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bandoftheredhand17/r/seduction12/03/15 06:05 PM
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I beat that feeling by getting to know them. Talking to them without hitting on them, to the point where when you end the conversation both of you are feeling good, and then it sets the stage for you to think of her as a person who has the same wants/needs/feelings as you, and not as someone who's looks deny you the right to associate with them.
/r/seduction09/06/15 07:49 PM
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How do you know her age? Did you guys go to High School together or something? If you know her age I am assuming you know her first/last name? Have you already scoped her out on FB?
/r/seduction08/06/15 10:29 PM
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Great post honestly. OP you and I match up the exact same on paper. I did the Tinder/POF/OKC for about a year, and just got so sick of girls that looked nothing like their pictures. Worse than that though, was that I wasn't matching with the caliber of women I am attracted to. I rely very heavily on my personality, rapport, reputation, and charisma with women, and on the dating apps, I was striking out on the high quality girls. In person I operate much better. I get the impression you are the s…
/r/seduction03/06/15 06:35 PM
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Haha that's awesome.
/r/seduction03/06/15 06:30 PM
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Yup! That is the basic rule of thumb that i have heard multiple times. Also, Tom Haverford says it on Parks and Rec, so... must be legit.
/r/seduction22/05/15 05:14 PM
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Half your age +7 22/2=11+7=18 => you're all good
/r/seduction21/05/15 07:51 PM
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What is AFC game? I was speaking solely from experience...
/r/seduction21/05/15 03:25 PM
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I actually love the friend-zone. become friends with a girl, then represent everything she doesn't get but wants in her other relationships with guys. There you have a ready-made opportunity to leave the friend-zone.
/r/seduction21/05/15 12:13 AM
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Yeah i totally agree with you. The results are great and fun, but the amount of time i spend focusing on "care less, try less, invest less, succeed more" is very contrary to what i am looking for in the long term haha.
/r/seduction06/05/15 06:54 PM
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I personally pay for and plan the first date, so I am looking for a Thank You text afterwards to gauge if she is worth putting the effort into for a second date. If the first date goes well, and she sends the thank you text, I will usually do light texting until the next date. I wouldn't call at the stage you are at.
/r/seduction15/04/15 10:50 PM
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I just own it. I tell girls I am interested in that I am oblivious to when a girl is hitting on me, because I like making the first move, being intentional with my actions, and am too busy to invest in trying to read subtle signs girls are sending. Very honest and direct, and it has always worked great for me.
/r/seduction10/04/15 08:19 PM
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I stand corrected :)
/r/seduction03/04/15 10:22 PM
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Don't bring up any ex's. Don't bring up politics or religion. Don't bring up what level your character is in Skyrim.
/r/seduction03/04/15 09:55 PM
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As Tyrion Lannister would say, you need to make it yours. Own it. Use the knowledge that its yours as armor, and others wont be able to use it against you.
/r/seduction26/03/15 04:20 PM
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I went to school with a girl throughout college. We knew who each other were, were FB friends, had a couple classes together etc. I messaged her on FB. I pulled the "Hey how've you been?" card, and after her reply moved straight into "This is super forward, but I would love to get to know you better. If you're interested, here is my number, It'd be great to hear from you!" It worked well. SO for 2 months and counting.
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:25 PM
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Nope. I am not a fan of cheaters, and getting cheated on sucks. I prefer to not be involved in any capacity.
/r/seduction23/03/15 08:18 PM
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I would tell her that it sounds like a pretty accurate assessment on her part, and then refocus the conversation on what I want to talk about.
/r/seduction23/03/15 03:33 PM
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I am a huge fan of the idea that fortune favors the bold. You go up to her next time you guys are hanging out, and, while making eye contact, tell her you "really like hanging out together, and would really like to take her out sometime." It's to the point, and she will appreciate that.
/r/seduction18/03/15 10:26 PM
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Either she is on the fence about you two, and her friend is trying to open up the convo, or she is into you and using her friend to, again, open up the topic. You are in a good place here.
/r/seduction18/03/15 06:41 PM
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College is the perfect time to reinvent yourself. You are already going into a brand new environment where you are (hopefully) completely out from under your parents' thumbs, and you can really learn about who you are and what you are passionate about. If you are going to be living in the dorms, be a part of your hall's functions. They are full of mixers, and you literally get introduced to SO many people, that even if you are shy, you cant help but meet people. Talking to a girl you really like…
/r/seduction18/03/15 04:58 PM
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Do fun things together. Take her for a hike, bowling, dancing, etc. By making plans you show your interest in her, your ability to make plans and decisions, and you guys get to do fun things together that leads to memories and inside jokes... essentially the things of a relationship.
/r/seduction16/03/15 09:56 PM
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You should wait, and since you are a gentleman who doesn't have his phone out while talking with her, you can take the time she is gone to go through texts/emails and when she comes back and apologizes for needing to leave, you can smile and jokingly say "no worries, it gave me a chance to sift through the barrage of texts i usually just ignore anyway"
/r/seduction16/03/15 07:08 PM
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I saw the downvotes first, then read your idea and gave you and upvote while laughing. cheers
/r/seduction13/03/15 03:50 PM
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If you already know this person, and are not asking them out through text/online, your intentions can be made very clear by eye contact and saying "Hey, i really like hanging out with you. When can I take you out?"
/r/seduction12/03/15 12:34 AM
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Honestly forgetting to Always Assume Attraction. Not out of self-doubt or anything disparaging, i just will forget sometimes that i need to assume girls are into me and act accordingly.
/r/seduction11/03/15 10:46 PM
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Hey, this stuff happens. Being confident in your response is the key i think. I respond to that frequently with " Oh, you're totally fine, no worries! what have you been up to?" while making eye contact and smiling. It seems to work well
/r/seduction10/03/15 07:05 PM
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For non hook ups, i had a decent profile i feel like. To augment the pictures of me having fun (rock climbing, surfing, dinner with family, and me+my dog hiking) I had "Hi, I'm x. 24, living in x, and a big fan of x, y, and z. I'm in the Army, went to X university, and make a mean PB&J" It worked fine, there is lots to grab hold of in there that would sometimes have girls initiating convo's about mutual interests, friends, or questions about picture locations etc. Good luck!
/r/seduction19/02/15 12:12 AM
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Great read. It's easy to get caught up in the "Game" aspects of everything, but I loved the emphasis on authenticity and leadership.
/r/seduction12/02/15 03:10 AM
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