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| 7 | Exs new dudeIt gets better budy. My wife moved new guy in after 2 weeks. I lost all my stuff, had to fight for everything. I had to fight for it all. Its been 4 years for me. I now have majority custody of our child. Im happy as can be . That dudes long gone. My ex is on her 3rd or 4th guy. I am so thankful we are separated. It hurts at first because you still have love for them. Lets be real. Now I am so thankful. I met someone much younger than my ex. Its been an amazing relationship. I can see it in my e… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/26 06:17 AM |
| 4 | Less of a man wanting to modify child support?How about you go in to try to get it down to put that money towards seeing your kids more? If you didn't have that hefty payment could you live closer to them and have more consistent involvement in there life? Think of the kids in that aspect. You will never get the time you miss back. I would be in there throwing a massive fit on how it's hindering your ability to be closer and more connected. Unless you don't want to be? Next step if that's not solid. Figure out how to work part time and work… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/25 01:06 AM |
| 12 | Unwinding 34yrs TogetherI suggest you get wise with your finances, loose them or move them. Might I suggest you take a little time and remember how you felt when you found out about all the betrayal and lies. If she can do that to you and not care. Imagine what she's going to do to you in court. Please fight for yourself. You are in a good spot right now. Make very wise moves, or you wont be . Study up. Go have some major losses in Vegas 😉. If you catch my drift. Protect your self and look out for yourself . That's her… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/11/25 09:18 PM |
| 17 | Happy fucking Thanksgiving.I second this it gets better with time and positivity. My ex got the jump on me bigtime. i lost my kiddo and my company and house which her and her new man lived in for a good while till I could get them kicked out. I lived in my truck for 4 months. Drank my self to death for the first year. I lost my best friend and my wife and my child in a flash. I missed months of sings in the wide open. < now I am wise to it all. You really should look back on it all. Take time to study we're you fucked up … | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/11/25 09:44 AM |
| 3 | I hate that men call victims of cheating “cucks”That's what i thought? If you're on the side lines cheering, said dude on in the moment makes you one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/25 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Finally happenedFind a law firm to represent you. If you're in a small town, go far enough away word doesn't get out. Speak with the attorneys and form a plan with them. They can walk you through it all. They should have someone who can handle serving her, and they are good at it. Swift and diligently =a well-formed plan with them and then execute it and stick to it. You dont have to be a dick but you need to be ready with them and know what you want and what you feel is fair . I was nice and a new guy was livi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/25 11:54 PM |
| 6 | Finally happenedGo silent 🤫. She's been done for a while. You need to take time to let things sink in on your end, and she owes it to you . The more cool, calm, and collected, you stay the better. Get an attorney and line everything up and get the jump . Move swiftly and diligently and play it like you're just sad and not doing anything behind the scenes <advice I was given and didn't listen to. I dragged my feet and was the nice guy, and tried to be cool because I was heartbroken, and it costed me big time fin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/25 05:10 PM |
| 6 | How to navigate daughter meeting ex wife's new boyfriend?I was in your shoes. My ex moved on asap. I fuck$%^ know there was overlap. So I get the hurt and frustration. I got past it by telling myself the new dude did me a solid and helped her show her true colors to me. I know it hurts sitting back and watching them. It looks like they are having the time of their life. Don't worry, it won't last it took around 4 years for my ex and her new guys' relationship and life to start to spiral out of control. During all of this time, I kept strong with my mo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/25 06:17 AM |
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