bambieyedbee Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Q4W : Are you attracted to him because of his confidence, or is it that he happens to be confident because he’s good looking Confidence is attractive because it’s a “manly” trait and shows that he’s secure and knows he’s high value. There are physically attractive guys that are not actually attractive to women because they come across as meek or insecure. But confidence is more than just about self esteem. It’s about taking the lead, being assertive, and acting as a protector. It’s also about not being jealous or trying to appear ultra masculine (both signs of insecurity).	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 06:28 PM
9	There are two camps of people in this world , those who swear women have high standards and those who swear they don’t . What causes that different point of view ? I know so many women who are smart, well-educated, attractive and fit, know how to cook, clean, and take care of their homes etc. At the same time, I know a lot of guys who live like college frat boys and expect women to be impressed. Women’s standards have gotten higher (at least in big cities with high levels of education), but that’s because so many women aim for perfection in their own lives whereas men aim for “good enough.” Men who take care of themselves and their home, are emotionally in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 04:07 AM
1	Q4W : Why would you be attracted to a physically unattractive man? In a monogamous relationship, yes it is “keeping” a woman. If you’re referring to infidelity, I don’t know a single woman who is or has cheated on a long term partner. No point in wasting your youth and childbearing years on someone you’re not crazy about!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 03:57 AM
1	Q4W : Why would you be attracted to a physically unattractive man? It’s not nonsense. It’s the #1 reason my friends will decide not to go out with a guy after a first date. A man’s demeanor can completely change how you perceive him sexually. That is physical attraction. And yes, those are the guys that keep the girls interested. About half of the guys I’ve dated have been guys that were not my physical type but were attractive in terms of personality. Things didn’t work out for other reasons, but it wasn’t due to lack of attraction. I was in a sorority so I kn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 10:39 PM
1	Q4W : Why would you be attracted to a physically unattractive man? That’s simply not true. I have personally seen it happen over and over again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 10:38 PM
2	Q4W : Why would you be attracted to a physically unattractive man? Videos are not real life and a single speed date isn’t indicative of how successful someone will actually be with a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 09:18 PM
2	Q4W : Why would you be attracted to a physically unattractive man? Because a large part of what makes a man physically attractive to women is his demeanor. A guy can be conventionally attractive and still be unattractive to women because he comes across as weird, insecure, creepy, rude, etc. On the flip side, guys that are funny, confident, secure, easygoing, assertive, smart, can be very physically attractive based on that alone. Hence the funny fat guy that gets the girls trope. It obviously helps to be conventionally attractive, but girls have a really varie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 08:24 PM
1	Do women value authenticity more than men? I think you should just be yourself. If you have so many negative emotions that you’re worried about burdening your partner, maybe it’s time to evacuate why you’re feeling those emotions and what you can change in your life to improve them. But it’s ultimately normal to vent to your partner and lean on them to support you in both good and bad times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 08:15 PM