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Blue Pill Exampleban5h3e/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 04:22 AM
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Going through your partner’s computer and making the effort of looking at their search history is a shitty thing to do. If you don’t trust him, don’t marry him. Also don’t get your hopes up - he may not ask you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 07:44 AM
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You’re the thirsty one in this scenario and he knows it. Drop him or he’ll play you. To add: he’s not manipulative in any way. He’s not that interested in you, he sleeps with other women and he’s let you know. He’s upfront about his intentions.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 05:10 AM
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Listen to yourself! If he’d work out for 6 months he could get to a fitness level appropriate to your standards?! Sounds entitled much?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 07:16 AM
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Thanks bot
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 03:47 AM
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I love Modcloth.com
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 03:44 AM
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u/chris74angryfan is just an angry troll
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 11:03 PM
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You have a 14 year age difference - in your stage of life this is huge. attraction can’t be negotiated. It just can’t. ask yourself: why is he dating someone so young instead of someone in his age group? you can ask him to change and he may start working out or he may not. You can’t change people unless they’re willing to.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 10:30 PM
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No one will be able to love you until you love yourself. I think you need to work on accepting -> liking -> loving yourself the way you are first. Everything else will fall in place after :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 12:42 AM
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Great answer!
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 11:28 PM
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Do you want to be in a relationship with a criminal?
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 07:09 AM
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Please see my below comment. The user has edited their comment substantially since my comment.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 05:27 AM
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The initial comment from u/cupcake has been edited since my comment and now reads completely different and in another context.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 04:36 AM
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Time to pack up and go :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 03:09 AM
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Do you see yourself with him in 5 years?
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 06:25 AM
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Let him go. Don’t engage with him. Withdraw from him and focus on other things.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/20 01:16 PM
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He’s keeping you around for company. Why wouldn’t he want to see you happy? You mentioned in another comment that he wants to make you happy with the least amount of effort. My dentist wants me to be happy so I return for regular check-ups ;-)
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/20 01:14 PM
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Men like to have orbiters / plates, too!
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/20 01:12 PM
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He’s right. He doesn’t want to be the center of your life. It may be hard but it’s only been 4 months... find someone who wants to be in your life.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/20 01:10 PM
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Why do you want to teach him / change him? It’s not up to you to ‘fix’ him. It has to come from himself. He’s 30 years old and won’t change. It’s been only 4 months and you’re trying to change him already. This is not going to get any better - just worse. Oh, have you voiced your concerns to him?
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 08:15 AM
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Google is your friend. Can recommend what Rollo Tomassi (The Rational Male) has to say.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 05:38 AM
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Why do you want a relationship with someone so far away? Have you read the Red Pill regarding Long Distance Relationships?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 02:15 AM
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Where’s your self respect? Get out of this relationship and find someone that doesn’t manipulate you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 06:40 AM
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Then it’s time to move on and talk to other people 😊
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 12:27 AM
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Did he ask to reschedule the date in his voicemail? If not, he either has no common curtesy or is not interested. If he’d be interested, he’d suggest a new date and time as he’s the one messed up.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 11:48 PM
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You’re wasting your time and he’s stringing you along / clearly not interested. Move on!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/20 08:07 AM
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Date someone your age and don’t look back
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/20 02:08 AM
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Why are you two together? Sounds like a horrible situation to be in. You don’t love him and you think he doesn’t love you - what are your reasons for staying? Kids? Finances? Property?
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 02:13 AM
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You’re a guest so behave like one. Treat everything with respect and do your share of the chores. Treat his house like you want your guests behave at your house and ask him before you change things. Or don’t change anything at his place at all. Communication is key. Enjoy your time and don’t overstay your welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 04:29 AM
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Go to counseling, go to a different doctor and Google ‘how to change my mindset’.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 02:52 AM
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That’s the thing. You don’t want to change. You think it’s ‘too hard’. If you want to change, take a first step, such as accepting the kind offer the user above gave you regarding counseling. The first step could even be to think ‘Enough is enough, I’m doing something about my eyebrows or get a second opinion on my hormone levels.’ Change is hard but you don’t do it all at once - you do it bit by bit.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 02:43 AM
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What you’re doing is finding excuses for NOT improving. First of all, change your mindset from whinging, wallowing in self pity and seeking advice from strangers on the internet to ‘I’m doing this and I’m starting right now’. Until your mindset has changed you’re wasting your and everyone else’s time.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/20 10:52 PM
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I’m going to get downvoted for this but here I go: Just do it! I’ve had it done without telling my boyfriend and I loved the experience. I look more relaxed and feel better because the ‘angry wrinkles’ on my forehead are gone. Boyfriend didn’t even notice and only my mum, my best friend and I know.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 12:49 AM
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I found it on YouTube. Good on him for not wrestling her.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 11:37 PM
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Anyone got an alternative upload location? It’s not available in AUS
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 11:32 PM
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Time to end this nightmare with him! He doesn’t respect you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 05:51 AM
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Do you have a link?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 04:34 AM
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This!
/r/askTRP29/08/19 05:11 AM
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Please don’t!
/r/askTRP29/08/19 05:11 AM
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Yes, that’s what he meant with these words. It’s a polite way of telling you that he’s not going to wait for you and that he’s not willing to invest more time. I’d let it go and move on. He’ll stop responding eventually. In business terms: if you write someone a proposal or a quote, you’ll follow up with them. They say ‘I’m not ready yet.’ This means that your offer has been turned down. It doesn’t mean they’re not ready because they’ve asked for the proposal or quote - so (in theory) they are r…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 09:51 AM
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This. And he let you know to get back in touch when you’re ready. Can’t be clearer, can it?
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 04:27 AM
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Try and put yourself in the guys shoes. He’s been investing in you for a while. Building things up and not getting anywhere. If this would happen to you - how long would you wait until you give up and move on?
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 04:16 AM
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I didn’t say that.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 04:06 AM
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It is perfectly acceptable. But think about how the guy feels, waiting for months to score. It’s understandable that he soft-nexts her
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 04:06 AM
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You’re young and I understand that sex on the 2nd or 3rd date is too early. It definitely is if you feel that way. I’m just highlighting the age difference between you and him. You also posted a similar story on another subreddit a while back - looks like he’s not interested in you. Move on, for your own good :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 04:04 AM
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Move on and learn
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 04:00 AM
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Don’t bring stuff up like that via text. Gosh, the poor guy. I hope he’s moved on from you to someone that doesn’t string him along for 2 months.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 04:00 AM
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He hasn’t been inconsistent - OP has! Making out naked, condom on and then the No... What a turn off for a guy.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 03:55 AM
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He’s 31, you’re 24. He probably doesn’t want to wait that long for sex. 2 months is long if you’re in your 30’s. There’s no time to waste. I’m female, 36 and definitely wouldn’t wait around for that long. Second or third date - bam. Don’t want to fall in love with someone, invest time and the sex is crap :) If you don’t want to have sex with him, don’t string him along. That’s probably how he feels.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 03:39 AM
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I can see it on my iPhone but you may have to set your +18 settings on Reddit for desktop
/r/askTRP29/05/19 07:47 AM
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Links will get deleted by AutoMod. Just type TheRedPill and accept the quarantine status message
/r/askTRP29/05/19 07:06 AM
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If you get rejected, own it. It wasn’t meant to be. Never lie and especially not about your age.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 01:13 AM
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