bamaAFC Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
307	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there!		bamaAFC	/r/seduction	04/08/13 08:07 PM
0	2 Months of Going Out Every Night. 200+ Sets. I Embrace Rejection. No closes, but whatever.		bamaAFC	/r/seduction	04/08/13 03:17 PM
0	[FR] First Day 2 k-close, and how Important it is to give REAL, thoughtful compliments.	Field Report	bamaAFC	/r/seduction	10/08/13 04:06 PM

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1	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! Awesome job!! It made my day to read that. Keep trying, and eventually it will work!!	/r/seduction	25/08/13 02:39 PM
2	How do you get motivated to keep going when you've failed so much in the past? How many roads must a man walk down, before you can call him a man	/r/seduction	10/08/13 08:08 AM
2	We all know that you how you keep your place is relatively important, but what if you don't have a lot to work with? I think if you can set up a theme for how decorate the room, you should be fine. She'll know that you can't do much with the small amount of space. She will appreciate it looking like you TRIED to make it look good. Get a comforter that goes well with your sheets, and make all of your stuff be on somewhat of a color scheme. I just decorated my new room today, and everything is red/black. Also, keep it clean and organized all the time. Also, maybe get a divider or something to conceal the bed.	/r/seduction	10/08/13 08:03 AM
1	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! Well, I'm 21, have a full time job as a reporter at television station, go to school full time witha 4.23 GPA, and I have a pretty average body, dress nice and have a nice face. I typically go for girls that others would consider a 5-7. I think currently I just suck, but I'll get better :)	/r/seduction	05/08/13 06:22 PM
2	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! And all those people with families are just Actors in YOUR life. There are so many great people who were single. I mean look at Elizabeth I! Someone's life can be amazing no matter what their dating status is. I do want you to know I think you can make it happen for you if that is what you really want :)	/r/seduction	05/08/13 06:09 PM
1	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! I have only felt enough of a connection to go for the kiss maybe 10-15 times. The adrenaline of going for it was awesome! I think I don't set up the right frame, when I talk to people. Though I am good at making others comfortable around me at this point, so that is good. Most of the kiss attempts get that get shot down, the girl still stays and talks.	/r/seduction	05/08/13 06:05 PM
5	[FR] K-Close after 40 seconds and why apocalypse style openers are my new bag Hmm. Great Job with those Balls, bro. I definitely think you don't need to do that all the time, but definitely use judgement base on the situation. I think one thing cool about what you did, is that it showed complete honesty of intentions. She knew immediately what you wanted, as opposed to after a few days of banter back and forth. The first thought on apocalypse type stuff is that it is creepy, but it just seems way to honest to be creepy. It's all about the image you project, haha!	/r/seduction	05/08/13 05:56 PM
1	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! For sure! Out of the several kisses I have attempted, it's always felt good to have tried!	/r/seduction	05/08/13 05:44 PM
2	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! I have heard that it creates a great foundation on how to treat people in general. So far all the material I have used is from here, personal experience, and a few Zan Perrion Videos. I definitely feel like being truly honest and vulnerable is the way to go. Definitely takes time to develop, I bet.	/r/seduction	05/08/13 05:39 PM
2	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! I really, really want to buy that book. I have heard so many great things about it. Which version would you recommend?	/r/seduction	05/08/13 05:17 PM
1	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! I'm going to go ahead and say, if you have gold, jewels, and a room to put them in, you have at least a little more to be thankful for than many many more people on this planet. :) What I am trying to say is, a GF\Wife would be great, but you can still have an awesome life life without that. And you never know, maybe not focusing on that will bring it into your life. I've noticed the people who find a partner, typically aren't looking that hard, kinda like the sorcerer's stone.	/r/seduction	05/08/13 05:16 PM
2	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! One day, while out I met a guy who has spent his entire life with horrible medical problems. He has had a trach since he was a baby (he is now in his forties). He works two jobs to take care of his amputee, and diabetic, mother. On top of all that, he was recently diagnosed with terminal kidney cancer. This particular cancer has something like a 0.1% survival rate. On top of all that, he has never kissed a woman, or been out on dates. But you know what? That guy was genuinely happy. He had such …	/r/seduction	05/08/13 04:21 PM
4	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! The rejections won't matter as much as the incredible people you bring into your life.	/r/seduction	05/08/13 03:56 PM
1	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! That's definitely a problem I have. A good thing is though, fear of rejection never keeps me from approaching anymore :)	/r/seduction	05/08/13 03:51 PM
1	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! Oh, the approach definitely changes. Also, there has been a good bit of improvement in my ability to talk to people, as I can now engage someone and keep them as interested in the conversation as I am. :) So, there are results, Rome Wasn't Built in Two Months I guess!	/r/seduction	05/08/13 03:50 PM
1	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! Well, I have definitely made progress. I can go up to almost anyone now, and have a fun engaging conversation with them. Also, I am giving myself time to workout, eat well, and sleep. I also work full time as a local TV Reporter on top of all that. I just haven't found that "click" yet I guess!	/r/seduction	05/08/13 03:48 PM
1	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! I noticed as soon as I posted, but I cannot edit the title, Haha!	/r/seduction	05/08/13 03:46 PM
1	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! YES! For the love of everything, Keep Trying! The only time when you have really lost in your pursuit of what you want is when you stop trying to go for it!	/r/seduction	05/08/13 03:45 PM
1	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! I'm gonna go into the next several interactions I have with that mindset! And will certainly give some updates!	/r/seduction	05/08/13 03:55 AM
6	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! Then go up to a stranger and say hi. Trust me. It's not that bad. :)	/r/seduction	05/08/13 02:41 AM
10	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! That sounds like a lot, even for a bar, haha. But then again I live in a very conservative place!	/r/seduction	05/08/13 02:19 AM
1	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! So. Just assume everyone is attracted?	/r/seduction	05/08/13 02:15 AM
1	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! I don't get it...	/r/seduction	05/08/13 01:45 AM
2	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! Gotta love Teddy! The best choice is the right one. The second best choice is the wrong one. The worst choice is making no choice at all!	/r/seduction	05/08/13 01:43 AM
2	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! Haha, and that is why I should Proofread! Edit: spelling	/r/seduction	04/08/13 11:12 PM
2	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! Thanks! What you have displayed seems to be true outcome independence. The whole coming back to my/their place is definitely a long way off! I do love when I go out, and seek nothing but self amusement!	/r/seduction	04/08/13 11:07 PM
2	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! Yep. Not sure what's up. Also, I rarely (less than 5 times.) straight up ask for sex. Most of the time, I ask for dates/numbers. I think my biggest problem is just learning to read people's attraction.	/r/seduction	04/08/13 10:51 PM
8	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! Better to be the man in the Arena, who has failed a lot. Than those poor fools in the stands who know neither victory nor defeat.	/r/seduction	04/08/13 10:36 PM
2	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! Well if she isn't interested that's one thing. I have, however gotten some great story ideas from strangers while out. (I'm a local TV Reporter.)	/r/seduction	04/08/13 10:35 PM
32	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! That's a really high percentage!	/r/seduction	04/08/13 10:18 PM
2	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! I couldn't tell you from experience, haha, as any time I have been in a relationship, I completely shut the flirty me down. Maybe it's a good Idea to keep working on everything else, but hitting on other girls. The biggest part of seduction, is just creating a more attractive you, which can still be done, no mater what you're dating situation is like, I guess:)	/r/seduction	04/08/13 10:13 PM
6	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! For sure! Keep Trying and eventually something will click. It takes 10,000 hours to get to Carnegie Hall.	/r/seduction	04/08/13 10:09 PM
2	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! Grammar is one of many things we all can work on!	/r/seduction	04/08/13 09:17 PM
1	Create HUGE leverage to take ACTION in your life This could work, as long as the "gun" doesn't cause you to act desperately. I don't think it would be good to put a time frame on creating meaningful connections with women.	/r/seduction	04/08/13 09:02 PM
7	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! It's gotta be about putting a positive spin on it, for sure!	/r/seduction	04/08/13 08:54 PM
9	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! For sure! Nothing is even remotely clicking yet, but one day it will Be:)	/r/seduction	04/08/13 08:20 PM
1	ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there! Lol, what I meant was the successes will be remembered so much more than the failures.	/r/seduction	04/08/13 08:17 PM
2	Getting back into the game after 5 year relationship / do you continue using techniques on your partner when you're dating? In a relationship is one of the best places to continue to work on yourself. Never stop improving!	/r/seduction	04/08/13 08:10 PM
1	2 Months of Going Out Every Night. 200+ Sets. I Embrace Rejection. No closes, but whatever. I agree totally. Everything works differently for different people. I just haven't found what works for me yet:)	/r/seduction	04/08/13 04:50 PM
2	2 Months of Going Out Every Night. 200+ Sets. I Embrace Rejection. No closes, but whatever. Thank you, I have been doing a lot of things wrong, and I feel like many things I have been doing wrong, I no Longer do. For example, I have almost completely gotten rid of interview type questions. I now have to eject much less often, and can have long, fun conversations a lot. I do agree that my mindset is a big problem. I try many different things, but I guess that nothing will work, if I don't think it will work. edit: word order	/r/seduction	04/08/13 04:20 PM