bananaexaminer Archive

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5	Should I just pay for sex? With what you’ve posted here, I’m gonna recommend you look into therapy for yourself. You seem to be focused on sex with women, but you don’t really care about the women. That’s just objectifying them. It sounds like you’re lonely and frustrated and see sex as a ‘win’ that will make you feel successful. This is a damaging mentality and having sex won’t fix that. Go to therapy. Invest in bettering yourself, find hobbies, make friends. Shift your focus from what other people can can do for you to …	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/23 09:33 PM
19	How to deal with these thoughts and feelings? Honest answer? Go to therapy. The goal isn’t just to talk about your life, it’s to give you the skills and tools to deal with your own emotions and feeling going forward. Would be especially helpful if you feel plagued by some of these persistent thoughts.	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/23 08:41 PM
1	Curing Sexism How do you think getting to the “core belief” will help you resolve this? (Genuine question)	/r/ExRedPill	31/10/22 12:41 AM
11	Curing Sexism One approach could be to avoid categorizing people as women vs men. Women are not all the same and neither are men. In conversations, you could try to focus on what the person is saying, what their interests are, etc without tying it to being a woman or man. If you remove these binaries, people are just people.	/r/ExRedPill	29/10/22 03:45 PM
3	[M24] My personality is 100% the problem, but struggle to change that, and the Redpill never helped me. Hey I’m sorry you feel this way. It sounds like you’re a great person and I’m sure other people are interesting in the things you mentioned! When you described ‘improv’ in social setting, it sounds like masking. It’s difficult to be yourself if you’re constantly worried about how other people will perceive you, which you try to hide by masking. Be kind to yourself! How people see you doesn’t define you, and focusing on it makes it impossible for someone to get to know who you really are (which s…	/r/ExRedPill	27/10/22 02:46 AM
3	Why women shouldn’t be upset about the red pill and rather see it as a blessing (older man’s perspective). Lol thanks random internet guy, women already know this. The problem isn’t finding guys to date or marry, it’s the fact that redpill misogyny seeps into politics, healthcare, law, education, etc and directly harms or kills women. Imagine mansplaining the impact of misogyny to “ladies” in this sub, what a joke	/r/ExRedPill	08/10/22 07:23 PM
3	Good books on understanding gender differences in a rational way? Are any written by women? Genuine question. Seems like that would be necessary to get the whole picture. Otherwise it’s just another instance of men assuming they know more about women than women and publishing it as fact.	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/22 01:34 PM
12	Good books on understanding gender differences in a rational way? Not exactly what you’re asking for, but: In general I would recommend books literally just written by women. So much media we consume (books, tv, radio, YouTube, etc) are male-centric with men as protagonists and male perspectives as ‘default’ without us even realizing it. Maybe try consuming the types of things you already do, but from women’s perspectives. I’d also recommend reading the book Invisible Women by Caroline Perez. It references hundreds of studies (that you could read directly if y…	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/22 01:27 PM