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I guess the phenomenon has many parts. Firstly 30 is when you no longer look like an awkward boy and turn fully into a man. Secondly you’ve probably gotten enough sexual experience by then that you’re more confident in your inner game like you’ve gotten used to pussy. Thirdly the women who are still single at 30 know their options are dwindling and now they’re doing the pursuing. Also everyone gets more confident with age. When I get hit on by a 20 year old girl she really can’t make me feel ner…
/r/seduction16/10/18 07:29 PM
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I don’t know about that. Men generally judge women by their looks and age doesn’t do women any favors. I mean you wouldn’t date an ugly old lady because she was successful.
/r/seduction16/10/18 07:19 PM
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I found it best to channel all the frustration and hurt. Every time I got dumped I focused purely on making myself better and more attractive and I ended up going up in value. I also became colder and more cunning and harder to break.
/r/seduction16/10/18 07:17 PM
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Early 20s and my age also. In some cases as young as 18
/r/seduction16/10/18 06:07 PM
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Update: from what I've heard she's depressed and anxious and decided to drag her new boyfriend on a holiday with her to Japan at the end of the year. Also she wears the pants in the relationship and she wants to be a carpenter. Also she went down from a 7 to a 5 from the year or so after all this took place.
/r/seduction16/10/18 04:37 AM
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Yeah I got burned pretty hard by this girl and I went into a deep depression. But I channeled that heartbreak into working on myself and my career. A few years later women are now actively pursuing me and I'm getting laid more than I even want to. Also my ex got older and fatter and went from a 7 to a 5. We work together so it's pretty funny that literally nobody at work seems interested in her and I'm constantly chatting to girls 8 years younger and much more attractive and they show huge amoun…
/r/seduction16/10/18 04:25 AM
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I guess work on yourself. I found after every heartbreak I'd channel my anger into work and bettering myself appearance wise. In a way I fed on all the heartbreaks and eventually became kind of cool calm and successful. If you've ever seen Casino Royale with Daniel Craig he goes gets serious one-itis for this chick who betrays him and makes him cruel and at the end he becomes the man we know as James Bond.
/r/seduction16/10/18 04:20 AM
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I find sociopaths and narcissism go hand in hand. It’s funny seeing how after she got back from Japan she’s broke, failed all her courses, making a third of what she used to make, gained weight and is about to hit 30. It’ll be interesting to see what happens to people like that when their youth and looks fail her. Do they become bitter and angry or do they try harder to maintain themselves I wonder.
/r/seduction07/07/18 12:07 AM
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Gambling industry
/r/seduction05/07/18 11:44 PM
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Thankyou I needed that slap in the face to bring me back to my senses. And you’re right high value men do not find women like that attractive which is a big admission of how far I’ve fallen.
/r/seduction05/07/18 08:09 AM
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Because in and LDR I wasn't getting any sex from her so I pushed her away at the time. She could feel I wasn't happy and we parted.
/r/seduction20/09/17 10:15 PM
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Can you give me some details of what she did?
/r/seduction24/05/17 10:28 PM
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What is an infector?
/r/seduction24/05/17 09:38 PM
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Looks like life with her sucks after the honeymoon.
/r/seduction24/05/17 09:02 PM
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The first 2 months we lived together we were fine actually. She used to cook for me, clean etc. She was always horny and telling me how much she wanted me. She'd even called in sick to work to take care of me when I was sick. She bought groceries and we were all over each other daily. She even posted pictures of me all over her FB. Now though the pictures are still there but she no longer laughs at my jokes, is never in the mood and nitpicks at me whenever she's unhappy about anything. If I so m…
/r/seduction24/05/17 08:49 PM
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I feel like I've lost my frame and my game is super rusty. Maybe win her back. Probably figure what she's thinking.
/r/seduction24/05/17 08:23 PM
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Start with 7s and work your way up to 8s and 9s through social value and experience. Once you've conquered 7s go to 8s and then 9s. Think of it as stepping stones. Not only is it about experience but also will give you enough confidence to move higher. If you're banging 5s a 9 will intimidate you so work up gradually.
/r/seduction16/01/17 08:04 PM
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Work on yourself. Get a better wardrobe/hairstyle/social life. Get out of bronze league and fight your way up to gold or platinum. When I was in highschool I was a 3 as well. I was lanky, nerdy and socially inept. A decade later everyone sees me as the cool laid back womanizer and I'm dating 8s and 9s regularly. What did I do? Well I worked on myself.
/r/seduction16/01/17 08:02 PM
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Polite but willing to walk away at any time causes women to pursue out of curiosity. Being an asshole can backfire pretty hard. Indifferent but playful and friendly makes women pursue.
/r/seduction16/01/17 07:58 PM
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My wingmen are some of my closest friends that I've trained over countless months hanging out with them and sharing game. They also become very loyal if you're the one training them.
/r/seduction16/01/17 07:55 PM
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Slide in NLP. Keep all conversations light. Don't write long paragraphs. Don't reply immediately unless she replies immediately. Try to find a time and place to meet up with every conversation eventually.
/r/seduction16/01/17 07:54 PM
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Ok here's an example of a typical way I'd ask a girl out. Me: hey you hungry? Her: yeah Me: hey I'm starving. There's a fucking delicious sushi place at x. Let's grab some of that. I post some pics of the food from the restaurant website to her. Her: looks good Me: how about 7. U need a lift or meet there ? Her: I can meet u there. Flake rate is extremely low if you ask girls out like that assuming you've spent enough time getting to know her through social media or irl first. See no pressure, h…
/r/seduction24/12/16 04:34 AM
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Some guys I know in their mid 20s look like boys from high school. Some younger guys look like full grown men. If you look like a boy women will find it unattractive. Women like men who look like grown ass men.
/r/seduction24/12/16 04:28 AM
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Maybe you're planning too early in advance so the girls have more time to get second thoughts. Maybe you're taking something casual and texting them too much about the date and making them feel under pressure. Maybe not enough rapport so they said yes out of politeness only. You need to give more details if you want a better answer.
/r/seduction24/12/16 04:26 AM
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The reason sociopaths are so damned charming.
/r/seduction24/12/16 04:10 AM
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So in other words man the fuck up. I'll upvote you because this is what I need to hear. Brutal honesty.
/r/seduction24/12/16 04:06 AM
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But at the end of the day it didn't matter one bit even though it sucked. Moral is you have nothing to lose by flirting with girls. Keep doing it until you find it boring and you will have improved your game.
/r/seduction24/12/16 03:58 AM
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I think she invited him along because it was his idea to go to dinner with her. Apparently he asked her out and she didn't reply until I asked her out then she suggested we all go out. This is what I found out talking to him. Afterwards she sent him away to park her car in a better spot and then feeding me food and getting semi intimate with me. That guy must have felt like a real chump as she basically said: fuckoff this is the guy I'm interested in not you. That behavior kind of shits me despi…
/r/seduction24/12/16 03:43 AM
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Yeah that's like saying: you don't want to fuck me please leave me alone. Ouch
/r/seduction24/12/16 03:18 AM
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I'll pay my respects to that wisdom
/r/seduction24/12/16 03:09 AM
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Alright from the replies it's become apparent I need to eat some humble pie and move onto the next one.
/r/seduction24/12/16 02:34 AM
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Well she's usually the one pursuing me funny enough I just let it happen but lately she's been like this while still asking me out. Kind of mixed signals. That's what's got me stumped.
/r/seduction24/12/16 01:55 AM
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When I was younger and a hot girl walked into the room that I was interested in I'd look her in the eyes and not look away and I'd give this really surprised reaction like I'd been hit by lightning. When she caught me staring she wouldn't look away either and we'd be socialising/talking to other people but we'd still be staring at each other. I'd continue to stare until she left and after doing this for a while she come sit with me and start flirting with me. Trick is not to look creepy or anyth…
/r/seduction23/12/16 09:51 PM
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In my opinion she wasn't interested after the dates. If she was interested she'd agree to go on a 3rd date. Sorry to be harsh but I've dated girls where I'd show basically no interest for the first 8 or so dates but she was interested in me and she was the one who kept organising the dates. Ended up banging her once and then ignoring her then she started posting pictures of herself cutting herself on FB. Awkward as fuck.
/r/seduction23/12/16 09:41 PM
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Proper relationships from work are fine and alot of coworkers marry each other and live happily ever after. Fucking around in your own nest is complicated. I've done it a few times and after it ends you're left with stress and awkward situations at work. But if you revel in the drama and reputation and can take the strain of an awkward workplace it can be deliciously fun. There's no such thing as a free fuck.
/r/seduction23/12/16 09:30 PM
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Amen that she is fucking her own lovelife up. She's early 30s, smoking hot, single and is feeling the pressure of having kids and starting a family. She has no shortage of men who want her but she treats them all like shit because of a Catch 22 attraction cycle in her head. She is also by far the hardest girl I've ever tried to bed and I'm enjoying the challenge as it is improving my game through analysis also.
/r/seduction23/12/16 09:26 PM
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Yeah he ended up parking the car. Also he's a work colleague who seems to have an interest in her. The fact that she sent him away to park the car was pretty rude but I ended up alone with her. Also he didn't even finish his meal and went straight to work so I feel like he knew the score. Also after seeing him at work he said that she was parked fine and although he moved the car it wasn't illegal so she just used it as an excuse to throw him off. While we were alone she started trying to feed m…
/r/seduction23/12/16 09:18 PM
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Well as a female PUA she goes for validation from men and as soon as she gets it she moves on and loses all interest. I'm not talking sexual validation btw but emotional validation. Today I asked her to get some drinks with me before work and she invited another guy friend to tag along. Anyway me and the guy chump end up waiting for her at a restaurant where she turns up 30 mins late and tells her guy friend she illegally parked and sends him off to park her car somewhere legal. Then asks me to …
/r/seduction22/12/16 06:26 PM
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OMG that was hilarious.
/r/seduction22/12/16 01:54 AM
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Great tips also. I guess I'll drop the sister phrase but maybe keep in the friendship terms. Of course I didn't think of the freeze out and taking it slow phase. Use her own tricks against her. This is great I'm really forming a strong gameplan now.
/r/seduction21/12/16 11:28 PM
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Yeah I kind of picked up a lot of stuff from old school Mystery and it's worked well for me so far. I'm pretty unfamiliar with the new stuff. Anyway my current gameplan would be to say things like: "you've been a good sister to me," etc. and call her friend and buddy. If she brings up us dating again I'll voice my opinion that maybe we aren't right for each other because of differences etc. and ask her why we would make a good couple (yet again get her to qualify herself). Meanwhile I'll continu…
/r/seduction21/12/16 11:17 PM
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Very very good advice bro. So find her flaws and friendzone her. I guess she was starting to out PUA me, something I'm not afraid to admit. And yeah this has been a learning process for me trying to match wits with her. Without a challenge we can't grow. Thing is at the start I was friendzoning her heavily and it made her work on me to the exclusion of other guys but I must have weakened over time. Thanks for bringing me back on my feet.
/r/seduction21/12/16 10:58 PM
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