bananabananabananas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	4 Rules for Relationships Excuses, excuses, excuses. Millions of people do it every day.	/r/seduction	12/03/13 10:31 AM
3	4 Rules for Relationships You're generalizing, which is lazy, and making excuses, which is sad. Someday, hopefully, you'll evolve past the need to "conquer your foe" and realize that the games you're playing are just as bad, if not worse, as the games you accuse women of playing.	/r/seduction	12/03/13 03:20 AM
4	4 Rules for Relationships yeah.... I'm not going to get defensive because, because frankly you're not a real challenge. But I am going to correct you. Because you need it almost as much as OP. Yes, I lurk. I'm not interested in picking up women anymore. I'm in my 30s, I've had multiple relationships last over a year and I've been happily married for 9 years. I was decent at picking up women when i was single. (I agree with you that notch counts are ridiculous but just to offer credentials, mine was about mid-70's before …	/r/seduction	12/03/13 02:34 AM
3	4 Rules for Relationships well said.	/r/seduction	11/03/13 09:13 PM
3	4 Rules for Relationships I'm just saying what I did, and what I did was start off pretending until everything just came out naturally. Well, then you took the long way to get to the same result. Most people do. Your long way probably wasnt as long as others, but its all about flipping that switch. I don't like relationships. It's kinda hard to keep true to 1 girl. Not for me. Clearly. Which is fine. But this thread was about relationships Nice! Why not? You can easily, easily have a 2-3 girl rotation. I appreciate the v…	/r/seduction	11/03/13 07:48 PM
2	4 Rules for Relationships I just read the M3 thing. Well written and honest and funny, but I disagree wholeheartedly with the assertion that confidence come from without. Confidence absolutely comes from within. External input only serves to reinforce what you already know - That you're a bad-ass motherfucker, Jules. As far as notch counts go, I fucking hate notch counts, I think theyre silly, and a sign that youre interested in being more of a PUA than in a relationship. Which is fine. But this discussion was about rela…	/r/seduction	11/03/13 07:10 PM
0	4 Rules for Relationships No you don't, man. Look I understand the whole 'fake it til you make it' thing. It's good policy. But that's for the details, the minutiae. The core of a man is confidence, I believe. I'm betting you believe this too. And that confidence comes from being assured that your goals will be reached in the long run. Now if your goal is to bang one specific girl or be in a long-term relationship with one specific girl, then you're going to have a hard time with this. However, if your goal is to find so…	/r/seduction	11/03/13 06:49 PM
2	4 Rules for Relationships Well I appreciate the 'help' but I think you've missed the point of everything I've said. You can choose to believe this or not, but I'm about as far from beta as it gets. However, I am also in my 30's, I've had multiple relationships last for over a year and I've been married for 9 years. I was decent at picking up women when i was single. I was excellent at relationships and still am. I dont give advice on how to be a pick-up artist. This however, is my wheelhouse. In no way shape or form did …	/r/seduction	11/03/13 06:35 PM
5	4 Rules for Relationships theyre people you idiot. Theyre concerned with the same shit you are. Well maybe not you, but the same shit an emotionally mature man is. They are not power-hungry succubi. Look, this subreddit is great for picking up women, but terrible at giving relationship advice and its precisely because of bullshit posts like this one, bullshit rules like "women are only concerned with power so never tell them you love them first" and bullshit people who get laid by 80 different women a year and never have…	/r/seduction	11/03/13 01:33 PM
3	4 Rules for Relationships thats the stupidest thing Ive ever heard, "women are concerned with power". grow up.	/r/seduction	11/03/13 07:02 AM
-7	4 Rules for Relationships I didnt say gender roles dont exist. I said dont be beholden to them. You will likely fulfill the 'role' of man in the relationship because you (probably) ARE a man. Not because you and your girlfriend have actively divided up the responsibilites like a chore chart. You take the initiative on things because thats how you get what you want.	/r/seduction	11/03/13 12:57 AM
133	4 Rules for Relationships I'm sorry I know I'm going to get downvoted for this but it needs to be said - This is some grade A, immature, high school bullshit and it's just as bad as the games women play that we guys always complain about. This may help you get girls but it will make women laugh at you. And its no way to begin a relationship, like an actual, caring, partner-for-life relationship. Number 4 is good, but remember communication is key and never be judgmental or she'll never open up to you again about things s…	/r/seduction	10/03/13 06:06 PM