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Because physical attraction, at least for men, comes first. Evolutionary, there's a lot of information about your fertility and ability to be a good mother that can be determined from your appearance. The most obvious ones being wide hips and large breasts. How you take care of yourself, your weight, your hygiene - all are outward expressions of your ability to be maternal. Women do the same thing with men, but instead of predominantly seeking attractive men they look for character and stability…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:04 PM
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It's a terrible business move unless they're willing to spend hundreds or thousands of dollars to advertise and grow the site. Reddit acts as a funnel to finding these communities, without the funnel they're just another website in a sea of websites. It happened to the red pill sub too. My guess is FDS comes back, either as their current form or some amalgamation of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:19 PM
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ban me cuz of his feelings Does it make you feel better when it's some fat slobby Reddit moderator that bans you instead? That's the trade off 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:45 PM
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Watch how quick his “free speech” ends when it’s him or Tesla getting roasted. Lol who cares? Not being able to say "Tesla sucks" doesn't even compare to the ten years of bullshit censorship from Twitter. Twitter is an absolute hellhole. And if the culture changed on Twitter, maybe it'll change on Reddit and elsewhere on the Internet. Not being able to criticize Elon, which isn't even true, is the best trade off ever if it means getting a more free internet. I just logged in to Twitter today and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:42 PM
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No. But there is FDS inspired, female toxicity. Having less Amber Heards and Jada Pinkett Smiths in the world would be a nice change.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:30 PM
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Maybe the dummies don't. The ViDeO gAmES cause violence argument, which is essentially the same argument, has been debunked in the 90s. Correlation. Is. Not. Causation. Sorry about your lil hang out spot getting deleted 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:26 PM
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Your argument essentially became "men don't worship women", as if that was a well articulated argument. How do you ignore things like simp culture, where men will spend hundreds of dollars to get a woman to notice him? Have you never had a dating app, where dozens and dozens of men flood your inbox asking to take you to a nice date? Maybe they're not worshipping you in particular, but plenty of attractive women receive an inane amount of attention from well-to-do men in the form of "I'll buy you…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:32 PM
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The women are having a hard time with this one OP. I've read the top maybe 50 comments in this thread so far and everyone seems to think that men don't actually worship women, as if simp culture isn't an extension of that exact problem. Women have no ability to see outside themselves. They base their entire reality around the men they purposefully surround themselves with, many of them toxic, because that's all they are able to see. To them, the quite nice guy doesn't exist - that guy comes off …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:20 PM
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Women see you differently. That sounds like something women need to work on then. If men are telling you how they think, just listen. You'll learn a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:10 PM
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taking care of themselves and their skin. Because 20+ years of wearing makeup really keeps a woman's face youthful 🤣 get outta here with that BS
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:53 PM
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What a terrible argument from an old fart. If you were really "wise" you'd realize that "when you grow up" is the dumbest argument you could make. Come back with facts. Come back with evidence to support your claims. You know, like a full grown adult with life experiences would do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:50 PM
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You're using a female lens to explain male behavior. You might think they're not attractive because you're attracted to wisdom and emotional intelligence, something most young people have yet to cultivate. Men aren't looking for "wisdom and intelligence'. Men are looking for hot. Men are looking for youthful and nurturing. Men are simple. You can't judge what a man values with a feminine perspective, because to you there's always some nefarious, underlying reason. Men want hot. Men want young. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:42 PM
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Or they just want someone hotter. It's really that simple. Men are simple. It's easy, c'mon
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:35 PM
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The women who go for bull dykes are not the same that go for Chads. Those who go for dykes are either 110% lesbian or have been so hurt/turned off by men that she wants the furthest thing away from a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:04 PM
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Your husband's count doesn't matter, because it really doesn't affect his love for you. Men can sleep with hundreds of women and not become emotionally attached. Sex is not sacred for men in the same way it is for women. We view it almost like eating or breathing- a necessary bodily function that needs maintenance/attention. With women, it's trickier. Women become emotionally attached to the men they have sex with. Women will generally only sleep with a man after he's gone through checking a lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:00 PM
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The vast majority haven't experienced violent, "behind the alley" rape. When women talk about rape, it's usually implied that that's what it is. Many women, however, have experienced unwanted groping, soliciting, cat calling, ass grabbing, unprofessional behavior from bosses and coworkers. I e., Sexual harassment. A smaller percentage were taken advantage of while drunk/inebriated. So, I agree with you that many women have experienced some form of harassment. But almost everyone I know has exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:29 PM
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You and your black hair are not that important. You're entitled, most likely a c*nt, and you posting on FDS solidifies the fact that you can't pull the men you want. Get off your entitled, center of the universe, high horse. You are NOT that important. You are NOT a victim. thot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:45 AM
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“lady boner”. it's such a weird way for horned females to communicate. Just say you soaked your britches lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:51 PM
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They don't want company. They want status and to feel like they found someone as successful, if not more, than themselves. Usually because they are unable to date down without feeling like their man is inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:14 AM
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ya Karen's have definitely ended up in my rotations lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:29 PM
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Unsolicited pussy pics are just as jarring and unwelcome to me. We are not the same my boy 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:29 PM
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Because there's a difference between good men and bad men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:54 AM
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I guarantee you wouldn't be with your husband if you didn't think he was a "Chad". And if your husband cared about your N count and you actually had one, he probably wouldn't be with you. I know you're not consciously looking for a Chad, but subconsciously you know you found "Chad", less you wouldn't be with him. It's just a term to describe a high value man wanted by multiple women. If you value your husband, chances are other women would too. And who knows? Maybe you having a low N count is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:50 AM
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Your man is dating you because he knows what his options are, and you're the best one (or only one). Men will take an overweight woman over zero women (most of the time).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:34 PM
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It depends, because it's easier to forgive your spouse's deteriorating looks after being in love for a while. But it's also easier to cheat if she fails at checking the other boxes. I've been with average looking women who became "hot" to me after months of dating, but only because her personality was amazing. But it's much easier to leave if she starts nagging, becomes bitchy, or displays other types of undesirable behavior. A great personality will keep your foot in the door, you just gotta op…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:29 PM
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Not mentioning kids in the beginning is akin to a trans tricking you for weeks before telling you they're trans 🤣 like, that shit is really important. It should be the first thing on your profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 09:03 PM
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Rich, elite men in the .0000001% let's not make false equivalencies here...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:56 PM
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it's the ugly chicks with the high counts that are the real issue 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:45 AM
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That's exactly what it is. And it's done under the guise of a "relationship" - I really think women underestimate the lengths a lonely man will go to to get a possible date + sex. A relationship = lots of sex. He isn't dreaming about a big, beautiful wedding with a house and three kids, he's thinking about needing to get the evil that is semen, out of his body lmao. I think a lot of men convince themselves that it's "love" they're feeling. No...it's the raging hormones. Which is also why so many…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:15 AM
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20-25yo dude who earns the same as the upper class 28-32yo sel Those men are in short supply, though. In fact, wealthy, good looking 20 something's are in very short supply. These men are probably the most desirable, but because every woman wants that, the demand is too high for every woman to get one. Which is why women dating older men is a trope as old as time - there's just more of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:08 PM
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You'd be surprised how easy it is to get laid being the "coke guy". Meth girls and coke girls are very, very different demographic. Party girls who like to get fucked up on the weekend are a dime a dozen, and can be pretty hot. Coke = party, meth = trailer trash Giving coke to a party girl is playing the game on easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:00 PM
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This is absolutely wrong. Social media and online dating have lowered the average woman’s self-esteem and that’s backed up by studies showing a huge increase in depression in women. This is true, but really only for unattractive and fat women. Undesirable women are constantly comparing themselves to hotter women. They make subs like Instagram Reality and look for flaws in attractive people to soothe their insecurities. That part is definitely true. Social media just doesn't treat ugly people, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:48 PM
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what is this even referring to? are you talking about men who neg? your comment doesn't have anything to do with the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:21 PM
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The biggest advantage men have over women is they don't have to go through childbirth. For a lot of women, childbirth absolutely wrecks your body. C section scars, cottage cheese skin, varicose veins, elastic skin and stretch marks, vaginal scarring, saggy boobs, etc. Men are lucky in that we don't have strong hormonal changes that happen later in life. Women practically go through a second puberty when they hit their 40s-50s. It's a lot easier for men to maintain themselves, which is why when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:27 PM
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Absolutely, but you gotta do it quick because there's only so much time. The best advice for hot 20 something's is to lock a rich, attractive, dude down. The chances of getting one after your looks fade is practically zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:19 PM
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I'm introverted and learning to be extroverted is....excruciating. I've always felt emotionally drained even after a 10 minute conversation with a stranger. The biggest problem for me is "I'm going to say something stupid and look like an idiot, so I'd rather not bother." Going out to a bar or a club for a few hours was never fun to me. Having said that, I did end up learning some social skills and getting laid from it. I'm maybe a 6 at best. The problem was it's like any skill set: you have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:53 PM
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I think that changes with the increase in single mothers, though. They obviously have more responsibility over a single woman, and working two jobs while raising kids alone is hard. The allure of having a partner is tenfold when you are overwhelmed with responsibility, like raising children and paying bills. The steady increase in single motherhood I think would increase the need for provider men. However, those are the single mothers. Single women with no children are obviously going to be less…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:19 PM
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Even TikTok and social media, there's this trend going around where ugly people show off their much hotter girlfriend/boyfriend and everyone in the comments thinks the uggo has money or a big schlong. I mean I'm sure that's the case sometimes but people, especially black pillers, really underestimate the power of a strong, social personality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:08 PM
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I only ever got laid from cold approach. in ten years of online dating I've had maybe 100 matches at most a few dates and zero lays compared to the 20ish women I e meant IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:39 PM
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Idk if you're male but most men who have told women they are virgins do not end up getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:53 PM
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If we want birthrates to go up, we have to make a world where it's easier to have and raise children This doesn't actually correlate, though. Birth rates are higher in non-developed countries and generally lower in first world countries. If anything, the low birth rate is a sign that we are living in the most fruitful time in history. People who decide to have children, as opposed to it being the "standard thing to do despite economic consequences", will generally be better at providing for thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:33 PM
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She's just like every other basic bitch out there lol. Female delusion at an ATH
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 01:58 PM
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All. There will be forced sex changes because testosterone leads to war /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:31 PM
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I get what you're saying but you offer no solutions. Men need TOOLS to be able to reign it in. Without them, it's useless. Every man for himself type of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:02 PM
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You post on FDS. When you go back, send them this message: If you're ugly, you're going to have a hard time with men. Men will go to the end of the Earth for attractive, sexy, feminine women. They will devote their time, money, and resources for the hottie they want. If he wanted to, he would. If a man is not doing these things for you, as in the case for many hags on FDS, it only means one thing: You're fat and unattractive. Not convinced? Try searching the FDS Instagram page and browse through…
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:33 PM
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Social media and dating apps have amplified female entitlement 1000 fold. I really hope the pendulum swings back in my lifetime lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 10:11 PM
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Ya this is what I was gonna say. A man's shortcut is being well dressed and having an eclectic sense of style
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:05 AM
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If it's not evolution, what is it? Evolution answers a lot of these questions because humans have been evolving for thousands of years. Being fat = unhealthy. Why would we evolve to reproduce with unhealthy people? No hair = also unhealthy. it's natural for hair to grow, so a lack of hair might mean something is seriously wrong or the person is sick. We evolve to choose traits that guarantee the vitality of our next of kin- An attractive woman, an alpha male, a woman who cooks and cleans and rai…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:53 PM
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Does it, though? Sex for men doesn't fall out of the sky like it does for women, so a man who gets laid a LOT is obviously doing something right that other women find endearing. If it was a self control thing, women would go after virgins and inexperienced males most of the time. Something activates in the female psyche that values experience and choice in men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:42 PM
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And after a hard day's work, it's our money that eventually gets siphoned off to these dumb broads. I'm so over entitled women
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 11:27 PM
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Pretty much. Loneliness is more debilitating to the average woman, so I understand why she would think men are depressed when single. But most men who are single are not depressed. For men, the problems start where the sex stops. Men will put up with a lot of BS if it means access to sex. I think most men aren't concerned about loneliness, they're worried about sexlessness. Being sexless is depressing, but not in the same way loneliness is depressing for women. Women need emotional fulfillment i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:59 PM
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The problem with those studies is that they always focus on one, maybe two variables. Happiness in marriage isn't one dimensional, and measuring if a man is happy being married vs single would require analyzing hundreds of variables. Statistics are generally useless when understanding what makes someone happy because happiness isn't measurable. The bitter cat lady stereotype is, similar to all stereotypes, rooted in truth because we all know women in their 40s-60s struggling to find happiness. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:37 PM
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Yeah pretty much. TRP was a response to female hypergamy, which benefits women. it's a balancing act
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:21 PM
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Personally I don't think women should have an opinion on this. There's just no way for a woman to conceptualize loneliness. They spend their entire lives getting male attention - whether that's warranted or not. It doesn't matter what your accomplishments are because any attention you get is inherently because you're female (especially if attractive). Turning that valve off would be too much for the average woman. There's just no way for a woman to conceptualize it without living it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:27 AM
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There's a joke about incels only being attractive to women until after they murdered someone lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 12:17 AM
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Who are they impressing? Men? How does that affect you? I think that makes some women upset because they aren't attractive enough to be PickMes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:04 PM
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That's what I don't understand? Every woman I've seen labeled PickMe is generally pretty attractive and has a sweet personality. Like straight wife material. it's not that they're PickMes, they are PickFirsts. Because men actually find that personality attractive, and the uggos with crap personalities become the NeverPickedMes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:59 PM
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Women's bodies are not trophies for men to claim. Says who? Why can't I enjoy another woman's body? Because it makes you feel like an object? Who cares? Like seriously. Saying "women's bodies aren't trophies" is a lie. They are trophies. Why else would I want to take you home? So I can listen to you talk about some cat pic you saw on Reddit? borrrriiiinngggg I live for the experiences, the fun. If I'm going to spend money on you, waste energy or just overall act like I care about having a conver…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:19 PM
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I think that says more about your ability to choose, more than anything. It seems to me that you are either 1) gullible and jump into a relationship with any smooth talking man, or 2) that you do realize when there are red flags but that you are too far invested in the relationship to leave. And number 2 is extremely common. How many times I've tried to get my sister to leave an abusive boyfriend, or an ex of mine that would go back to her abusive ex because she needed company. Women know when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:05 PM
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Where I work it's very common for 20 something's to walk in with 40 something's. It's even more common for 30 something women to be dating 50-60 year old men. But I work in a wealthier area where the men work their millionaire jobs and the women spend all day doing CrossFit XD it's important to remember most redditors haven't had many sexual experiences. The ones who do, don't post on Reddit about their experiences. Dan Bilzerian types aren't posting on Reddit (they are all over Tik Tok tho if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:33 PM
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it's the same for 35+ too. It's pretty common where I work to see men in their 50's come in with 30 something wives. A woman who is 35 and a man who is 52 can lead very similar lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:24 PM
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first and foremost, I wouldn't want my daughter dating solely for money. But female nature is female nature
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:20 PM
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ah yes, the exception. Not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:27 PM
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I've noticed it generally comes from the unattractive fat friend who is tired of getting constantly passed over by men. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:25 PM
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Absolutely. the best thing I ever did for my dating life was connect my TikTok account to my Tinder. it's so much easier to display your personality in an archive of videos than it is to convey it over a paragraph of text in your bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 04:16 PM
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Lots of research and scientific data Nope. There isn't. Only about 5% of men are addicted to porn. You might think it's more than that, because you continuously choose men who prefer porn over you, but that doesn't mean porn is the issue. it means you are the issue. Women don't want to accept this because it means they have a lot of work to do (like losing weight) to actually be attractive to the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:38 PM
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mood for porn instead of sex. As a male without a porn addiction, I still understand this. Without trying to sound like a total asshole, sometimes you just want to look at a different vagina/boobies after being with the same girl for a while. It never meant, for me anyways, that I cared less about my gf or didn't want her anymore. I've cheated on women in my past relationships and as I've grown up I realized that porn every now and again is a way to mitigate wanting to cheat when I'm in a commit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:31 PM
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idk. there's lot of em who get obsessed with one particular pornstar/Only Fans girl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:23 PM
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that's an aspect of it but I'd say the main point of No Fap is to gain control over an addiction that may be negatively affecting your life. Just like an online AA meeting for alcoholics
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:19 PM
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Women aren’t usually attracted to men 10-15 years their senior I'm always amazed women actually believe this. Like, you need to expand your social circle, girl. The amount of women I've met in my life who have dated men much older than them, or who are just outright attracted to older men is innumerable. This totally depends who you surround yourself with. The cute librarian type girls at your university? They'll most likely date other dudes at school who are in their age range. The stripper or …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:35 AM
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you're going to have to accept the way it is. you basically just explained why the RedPill movement exists. Men learned that accepting it means playing the game a different way. it gives men a chance who wouldn't otherwise have a chance. I think that evens out the imbalance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:07 PM
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This is partly why i'm turning a blind eye to the abortion thing. Honestly, I've always been pro choice pro freedom pro liberty, but the recent "men don't have problems and we're never going to address them" really has made me not care whatsoever about women's issues these days. it's hard to not feel like you get what you deserve, in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 02:54 PM
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I loathe how FDSers and pink pillies get BTFO on PPD and never come back to defend their stance. it's like, 90% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 02:41 PM
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also not reliable, especially after years of storage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 02:21 PM
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