation is not regularly offered and the majority of gynos will refuse to offer it. It is also extr…
/r/MensRights19/09/22 12:59 AM
-1

The idea is that he's a complete douche for going through all this bullshit instead of giving his girlfriend a present? If he doesn't want her to have it, simply don't buy it for her.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 06:54 PM
-21

Rare? Almost all women at the age of 18 go to the gyno to get a pap smear. Yes, it sounds hellish because it IS hellish. They have something called a speculum (which literally looks like a metal duck mouth). It gets cranked open, screwed into place, and then they stick a bristle brush (think of a pipe cleaner) into your cervix. You know absolutely nothing of what women go through in the medical world haha
/r/MensRights18/09/22 06:51 PM
-61

What? No, prostate exams aren’t the same!!!! How are prostate exams the same as a pap smear or iud insertion or cervix biopsy in any way? You can be a MRA but you cannot deny the amount of physical pain women must go through in the medical world.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 06:48 PM
0

I’m not trying to prove any point. I’m clearly agreeing with you that getting robbed is in fact, a bad and scary thing. I’m calling you dense because it feels like I’m talking to someone who’s never been on the internet before. Sometimes situations that are terrible to be in are hilarious from an outside perspective. It also has nothing to do with the fact that he was a man. You’re getting pissy over some basic internet jokes and a tame video.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 11:26 PM
0

What’s funny isn’t that he’s suffering you dense idiot
/r/MensRights15/09/22 11:09 PM
0

It’s funny come on
/r/MensRights15/09/22 06:58 PM
-1

Alr snowflake
/r/MensRights15/09/22 03:31 PM
0

Cuz it looks funny and I’m not him. Lighten up and learn to take semi dark humor Jesus Christ
/r/MensRights15/09/22 04:31 AM
-2

It would not
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:26 PM
1

Sex is not a form of currency in a relationship. If men think like this, it’s no worker their wives hate them.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:24 PM
-4

Of course it would be. Is anyone denying that?
/r/MensRights14/09/22 07:10 PM
-19

Please that’s hilarious 💀 Why are you guys so pissy over this video can you not see the comedic aspect of it? People get robbed, you’re not going to see fake sympathy when redditors can make bad jokes and get karma jokes lmfao
/r/MensRights14/09/22 05:14 PM
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Crazy how men think women in relationships aren’t entitled to consent. That’s what these women are complaining about. Adult life, especially with kids is so tiring and women naturally have lower sex drives than men. Yet they still pester their wives for sex knowing she doesn’t want it. It’s a tale as old as time.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 05:09 PM
1

Of course it's still sexual assault.
/r/MensRights10/09/22 12:44 AM
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The numbers are in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:35 PM
-4

You could easily stop that from happening.
/r/MensRights08/09/22 08:34 PM
1

There's exceptions to everything. Lol, I never said men enjoy being sexually harrassed. They do however like it when a pretty girl touches them at a club and will 99% of the time play into it for a chance at getting laid.
/r/MensRights08/09/22 08:34 PM
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Well if you read it carefully you'd see that there are vast differences in what men want for a wife and a daughter. They want their daughters to be more independent, more strong, and more intelligent than their wives. The conclusion is painfully obvious. Men see their wives as objects of desire for them to control and be submissive to them. However since they don't want to have sex with their daughters, they want them to be their own, independent, human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:27 PM
-1

I just want to disprove the idiocy you're spewing. Women do initiate 80-90% of divorces. Why do you assume the women are in the wrong and not the men? Most domestic abusers are men. Most child rapists are men. Most molesters are men. Most perpetrators of abuse are men. It makes perfect sense to me that most divorces are initiated by women. Why do you assume they are unjustly being taken to the cleaners?
/r/MensRights08/09/22 06:24 PM
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Men understand that if they do lay a hand on that female they will more than likely go to jail for protecting themselves even if they don't get jumped by the bouncers or white knights nearby ?? what world are you living in? Women get groped at clubs and bars constantly. Men aren't going to jail for a little thing like that. ​ Society has an unwritten rule that men aren't allowed to use their greater strength to defend themselves against women and we just have to take it. Doesn't matter if it's n…
/r/MensRights08/09/22 06:21 PM
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Also why are there 106% men? Bro you don't add up those percentages *facepalm*
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:56 PM
1

Difference is you aren’t afraid because you can easily overpower the average woman. You don’t feel that sense of raw fear and intimidation when a woman comes up and touches you at a club without consent. You know you can get her off with a flick of your wrist. You never fear she will take you by force. That’s the difference. You’re still in control in this situation. It’s completely different for a woman.
/r/MensRights08/09/22 05:31 PM
1

The point is flying straight over your head. Last time, you asked me to “prove it”, and so I did. I wasn’t proving that court was worse or better for men in any way, nor for women. I was just showing you how anyone could take a bunch of random comments out of context and that it proves NOTHING. Here’s me proving you wrong again. Literally google “man takes all in divorce” and look at the news articles for stuff like cheating and theft. bam you’ve got thousands of results. If you lack the motivat…
/r/MensRights08/09/22 05:22 PM
1

LOL you just proved my point by saying this post is idiotic and useless! Someone’s a little sore. I literally made that just to prove you wrong and now you’ve found something else to bitch about. Do yourself a favor and google it for 5 minutes. Bam your answer is right there. Also, do you seriously, with all of your being believe there aren’t cases where a woman ends up with nothing in divorce court? Are you truly so delusional to think that has never happened? Thanks, g’bye
/r/MensRights08/09/22 05:04 PM
1

I got off from work and literally after 3 minutes of searching made a post just like this one. https://www.reddit.com/r/NoRules/comments/x8lcdp/omg_guys_look_how_awful_the_court_system_is_to/ Do you now understand how dumb it is to claim something like this? Do you understand the double standard?
/r/MensRights08/09/22 12:29 AM
1

It’ll get removed in an instant here. I’ll post it in r/norules and link it haha
/r/MensRights07/09/22 07:18 PM
1

Who’s to say men can’t destroy women in divorce court either? I could pull a bunch of random comments and make a post like this saying the exact opposite.
/r/MensRights07/09/22 07:04 PM
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You are veering wildly off topic. Prostitution is in most cases, exploitation. It is a dangerous, derogatory, and anguishing job. The business is riddled with drug abuse and mental illness. There is safe prostitution. I’m not denying the existence of safe prostitution. Safe prostitution exists and it is rare because being a prostitute is usually a desperate job. I’m just responding to your original comment and letting you know that it is NOT a simple exchange of services.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 06:58 PM
-1

Of course all prostitution is good when you’re only considering good prostitution 🤦‍♀️
/r/MensRights06/09/22 05:18 PM
1

Educate yourself on what happens behind the scenes. It’s human trafficking in many cases. Not a simple exchange of services.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 05:14 PM
1

Right, you don’t think it’s exploitation because you ignore why actually happens.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 05:13 PM
2

I am not. Simply showing perspective. Everyone in the comments is acting like the woman is in the wrong, but when I switch sides, I get downvoted to infinity.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 07:04 PM
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I’m saying, you can’t assume anything based on comments. Why is everyone here acting like the lady is in the wrong? I’m giving some perspective here. You can’t exactly drain someone of all their assets if they haven’t done anything wrong.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 07:13 PM
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Lol what? Revenge? Do you idiots know what divorce even is? The husband could be a child abuser and a wife beater. She’s not getting “revenge” she’s getting free from her loser husband.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 06:54 PM
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Context? You don’t know if the husband is a massive piece of shit. What a dumb post
/r/MensRights04/09/22 06:10 PM
0

Centuries?
/r/MensRights01/09/22 06:57 PM
1

LOL you’re the only one making assumptions here haha “you must hate men” “you must be a feminist” “you clearly think he’s trying to rape her”. Get your head out of your ass man not all women are hate men. You can read this entire conversation and see I never blamed him for acting that way because of his gender. You’re the only one being sexist here.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 05:09 PM
1

Care to explain?
/r/MensRights01/09/22 05:04 PM
0

You are putting words in my mouth and ignoring everything I am saying. I don’t hate men, nor did I say anything about his gender having to do with the recording. It would be the exact same if a woman asked for the recording. Also “your kind” wtffff
/r/MensRights01/09/22 02:49 PM
0

Not a reason, learn how to read, goodbye
/r/MensRights01/09/22 06:47 AM
0

It's seriously like talking to a wall. Do you know what a hypothetical is? Look at this example: Some guy is carrying a gun. He brings the gun into a restaurant. Me: The guy has the gun so he can shoot a person, or he has it for self defense. You: omg you think the guy is a murderer and wants to shoot people?? If you still disagree, tell me why he wants the recording? All the options. Don't assume his innocence or guilt based on biases. You're truly the only biased one here if you think what I s…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 06:06 AM
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I didn't assume the worst, I didn't assume the best, or anything in between. I simply stated the reasons why he would want a recording. Doesn't matter if he got the idea from a tik tok or his grandma or the FBI. If you cannot understand that I'm done discussing this.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 05:55 AM
1

None of that is in the definition lol, it's just prejudice against women. That's it. Stop trying to make it out to be a stronger word than it actually is. Would you throw less of a fit if I said "sexism" instead?
/r/MensRights01/09/22 05:54 AM
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Very good brick wall
/r/MensRights31/08/22 10:11 PM
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Nope. Do tell me then, why would he want a recording? What are the only reasons he would want a recording of consent that is plausible. I don’t see how I gave “worst case” scenarios. I just gave the only scenarios. If you think they are “worst case” then he should clearly be in the wrong
/r/MensRights31/08/22 08:08 PM
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You’re really bad at understanding hypotheticals and POSSIBILITIES. I stand by what I said. I never said he would rape her. I never said he was planning on raping her. I simply gave the ONLY two possible reasons why he would want the recording.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 08:00 PM
1

Most people are. You can have varying degrees of misogyny. It’s a subjective word.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 07:58 PM
1

Prejudice towards women, that's it lol. It seems like you think the word is far stronger than what it is. What he said is prejudiced towards women, or, misogynistic.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 06:13 AM
1

Jokes can be misogynistic. Of course I know what misogyny is ffs.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:31 AM
1

It's precisely the "ditzy blonde" thing that is misogynistic. He took a scenario, saw she was a woman, and made her the villain. It's that simple. What do you think misogyny is?
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:25 AM
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It's quite obvious that gender is the cause. Spend more than a minute on here and you'll see every post boils women down to stereotypes like that. Without even a single thought to whether she could truly be her victim, he made solid claims. Not "maybe" or "might have" or "possibly" He said: The woman was completely oblivious to her own driving. wasn't paying attention not concentrating she drifted across the lane scaring the shit out of him. With zero reason as to why, he created a story where s…
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:02 AM
1

Do you realize that isn't what I was calling misogyny? Of course, people want to make themselves look better than they are. The misogynistic part is assuming that she MUST be in the wrong simply for being a woman. His original comment was plainly accusatory, ignoring that she was the victim in the situation she described. She was the villain and deserves no sympathy in the fanfiction he made up about her.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 04:38 AM
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Go back and read your original comment. You were accusing her of lying (for no good reason, I might add), creating a scenario in your head where she was a stereotypical bumble-headed female who only cares about clothes and dancing. You basically invented a version of the story where you could easily hate on this woman just for the sake of hating on this woman. This argument has gone so far off from what I was originally criticizing you off of. Why would you only feel empathy for her if she did s…
/r/MensRights31/08/22 04:36 AM
0

The post screams "I left out the part that I don't want you to judge me on". Nah, just a simple post that you can't wrap your brain around because you can't get past your hatred of women. ​ It's weird how men are guilty until proven innocent, in the court of public opinion, but when it happens to women, oh goodness. Oh boy. Looks like some other personal opinions are leaking in. ​ You've fallen for the fallacy of believing all women. Nope, I just believe in innocence until proven guilty. ​ I hav…
/r/MensRights31/08/22 12:19 AM
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I was going with the flow of traffic, didn't change lanes, beep my horn, swerve, nothing. Anyway, the whole rest of the 20 minute drive to work he continued to drive way under the speed limit, stay stopped several seconds at a light after it turned green, all while screaming out his window and waving his finger around at me. I didn't react but twice pulled into the next lane over to get behind someone else, but he always managed to squeeze himself back in front of me so he could harass me more. …
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:55 PM
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I’m sorry but you have absolutely no reason to think she’s lying other than your subconscious “but there’s no way she did nothing wrong!”. There is nothing in that post pointing to her being guilty, and that is NOT a reason to think she was lying. Believe it or not, sometimes bad things happen to completely innocent people. Shocker I know. Guess what? Sometimes, even women aren’t always mindless bumbling idiots. I’m laughing a little at your rewrite. Duh, if she was in the wrong, people would ha…
/r/MensRights30/08/22 08:01 PM
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Way to twist the narrative. Why don’t you just believe her that the car in front of her suddenly stopped as she was driving like a regular person instead of spiraling into a misogynistic rant about clothing? Even so, what the guy did is completely unacceptable and terrifyingly blown out of proportion. What you just did was create a fantasy story in your head where the woman was obviously an idiot who has her head in the clouds and couldn’t drive, and the man was the real victim here. She deserve…
/r/MensRights30/08/22 07:38 PM
0

Quote the part where I said that.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 07:34 PM
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I never said he would rape her dude. I don’t understand if you’re stupid, or if English isn’t your first language, or something to justify why you can’t understand that I never said that. Can you just quote the part where I said he would rape her?
/r/MensRights29/08/22 10:48 PM
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I’m done with this. Please learn the nuances of the English language.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 09:28 PM
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Once again, never said ANYTHING along the lines that he would rape her. You’re yelling at a strawman right now. What’s the point of talking to someone this dense? Me: the only two reasons he would ask for a recording is because he thinks she will accuse him of rape, or he will rape her. Both are not valid reasons and she has every right to refuse and end the relationship rather than date someone who doesn’t trust her or will rape her. You: you hate all men silly feminist reee
/r/MensRights29/08/22 06:59 PM
1

Never, ever said he was going to rape her. At all. It’s hard to argue with someone who is dead beat on punching the strawman. Those are not worst-case scenarios either. They are the ONLY two possible scenarios. The fact you see them as “worst case” shows how in the wrong he is. Her not wanting to record is fine because HE is the one who brought up the recording for the two reasons I mentioned, and both reasons are valid to end the relationship over. She owes him nothing. He is the one who either…
/r/MensRights29/08/22 03:32 PM
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Read your last sentence again and try saying that you’re not assuming the worst with a straight face. I'll tell it again, I'm not assuming a single thing. Zero assumptions in what I said. There are ONLY two possible reasons he would want recorded consent. He either thinks there is a chance she will falsely accuse him of rape, or he is planning on raping her. There is literally no other reason why he would want a recording. Never said anything like "man bad woman good", you're making up that crap…
/r/MensRights28/08/22 06:27 PM
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People losing their careers, going to jail and even committing suicide are not worse than rape? Yes. Oh please, do your own research on how many rapists roam free. Of course, false rape accusations are a bad thing. They are nowhere near as common as actually being raped, and it's extremely easy to shoot down a rape accusation. The act of raping someone is far fucking worse that falsely accusing someone of rape, the fact you say otherwise is quite telling. Is killing someone worse than accusing s…
/r/MensRights28/08/22 07:55 AM
1

If she is acting in an untrustworthy way, then he shouldn't have sex with her. None of this bs. He is at fault because his "solution" is suspicious.
/r/MensRights28/08/22 07:43 AM
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I'm sorry, how am I being sexist at all, or assuming the worst? I'm not assuming anything. You're being emotional. I'm saying it quite plainly, there are only 2 reasons why he would want a recording of her consent, and both reasons are shitty and she has every right to refuse.
/r/MensRights28/08/22 07:42 AM
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What do you mean spared by jail? It says right there she gets a minimum of 10 years. Way longer than a lot of male rapists.
/r/MensRights28/08/22 03:28 AM
1

That’s different. People have past sexual partners. STD’s can remain dormant for a long time, and you can also have them from birth. Not a comparable situation at all.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 08:16 PM
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What do you mean? I’m not assuming anything. I’m just saying there’s ONLY two possibilities to why he wants a recording, and both are shitty. Stop victimizing men lol I never said he was planning on raping her.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 08:08 PM
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You’re misunderstanding how double standards work. He is asking for a recording for two possible reasons. A) he thinks she will falsely accuse him of rape B) he will rape her Both options show there isn’t trust in the relationship, and she is very justified in refusing to record or have sex with him.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 07:20 PM
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In a relationship, women are entitled to a mans trust and a man should be entitled to a woman’s trust. He broke that trust by asking for a recording of consent, proving A) he thinks she will falsely accuse him of rape, or B) he will take advantage of her. There’s no good reason to do that.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 07:16 PM
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What's the double standard? Can you try and think logically for a second? Him asking for a recording of consent has given her a reason to break her trust. Her refusing is not a double standard, it makes sense given that what he did is something nobody does. Her saying no to the recording isn't "I'm going to ruin your life" its "I don't want to get sexually assaulted"
/r/MensRights27/08/22 06:42 AM
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I don't understand why him asking for consent would make her afraid he is going to do something? They have been together for 5 months. She should trust him that he is just concerned. That's on him, not something to push on her. When did I say anything against him asking for consent? The issue is him wanting to record her saying it. She does trust him, he's just given her a reason for that trust to break. ​ I hate to be that guy, but women have brought this on themselves. If they would stop minim…
/r/MensRights27/08/22 06:40 AM
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Not at all. He was the one who brought up the idea, not her. Her response being "no" is perfectly valid since HE is the one acting irregularly in the first place.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 11:30 PM
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lol what a load of bullshit. You know what's not irregular? Women getting raped, especially by men who they are dating. She trusts him, and this is a huge red flag. It makes it seem like he will try something on her, and she will not be able to take it to court because of the recorded consent. Women get raped far more than men get falsely accused, and far more male rapists roam free than those who are rightly judged by the law.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 11:28 PM
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Usually bc the man is doing the act. He’s usually on top.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 06:30 PM
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Well if you wouldn’t ask for a video I’m sure you understand where she is coming from. She has no obligation to hear him out. He might as well just have plainly told her “I don’t trust you”
/r/MensRights26/08/22 06:20 PM
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If you have any suspicion the person you’re dating will accuse you of rape, you shouldn’t be dating them in the first place. I completely understand why she doesn’t want to.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 06:08 PM
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How would you derive that from what I said? And no, if you’ve been dating for 5 entire months a recording of consent should be completely unnecessary. Do you not understand how that would make her suspicious? It’s not something men usually do, so it makes sense she would be afraid he would take advantage of her. He’s the one acting irregularly, not her. It’s a breach of trust.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 06:07 PM
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I have a feeling none of you guys have dated a woman haha, it’s VERY weird to ask a recording of consent 5 months in. Basically might as well say “I don’t trust you” or “I’m going to take advantage of you”
/r/MensRights26/08/22 06:03 PM
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Nah it's obvious. No guy suddenly asks for a voice recording of consent when you have been dating for almost half a year. Clearly, HE doesn't trust HER by asking for the recording, which would make her not trust him in return. Trust is a two-way street and he just did something very confusing.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 06:00 AM
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No, you interpreted that completely wrong.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 02:21 AM
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Because they've been dating each other for 5 months and he still clearly doesn't trust her. That's not a normal thing to do. It's obvious the woman would be confused and frankly nervous that he's going to try something and get away with it by recording her consent.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 02:20 AM
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The boyfriend is an idiot. They've been dating for 5 entire months, asking for recorded consent is only suspicious on HIS part. That's not a normal thing people do.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 12:41 AM
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Reading through this sub as a woman is insane
/r/askMRP10/08/22 05:48 AM
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Love that "she" dropped the false stereotypical Japanese accent like two sentences in lmfao. What a dumb thing to say. Oh no!! Women in the West are trash because they have rights now, how horrible.
/r/AntiFeminists02/08/22 10:25 PM
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You do realize there is virtually no difference in being in your 30's or mid 20's right? It's are virtually the same, and people in their 20s and 30s look basically* the same. If anything, you'd have more money and be better off. This is such a weird outlook on life. 30 is just a number like any other. Your life isn't over when you hit 30, and if you think that way you're just delusional. Most women also couldn't give less of a shit whether they were turning 27 or 28 or 29 or 30 or 31 or etc. et…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:58 AM
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There is no evolutionary pressure to date a virgin girl. Evolutionary psychology includes things such as inherent fear of spiders and snakes, disliking liars, wanting to stay in groups, etc. Evolutionary psychology does NOT include wanting yourself a virgin tradwife girlfriend. I'm saying wanting a virgin is cultural through present means, not something inherently locked in male brains through evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:44 PM
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This isn't evolutionary psychology. The concept of slut shaming is purely cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:28 AM
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I'll even provide sources lol, you're just completely wrong. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7721003/ women have an 85% chance to conceive in a year before 30. The number drops massively down to 75% after 30. Natural fertility peaks in the early 20's, and late teens. Early 20's-late teens. It took a 20 second google search. Actually a 20 second google search says "A woman's peak reproductive years are between the late teens and late 20s" So again, wrong. https://www.acog.org/womens-…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:26 AM
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Pretty crazy how you think. Women don’t fully sexually mature in their teenage years. Women are most fertile from 20-30. Fertility starts declining at age 35. It is the EXACT same for men. They are most fertile from late teen years and start decreasing at age 35. Women do mature faster, but the brains of BOTH sexes fully mature at age 25. Women are nowhere near fully mature as teenagers. Teenagers are stupid af lol You are spreading blatant bs. It’s insane that you believe a girl probably still …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:34 AM
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Not being a virgin isn’t being a whore. The way men see women as either pure angels or dirty sluts is incredible. See the Madonna whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:27 AM
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The reason you see desirable, attractive guys with personality and charisma get tossed aside and cheated on isn’t due to their kindness. It’s due to the women being an asshole. You’ll see uncharismatic, rude assholes get cheated on by women too. This is just a casual fallacy. Humans are romantically and platonically attracted to kind people. Women, being humans(lol), think the same way. Being nice IS a bare minimum if we are going to pursue you. On top of that, physical attraction will be the de…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:49 PM
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Obviously not. The reaction is exactly what you'd expect for someone getting raped.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 04:47 PM
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Well yes. I still don't see how any of this supports your original theory that men evolved to seek out virgins. If anything, it debunks it more and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:56 AM
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You can never been sure, but there is ways not in caveman times there wasn't. The goal was to survive, not have a virgin gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:03 AM
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Can you understand what I'm saying? There's no way to ensure you were the only one having sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:29 PM
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Yes a woman can be sexually shared yes but the underlying biological imperative for sex is one for reproduction. I never said otherwise. There was no paternity tests, so he needed to ensure that the kids were his by making sure that only he was having sex with her. As I said, there was no way for him to make sure of this or even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:47 AM
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Women can not be shared. Idk lol, multiple men can all screw the same women without knowing. It’s evolutionary disadvantage for a man to raise another man’s kids. He gives away resources, but his genes aren’t carried on. Just like they didn't have STD tests, they wouldn't have paternity tests either. This point fails. He wouldn't have any way to know if they were his kids or not. The only way to prevent this was to ensure that a woman you were going to invest in seriously and plan to raise kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:28 AM
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1st example) Guy snapped at his partner, clearly acting hostile. Not a healthy way to show emotions. Claims she was just pretending to listen with no basis and refuses to say why. When he asks a few weeks later "do I ever get upset" The obvious answer is yes. He does get upset and snap. Emotionally immature. Not only that, but he was stitching a video where two women asked how they could help men talk about feelings and feel safe. Did he give an actual answer? No. He just made up a situation whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:22 AM
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The reason men don’t like promiscuous women for long term relationships is because it’s disgusting. The reason it is disgusting is that in the past there was no good way to determine that your kids were your own. There was also no such thing as STD tests. This isn't something we are born knowing. It's purely culturally taught. The obsession with wanting women to be pure and virgin, especially in religion, is what causes slut shaming. It's not biological. If you're going to talk about evolution, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:43 PM
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Slut shaming women is a culturally taught concept. Is that what you're trying to say? If so, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:00 AM
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I will :) I really don't care what people who can't get sex think of me. "Weak-willed" as if I have something to lose from having sex? Seriously grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:59 AM
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and it works everytime, Never said it did, but with multiple forms it's very, very effective. If all fails (which would be very rare given I have an IUD and they would use a condom), then abortion exists. However, the chance of getting pregnant is negligible. if I have sex with a woman I assume we both are okay with her getting pregnant and us becoming a family. I don't do abortions. after several kids I'll get snipped. That's really great for you? I don't see what this has to do with anything. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:57 AM
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What's the reasoning behind this? You should be happy if she feels comfortable around you to not be forced into anything. Plus, why the hell would you want to put her through something she wouldn't enjoy for your own pleasure? That's just a shitty thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:38 PM
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its disgusting to sleep around and shows poor character Disagree. STD tests and birth control exist. It's fairly simple to have a very active sex life with many people while being hygienic, perfectly self-respecting, and without negatives. Sex is fun, and that's about all there is to it. ​ I have had over a dozen women proposition me for sex, really easy to say no when you don't want STDs or to raise a child with a stranger. Well duh. It would be disgusting to sleep around with every random stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:35 PM
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Yeah pretty much. Not my fault men suck ass. The majority of men are able to fit these standards, but very few already possess the traits I'm looking for. Check the boxes? You'll probably never be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:58 PM
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It's the only way to respond to a negative IQ person.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:43 AM
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I should specify I was talking about online dating. Obviously irl there wouldn't be tons of guys willing to date a particular woman. Anyway yeah, 99.99% of these men don't understand the concept of boundaries, basic hygiene, cleaning up after themselves, and being a decent human being without sounding like they're reading off a redpill script.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:42 AM
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It's weird and creepy for a 36-year-old to date someone who's 18. Disgusting too. She's just graduated high school. They are in completely different places in life. The power dynamic is huge. Why would you ever want to date a child (relatively).
/r/seduction03/07/22 03:36 AM
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Are you mentally ok? Jesus, go outside for once, incel.
/r/seduction03/07/22 03:31 AM
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Not easy at all actually. There are tons of men willing to date me, so yes, there are a bunch of options, but 99.99% of these options suck. Good men are an endangered species.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:48 PM
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This is just untrue. In every relationship I've been in, as well as all of my friend's relationships, the guy has either cried or been emotional at some point. Men are not robots, and women understand that men are HUMANS. My current bf is a big softy actually, and I don't love him any less for it. We are not rare. You're just deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:28 PM
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bro you're goofy asf lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:03 PM
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he sounds like an AI that was only allowed to look at alpha male podcasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:54 AM
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Is Becky offering lessons??? This life seems incredible! How do I use my vagina pass? Do I need to activate it somewhere? It doesn't seem to be working.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:50 AM
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Men are generally lazy. What little they do accomplish is usually nothing more than to try to get Stacy's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:48 AM
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Can't tell if this is a joke. The typical woman in her 20's is going to university and has a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:46 AM
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I have nothing to say except women do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:50 PM
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Women cheat because they want variety too lol, it's all the same reasons. Why do you think they cheat for different reasons? That's just dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:45 PM
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The average guy has at least a shred of self-respect and loyalty in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:44 PM
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Not an accurate representation of the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:08 AM
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Yeah duh men love sex (and so do women). But it's pretty clear you're an anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:48 AM
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Complex thought and pain makes it immoral to kill a being. It doesn’t make the being more or less human. It’s different under anesthesia because there is zero reason to kill the person unless they are 100% attached to you somehow. That’s why pulling life support is legal. Of course she has a right to kill it if it’s in her own body.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:59 AM
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At 6 months a baby is capable of thousands of times more complex thought, pain, etc. than a fetus or a newborn. But none of that really matters. The fact is, it's no longer inside the mother's body. She has no right to kill it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:00 PM
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The man should have zero say on whether the woman gets an abortion or not. Pregnancy and birth are two huge strains on the body, which he has no part of. If you wanted it to be truly equal, there should be a way for men to opt out of child support during pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:52 PM
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You don't need to be grateful at one point to feel ashamed lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:48 PM
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Humans have sex. There's no going around it. No matter what happens, humans will have sex. There's nothing you can ever do to change that. Banning abortion helps absolutely nobody. It only creates: Children that will grow up without enough food on the plate Children that will grow up in a life of abuse and struggle Children that will be endlessly passed around foster homes Babies that will live only for a very short amount of time due to birth defects Teenage mothers whose lives will be ruined R…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:46 PM
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It's still a life, but I don't see the value of a fetus as any more than the value of a pig or a cow. Actually, I think it's far less. Livestock can think complex emotions, feel pain, form attachments, etc. Fetuses aren't even aware of their own existence. Is it still killing a life? Yes. And I acknowledge that. But the value of a fetus is far less than the potential consequences of having a far more valuable baby. It's like picking it off before it becomes immoral to kill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:40 PM
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oh for sure men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:31 PM
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Every single method of birth control other than condoms has horrible side effects on the woman, or will make them infertile. Men have it easy. Just. Wear. A. Condom.
/r/MensRights21/04/22 05:35 PM
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There are other contraceptives that are just as effective and that don't remove all pleasure from sex. such as? And I'm not saying men can't have boundaries. In no way am I saying that. All I'm saying is that women are entitled to safe sex. Don't have sex if you aren't prepared to use a condom. It's not the end of the world lol it seems you think if a man doesn't want to wear a condom, women would force him to put one on and have sex with him. I'm not saying that at all. It's just men should exp…
/r/MensRights21/04/22 04:51 AM
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Childfree and single. No man, no children, but plenty of disposable income. Cats are optional. Easy choice. All the other options sound like a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:18 AM
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Oh yeah and women totally aren't at gyms to record content to flaunt their @$$ on tik tok lmao its damn clear you haven't encountered any of them who actually go to the gyms but hell bent on defending them. The bar isn't very high to acknowledge your stupidity but you just planted in 6 ft under ground. simply existing with ass and taking pictures for social media doesn't warrant being harassed. Nothing does. Yes we do take pics of men working out just not in the way you think.. That's funny beca…
/r/MensRights19/04/22 03:49 AM
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Not wanting to have sex without a condom is a boundary. Not wanting to have sex with a condom is dangerous and immature. Men can still have boundaries, I never said otherwise.
/r/MensRights18/04/22 07:06 PM
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Obviously, I'm not saying men can't have boundaries? How could you possibly get that from what I said?
/r/MensRights17/04/22 09:50 PM
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LOL. Your bias is showing. what bias lol? I mean, just look at the comments on that twox post, or any post about hetero sex. All women know it. In general, men think sex should be more centered around men. I think this has to do with porn mostly. If you look at the top trending videos on any site, it's 100% going to be centered around the man's pleasure. Zero foreplay, usually no oral (and if there is, it's clearly not good) sex ends after the guy finishes. LOL. wut? yeah? idk why you're so surp…
/r/MensRights16/04/22 08:51 PM
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Men just tend to harass women at gyms. I've never seen a man taking pictures of another man working out, going up to random men and asking for their numbers, catcalling, etc. Why are y'all so mad that female gyms exist anyway? It is unfair for women to not be able to go to a gym because they feel uncomfortable. I never said the world revolves around women feeling uncomfortable. Women felt uncomfortable next to men at gyms, so they went and made their own space to work out comfortably. Men throw …
/r/MensRights16/04/22 08:46 PM
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This just sounds like you're deliberately misinterpreting the point. The post about oral (assuming it is this one): https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/u47dfd/the_pleasure_gap_ruins_another_relationship/ Clearly, she is saying it is unfair most men do not feel the need to give their female partners pleasure. Hetero sex is usually centered around men. It is expected and almost guaranteed that a woman will give their male partner oral, however, the other way around is not true. It's …
/r/MensRights16/04/22 07:33 PM
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Because men stare and make women uncomfortable.
/r/MensRights16/04/22 02:51 AM
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I didn't reply with just a question lol, and if it's in a scientific sense of course its fine. It's just that a lot of men use "female" in the place of "woman" where they would normally use "man" if the genders were switched.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 12:13 AM
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It just sounds weird lol. There's not a specific reason and if people seriously get mad then they're definitely immature. Just you wouldn't ever call someone a "male". It sounds like you're describing a different species and most women don't like being called it. So just, why do it?
/r/MensRights11/04/22 05:44 AM
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Because people tend to say "men" and "female" in the same sentence, which makes zero sense and DOES dehumanize women. It's just weird, and IMO on par with using "girls" and "men" in the same sentence. Just say women. It's not hard. Female sounds oddly scientific and girls is just downright patronising. It happens so often there's a sub for it lol r/MenAndFemales
/r/MensRights10/04/22 10:12 PM
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I am absolutely not a tomboy lol. You need to rethink your idea of what a woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:08 PM
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So if I don't wear makeup or pretty outfits and have a stable job instead, I'm basically socially a man? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:46 PM
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Idk say what you want, but on average women are much more clean, well kept, emotionally available, kinder, and therefore more attractive than the average man. Emphasis on the hygiene factor. I think women as a whole are just more desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:22 PM
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Right exactly. I’m bisexual. The sexiness of a woman is from seeing her nude figure. The up close visual of a vagina turns few people on but it can be great in the right mood/context.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:27 PM
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Women are just as horny as men, but in different ways. I will agree that we are not as visual, but dicks themselves just look like worms lol. Most guys I know would be disgusted to get a random, upclose vagina pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:37 PM
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Oh alright then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:34 PM
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First of all I'm a feminist and I don't hate men whatsoever. It's obvious you get all your opinions on feminism from people who hate feminism. Divorce has been around for thousands of years. Ok? So what? It wasn't socially acceptable until recently for women. They had to settle for assholes because it was the only way for them to survive. Without a man to be the breadwinner of a family, a woman couldn't earn a good job to keep for herself due to misogyny. Modern people know relationships aren't …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:02 AM
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That's some backward logic. Why would sexual favors have to be something to "tolerate" instead of enjoy? It just sounds like you don't care for her wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:00 AM
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That's a shitty move. If she feels comfortable enough with you to where she feels she doesn't need to do things she doesn't want to make you happy, isn't that a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:10 AM
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Even if she isn’t ok with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:36 PM
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Even if she was forced to do things she didn’t want to by past partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:09 PM
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Modern people know this too. You’re also straying from the original point lol. Women aren’t chained to men anymore, so why should we settle for assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:01 PM
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Arranged marriage? Single women also could not survive on their own in the past due to misogynistic laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:50 AM
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No? They just aren't being forced to be with assholes for the sake of being a home cook and a baby-raising machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:29 AM
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Then why are men unhappy with buying sex? This entire sub is mostly about men being angry that they cannot date women/women's standards being too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:27 AM
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It’s almost like when women are given a choice, none of them actually want to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:59 PM
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Why would having shitty sex for two minutes with an unhygienic man I grabbed from a random dating site improve my loneliness in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:11 AM
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There was never a time where men and women got along. Women are free now. We aren’t forcefully being bound to men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:34 PM
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Thanks for restating mine and OP’s point, I guess? Also, I’m sure you would be very happy to learn that prostitutes exist. That’s right! No more going through the hassle to make conversation with a girl, take her on a date, and make her fall in love with you so you can take advantage of her. Now, with a small cash fee, you can have sex right away!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:44 AM
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Either you have zero critical thinking skills or you’re deliberately missing the point. You’re literally stating that you see women as walking means of getting sex. Having a conversation with a woman is simply an “obstacle” to having sex with her. Why don’t you go read the post again :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:41 AM
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I would rather be a man. Men don’t understand the amount of stigma there is around a woman doing literally, anything. Plus, men are automatically stronger, they fear MUCH less during a simple walk outside
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:50 AM
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If you actually read the study, you would see how it clearly shows men also have group bias. This is well known psychology, regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:21 AM
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Well my dad was raised in a very patriarchal household. Now, his views are far less sexist. However, when I was younger he would give me advice like: 1) Don’t become friends with men unless you’re willing to date them. 3) Always listen to your bf/husband. He should have the authority because he knows better. 4) He wanted me to learn to cook well so I could cook meals for my future husband 5) Always dress femininely and modestly to attract “good men” 6) Never flirt because it makes you look like …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:16 AM
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In group bias exist for women, but not men. Uh, the study you pasted plainly says group bias exists for men as well. It's just stronger in women. I'm not really sure why this matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:04 PM
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The bad advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:00 PM
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And you know this how? My dad gave me plenty of bad dating advice. If you’re talking about the “woke” millennial dads, sure. But in general, parents give good and bad dating advice. Your entire post is sort of stupid and generalizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:00 PM
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I could say fathers tend to give terrible dating advice to young girls as well. It's kind of weird that you think good dating advice would come to "the detriment of the female collective". Perhaps your opinion of "good dating advice for men" isn't as good as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:53 PM
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An environment without a father is perfectly fine to raise a child in. Not sure what you mean by, "biological suitable". Lesbian couples raise children just fine, and if money isn't the issue, a single-parent home is just as successful. It is true that children of single mothers have a higher chance of becoming criminals, but this isn't because of the absence of a father, it is because of the circumstances that lead to the absence of a father. Many children with absent father figures are born in…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:29 AM
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The child literally has half the mans genes. doesnt matter that the female body needs to assemble the nutrients and all that. Clearly, you didn't understand my point. I'm not talking about the genetics of it, I'm saying it's completely laughable to speak of pregnancy like a woman is "carrying" the child that belongs to her husband. Like I said, if anything, the kid is hers more than his. And the man build the entire life to allow the women to even birth children and support them. Not sure where …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:50 AM
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Not sure where you got the "omg hate men" part of this. Yes, this sounds exactly like martial coercion. Imagine pestering your PREGNANT wife for sex to such an extent that her own fucking doctor had to tell you to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:26 PM
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man can perpetuate his genetic legacy As I said, it's the woman's genetic legacy more than his. It's her child more than his. feel and appear more masculine to others because he has successfully spread his seed. A man can be plenty masculine without having children. Again, what's with the "spreading your seed" bs? This isn't caveman times, there are far more important things than trying to impregnate as many women as possible to prove your masculinity. why else would you go through all that? So …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:24 PM
2

what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:20 PM
0

I expect him not to watch porn, and he doesn’t. Porn directly correlates to human trafficking. I didn’t have to argue with him, he just values people’s lives over getting his dick hard for 15 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:43 AM
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You’re an awful person. Imagine your wife creates and carries her and your child for a difficult 9 months, goes through the extremely painful process of childbirth, then has to nurse the child for many months. And you fear that your dick won’t get hard so you think about cheating? Honestly pathetic. It shows you don’t value your wife any more than an incubator or a sex toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:34 AM
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Nothing like casually mentioning sexual coercion because “omg big boobs” edit: changed marital coercion to sexual coercion, I got the definitions mixed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:31 AM
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Incubator of another mans seed? What on Gods green earth are you saying? Women aren’t incubators, “another mans seed” is the baby SHE grew in her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:29 AM
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If anything, it’s the woman’s child more than yours. The fuck you mean by “bear your children”? All the guy had to do is nut in her. She is the one who created the kid basically from scratch for 9 months, went through the tedious process of childbirth and nursing, etc. In no way is pregnancy a way to show loyalty to the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:28 AM
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Husband material implies positive traits like having a good job, being respectful, kind, strong, a good parent, and trustworthy “Wife material” implies traits women don’t want their worth to be associated with anymore, like cooking, clearing, being good at sex, submissive, etc. Overall it’s sort of condescending
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:45 PM
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Sex is definitely better for men, tf you mean? Most men have zero clue how a woman’s body works. Plus, we have the risk of getting a ton more STD’s, getting pregnant, or being forced into something we don’t want. Men will fuck anything with a hole in it. Ask any nurse working in the ER. Naturally, men would seek out sex more than women. It’s easier for a woman to find a partner she wants than a man, since men’s standards are so low for a hookup buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:29 AM
1

Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:27 AM
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Sex is better for men in almost every way possible. Men typically want sex more than women. Men lower their standards to get sex. The general rule is, men date who they can, and women date who they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:15 PM
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Remember, women rate 80% of men as “below average” on Tinder. This is your problem. You seriously cannot act like online dating is a reflection of how the world actually works. Plus, 80% of men could be below average on tinder at the same time 50% of men are below average in the real world. Only 30% of people even use dating apps. Out of this 30%, around 76% are men. So you're looking at 25% of 30% of women (7.5%) who are apparently surrounded by "simps", then believe all women act like this 7.5…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:10 PM
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The only "extreme" thing simps do is donate large sums of money to famous female streamers/micro-celebs. They have zero impact on the actual dating or hookup market. I don't know why men are making such a big deal about simps when they don't even affect normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:00 PM
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Cheating. Etc… Men have cheated in relationships more than women for the past 50+ years. Nearly every study on the topic confirms this. The percentage differs by 10 to 20 points depending on age. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america https://hernorm.com/infidelity-statistics/ Physical or emotional abuse. LOL. I can't really believe you would even claim women do this more than men. https://www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:35 PM
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What counts as unrealistic to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:10 PM
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There are very few if not zero human beings that exist in the way you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:09 PM
1

Lol that’s fine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:32 PM
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1) do I get hit on out in public? Catcalling is constant. If that counts as getting hit on, then yeah. If you mean getting asked for my number or a date, then no. That’s happened to me maybe once or twice in my life. 2) Are dating apps easy for me? Well, as a woman, I used to get hundreds of matches on any app in a week or so. However, these were all men just looking to hook up. If they were looking for a serious relationship, they were usually all creeps who wanted a submissive housemaid. Somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:41 PM
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Your dream girl doesn’t exist. I haven’t met a single girl who does call people “dude” once in a while. Women aren’t dainty little flowers who need to curtsy when a man entires the room. I call my bf “bro” all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:00 AM
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What do you mean by “act woman” are we supposed to call you sire or something 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 12:48 AM
1

Calling someone bro or dude is masculine??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 12:13 AM
1

Do you just not understand the concept of romance? Having a partner to completely trust and lean on? Companionship? What does a woman gain from a relationship that a man doesn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:10 PM
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False correlations tho. We are not monkeys or penguins
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:00 PM
1

Great that we aren’t penguins either
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:25 PM
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Both people benefit. The main benefits are emotional support, financial support, sex, a larger social circle, and less housework (if living together). I can think of zero physical burdens. Women put the same amount of effort as men into relationships. You seem to not know the difference between hooking up and an actual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 10:16 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:18 AM
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I’m saying you aren’t qualified to speak on how love works if you have never been in a relationship. It’s not a personal attack, it’s just that how would you have any clue on how it works if you have not experienced it? Also, no, thousands of men aren’t throwing themselves at me or any woman. That just doesn’t happen unless you’re a pornstar or someone with an onlyfans/a famous person. It’s not true that “attractive” women for men means fertile. Most men want thin, hourglass shaped, dainty women…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:17 AM
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If he was asexual, I wouldn’t mind if he didn’t want to have sex. If he was perfect in every other way, but didn’t want to have sex, I’d be fine with that as well. As long as he is loyal, I’m fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:05 AM
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All I got from this is women are only good for sex. My relationship disproves this, but I see no point in arguing with a man who doesn't even have a gf. Love is a thing that exists. Women are not as shallow as you think. You all think that women are just chad-seeking mindless robots who are high-maintenance. It's scary to think people think like you. What I'm trying to say is women are no different than men in the way we feel. We have goals and thoughts just the same, the ability and want to pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:38 PM
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I'm a woman, but max 1 month. Obviously, it depends on many factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:10 PM
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You are the one with crappy logic and terrible English. It’s hard to even understand what you’re trying to say with the shit grammar you have. But sure, let me clear that up. My boyfriend doesn’t see me as a baby making machine either. I thought that would be quite obvious, but I guess not. You did use a straw man. I said the notion that women aren’t human (are helpless, can’t do anything a man can, they are only good for sex and babies) is a common incel opinion. Never did I said redpillers are…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:44 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:25 AM
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please, explain then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:55 AM
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Did you just call red pill thought and therefor the whole red pill comunity Incels? ....no? Strawman much? Btw ask your boyfriend if you would refuse to have sex with him and he is not allowed to sleep with somebody else for the next 5 years and you sign a Postnap that don't takes away most of his shit, and he had a small time to think about it and could get that deal to divorce without consequences if he would bail or not Boy wtf, by saying my boyfriend doesn't see me as a sex object doesn't me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:48 AM
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Women are shamed for being whores and sluts when they have too much sex, while men are "chad". What world are you living in lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:42 AM
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So misogynistic. Women can provide everything a man can. Have you ever heard of this funny thing called falling in love? My bf isn’t with me for just sex. That’s obvious. Same thing in the majority of relationships. Cut it out with that incel bs that women apparently aren’t human.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:52 PM
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From all the toxic relationships I’ve seen/been in, men always start out good. As the relationship goes on, they start slipping up and letting their true selves show. Sometimes it takes years. Yes, the signs are there in the beginning/middle, but barely noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:50 PM
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Well other than the part about owning businesses, they are right. Most women earn a living salary on their own and could survive just fine without a man if needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:49 PM
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How does sex get you power?? Especially as a women. Sex gets power for men, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:43 PM
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It’s so awesome that we aren’t monkeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:43 PM
1

How
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:42 PM
2

“Duty”. It’s different for every relationship. Makes no sense to make rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:42 PM
2

Why is it not true? Women make up like 49% of the workforce, and most homeless are men. We work just the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:41 PM
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1) They don’t start out toxic. 2) A womans part is not sex. 3) I’m pretty sure acting like “a piece of shit” isn’t not taking out the trash. 4) divorce is expensive, stressful, and not always an option
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:39 PM
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They never start out that way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:37 PM
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Healthy relationships with women simply don't exist? Wow, wild take buddy. I was confused by these traits because they seem to contradict every aspect that a woman would find attractive in a man(according to redpill that is) According to redpill... The redpill is not an accurate portrayal of women. If all of your opinions are based on this, they ain't shit. It’s like you paying full price for a product that has been damaged enough to the point it is barley reliable. So we're products now? After …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:15 AM
2

When the majority of the population agrees on something, it ceases to become an anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:44 PM
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Your anecdotal life experience, especially as a man, means absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:34 PM
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I don't care about his body count as long as they weren't from hookups/one-night stands. As long as it's from semi-long relationships, then I'm fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:17 PM
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If your just giving anecdotal evidence and wild generalizations, I can say the exact thing. Women like submissive men (thousands of women into femdom as well). Plenty of women like bald men, as well as other “negative” features.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:12 PM
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You are def bisexual
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/21 04:31 PM
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bald girls buddy, that might just be a you thing. bossy girls A bossy girl is what most men call a bitch. And all you'll ever find women dreaming about is some variation of tall good looking dominant guy. I could just say the same thing on the flip side. "And all you'll ever find men dreaming about is some variation of a sexy, curvaceous good looking submissive woman" However, both are so very, very wrong. Women like attractive men. Men like attractive women. Each gender can love and be in a rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:28 PM
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This is a common phenomenon, not unique to women. Watch peer pressure on brain games. (Ik it's a kids show, but this is a silly and very simple topic) They perform something called the Asch conformity experiments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:17 PM
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Who the hell is that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:31 PM
3

What qualifies as an ok-amount of feminism? And do you mean real feminism or buzzfeed feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:30 PM
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Being religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:25 PM
1

Exactly my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:30 PM
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It’s not like a lot of men are avid readers of history either. It’s an uncommon hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:30 PM
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No? You need to read a lot of history for that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:26 PM
2

Not when you get to higher level studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:26 PM
4

Why are most English/literature teachers women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:13 PM
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Nah they’re doing just fine. Keep deluding yourself, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:21 PM
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Women want a man thats tall, not too masculine, but masculine, rich, high status, that also is not too good looking so that they are the good looking ones, also they want their man to be sensitive, but not to the point of being feminine... the list goes If that were the case, only like 5 men I know would have relationships. Just open your eyes, it's not true in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:02 PM
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Uh, I'm a woman. Surprise, surprise I have empathy. Like a regular fucking human being. ??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:01 PM
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No, I'm pretty sure it's because women (1/10 - 10/10) are looking for hookups (attractive men), and said men will fuck anything or anyone. Incels see this, somehow believe the only way to get sex is through hookup culture, completely ignore the existence of meaningful relationships, and become misogynistic asshats. Since they aren't attractive, they can't get hookups without paying for it. Since they have the personality of cow shit, they have no hope for a normal, loving relationship. Since the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:59 PM
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The reason you’re confused about this is because there’s no right answer. Surprise, women are individual beings with individual opinions. Some overestimated their attractiveness, some are overly insecure, some are bombarded with validation. Women aren’t a hive mind, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:06 AM
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Men have unrealistic STANDARDS for women. They will call you an ugly whale if you aren’t 100 lbs and 5’2”. Men will also fuck anything to get off. The two can exist together lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:48 PM
1

Men will fuck anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:30 PM
1

Is this satire
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:39 PM
1

It’s like arguing with a wall lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:31 PM
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You know your argument sucks when the only thing you can say is “you’re a child so you must be wrong”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:05 PM
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LOL of course all men aren’t trash! You are, though. :P Men are awesome. I’m just not going to pretend it’s easy to find a good man. You live in a delusion lmao. It’s so easy to get a hookup. Just go to a bar or nightclub, flirt, and that’s it. If you fail at that, there’s really something wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:00 PM
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Nope. Dating for women is like walking on a tightrope with fire ants. Most men are trash these days. They leech off of you, only seeing you as a sex object. Most of them will rape you, abuse you, use you, and then gaslight and manipulate you into staying. Women like attractive men (duh?) but you don’t need to be crazy hot to get a partner. Just be a decent, confident person. View women as actual people. It’s really that easy. Plus, as a woman, you don’t get to tell me what we are attracted to… a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:10 PM
2

Cry abt it lol. 9/11 is so small compared to other attacks. Besides, the same amount of people die every single day from Covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:06 PM
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18 is not a child. Sorry I wasn’t there for some random terrorist attack tho :P
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:51 PM
1

Hookups are extremely easy to get for both sexes. Unless you’re a creepy asshole, it’s not hard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:50 PM
0

I’m literally 18 dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:29 AM
1

Assuming that having a gay son is bad, and that a sexually active daughter is bad. A son would be praised for many partners
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:48 PM
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Nope, I look fine actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:29 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:42 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:42 PM
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Porn has ruined your perception of women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:42 PM
1

I am tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:17 PM
3

Wow! Never could have seen this coming. Anecdotal evidence is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:17 PM
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Not that it matters. Most colleges don’t even look at SATs anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:16 PM
0

Already took it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:10 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:09 PM
1

Oh so you’re so strong and independent? Let me just take away all of your appliances and place you on an abandoned island with nothing. Not so strong now huh?! Guess you need a strong man to help you now right?? You should have picked a nice guy like me!! please pick me please you awful dumb slut. In conclusion, checkmate feminists!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:01 PM
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No, she doesn’t owe you anything. Is that not obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:56 PM
1

Every day I am surprised by how little men know about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:54 PM
1

More T doesn’t mean more promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:51 PM
1

Woah, it’s almost like the joke went right over your head
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:50 PM
1

You’re literally just admitting you have absolutely nothing to back up your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:47 PM
1

I’m literally in high school almost every girl here is of average weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:46 PM
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Funny how it’s always men who end up in the ER with objects in their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:44 PM
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Wow, homophobic AND sexist! Just as I’d expect from this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:40 PM
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This is the most backwards logic I’ve ever seen. Let’s go step by step. In the past, women were treated like shit. To be a woman was to be nobody. You were reduced to a kitchen and a baby making/raising machine. Women were commonly abused in the home. They weren’t allowed to work the majority of jobs. They were married off. Women were treated like property. They couldn’t vote, couldn’t drive, couldn’t even buy their own property. After hundreds of years of fighting for basic human rights in soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:38 PM
1

Everybody in the world gets exploited? Huh? More than underage women being coerced into porn contracts that last multiple years? Porn and the sex trafficking industry are directly related. Supporting porn is supporting slavery. It’s idiotic to say everybody gets exploited this way. Lol, please educate me on how rape culture isn’t real
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:32 PM
2

The body type portrayed above is quite uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:29 PM
1

Yes it is…?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:28 PM
1

Someone’s never seen average women. Once again, too much porn consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:28 PM
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You literally just described most women. Also yes, 99% of women don’t bully men for not having 7 inch dicks. No, some random tweet doesn’t count as proof. Yes, being a decent person will get you sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:28 PM
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Being a decent person will get you sex. It’s really that simple. Obviously, trying for a long term partner requires immense effort. If you’re just looking to get laid, you’re in luck. Anyone can get laid as long as you’re not a creepy misogynistic neckbeard who acts like being denied sex is a crime. Your oppression is purely imagined. It’s all in your head. Women don’t bully men for not having 7 inch dicks. That’s just absurd. Nobody cares if men have standards. That’s NORMAL. However, incels li…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:49 PM
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This man is attractive. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:43 PM
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Ah yes, because an hourglass figure and a giant ass is definitely average. Someone has been watching too much porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:42 PM
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Porn exploits women. That’s why I don’t like it. It also promotes rape culture and pedophelia.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:41 PM
1

I do not understand what this had to do with my comment. I'm not saying anything off-topic or talking about feminism, if MGTOW is wrong, or if you guys shouldn't try to be single. I might even be a male. Who knows on the internet?
/r/MGTOW201/08/21 06:14 AM
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Maybe it's because fully grown, married men can't do simple tasks and instead become a third child for the poor wife. Literally look at how simple these tasks are. "Put toilet seat down, wash dishes, pack the kids lunches." What a deadbeat dad. This is the most basic shit ever.
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 07:26 PM
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Complaining about this matter and wasting your time on feminists is completely against the point of this sub.
/r/MGTOW227/07/21 09:43 PM
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Are you on the wrong sub?
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 07:12 PM
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It's all because of the guys who use the "shotgun method" on tinder. They swipe right on every single girl they see hoping to get a crumb of pussy. Pathetic, really.
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 07:12 PM
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how was he "used"? She was 14 and lost both parents this clearly is helping someone far weaker than you, and then trying to take advantage of her later to "repay" for the help. Something she shouldn't have to do.
/r/MGTOW218/06/21 10:49 PM
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I think the woman is correct in this situation. Obviously a 16 year old going through the mental trauma of losing both parents at 14 would cling to any sort of help. Just because he helped this child doesn't mean he is now entitled to a romantic relationship with her now that she is older.
/r/MGTOW218/06/21 10:48 PM
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That isn't at all what this post was saying.
/r/MGTOW202/06/21 08:59 PM
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No. Do not do this. This is the reason men commit suicide 3x as much as women. This is the reason men make up the majority of all crime. This is the reason men have more undiagnosed mental illness. Bottling up feelings is proven to only cause psychological harm. It even leads to a shortened life. To promote this ideology is idiotic.
/r/MGTOW228/05/21 05:31 PM
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