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| 5 | Is this a shit test? | Conversation | banditcleaner2 | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 02:28 PM |
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| 2 | Would you consider it a good thing if women often think you are an athlete when they meet you?Lol on god | /r/seduction | 19/08/23 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider it a good thing if women often think you are an athlete when they meet you?Op has a caveman brain if he doesn’t think this is a good thing lmfao | /r/seduction | 19/08/23 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider it a good thing if women often think you are an athlete when they meet you?Seriously this sub is hopeless sometimes…”this girl kept touching my arm and then said wow you’re really muscular, does she like me?” Broooo | /r/seduction | 19/08/23 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Is he flirting? Should I make a move?These aren’t even hints these are the most obvious signals in the universe lmao | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueYou know that you could just like become high value instead of looking for excuses not to? Get your shit together instead of trying to figure out how you don’t have to | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys feel weird going places just to cold approach?Imho it’s only weird if you don’t leave the girl alone after she rejects you. How else can you improve skills related to talking to women if you don’t practice? I suppose it could be more natural if you’re there for a genuine reason - which is always better - but if you want to just grind out some practice then this is what you have to do. As far as bars go…these are the absolute hands down worst places to do this. Especially if you’re new and nervous for approaching. These women at bars and clu… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys feel weird going places just to cold approach?It doesn’t have to be predatory as long as you aren’t a predator. Imho most women probably dislike cold approach in general not because it’s weird or creepy to do on its face, but because there are too many men that ignore rejection hints and keep pushing after rejection. If a girl is very clearly not receptive to your body language and what you say, perhaps leave her alone and move on. If you can’t leave a girl alone that rejected you, and keep pushing for more when it’s socially clear she does… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 03:30 PM |
| 0 | Women of Reddit. Have you ever agreed to a date or gave a guy your number from cold approach?You could make the argument that a woman would pre-screen or pre-select you even in a true cold approach in literally seconds. What you say doesn't matter. How you carry yourself, how you look, how much swagger you have, and how you continue a conversation if given the chance is what matters. Theres men that can literally walk up to a girl and say "can I pee in your butt" and literally close a number or lay. It all comes back to what women love the most, truly; confidence- and REAL confidence, n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Ok, I might be generalizing a bit, but is it just me or are a lot of women extremely picky?Ok…but…like…walking 30 minutes somewhere is the same time as driving to the same place in 30 minutes I really don’t understand how you’re not getting it | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Ok, I might be generalizing a bit, but is it just me or are a lot of women extremely picky?Yeah you said walk because it’s faster and I’m telling you it is not faster unless you’re literally running | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Ok, I might be generalizing a bit, but is it just me or are a lot of women extremely picky?Walking 3 miles is not quicker 3 miles at 8 minute running pace is 24 minutes my guy | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Ok, I might be generalizing a bit, but is it just me or are a lot of women extremely picky?This is so stupid lmao, you think people can’t go one single week without a relationship? Jeez | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 08:39 PM |
| 2 | JJ for liftingDave ramsey has the worst fucking advice. that moronic pile of dog shit says that debt is universally bad (ha, wrong; real estate prices go up long term and its a lot better then pissing money to a landlord's pockets). And u/wakawakabrah is right. You're cheaping out like $20 or whatever on a book that will change your life when you have a fucking kid and are blowing money on booze? maybe spend $100 on a bottle instead of $200 and then use that 100 to actually have lasting impacts on your life. | /r/askMRP | 23/05/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Picked up a girls insta while drivinglet us know how this goes in the future...just adding an insta is cool but could be completely meaningless if it doesn't lead to something | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first datetbh "did I do something wrong? I'm sorry if I upset you" just sounds like weak energy...I feel like I've said this in the past and it never goes well. I would tread very lightly saying this to someone that you've only seen a couple of times. You do not want to come off as a pushover, or even that you're fawning all over her or clingy or whatever...girls can sense neediness and desperation like its a fucking cologne you're wearing. so you'd best not say shit like this if you want her to respect y… | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 02:41 PM |
| 1 | How to stop caring about girls ghosting/leaving on read and stop double textingfound the guy that watches way too much porn lmao. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 12:20 PM |
| 2 | How to stop caring about girls ghosting/leaving on read and stop double textingnot texting someone you're interested in for months at a time is totally normal bro, what do you mean? /s | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 12:19 PM |
| 2 | How to stop caring about girls ghosting/leaving on read and stop double textingYou're just another girl that thinks that ghosting is normal and acceptable behavior. A human adult would politely say "I'm sorry but this isn't going to work out" at a minimum. Your analogy to jobs is actually perfect because it's a valid argument against your sentiment here. It's probably legitimately good advice for someone to call a company that they applied for and didn't get the job to see if they can learn the reason why and improve from there. Just because most people don't, doesn't mean… | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 08:27 PM |
| 2 | How to stop caring about girls ghosting/leaving on read and stop double textingHere's a fucking idea for you...just say "I'm sorry, but I'm no longer interested". You can add the reason if you like (it's helpful to do this, even if you don't like the person, they can at least take the real reason and if it's a good one, they can try to improve themselves based on it, and if it isn't, then they can at least get closure and move on better), but at least say respectfully you want to move on. Ghosting fucking SUCKS. I'd rather have the closure even if you don't have a good rea… | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 08:24 PM |
| 4 | How to stop caring about girls ghosting/leaving on read and stop double textingSaw this thread and thought damn it's like I wrote this post myself. Thank you for this. I'm not OP but this is some true shit. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 08:22 PM |
| 10 | Is it even possible to be good with women and have a 9-5 job?agreed lmao. just because a job is 9-5 doesn't mean that those 8 hours can't be insanely grueling and mentally tiring. 8 hours of a highly technically complex and difficult engineering algorithm design job are going to beat you down much harder then 8 hours of another office job that can be done on autopilot because it's mindless. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 08:44 PM |
| 8 | Is it even possible to be good with women and have a 9-5 job?This is nice to read honestly, because bartending was a side hustle that I thought might benefit my social life given that I am in a similar position to you where my days are spent at a corporate, soul-sucking shit hole. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 08:43 PM |
| 9 | Quick Approach - First One after reading Models by Mark Mansonnot to mention that probably most people who are constantly on this sub either aren't actually getting laid at all, or have extremely low self esteem and need validation from reddit | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 03:50 PM |
| 2 | I asked my crush if she likes me and she said yes, what do I do?unironically great advice. do NOT come off as needy as fuck or you will get ghosted. girl I used to like that I would do this to showed ZERO interest. stayed friends. then every single time she would message me anything on a text or snap I would just ignore it. I noticed I started getting A LOT more messages from her lol | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man?I'm a virgin myself at 27 but have had plenty of sexual encounters that included everything up to sex, I can at least help you get to that point, dm me. I haven't had sex genuinely because the few cases where I Was willing to go that far I either had ED or just was nervous. and lots of other opportunities where I didn't want to because I didn't feel like I was that attracted to the woman tbh | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man?I don't think that honestly this is a good idea. Most guys that do this on this sub and have reported back seem to say that it makes them feel even worse. because if the general feeling is that you feel like shit because you're putting your worth into whether or not you can attract women (using looks, personality, and smarts/status), then paying for women makes you feel worse because it makes you feel like the only way you can get women is by paying. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck do you actually talk about at a bar or club?It does get exhausting, but it comes off as more authentic/confident in my honest opinion then asking questions that women have heard time and time and time again. Asking the same boring questions does not set you apart from everyone else, which is almost the only goal you should have in a pickup situation. Especially when talking to attractive women; because they've been approached tons of times already and heard it all. IF you're no different from the last guy that talked to her, why would she… | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 02:49 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck do you actually talk about at a bar or club?He's right. Cold reading and assuming shit about the person works a lot better. "Are you from around here?" "you definitely don't look like the type of girl that would hangout in a bar like this" The former is boring, uninteresting, used a million times...the second is mysterious, inquisitive, gets the girl to talk about herself without it feeling like an interview. Every pick up book in the world talks about cold reading vs asking questions. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 05:56 PM |
| 0 | How do I approach at the gym? Should I check if they’re interested first? I have pics in my profile to see if my looks can help or hurt my chancesWhy are you even asking the question then if you're unwilling to try? Either do it, or stop making excuses and don't ask questions like these | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | What do you suppose is up with this guy in my graduate class?A lot of men do. Either way, there are numerous studies showing how porn use is damaging to relationships with both men and women. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Roommates are having loud sex and I can’t get a girlfriend to save my life. How do I cope?He was joking. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | What do you suppose is up with this guy in my graduate class?The big deal with it is that it: 1. Sets extremely unrealistic expectations about what sexual encounters are and should be Sets extremely unrealistic expectations for beauty standards, for women (big tits, really skinny with no fat, constantly in full makeup) but even often for men too (big dicks, abs and bigger muscles etc) Extremely harmful to dopamine systems in the brain that can often even reduce your motivational desires in other areas in life Prevent men from having casual encounters with… | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | [FIELD REPORT] 3 girls wanted to run a train on me at a gay clubcan't think it's fake without reading some of it.... yawn. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 02:02 PM |
| 3 | [FIELD REPORT] 3 girls wanted to run a train on me at a gay clubAnd you're the opposite of these posts...its one thing to brag about just talking to a girl (cringe), its another to brag about a failed attempt a threesome (also cringe, but might not even be fucking real?) Sorry but your entire post just reads like what you wanted to happen, and then the actual sex part towards the end reads like a porno..."hey can we join?" It just reads like its fake as fuck. Not to mention the fact that if you're pulling so hard why are you coming on a fucking sub reddit to… | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 10:38 PM |
| 2 | As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :Do you want to know what is attractive to men? Kindness. Do you want to know what else is attractive to men? Intelligence. Do you know what you're not displaying in your comment here? Kindness and intelligence. Not only are you lashing out at someone that is giving you basic criticisms, but you're also failing to use basic grammatical convention. This results in your insulting comment not only being rude, but hard to read. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]16-24 hours isn't even that long truthfully. how old are you? if you're mid 20's or older, people have shit going on in their lives and aren't glued to their phones (or at least most people). if you don't, then that is unattractive to women from my experience because it means she can see that if you were to date, she would be almost your entire world which is clingy/needy (turn off) I would suggest you get some more hobbies and shit if you feel that 24 hours is too long of a time to respond, esp… | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Am I bad if I just want sex?And how do you know that? You know her irl? | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Am I bad if I just want sex?What help am I to give her? What if she actually is ugly for reasons she can change? And maybe my comment was hurtful enough to incentivize her to do something about it? Sometimes mean comments can change peoples lives for the better. That actually happened with me. I was a skinny fat loser that didn't dress well, that thought just because I have an expensive car that women would flock to me. My sister in law ripped me a new one with a really harsh comment and you know what it did? It opened my … | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 06:36 PM |
| 0 | Am I bad if I just want sex?I "dont know anything about her"? Are you sure about that? What I do know is that she is complaining she can't find a guy to have casual sex with her...Have you ever met men in your life? Lol? Men will have sex with practically anything. If shes having trouble finding a man for casual sex, then 1 of 2 problems is occurring: She's not appealing to men She's too picky herself Given her attitude about it, I tend to doubt she's too picky, so it must be the other one. On all of the subs on reddit, I … | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Am I bad if I just want sex?This is so dumb I don't even know where to start. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 03:41 PM |
| -1 | Am I bad if I just want sex?You can downvote me but the truth hurts. If she was even a 5/10 she would drown in messages on just about any dating app. You know its true. I'm just the asshole because I am the only one willing to say it. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 03:40 PM |
| 0 | Am I bad if I just want sex?You can say I suck but truth hurts. Are you reading what she's saying? I've seen low 5's or high 4's easily get what she's talking about, because women have it a LOT easier. Men are much more willing to date down then women are, and often do...She should have NO issue finding men that are willing to do what she wants. Which is the only reason why I think it must be her looks. Could also be attitude too, but shes saying she only cares about a casual thing which means looks is really all that matt… | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 03:37 PM |
| 28 | Am I bad if I just want sex?She's probably ugly ngl. Not even trying to be mean but if she was decently good looking what she is asking for would be easily found lol | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Short dude by myself at a club, Somehow I went to Airbnb with a girl maybe 5’ 9” and all her friends.If it really happened why would you care soo much about what an internet stranger thinks….you wouldn’t be on Reddit arguing with me dude, you would be laughing about it but here you are. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Short dude by myself at a club, Somehow I went to Airbnb with a girl maybe 5’ 9” and all her friends.lol, ok buddy. if you have to go through my post history to respond, that says a lot more about you then it does about me | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 02:21 PM |
| 7 | Short dude by myself at a club, Somehow I went to Airbnb with a girl maybe 5’ 9” and all her friends.Yeah this didn't happen lol | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Do girls really notice when guys are wearing colognes?Do you notice the difference between women that don't wear perfume and the ones that do? Because I sure do so I would imagine it goes the same the other way | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 11:39 PM |
| 78 | my milf neighbor wore a leopard print nightgown with no bra when i brought her suitcase in for her a bit ago, should i go back and ask if she wants to have a drink or something?Jesus Christ dude she practically wore underwear knowing you were coming over. This is so obvious. Just go and make an attempt | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 12:46 AM |
| 0 | A man hit on me in a coffee shop, and although I’m taken, it was really adorable.Apply this concept to tens or hundreds of interactions. That 20 minutes seems like no big deal on one time, but if this guy has this happen tons of times, now you’re talking about a lot of wasted time. | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 03:14 PM |
| 3 | A man hit on me in a coffee shop, and although I’m taken, it was really adorable.I’m sure op’s boyfriend definitely would be fine with hearing this story and it wouldn’t hurt his feelings /s | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 03:00 PM |
| 17 | A man hit on me in a coffee shop, and although I’m taken, it was really adorable.Politely declining would suffice. Leading the guy on for multiple pages of flirty writing ultimately to tell him she’s taken is fucked up. | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 02:58 PM |
| 2 | I just asked a tinder girl out.Yeah but the entire point of tinder is to meet people, yes? So if I'm on tinder and match with someone I probably at least am slightly interested in wanting to meet the person. So it's not unreasonable to expect the person to want to make an effort to meet you. (Except it is because for some reason, tinder really truthfully is not used like it should be - to fucking meet people. Its used so often for women to get validation they don't get elsewhere) | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 04:15 PM |
| 0 | I just asked a tinder girl out.idk why this needs to be a post. the entire point of tinder is to ask girls out, do you just want validation or something? | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Just got rejected by the girl i lovedYou're 15. It's not love. Move on. | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 02:35 AM |
| 12 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…You're still in college, yeah? Dude, as someone who wasted so much time and missed so many opportunities in college, let me tell you this now while you still have some time. College girls are easy. Just talk to a bunch of them. Go to activities. Go to social events, and don't be afraid to ask girls to participate in something you're doing there. Is it a college mixer with beer pong games and other activities? Just have a good time and make everyone around you have a good time, and some women wil… | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 01:20 PM |
| 20 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…I was hooking up with girls in elementary ???????????????????? | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Girl shows high interest, then blocks/ghosts when I try to make plans.the one thing that I did on tinder that did not seem to go well was asking when she's available. take it with a grain of salt but honestly from what my friend told me and from what I've learned it seems that confidence in planning is important. e.g.: Dont: "Are you around to go out to dinner this saturday?" Do: "I'm gonna take you out to dinner on saturday night, 7 pm. Dress casual." | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 05:06 PM |
| 4 | The easiest way to tell who on here is legit and who is a poser.Does the new hunter ask the lion the best way to capture it? No. They ask other hunters. I know people don't like the analogy of hunting because it can be cringy in the idea that picking up a woman isn't exactly the same as predation. BUT the idea that you'd ask the woman for advice on how to get her is equal to asking the lion how to hunt it. It just simply doesn't really make sense. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ahh yes, the old agree and amplify. it works well tbh | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | how do you not allow rejection not eat away at your spirit/self esteem?I'm about it too but if you end up saying it's a paid thing I'm less inclined to believe what you're saying is legitimate tbh | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yes to some extent. Hate to say it but as a man, my partner having a high number really means a lot of things; One, in my experience, women with higher numbers tend to have more drama in their lives, which I don't like. Two, higher chance of STDs which I realistically only start caring about if the number is very high. Three, high amount of exes which means I might have to deal with men that I really don't want to. And four it's a higher chance she will cheat or get taken from me | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 10:06 PM |
| 4 | The more you want them the less they want youmost girls don't, but I've found that the girls that really actually want you will message you first. its a cat and mouse game. you don't want to chase too much as the cat, because then the mouse will run away scared. but you also don't want to be completely devoid of interest either. | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?I would say something like "I was gonna tell you the same thing!" | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck am I doing?This is gold and very true. I’m not OP but I needed this. Thank you soo much. | /r/askMRP | 09/02/21 11:25 PM |
| 13 | In New Zealand, it is illegal to this day for a single male to adopt a female child.Yeah except they do. Take your sexist garbage out of here. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/20 02:29 PM |
| 10 | In New Zealand, it is illegal to this day for a single male to adopt a female child.yeah let's put all normal guys in together with the small subset of criminals, cuz that's totally fucking OK you dumb ass | /r/MensRights | 05/02/20 02:22 PM |
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