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its the mentality that's hard [..] one needs to give themselves the permission to beleive they deserve this dynamic. Coming to grips with the fact that women are beneath me was a defining moment in my life. An awakening (literally in some way I don't want to blog about) that lead to some serious entitlement. And ever since all of my relationships have been deeply fulfilling in everyway. Completely different ride. Theyre lesser and we both like it. 99% of guys including RPers think this has to do…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 08:57 AM
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said that I was disrespectful and she wasn’t going to tolerate it etc and said she wants to break up The only response is "I understand how you feel. You have to do what you have to do." On a couple occasions I've had girls do this and change their tune 2 seconds after I finished the sentence. The kicker is that this kind of relationship is doomed and no amount of game can save it. She's playing high stakes games, and the fact it got there implies the guy is playing games too. Both people are im…
/r/askTRP23/06/21 01:49 AM
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Red Pill is mix of incomplete pickup advice, lifting, blogging about ovulation cycles, and larping.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 09:43 PM
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Have you ever volunteered at a shelter and fed a puppy? His tail wagging so fast he can't keep his back legs in place. That shit makes me cry. Way higher value than fucking whores, that puppy would turn into a bad mother fucker and take bullets for you without a second thought. These whores won't pick you up from the airport, but here we are. This place should be about adopting puppies.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 09:39 PM
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I've been in Poland for years. Non-white expats struggle on apps, but Polish girls are welcoming in-person. And you can always count on girls being girls. They LOVE foreign and they LOVE dominant. What do you think an innocent Polish girl thinks of Arabs? Feminists would say horrible things, I'd say mmmmm... horrrrrrrible things. Play the part. Have a Burka ready before you stick it in, they'll lose control and pee all over your bed.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 09:19 PM
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Because cheating has consequences. By having a pic of her boyfriend and some bullshit in her profile no one can ever say anything to her. She can comfortably sink to the bottom of the ocean on that ship. First-hand experience and brag, like 8 years ago I used to never give up on approaches. I'd just stick in there trying to get some cops in the building. This one girl approached her with her friend at my gym. She said she had a boyfriend right off. I started listing reasons I was better than her…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:21 AM
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Poisonous, filthy, disgusting, whorish anecdote.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:33 AM
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Stick it in. Ignore it again. She might mention him while you're fucking her to convince herself she did everything not to cheat. Who knows.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:50 PM
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"While we're continuing to not see each other, let's have drinks tomorrow" With deep respect to Matty, giving attention to anything that doesn't advance the interaction is always a bad idea.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:02 PM
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What is this fucking blog. She said she had a bf, you ignore it. That's all.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:58 PM
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Should I date a girl that's a 5 Yea if that's all you can get.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:57 PM
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countries*
/r/askTRP18/06/21 12:13 PM
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Guys are the gas, girls are the brake. Every single girl out there is very endeared towards aggressive men who move quickly. As long as you make her feel safe, that she knows she can brake and you won't react poorly, you're on top of her world. And those little things, pulling her hair, you obviously have the confidence, so move the interaction along, get her outside, get her to the car, have a reason to get her to your place. Bam bam bam. No reason for a 2nd date muchless 3rd. It's not her deci…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:31 AM
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They won't make any difference unless you have top 5% pics which usually requires a photographer that has a high SMV himself and knows what you need ("natural" shots). It's the difference between getting 100s of matches and 0. Most guys need a new wardrobe before they can even begin getting pics taken.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:23 AM
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3 dates... hope she's paying for your time. You can move 100x quicker than you are, up to you.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:21 AM
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I don't really understand the txts, but LMR is common. It's good practice. Turn her on, try to stick it in, turn her on, try to stick it in, that's all. I've spent 2-3 hours with some girls trying to overcome it. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, but to me Mattress Wars are an incredible challenge, almost as good as the sex. Some girls are doing it on purpose ot see if you're going to dominate them, it's a turn on for them that they need, almost like they need to be cold approached in pe…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:14 AM
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You don't even know her, what are you planning for. If things go well, figure it out then. You're too eager. You aren't selfish or entitled enough about this, and that unfortunately hurts you in this game. I don't have a way to explain this without blogging so I hope that helps. If you're meeting up on a date, it's already sexual. You're there to fuck, she's there to fuck. I do the same thing on most dates and it works great- hug her when you first see her, grab both of her hands and stand back …
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:04 AM
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Keep in mind the barber shop was completely empty and quiet and full of co-workers. They heard me flirting with her the entire time but I never gave two fucks. I might be low latent inhibition. Is this a brag about not having social anxiety? I love you guys.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 05:26 AM
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Money opens up access to new sexual marketplaces. America is the land wealth creation, not quality women. Learn Italian/Spanish/Croatian/Polish/Chinese/whatever women you like and turn the difficulty from nightmare mode to normal mode. Hire good photographers for pics that know what they're doing, if you can find a Chad who's a photographer he's your man. Don't be a cheap cunt.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 05:13 AM
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Know what you like and don't like first. NMMNG maybe.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 03:30 AM
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I can't remember who ran the study. More or less, virgins stay married. Non-virgins don't.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 02:44 AM
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Thanks for your posts V. My spreadsheets include some of your material. I'm slowly getting into some DD/Domestic Discipline shit and it's been fun. All these poor young girls running around that need older dick, jesus christ I got disqualified because 34 was too young.. baby, I'll dye my hair white for you, I'll make more dad jokes. PLEASE! Although if he's living in a minor league city it might not be terrible. That may be true. If there's any chance I can hear someone walking I consider it a s…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 01:06 AM
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Throw her back. If we all ruin every girl out here with enough awareness to know having a family is fulfilling we're going to burn this place to the ground. On the other hand I guess that's happening anyway.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:59 AM
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It's the Planet Fitness in Brownsville, Brooklyn. Pretty close.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:50 AM
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So blonde girl ends up in tears and is like why is your friend such a dick etc etc. Initiate operation bloody sandwich.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:48 AM
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Of course the issue is that you give a shit about what she does. I can't imagine you guys write this stuff and don't always know the answer. You're not kidding about the virginity part. CDC statistics weren't wrong. I'm curious if that's the case for men too.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:45 AM
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No apartment in a highrise worth $1400 is nice. It's another shit hole with a shit pool. Your sex life isn't going to improve. Keep your cheap one and spend the extra money on lifting/coaching/yourself.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:42 AM
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OK I'll try KWML first. which can be a very helpful perspective in today’s world IMO. Yep. Everytime I stop reading RP material to keep things fresh I slowly start slipping. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:39 PM
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To her statement, you could ask her to come sit on your lap (if you have that dynamic, you should) and ask, "That's no good. How long have you been feeling like this?" and you gotta really listen so you can ask good follow-up questions and help guide her through her emotions. Don't solve shit, don't amplify the problem, just some basic questions. You're Bob Ross and your girl is a fucked up painting, brush some happy little bushes and trees into that shit. if I go for it she will be like see?! a…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:15 PM
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You think they're truly worth it? I'm unfortunately tight on reading time, but quickly scanning KWML sounds interesting.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:50 PM
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I have no idea what you're rambling about, none of that has anything to do with shit tests/qualifiers. There's a chance you're a far lower SMV than you think you are and that's been your experience so far.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 01:15 AM
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They're not that different. Girls are just teasing. What do you tease people about? Insecurities. If a guy reacts, showing his insecurities, he's shit. Guys tease girls all the time, but it's inconsequential how they answer as we don't need them for the same things, so pickup didn't come up with a special name for it. Your response wasn't good or bad, there's no such thing. You had no purpose to fuck anyone so the outcome didn't matter. You enjoyed hanging out with your friends anyway. Social in…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 12:40 AM
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Shit tests are just a qualifier (woman to man). We qualify the opposite sex because we're on the fence about them- not a no, but not a yes either. So you could say it's an indicator of interest. Women qualify men based on perceived insecurities where men qualify women based on desired qualities. If your perceived value is significantly higher, you won't necessarily get any (pre-selected).
/r/askTRP10/06/21 12:16 AM
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Never heard of the latter two- anyone share a couple highlights?
/r/askTRP10/06/21 12:08 AM
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Is the value in attending AA meetings about knowing you're not alone, or is there more to it?
/r/askTRP09/06/21 06:32 AM
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You're just repeating yourself. What's toxic about RP? I believe hypergamy to be a real thing, yet I've had two successful LTRs. If your opinion is that RP is a bad way to introduce blue pilled men to the truth, I might agree with that.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 06:29 AM
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On dates, I always try to start off with a big hug, spin them once, pick them up. This breaks every barrier down in < 5 seconds. If you do it right, they won't reject any of it. I've awkwarded the pickup part up a couple times, that was my fault. On cold approaches, lightly squeeze their elbow as you open. When you do bigger touches, take tension off by looking away. So if you go to touch her shoulder or something the first time, look away while doing it, or do it while you're getting up. If you…
/r/askTRP09/06/21 06:24 AM
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You could have qualified her and kept her on the hook, "So far I've enjoyed my time with you. You're cool. I'm looking forward to seeing where this leads." Nothing wrong with telling the truth, or not. Gotta figure out what you like and do that.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 06:08 AM
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Who's everyone? What's the problem with RP?
/r/askTRP09/06/21 05:58 AM
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David Shade. Athol Kay. She Comes First for head.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 05:47 AM
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Read other books. SGM is good, but it's not some legendary manual, there are 100s of books that are good. Search main RP sub, married RP sub. Use spreadsheet and/or anki.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 12:14 AM
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If you see this as a huge negative, she will too. If you see this as the next chapter of your life that you're about to dick the fuck down, she will too. Make it fun, be ambitious, go hard in the paint. In that bad mother fucking movie Interstellar, Cooper explains why he can't tell his kid why he's leaving, "When you become a parent, one thing becomes really clear. And that's that you want to make sure your children feel safe. And that rules out telling a 10-year old that the world's ending." R…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 08:33 PM
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Filter everyone out that'll leave them.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 08:11 PM
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Years ago the whole boring thing clicked for me a little when I was talking to a friend and said something about how I'm so fucking boring lately, it's pathetic, it's shocking I still get pussy, I should kill myself, the typical anger rant for a laugh. This girl I was seeing was listening in and later said "why do you think you're boring? you're the opposite, you're fucking crazy, you should record yourself one of these days". Kind of a lightbulb moment. Girls are boring, they can't experience t…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 01:50 AM
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All you can do is draw some lines in the sand and see if she steps over them or not. Mate guarding won't work and hoping someone makes it easier on you won't happen.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:00 AM
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if I’ve learned anything from TRP it’s that showing “needy emotions” is the quickest way out the door with women Needy emotions, yea. No body told you to be a boring autistic robot. Girls love emotional guys, girls just don't want you to need them to do anything about it.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:10 PM
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You can get away with fairly needy behavior, at least for awhile, if the girl perceives you as her best option. It's a game of thresholds at the end of the day, but that kind of behavior is really the worst. Girls will forgive you for a lot, but when you seem like you have no other options it really starts to fuck with their heads- some of them are even aware enough to see their attraction fading and it terrifies them, but they can't stop the inevitable.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 10:55 PM
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Mystery was also the biggest time waster in the history of getting pussy. In your scenario he's right(er) in a vacuum for sure, but he's wrong overall. It's more efficient to go for it and move on to the next set rather than wasting hours talking to a bunch of people you don't give a shit about so maybe you can get this 1 girl to like you. And that's just a small example. Ever heard of his 7 hour rule? Joke material. Even his advice on shit tests was mostly a joke, something his head coach Sinn …
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:22 AM
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Very cool. You're on the top of the world bro enjoy it.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:31 AM
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Women will only despise you for correcting them. And you're wasting your time anyway, they don't learn shit. Shut up, listen, comfort, spank, fuck, do you.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:16 AM
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Why Serbia over Poland, Ukraine, Croatia?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:14 AM
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Normal. COVID makes it harder. But you also need to learn to stop women. Watch YT videos maybe and see how to walk past and turn properly. Day game is just a lot harder than night game... a lot of guys refuse to do it. On the other hand, having done this in EU and the US a lot, America is one of the most difficult places to do it. I guess because most women are overweight, the guys are the most competitive and all lift, hookup culture is normalized, feminism has taken over, simps make it all wor…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:02 AM
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