bakejianca Archive

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–	Question for the ladies in this subreddit I had a pretty big gap when I was younger. Got braces and that worked for a while. I still have a metal piece keeping my two front teeth together, and my gums are somewhat receded so there is a decent gap higher in my teeth now. I've mentioned it to friends in the past and each time they said they didn't even really notice. Sure, some people will notice but unless it's really crooked as well I don't think it's a big deal. Some people think it's hot so it's really all how you frame it.	/r/seduction	11/01/18 07:52 PM
1	How do you tell or show someone you know that you're DTF? So what do you do to escalate while hanging out? I've been in this position but have gone to slowly cause frankly I don't know what I'm doing. Literally any moment that feels right, go for it. If y'all are having a good time and you end up with that lingering eye contact, the kind where your eyes switch between her eyes and her lips, don't hesitate, just ease into the kiss. Go from there. If you try to kiss a girl, she'll understand that you're DTF if she didn't already. Usually you'll get a cou…	/r/seduction	10/01/18 05:30 PM
–	Does smiling too much kill attraction? Being self-conscious much about smiling will kill attraction. As long as you aren't smiling enough to look absolutely mad, you're fine.	/r/seduction	08/01/18 02:11 AM
1	I make out with girls constantly, but getting laid seems too hard "Do you want to get out of here?" "Do you want to go to my place?" "Do you want to go somewhere private?" etc.	/r/seduction	04/01/18 05:19 AM
1	Drunk hookup, need help, how do I contact her? If y'all didn't share info that night, I would fuggedaboutit	/r/seduction	04/01/18 05:17 AM
–	How to carry yourself as the "prize" I'm new to this sub and don't really care for most of the jargon people use here, but I think I can help here. When you talk to a girl, remember that you're not just some bloke who has to prove himself worthy of a girl. It's true that guys traditionally have to initiate courting, but you're both people, and she may very well be interested in you. You don't have to go wild trying to show her why you're worth dating; just talk to her, show her what you're like, learn about her, and find out if the…	/r/seduction	04/01/18 05:10 AM
–	Getting in my own head way too much. Focus on something else. You had things going on in your life before you met this girl right? Keep doing what you do, exercise, work, study, chill with friends, do whatever it is and don't think about her so much. I know it's exciting when you hit it off with a new girl you like but you still have the rest of your life going for you.	/r/seduction	04/01/18 04:59 AM
1	Where and how do you meet women exactly Glad to hear it :)	/r/seduction	04/01/18 12:36 AM
–	Getting in state Thanks for the suggestion but I'm gonna pass on that. I understand that some guys need help with getting girls, but looking at it like a game you can literally win seems inauthentic in a way, like you aren't interested in actually talking to a girl as much as you are interested in "winning." It's as if it's not about what you're doing but the fact that you did it, and there are real people on the other end.	/r/seduction	03/01/18 05:00 PM
1	I can do almost everything,except approaching a girl. Try with guys first. I'm serious. Tell some dude at McDonald's that he has nice shoes, where did he get them, blah blah. Just talk to random people, get to know them a bit, etc. Finally, realize this applies to girls as well since they are people too, get to know them a bit.l, and eventually ask for a name/number/date. Voila.	/r/seduction	03/01/18 05:22 AM
–	My Weighted System for Rating Girls Attractiveness (Super Accurate & Easy) I'm glad to hear you're having fun! I do want to make the point that there is no "perfect girl" that you may or may not have the "skills" for. If she's your perfect girl, you will mesh well with one another.	/r/seduction	03/01/18 05:17 AM
–	My Weighted System for Rating Girls Attractiveness (Super Accurate & Easy) Do you run all of this through a scantron before you talk to a given girl?	/r/seduction	03/01/18 04:58 AM
–	Getting in state I have no clue what "state" is (this whole sub uses funky terms tbh, "game" being another one). However, it sounds like when you let loose and just confidently be you, people latch onto that feeling and reciprocate the positivity. Just go have a good time and good times will come. Honestly the way you have worded this makes it sound like you are trying to achieve some weird emotional/mental status through an artificial process rather than organically acting as you feel you should.	/r/seduction	03/01/18 04:53 AM
–	Where and how do you meet women exactly Personally most women I meet are either through mutual friends or just at bars/clubs/events. When it's not through friends I just go out of my way to talk to people and someone usually ends up sticking around. You'd be surprised at how much people like to talk to strangers, especially if you're friendly and you find something you both want to talk about. On that last point, I ask random dudes how my clothes look at WalMart. I crack jokes to people in line at the grocery store. I compliment peopl…	/r/seduction	03/01/18 04:37 AM
1	Girl says she’s interested but hasn’t been texting back? Anything could have happened. This is why it's ideal to act sooner than later (I understand you couldn't get together sooner). Maybe when you started talking she was in a better place to start whatever with you, and now she's not, for whatever reason. Unless this becomes a serious trend in your life, I wouldn't put too much weight into this. If you want, text her again in like 2 weeks and see if she wants to meet up, but otherwise don't bother.	/r/seduction	03/01/18 04:26 AM
2	Going out to bars, getting nervous Just talk with/dance with people you would like to. If they don't reciprocate, move on as you would in any other unsuccessful social interaction. Identify exactly why you're getting nervous. If you are just unfamiliar with the scene, continue to go out until and it will get better. Same goes with initiating talk/dance with others. It's the same thing as any other "firsts" with a fear of failure or rejection, in that you will naturally feel better and build confidence with more experience. As for…	/r/seduction	03/01/18 04:21 AM
1	What is the best style of dance to learn (and how) to dance with girls at a club? Girls at clubs love to dance, and if they see you having fun dancing, they'll probably want to dance with you. I don't think most people have to formally learn any dance 1-on-1 unless they want to perform specific dances, and you have some formal training anyways. As long as you can move to the beat without being a stiff board or completely limp noodle you'll do great!	/r/seduction	03/01/18 04:11 AM