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my question is what makes someone girlfriend/boyfriend material and what makes someone just a hookup? i know people are going to say “just don’t be easy” (as a woman) there’s times where i give a dude a chance and don’t even show them my sexual side and all they want is a hookup so clearly that doesn’t work either 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:43 PM
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I live in New York City. I probably struggle with dating because I don't really put myself out there. I hang out with the same people, rarely go to clubs anymore, I go to work, go home, hang out with friends and it becomes a cycle. I'm only 23 not many guys in my age group have the same goals as me and I prefer men around my age too so I'm just waiting for "the one" I want a long term relationship too not just a short term and hookups. I know I'm attractive and I get approached many times but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:36 PM
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Men hate confident woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:21 PM
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plastic surgery is terrible for fixing you insecurities.. you fix something you don’t like now your face is uneven and you find something else wrong with you, then you fix your face more and end up looking like a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:02 PM
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Are you picky yourself? Be honest.. I’m a woman and i am picky. That’s not necessarily a bad thing. Looks matter to me as well as personality. They don’t have to be perfect 10/10 but they need to at least be attractive to my liking. I have many types so it’s hard to state what i find attractive. Being picky can play a part in what your dating life. You have options Also when you say you’ve been mocked what does that mean? So people just blatantly mock you in your messages i don’t get that part
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:58 PM
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there’s men that will have sex with unattractive women. they don’t care if there personality is trash or they don’t look as pretty / their type. if it’s a man with no options they will settle because pussy is pussy at the end of the day in their eyes. it’s just a hookup /ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:57 PM
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For a woman to brag about how many men she slept with isn’t really that cool or a flex considering it’s easy for them. lf a woman walks inside a bar asking guys if they want to sleep with her guaranteed majority will say yes. If it’s a guy walking to a bar asking woman that same question they’re not going to get much results. They have to work twice as hard to get someone to sleep with them which is why people see the man doing it as an accomplishment and not so much on the women’s end.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:27 PM
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Because woman have options and can get sex easily compared to men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:19 PM
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I do the same thing. I only wear it on special occasions and it’s rare i go to special occasions because i’m always working. Makeup is a lot of money and I don’t do it well like other women. I never took the time to really learn how to do everything like they do which is why i put on a minimal amount of makeup. It takes patience and time to cake on my face and i don’t have that. One time i got my makeup professionally done and I honestly never saw myself looking completely different like that an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:36 PM
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if that’s what you think
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:53 PM
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it’s not that their unattractive physically i’ve met many men that are attractive that are short. i am a tall woman i just don’t feel comfortable being with someone shorter than me. it’s awkward. if i was short as well then i have no issues and would be with a short guy. i prefer to be with someone around my height. i wouldn’t even want to be with someone way taller than me either , its still weird to not be eye level with someone. call me shallow but thats what i prefer. there’s even men who sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:17 PM
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i stopped using instagram for years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:39 AM
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I don’t seek male attention though. That’s a terrible of example of being a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:58 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:44 AM
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then i would communicate with my partner and find another solution other then porn. watching other people have sex just doesn’t do anything for me anyways. there’s other alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:28 AM
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that has nothing to do with narcissism. Watching porn especially in a relationship shouldn’t be normalized. You’re seeking other things to get you off instead of your partner. Why isn’t have sex enough? Even if they won’t always be there that’s still not an excuse. if that’s what you want and a girl doesn’t mind that then that’s great. you found your match. but as a woman who doesn’t want my partner watching porn i’m giving my opinion. who wouldn’t want their partner to have the attention on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:24 AM
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I remember I was seeing a guy and my friend said he was ugly and I could do better. And it was rude because I don't find her man attractive at all but I don't say anything because that's not my boyfriend and I don't care how he looks. You’re not supposed to care. Anyone who is like that is honestly just an ass and that commentary isn't needed. The only time you're supposed to be talking about someone's partner and you're close to that person enough to do that is, if there's signs of them not bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:12 PM
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1,2,3,4,5,7,8 & 9. I'm a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:17 AM
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I'm a tall girl myself I don't understand the need to attack shorter woman or even caring about shorter woman going for taller men. I been with men my height and taller they still go for us. It's not their fault she can't get the men she wants 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:33 PM
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everyone has preferences.. but does that mean they can get these people that they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:31 PM
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but why do you assume everyone who does that is an influencer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:10 AM
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you can only speak for yourself. i know people that work out/personal trainers with social media and they do that. and the world does not revolve around you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:03 AM
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people watch like two vids of this happening and just assume every woman doing that is their intentions. some people like to record their workout progress men AND woman and if they do so why do people care? it’s a free world and people will do anything they want. if you don’t like it workout at home. im not justifying someone having an attitude when they’re recording themselves at the gym because same rules applies to them or anyone else that feels the need to record them themselves in a public …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:31 AM
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because women have options men don’t and they’re desperate to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:14 AM
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why do people keep mentioning being hot. what is “hot” ? i know many average looking guys having so much access to sex. some are broke too .. so it must be another reason 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:56 AM
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it’s like you didn’t even read the entire thing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:31 PM
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i live in NYC. I was at a cafe and we started talking then exchanged info. I will be honest though, I kept this relationship a secret for a long time because i didn’t want anyone judging me or lecturing me. My family or friends had no idea i was seeing someone this age. I just told my mom I was seeing a guy but she never was curious to meet him , and i been sleeping over this guys house and going on vacations with him lol. That was another downside of the relationship too. Being sneaky and lying…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:24 AM
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I been in an age gap relationship. I was 18 and he was 40 and it was the worse experience i’ve ever had in my life. Very controlling, manipulative and toxic. Yet .. It was my first relationship so I never knew what i was getting into or the wrongs/rights. I had an interest in being with an older man at first which is why i started seeing him, im sure many people can relate to having a desire to be with an older person at a young age because of the power dynamic and having more experience, becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:06 AM
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Looks matters to me but i’m not too picky i think.. Not every man is going to look like a body builder and to be honest that’s cool and all but it’s not something I seek. They can be skinny or average.. as long as their face is attractive and their personality is great then i want them. Just cause someone’s body “looks good” doesn’t make it replace all their other features. im definitely not into obese men. I also can’t be with a guy way shorter than me or way taller than me. Im also open to any…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:04 PM
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this is a very odd question and i don’t understand why body count is a thing that’s no one’s business and there’s no “average body count for attractive people” people have been in long term relationships, still virgins, hookup lifestyle etc. everyone’s gonna have different numbers and who cares this topic is for teens. i don’t even talk about this with guys or rarely been asked and i’m only 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:05 PM
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is that so?? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:55 PM
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😎😎😎😎
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:48 PM
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if only i cared about what people on the internet thought of me. actually, anyone in general .. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:47 PM
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hilarious right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:40 PM
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my body count is 19 including one girl. two i just gave a blow job to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:35 PM
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who i fucked or dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:32 PM
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haha ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:14 PM
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i just turned 23 and going to school to be a nurse./ working. im not thinking about marriage right now 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:07 PM
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thanks ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:57 PM
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i am special. they’re attractive ,they definitely can.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:57 PM
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he finds the body count thing really stupid to care about actually
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:56 PM
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those guys could get any women they want so they definitely can be picky. yet they still chose me. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:54 PM
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shit happens and I’m talking to someone right now 🤪.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:53 PM
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then why did they commit to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:52 PM
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why even listen to men on reddit? throughout the guys i’ve dated and been with in real life .. they never cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:06 PM
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stop listening to those garbage podcasts. if a guy doesn’t like my body count then he’s not for me and that’s okay. especially when i can find a man who doesn’t give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:03 PM
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Men are scary aggressors that’s why. Also to note, some guy grabbed me in the street and i ended up punching him (he was obviously drunk) i did not get traumatized but i am more self aware and have my weapons with me. When i told people they were like “OMG are you okay “ but im sure if a man told them that they’ll be like “Oh damn lol” guaranteed.. I’ve been cat called since i was 12 years old.. i hate it Some men don’t get attention so any attention negative/positive they wouldn’t care. Some me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:50 PM
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No. i want kids and he needs to make a decent amount of money or more, that’s all i care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:49 AM
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i’m 5’9 and would prefer a man my height or taller. I can do 5’8. . maybe 5’7 but anything lower than that is a no. 6’2 and up is way too tall for my liking.. i even saw a vid of this girl showing off her 7ft boyfriend and he looked like an actual giant. i don’t feel comfortable being with someone way shorter than me or way taller than me, we need to be somewhat close to eye level at least lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:36 AM
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i’m thinking majority of women average height or short wouldn’t want a man to be shorter than them. some tall women i’m sure want tall men but there’s others that are still open to dating men shorter than them. same with average height & short women. what i observed is i see many couples in public or people i know either the same height or the man being taller than the women could be 1 inch to 1 foot and a few inches too. either or. sometimes i see women being taller than the man. and for some r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:49 AM
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to be honest ..some men act like they’re not shallow or low themselves and it’s bizarre to me. women and men shame eachother on media , men and women each have shallow preferences in their partner... It’s a fact and people don’t see it because in everyone eyes it’s always “women are worse” or “men or worse” and truthfully they both do the same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:14 PM
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there’s people that do. and why are you making assumptions about someone you don’t even know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:11 AM
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i don’t know how you got that out of my statement 😂 but crying over every little thing is a cry baby and i don’t deal with crybabies especially from a a grown man or a grown woman or weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:57 PM
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i would dislike anyone that acted like a pussy..not my fault i like to be around confident people, happy, and assertive people. it’s different if people have emotions that’s normal it’s okay to cry .. but to be constantly miserable or a crybaby is draining just see a therapist at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:49 PM
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it depends. if it’s someone posting on that sub and i see their profile and it has a bunch of pics of them im gonna assume it’s for attention. but there is women out there who genuinely don’t think they’re attractive and really need reassurance from people online because they’re that insecure. it is possible that they don’t have luck with finding a romantic partner due to not putting themselves out there or not having good social skills. it really can be anything i can definitely relate I’ll be …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:11 PM
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i admire confident people and i believe everyone should have confidence because it is a good look, but if i don’t find them physically attractive i wouldn’t think about dating them. attractiveness is important to me as much as personality. i’m not picky but if you’re not my type it will forever be that no matter how good their personality is when i can find that in a better looking dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:09 PM
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where are you getting this information from ? who actually thinks this? it’s not misandristic or misogynistic , it’s just shallow preferences and people don’t like to hear shallow preferences unless it benefits them. i think men and women should stop being so bothered by peoples preferences especially if they’re not being disrespectful about it. we can’t help what we find attractive or not, just be respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:57 AM
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why would anyone want to be with someone they don’t find attractive though? doesn’t matter if it’s “their look” whatever that means. so if you’re unattractive that means you need to stick with someone unattractive? woman or man. never understood that. physical attraction is a need for people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:33 PM
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i see so many bums out there having relationships and 3 baby mommas, then i realized some women most likely don’t care and i don’t know what attracts them to these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:08 AM
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but i feel like every man needs to put in work to get attention from a women no matter what height they are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:09 PM
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true. i’m 5’9 and that’s considered tall for a female yet 5’9 for a male would be considered short for some people. people even think women who are 5’6 are tall when i say a guy is short i mean shorter than me. i don’t mean it like that. but in reality short to me would be like 5’5 and under
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:06 PM
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i think this short thing is so dragged out. more men complain about it on the internet than in real life. i see short men getting girls all the time, especially short men that are bums. so if it isn’t money then what is it? it’s called having confidence. being short doesn’t make a guy ugly or less desirable. but people are allowed to have preferences. some women don’t want men shorter than them and that’s ok. I’m not going to trip if a few guys don’t like my body when there’s a million other men…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:21 PM
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but that never came out of my mouth. i just don’t like men being shorter than me. i never said men shouldn’t be shorter than women. you’re making assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:20 AM
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i never assumed smaller men are weaker lol it’s just weird towering over a man im in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:08 AM
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because i find it awkward and weird for me to be with them and i wouldn’t feel submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:03 AM
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i’m not attracted to men shorter than me and there’s some men not attracted to women taller than them. i also can’t speak for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:59 AM
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here we go with this height thing Lmao. i’m 5’9. i’ve met men shorter than me that get women left and right , some even being a bum so it can’t be a money thing either. yes everyone has preferences but just because you’re “short” doesn’t mean you’re incapable of getting women. no one likes someone who lacks confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:53 AM
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it’s based on everything. looks, character, personality etc. and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:48 AM
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the lower your standards are you set yourself up for more disappointments. so i will always keep my standards high.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:14 AM
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21 if including oral and i tell them the truth but they rarely ever ask. probably because they don’t care, but one guy i was with told me he had over 50 then proceeded to ask me and in the same sentence said it was unattractive for a women to have lots of sex partners , so if that’s the case i guess we’re not gonna work and that’s ok! Weird logic tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:15 PM
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what the hell is a mid. it’s either you’re attractive or not 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:47 AM
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i’m 22
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:47 PM
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only time people should be involved is if someone is being abused/ unhappy and they know them personally but it’s the internet and they’re a celebrity so it’s always going to be talked about no matter what. that’s just my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:14 AM
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me being a women i don’t care for age gaps because it’s not my relationship. i don’t see the big deal and why it bothers people so much. they’re grown who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:10 AM
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if they’re a virgin and they’re around my age or older , im going to assume they have some kind of issue or they’re religious. plus no experience and that’s not someone i wanna date
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:44 AM
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I know men who are 5'5/5'6 having casual sex left and right so I don't understand why this is always a constant debate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:02 AM
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if it's a first date I would never in my life pay for the whole meal. I'd either split, but men I went out with never let me split. They pay. But I'm not going to assume the next guy that asks me out is going to pay, I still come prepared. Some men are just raised like that to pay for the meal, some men aren't and that's fine. The times Ill pay for a full meal is probably the next date as a thank you for the last meal the paid for, if I ask them to hang out, and a special occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:17 PM
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.. nothing was proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:58 AM
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Yes. so what's your point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:55 AM
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actually I don't and most likely never will
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:54 AM
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I never was trying to dictate who you date so I don't know where you got that from. I just asked a question because I didn't see how it made them an idiot or not bright with their money. I wouldn't even date one that was subscribed to someone's OF especially because you're able to communicate with the person and that's not something I'm comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:10 AM
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how does that make them an idiot or not bright with their money? an idiot for subscribing to women they're into and seeing more content from them.. possibly even custom content? and what if they make lots of money and a 5.99 subscription doesn't make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:01 AM
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that's good you enjoy something.. but I'm still going to judge and say that's weird because it is. no one can change my mind. there's things I enjoy thst people will judge me on.. but I don't give a fuck because I enjoy them! everyone judges and if you don't then you're a liar. I can have opinions and state them when the topic comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:53 PM
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you shouldn't care about people's opinions that's about you anyways. I couldn't care less if they cared for what I had to say or not. That's just what I think. People can do whatever they want with their life, I'm still going to judge.. not directly to their face because that's just being an asshole. but if it's a topic of discussion I'm going to say something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:07 AM
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then men who purchase these sex dolls just can't interact with women & have no desire for human contact.. so they rather use a life size doll which is why I find it sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:53 AM
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It's not competition lol. If it was a female with a male sex doll I would've said the same thing. Spending so much money on a plastic doll to fuck every night and make love to sounds freaky. Dating a 30 year old at age 18 is creepy as well.. if you really think that's because they're scared a child would replace them.. that's just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:28 AM
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to respond to your edited comment. you don't have to believe anything I have to say I don't comment for people to agree with me. also comparing a sex doll to a dildo.. isn't a good comparison. you're assuming I think all sex toys for men are weird and thats not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:19 AM
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then mind your business and keep scrolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:16 AM
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okay and there's other sex toys men use that I don't find weird. it's just the sex dolls (for any gender) and that's my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:15 AM
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those are creepy, weird, and sad to own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:12 AM
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When it comes to face.. I don't really have specifics. There's many faces I find attractive and this goes with race too. I find every race attractive. When it comes to body type they just need to be healthy. I don't care if they're skinny, muscular, chubby.. just can't be anorexic or obese to the point they can't stand for more than 5 minutes or they have many health problems. I also prefer men MY height or taller. They can't be shorter than me and I'm 5'9. other things I dislike bad teeth, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:45 PM
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everyone is allowed to have preferences. what I find attractive in a man varies as well, I've dated many types of men. Why would I date someone I'm not into ? that just doesn't make sense. Who wouldn't want a good person to date. why rush and be miserable when I can take my time and find someone I can actually be with. No one is perfect nor do I hold high expectations for men. Attractivness can mean many things
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:44 PM
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neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:55 PM
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yeah.. that's why I date people I actually find attractive. I care about looks AND personality. We can be friends. I'm not gonna date someone I find unattractive just cause their personality is good when there's an attractive man out there with a good personality too 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:19 PM
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I made a LinkedIn profile and one day I decided to look at my old elementary teacher's profiles just to see what they're doing with their life.. honestly didn't know it notified them that I viewed their profile. Anyways the dean at my school inboxed me saying “hey do I know you from somewhere 😍” and we were talking and he said how he would like to take me out for drinks sometimes then I realized he we my dean in like first grade. he couldn't have remembered me since I'm now 22 and don't look the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:37 PM
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i already answered that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:41 PM
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because for some women makeup/plastic surgery makes them feel/look pretty. if someone is insecure about something and they have the money to change something about themselves.. they do it i don’t see why that’s so hard to understand lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:24 PM
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I don’t see how liking to look good is the equivalent to narcissism.. if someone looks good it’s just a confidence boost. Like who wouldn’t want to look good and finally be able to feel good about themselves? Honestly loving yourself is the first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:36 PM
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It’s interesting to see how average height / short men on Reddit talk about their difficulties getting women .. yet i know so many guys in their height range in real life that get women left from right. My male cousin is 5’5 and brings a different girl to every family function and he’s broke.. and then i came to a conclusion that they’re just confident. Yes there’s women that prefer taller men .. I myself prefer a guy my height or taller and it’s only because I’m 5’9. it’s not a really a specifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:37 AM
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so what’s the point of this ? like what do you gain from this honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:06 AM
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that’s fine. and you seriously don’t know what a woman is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:03 AM
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it depends on the context you use it in. saying female and men in the same sentence is weird. female can mean many things. female dog, female bird, female cat… so just say women. it just sounds dehumanizing to people. i only get offended if female and men are used in the same sentence it just makes no sense lol. i hardly ever see just “male and women “ being used
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:01 AM
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no man manipulated me. they tell me straight up. maybe when i was a teenager … but i can’t get manipulated or be used , if i don’t let them. no reason to lie too grown for that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:36 PM
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I always see “short” men complaining on the internet about women not preferring them for their height. you really can’t be mad at someone for stating their preferences , we all have a preference… some might be shallow but as long as someone’s not being disrespectful about it ..it really shouldn’t be a problem. Stop focusing on people who don’t prefer you and start focusing on one’s who do. No reason to get mad because those girls/guys you like are into XYZ.. and you’re not that. I’ve dated short…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:50 PM
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idk if this is just me but sometimes if i really like a guy i get text anxiety i wouldnt know what to say and id get nervous thinking about what to text back and i don’t respond till hours later..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:46 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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