ballzhang Archive

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26	So I went on 5 dates today Nah fam, you didn’t try. In your own words, you “ clearly smelled of vagina/cum” for date#2,3,4, and 5. What would you think of a girl if she showed up on your date smelling of dick/cum?	/r/seduction	30/06/21 08:20 AM
–	To me, it feels like I can only approach a girl if we meet in a place where that's "socially acceptable", be it at a bar, work or school. How do you approach a girl who's just trying to mind her own business that you met at some random coffee shop? Here for the comments and advice. I have the same trouble, but I don’t frequent bars/nightlife venues cuz I don’t drink. I can chat with a worker of a place cuz I can make comments related to where they’re working, but to approach a “civilian” is a puzzle for me. I’ve heard the best advice is to comment and start convo about your surroundings and whatever shared experience you two are having. I agree with this but it also puts pressure to rack my brain for a convo starter before I approach. And …	/r/seduction	01/06/21 06:37 PM
–	Does kino really make that big of a difference? What are the ways to test the boundaries, and how do you get more positive signals? Is it the typical things you find online about building attraction and sexual tension? It doesn’t seem to work for me 😅 I may get some good convos and another date, but I don’t see lotta signs to move further :/	/r/seduction	04/05/21 09:15 PM
2	What do you bring to the table? I’ve been asked “what do you have to offer?” I never quite understood this question... Bring to the table as in money, status etc? I don’t want to be liked for these reasons. How does having passions and hobbies ‘bring to the table?’ By sharing those with her? Teaching her? I don’t necessarily associate one’s passions and hobbies and interests with their partner. Intrinsically, they don’t have value to her. Because they are MY hobbies and passions. I can see the value if I can enjoy those with h…	/r/seduction	02/03/21 10:31 PM
–	Social proof is all that matters What would you say to someone who is introverted and not outgoing/life of the party type. It seems like most times people will say looks aren’t the biggest thing and will use examples of how “ugly” guys are able to get hot girls too. Those examples usually are then followed with anecdotes of his personality, which usually means outgoing/life of the party. So what if I am neither of these things? I’ve pushed myself to be more outgoing in part of all the “work on yourself” stuff and I will say I g…	/r/seduction	17/02/21 01:41 AM
1	Ability To Cold Approach = Superpower How do u gain this superpower? I’m comfortable trying to chat up a worker sometimes but the rule of thumb people always say don’t cuz it puts them in an awkward situation where they have to be nice to you. I never see many opportunities to cold approach a civilian. Most women I might be attracted to look like they are going about their business/in a rush and don’t wanna be bothered, with their man. I’ve never gotten any inviting signals (eye contact, smile) from a civilian to approach. How do I …	/r/seduction	24/01/21 03:08 AM
2	Reminder to have fun. Nope I’ve never found myself in that situation. You lost me at girl matched with on tinder. Then again at she initiated message lol	/r/seduction	13/01/21 02:13 AM
–	When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase You I don’t take any one rejection personally. But when there is a trend, that is when you think about what the common factor is... Me? Also, not saying I’ve had zero success (however you define success in this context) but it has been few and far in between. But those little wins also helped to challenge my negative thoughts and self limiting beliefs. I can see there is hope, however tiny the morsel is lol so I do take some solace in that. But it is as I said just a morsel if hope. PS Thank you for…	/r/seduction	15/11/20 12:00 AM
–	When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase You I’ve done that as part of my improvements. No dice. And I don’t improve for girls, but honestly I was hopeful that it would lead to a more fulfilling dating life.	/r/seduction	14/11/20 11:48 PM
2	When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase You I’ve done that. It’s part of the improvements. No dice.	/r/seduction	14/11/20 11:46 PM
–	When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase You Reading all these other comments that disagree with this post makes me not feel alone but also hurts to come to grips that I’ve already done so much to improve and can continue improving but will not help in attracting girls. Reality that does not serve your goal vs a lie that puts you on a wild goose chase. Damn this sucks 😕	/r/seduction	14/11/20 06:12 PM