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The question was asked and I answered. Rather than men guessing, I stated why. You can hate me, dislike me for an honest answer to a question. Knowing the truth is better than assumptions and delusions. Unless that’s how you prefer to live.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 02:35 PM
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When someone continues to lie, teach the children to lie, when the sky is blue but they say it’s purple for years, yes we will walk away. Do not take your anger out on me for your situation. You were not in mine. I stated facts. I would quit 1000 times again and wish I never met him. Move on.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 12:56 PM
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Because of the way we are treated. Would you stay if you are mistreated. You would.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 11:09 AM
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Yes. The key here is ensure that it’s NOT MODIFIABLE. I know that seems scary but truth is you’d rather lock it in than get pay bumps and have to pay more. My ex’s first wife got jacked hard but deserved it. She was a cheater.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/23 01:17 PM
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She’s done. When women initiate it’s because they’ve already moved on. Women will leave you before physically leaving you and there is no going back. Also, because she’s on dating sites, she will see that grass isn’t always greener and YOU SHOULD NOT BE HER SECOND CHOICE. Lawyer up and dump her ass.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 08:32 PM
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An engagement ring is a promise until you are married. If she breaks the promise before you are married you get it back. If you break the promise before marriage, she keeps it as recompense. Once you are married the engagement ring is a gift. Wedding rings are community property. Lesson here; spend less on engagement. I took engagement, wedding mine and his because he was abusive as recompense. Left everything else.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/23 12:18 AM
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Stay put. You’re stable and in a lovely environment. Use technology. When traveling I would use Hangouts and leave in on when I got home and it’s like you’re in the same room and even start movies or tv shows at the same time. Make dinner with them it’s really fun. Best thing is make it a routine. You got this.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/23 05:29 PM
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DO NOT LEAVE UNLESS COURT ORDER. Make your wife leave.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 11:10 PM
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You sound like a Democrat.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/23 05:40 AM
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It’s easy. They way we are treated. We communicate in the beginning. When we are ignored or/and to dismissed over a period of time we stop. We mentally leave you. There’s no going back from this. We will only physically leave when we are either, over you, when the children are grown, have a “leave date” and or saved enough money to leave. So no we didn’t just shut down completely. We were trained by you. The relationship we had with was killed by a thousand cuts. Mine started when I asked him to…
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 07:33 PM
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you get get herpes from skin touching and kissing. Even if you don't see it. They can be a carrier.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 01:27 PM
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you can get an STD from kissing. Also some type of herpes don't show up on STD testing. Test showed my ex was clean twice. He wasn't. Also, if you are meeting people from sites, based one the responses here... you could all be sharing sex partners. Like 6 degrees of Kevin Bacon.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 01:26 PM
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Bumble and Hinge is for relationships. Not one nighters. It's fucked up if you go there to waste a woman's time. Imagine if you're the kind of guy your daughter is meeting.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 01:21 PM
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I was dead inside.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 12:46 AM
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I say that because I only participated to keep the peace until I got out.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 12:46 AM
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What did you do to make that way?
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 12:45 AM
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Grey rock worked for me. Indifference leads to Freedom.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/23 03:30 AM
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What he sent isn’t unreasonable. In-fact it’s what is to be expected on both sides. If not, #byefelicia
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 11:28 PM
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Also stay way from dating sites. It’s digital shopping for disposable people.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 09:45 PM
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If you’re embarrassed to talk to your friends get new ones. Join a Church and volunteer at their functions. Get a Labrador Retriever, learn to train her or him and go on adventures like kayaking and camping. Build a routine that makes you so busy you don’t miss a relationship or miss rubbing one out. It’s freeing and once you do that you will then have serenity and be able to attract quality people while doing your routine and weed out the vampires. Meaning you have become a quality person who w…
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 09:43 PM
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Same goes for men.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 12:55 AM
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Hell no.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 03:51 PM
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Retire first so you don’t have income. The cut everything in half.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/23 09:44 PM
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No. You can have a PHD and be Nutritionist that’s makes shit money and be dumb as a door nail. Worst is MBA.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/23 12:27 AM
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Nice to know you think of women as disposable. If you’re not ready for a serious relationship or or marriage you shouldn’t be on sites that most people are looking for that ie Hinge and Bumble. You’re using women to boost your self esteem and it will be temporary. Loving yourself without any outside help is how you heal. Not pussy. Also, women on dating apps talk. You will end up getting a reputation annnnnnnnd you know you can get an STD from kissing right??? Like herpes. Gross man.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/23 12:25 AM
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It was so bad I had to hide my paychecks for 1.5 years and buy my own house and slowly move my stuff in secret. He was violent to. Being alone is the remedy for learning about yourself and boundaries. Get rid of all toxic people. Family or otherwise. Only then will one have serenity. No more relationships for me. Just me and my doggo.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 10:16 PM
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Oooo super simple. Call the kids every night and ask if mom is there. If you get a vague answer ask to speak to Mom. Then send an email or text to said ex about “according to the parenting plan I have first right of refusal and you didn’t give me the option which is in violation (enter section of parenting plan here).“ “Either you in future do the right thing and ask me via text or email to keep us honest or I will report this and take you back to court. Xoxo”
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 10:08 PM
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Not true. What the OP just described is exactly what I did. I’m woman. (Biological) <stupid I have to write that these days. My ex Male (Biological) was drama ridden, unclean, horrible parent, dumb as a door nail sheeple. Being alone and having a great dog is fucking blissful serenity.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 10:02 PM
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💯
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/23 05:35 AM
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No worries. We don’t don’t want to marry you either.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/23 05:34 AM
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You sound like an ex wife that kept her ex husbands name. She legally reinstated her maiden per divorce decree. She signed that she would change her name.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/21 03:27 AM
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