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I’m pro-life. That said, I’m not going to stand in the way of a woman’s right to choose. If she wants to destroy the life of a growing human who am o to say anything. Also, if she can choose what to do with the baby without my consent, I can do what I want with my wallet in terms of child support.
/r/MensRights29/07/24 03:41 AM
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It’s just funny to me. The woman gets to decide on her own to keep or abort the baby. Yet, we have no say in if we want to raise it but if she keeps it, falls in love with the milk man, guess who’s paying for that child for 18 years. Yup.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 04:51 AM
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The currency for men is their wallet. The currency for women is their looks. Thats the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:07 AM
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Third red flag would be her body covered in ta… oops.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/23 10:39 PM
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Hmmm, tough question 🙄 Why do certain women who don’t do anything have a lot followers on IG?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:40 AM
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I just started dating again, just because it’s been a while. Fucking exhausting dealing with all these people who make demands of what they’re looking for, but have nothing to say when you ask them what they actually offer.
/r/MensRights28/08/23 06:56 AM
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Marriage is one of those illogical things. If you asked most men if you should get married, they say yes of course. When you ask the question WHY, they’re hard pressed to give you a coherent answer.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 06:54 AM
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There’s absolutely ZERO incentive for a man of high net worth to get married. He holds all the cards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/23 09:31 AM
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I want guys who read this story to see it as a cautionary tale. When you marry someone and make a kid with them, it always seems like the proper evolution to the relationship. Of course it’s going to be forever. And even if it didn’t work out, she will do right by you. But when that love ends, she turns into another person. It becomes transactional. You are now a provider without the love and sex. You really are just a stranger to her who sends checks. And what do you think will happen if you ge…
/r/MensRights11/08/23 08:43 AM
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Whenever something like this happens, don’t take it personal. You’re letting your own judgment of yourself and the situation get in the way. In her reality, she doesn’t know you. You might be a pervert, she doesn’t know that. You might be a child abuser, she doesn’t know that. It’s fair for someone to be afraid of what they don’t know. So don’t take it personal she’s just fearful for her daughter, you don’t know what experiences they’ve been through. As always best to mind your own business when…
/r/MensRights11/08/23 08:32 AM
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I don’t disagree with you. Young men have been sent to die and forgotten. That said, I don’t want to dishonor people who died and fought against evil, like the allied forces in WWII. Someone had to do it, and they were sent to fight whether they wanted to or not. Had they not done it, we’d be speaking Japanese and German today.
/r/MensRights07/08/23 06:17 PM
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I find it interesting that women never fight for equality when it comes to being on the front lines of war.
/r/MensRights07/08/23 08:37 AM
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I see the power she has over girls, especially young girls. I have two young nieces that think she can do no wrong. They would die for her. That said, I try to center my life around what I can do and control, and what others say or do, mainly women who think we are evil, matters not. Stoicism has taught me that words cannot harm me. I am offended the moment I play the victim, and I refuse to stoop to their level.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 10:38 AM
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You know what’s funny is if a war broke out for women’s rights, including white womens rights, a man would be fighting that war and a lot of them would be white men. They hate white men because there’s a lot of guilt with white people holding back minorities. But because they don’t want to be part of the problem, they can just say white men are the issue.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 10:53 PM
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We can’t control the system. What we can do is control what we do. Until there are protections for us, I’d advise men to not get married. It has nothing to do with being anti-women and all about the injustices of our system. She can change her mind at any point for no reason and you’re the guy in this story.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 07:35 AM
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Their story is that they are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:39 PM
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You take the majority of risks in courtship. You do all the asking. You deal with the rejection. You plan. You pay for most of it. You get married and she leaves you, you’re out half your stuff. 2 kids and now she’s got custody with child support. It seemed like such a good idea when she said yes, but when she changes her mind, there’s nothing you can do except pay.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 10:23 PM
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The best thing you can do is not let stuff like this get to you. She is going to spew this kind of division until the day she dies. We need to focus on stuff we can control. It’s best to not become like them.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 09:27 AM
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Go on social media. What percentage of women have IG accounts where it’s just endless pictures of themselves? They live for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:03 PM
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I can’t believe men don’t understand after all these years. Good looking = he has confidence and that’s attractive Ugly = creep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:58 AM
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They should be. But they still want top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:01 PM
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Why does “the dating experience” have to be sold like it’s this amazing thing? 90% of the people I’ve dated have been shit. So I’d rather do other productive things with my life, like try to make money so I can have the freedom to travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:34 AM
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Because they’ll complain about these guys on tik tok about them cheating and using them for sex. They’re top 20% for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:33 AM
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I don’t think women understand. This is not an attack on women either. We’re talking about the greatest QB of all time. He’s a one in a billion. Imagine if she was out building her career being a talk show host, number 1 in the world and tom’s like: yeah you’re number 1 in prime time honey but I need you at home, or I’m going to leave you. Or I know you’re on every cover magazine in the world and ranked #1 in the modeling world. Please give that up. How’s that sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:07 PM
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“Leaving her with the kids?” They’re both worth likely over $400M. I don’t think she’s slaving away in the kitchen or doing laundry. She’s a model and she’s over her prime modeling years. Let’s not pretend like the kids are holding them back. They have 20 maids and nannys on hand 24-7. There are millions of couples worldwide who both work full time, how do you think they make it work?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:49 PM
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Find someone that supports your life passion. Not someone that puts a deadline on when that passion needs to end. We are all individuals, and in order to be successful in a relationship we need to hold on to some form of individuality. Tom is not some aging and flailing QB. He might be the best ever to play the position and can play at a high level. You may want him to be at hoMe with the kids, but you also want him to be happy. From all accounts he’s a great father. Let him find avenues of happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:42 PM
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I don’t think most people(women) understand RP philosophy. I don’t know how to out it to women. It’s not about you and what you are, what you aren’t. RP is about men bettering themselves. Women just want it to be about them so that they can crucify men for being losers and not wanting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:11 PM
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Women safety. There are so many thirsty guys everywhere who harass and follow women. I would be terrified being a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:33 PM
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You can decide who you want to be friends with, who you want to be romantic with, without any explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:19 PM
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The truth? Women know they can go out and find someone else much easier than a man can. And before you say, “that’s not true, I’ve been divorced for 4 years…” I’m speaking in general terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:35 AM
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I’m not full red pill. But everything that RP has preached has been validated by my experiences. I’m not a fucking moron. My experiences are not indicative of all situations and experiences. But my experiences are my reality, and I’d rather be alone than deal with more BS at this stage in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:33 AM
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Only thing that will give you unconditional love is your dog. All love is conditional. If it wasnt, you’d still be with your first love.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:55 AM
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Men generally make more than women. Courts typically force the man to pay alimony and child support to the woman until the child turns 18. Even if the woman cheated on her husband. She can take the house, the kids, and half his pay check.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:24 PM
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My experience with women is that, they are driven highly by emotions. We know this. That’s not an insult, that’s reality. When you’re driven by emotions you can be extremely fickle. Their love for you can turn off like a faucet and without any wrongdoing on your part. This is why I’ve chosen to go solo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:13 PM
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What this means is that a man wants a woman who won’t start shit for absolutely no reason because she thrives in drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:25 AM
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How do you know they don’t have money? Rich people, super rich people, don’t dress like they are rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:38 PM
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I think we need to stay away from anecdotal evidence. Just because you experienced an injustice does not equate to most or all women enduring the same. That’s like saying black people have treated me poorly in my life, so black people are racist against Asians. The question is what privilege do Men as a whole have that women do not, not Becky from Arkansas.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:32 AM
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Yes my mother thinks I’m handsome but Im starting to question her reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:55 PM
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Dating apps and social media has allowed us all to discard one another fast and efficiently and have someone else lined up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:05 PM
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First of all I don’t know where you’re getting your sources. The STEM fields are still male dominated and that is where all the money is. And nothing will change if this were to happen. Other than women will demand much more from men. Women do not date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:48 PM
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The person you described in the latter is a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:33 AM
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Interesting perspective… Or you can not look for anything. The important thing to always ask yourself is why you have thirst for relationship. Always strive to feel the way you do after you’ve emptied your nuts. That’s when you’re thinking clearest about life and priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:46 AM
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Have fun being alone for the rest of your life 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:16 AM
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What else do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:49 PM
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Men are much more simple. We just want someone who we get along with, has a good heart, looks cute sometimes, and loyal. Guys tell me if you disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:21 PM
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The Jeremy Meeks thing, you could argue that in essence he became a celebrity after his face appeared on TV. The thing is you will get tons of women into him, but these are likely low quality women. No established good looking woman is going to want an arrested felon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:32 AM
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If you are on the bumble sub, there were people defending this woman saying it’s ok if they have an arrangement. If my wife is dying I am not arranging to fuck other women to satisfy my needs, but you see how the modern woman thinks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 11:54 PM
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You hit the nail on the head. Women are lazy in responses. Not because they are lazy. But because they can be without any repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:19 PM
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You can leave someone for any reason. You can leave them if they gain weight. You can leave them if they stay the same. You can wake up and decide this ain’t ain’t for you anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:23 PM
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I’m never surprised at what people do anymore. The way I look at it, I only wasted nine months, not nine years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 12:36 AM
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I gave a 10 effort in my last relationship. Planned. Paid. Notes. Gestures. Romance. Compliments. The whole works. Got ghosted after nine months.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 04:42 AM
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What they describe and what they will actually tolerate are two different things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 01:42 AM
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Expectations are the root of heartache.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:57 AM
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I disagree with #1. From a primal perspective, females want males that are well built because it means they’re able to defend themselves and partners against predators or enemies. It also signals that they are healthy and ready for mating. They also want these traits in their offspring, thus they are “attracted” to these qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:14 AM
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It’s pretty clear that men are lazy, women are crazy. Love has always been doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:03 AM
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A LVM is an entitled one. -Consider themselves queens just because they are female -When asked what they bring to the table they respond with “I am the table.” -Expect the man to do all the planning/paying/pursuing -She is a 5, but will only date 9’s and above
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:17 PM
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The answer is in the question itself. Most men don’t care about the woman’s political affiliation. There is more to values and beliefs than just red or blue. Values and beliefs also lie in how we raise children, whether or not we believe in god, how we treat people. Those things have nothing to do with being a rep/dem. Men don’t paint a broad stroke and think that just because you are red or blue you are a horrible person with misaligned values. In fact we think maybe there is something to learn…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:18 PM
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I understand what you’re trying to say. You’ve probably seen instances where women are attacked verbally or that there’s an undeniable anti-women agenda tied to it. As human beings we tend to do this, which is look for evidence to support our biases. Most women hear red pill and then will automatically filter their bubble to absorb any content that in fact, supports the idea that red pill is anti women. If you look for good, you will find it. If you look for bad, you will find it. In a nutshell,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:26 AM
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Self defense in what way? RP/MGTOW are men who are not engaged with women anymore, so what are you protecting against?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:22 AM
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So you’re saying people lie about who they are on dating apps… and they don’t do this in real life? I also disagree with you that people on dating apps are primarily looking for hookups. https://www.elitedaily.com/p/are-dating-apps-just-for-hookups-heres-what-you-need-to-know-17185474
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:12 PM
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FB, IG, T are not dating apps like bumble or tinder. Your argument is that bumble and tinder are not representative of what happens in real world dating. I’m saying is it. Not sure what social media apps have to do with your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:08 PM
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How is a dating app not “the real world?” In fact it is more real than the real world. It allows women to reject men at their finger tips without having to worry about hurting a man’s feelings. It is the most realistic simulation of a dating environment there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:43 AM
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I think OP is just cherry-picking 1-2 comments from disgruntled dudes. Most RP/PP/MGTOW people just don’t care. To each their own. Do what makes you happy. I wish more people from both sexes would go their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:36 AM
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This is a questionable analogy. When you are applying for a job, your direct experience has a huge bearing on whether or not you get the opportunity for the job. No one has ever asked me what my relationship experience was before agreeing to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:51 AM
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FDS doesn’t allow me to have an opinion. It’s a forum for women only. Imagine that, building a community with only likeminds. How is it possible to grow and learn from each other if everyone has the same views? They also refer to men as scrotes and all feel like they are deserving of a “high value male” without having to bring anything to the table because they are “the table.” If a man ever wants to split the bill you will be labeled as cheap and your masculinity will be questioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:33 AM
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Here is the difference. TRP will still welcome womens opinions. I tried making a comment in FDS and they banned me for life. I wasn’t even offensive. I just said it made me feel sad so many women felt this way about all men, and not all of us were bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:55 AM
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Not true at all. We all have stuff going on inside our heads. You don’t have to be a nut job to seek therapy. You could be in a position to want to better yourself or have someone to talk to. As long as we keep looking at it through the lens of “you have serious mental issues if you seek therapy” we’re always going to have hurt people hurting other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:39 AM
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What bothers me most is that, redpill MGTOW is about men who have chosen to take a different path. People just think it’s this anti-women position because of what’s on YouTube. It’s not a movement. It’s a lifestyle. And for me, it means focusing on my career, finances, and early retirement so I can travel. I have absolutely no Ill will towards women. But my dating life has equated to putting in tons of effort and showing loyalty, love, attention, and appreciation. And for it, I have nothing to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:11 AM
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In simple terms, we want peace. We want someone that adds to our lives, not someone that challenges us. We want someone we get along with, someone we can love and someone who is faithful. Someone that gives us bedroom fun. We’re simple creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:22 AM
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When youre in love you always think yes. When it’s over you ask yourself: was that even love? I think not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:40 AM
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Always and never are dangerous words. Do I think women are generally ok with a man expressing his need for emotional support? Sure. But she’ll lose respect for him over time. If you’re not like this, congrats. You’ll make a great partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:26 AM
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Maybe not the jerks you normally choose. But I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:41 AM
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Women get meals paid for. Emotional support. Security. Resources. Handyman. Planner. Driver. Men put in the majority of the effort. Think about it. When’s the last vacation you planned with a woman where she did all the legwork and planned activities?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:55 PM
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Dating is just so fucking stupid. I don’t have the desire to be anything for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:52 AM
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I’m so grossed out gentlemen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/21 08:41 PM
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