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My point is your statistics are wrong. All studies show it's more egalitarian than you claim. I do agree that personality is more important irl, I would think that's obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:00 AM
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The ratio is not 80/20 on OLD. At its most skewed it's 60/40
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:56 AM
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Tbh I think people are shallow. Although men are hornier if you were gay you'd have noticed the same increase dating men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:26 AM
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Pickmes still won't be attracted to the incels you see complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:05 AM
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Many polytheistic religions like mine don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:51 AM
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Rejection isn't a moral thing in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:01 AM
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Or maybe fewer men are murdering women because domestic violence is less normalised
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:41 PM
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The majority of women who are murdered are killed by intimate partners, who definitionally cannot be an involuntary celibate. Some incels kill women and I don't agree with the ideology at all, but the sad thing is most spousal murderers just are normal people except behind closed doors
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:47 PM
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I broadly agree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:14 PM
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Mine is "Invictus" by W.E. Henley
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:04 PM
3

What is your favourite poem?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:02 PM
7

Doesn't mean the original author wasn't perceptive or poetic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:36 PM
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What the OP said is actually quite a perceptive statement phrased rather poetically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:37 AM
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Hi dang
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:57 PM
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Just pull guard, I almost got triangled by a 5'5 dude the other day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:14 PM
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None of them are the first and only some the second
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:36 PM
4

This isn't common sense at all. Most people I know from small towns who didn't go to college married other people from said small town.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:37 AM
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Are you dense? "Pedicabo et irrumabo" is a meme for people who've studied ancient history. It's quite clearly a joke about not all poetry being beautiful or flowery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:24 PM
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Has it occurred to you that we are not hyenas or seahorses?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:31 PM
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The irony of replying to my obviously sarcastic nerdy ancient Rome joke with a paragraph of nonsense is palpable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:21 PM
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I prefer to talk like poets also, but apparently telling women "pedicabo et irrumabo" is not good flirting technique
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:47 PM
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Peace is a lie, there is only passion. Through passion, I gain strength. Through strength, I gain power. Through power, I gain victory. Through victory, my chains are broken. The red pill shall set me free.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:19 PM
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If you don't already meet thresholds for social skills and looks then I'd say it's pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:35 PM
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I agree trying to peacock using wealth is stupid but so is thinking "personality" is what matters
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:48 PM
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Social conservatism is a spectrum so that's insane. Incels I understand but what if it was your little brother if you have one or your son? Would you still disown them? There are many things I'd disown my kids for but I don't follow an empathetic ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:09 PM
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I think I made it clear in my post that I disagree with blackpill ideology. I'm saying that the most rabid online opponents of it would likely feel sad and empathetic if someone they loved fell down the rabbit hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:08 PM
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Where did it come from lol. Sounds like Dodgy Dave and the Bullingdon initiation pig
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:06 PM
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I'm responding to your point not the OP's. A lot of mainstream people's sneering rhetoric to "incels" (I refuse to term anyone who doesn't actually claim to agree with the ideology as this to avoid lumping in decent people) would evaporate if it were their loved one who was down the rabbit hole and they realized how sad and lonely most of these people actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:14 PM
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Probably when your son or brother becomes suicidally depressed from his struggles, at which point people who bury their head in the sand begin to question what went wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:05 PM
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The blame is on individuals. Members of groups are not responsible for the actions of their fellow group members.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:04 PM
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Can someone explain the couch thing to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:03 PM
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Good looking doesn't equate to alpha lol. I don't believe in the alpha/beta crap but according to the people who coined the terms it's based on your actions not your bone structure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:53 AM
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Humans will yet colonise the stars... But dogs are still cool. I haven't had a bubble bath since I was about four lol. The soap irritates my skin
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:00 PM
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Your dog is cool
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:53 PM
3

Drugs aren't my thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:39 PM
2

Oh that's actually pretty smart
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:32 PM
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$300 a session?! That is insane. If life is making sense to you maybe you'll figure out you're getting ripped off at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:13 PM
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Yea they had multiple songs about prostitution and casual fucking and their first hit song was about blowjobs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:12 PM
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Did you just discover groupies exist mate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:10 PM
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😂 hate to break it to you but unfortunately you have to read books in primary school
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:21 PM
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Speak for yourself lizards are awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:35 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:03 AM
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Uh oh they're on to me /s Trolling aside what an idiotic post. Human beings reproduce sexually and have done for millions of years back along the evolutionary chain. Most males will be sexually attracted to females and vice versa in all populations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:50 PM
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Most of it will happen behind your back and who cares what people say behind your back. Or to your face for that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:48 PM
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Lmao at the Georgians having rizz part, I was watching a Merab interview (can't spell his surname) today and it's hilariously accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:06 PM
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Isn't that a making money thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:05 PM
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Yes, it's a matter of semantics but if gender dysphoria is feeling uncomfortable with your gender and how you relate to it in general rather than wanting to be the other gender I think it applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:39 PM
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More action meaning more sex, which isn't actually about physical pleasure rather being validated that they confirm to social and biological views of manhood. Gender dysphoria meaning they don't feel manly or masculine, similar to a woman who has a mastectomy not feeling feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:14 PM
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Mogs me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:58 PM
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It takes much too much time and involves wasting time I could spend doing more useful stuff in order to improve incrementally. And I refuse to mask who I am for the benefit of others anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:35 PM
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I don't. It's always been completely confusing to me. Luckily I found groups of people who actually like my personality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:28 PM
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Speaking personally I've never been called creepy, only eccentric/weird. Which to be fair is accurate lol. It just irritates me how everyone thinks it's somehow a walk in the park being tall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:26 PM
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Yes, being smaller than 99 percent of the population will severely hinder you. Lack of social skills skill make trying to date unrewarding even if you're very tall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:20 PM
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Lack of social skills assuming he isn't a dwarf or grotesquely ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:07 PM
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Some nen feel depressed, and I would go as far as saying gender dysphoric at lack of ability to attract the opposite sex. I mean better in the sense of "more action", it's just for me it's not worth the toil of masking which almost killed me when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:00 PM
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Most of the men I know (pretty much all in fact) have girlfriends. And yes that includes the short and conventionally unattractive ones. Both blue and black (and kind of red pill) have it right: the issue is personality, which is in itself a mixture of behaviour (blue pill) and genetics (black pill). And behaving in a red pilled manner definitely gets you better results I would say, it's just exhausting and unrewarding
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:21 AM
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Financial obligations on dates are a standard for me, not my partner. I will never allow myself to be with someone who values me less than I value them so I'd never do anything other than an even split early on. Later of course you can treat each other. I also don't think most people have celebrity crushes, it's weird and parasocial
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:56 PM
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Most of us have never been approached by women lol. I certainly haven't and according to red pill philosophy I'm above average holistically, and I'm "Chad" according to blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:54 PM
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It's not that common, but trauma repeats itself in cycles and through generations. Men who experienced bullying from women when younger may well end up bullying/abusing the women in their life. This isn't a gendered thing either, people who have horrible things done to them often end up repeating it by taking out their anger on a new subset of innocents. Although obviously much worse, you can see this play out politically. For instance in Rwanda the Hutus were passed over in favour of the Tutsis…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:52 PM
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I don't think that height is important. I am taller than 99 percent of males in my country and in better physical condition than the majority. It has never done anything for me in terms of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:59 PM
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It's really rather nice in banthastan, we have a talking sandwich called Dave who does standup
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:58 PM
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You can, you could also try dating your looksmatch which would force you to admit that you're not a femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:06 PM
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Have you still not realized dating is about looks? Women and men do not throw themselves at people for their personalities, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:01 PM
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Most blue pillers don't think or know about pills that's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:31 PM
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I agree, the only time we brought gifts on a first date was literally 2 pounds on food from each others country
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:50 PM
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Have you considered working through your trauma in therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:10 PM
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That's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:43 PM
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Yup I know women who I get on well with but would never date for this reason. I'm also not sexually attracted to the stereotypical housewife who's meek and mild. Nothing against them as people but I have no interest in that dynamic or relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:22 PM
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Not in my experience. I have never got attention before, I've occasionally had women go along with my advances. Only very facially attractive men get proactive interest, most of the rest are just "maybes"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:21 PM
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Why? Most MMA gyms are family oriented and fighters' wives and children often train there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:20 PM
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Haven't been a boxer for a while. MMA does have the added homosexual element of grappling though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:17 PM
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Probably lol, I also hate nightlife. I have one day off training a week and I usually go hiking or to a museum. I'm 6 foot 3 and a bit, and average looking. Very confident but no sense of social skills or what's the "right" thing to say lol. I just say whatever comes in my head
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:17 PM
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Lmao no we are not ultra desirable, I have competed in boxing and MMA before and I've always been single. I'm also not a smaller weight class before people try to talk about height
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:10 PM
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Most don't care especially the working class people I associate with. Most of my friends girlfriends have tattoos because 80 percent of people I know of both sexes do. It's the same as the weird shit about wanting a virgin, no working class man I know really cares and I've only heard it from middle class or highly religious people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:47 AM
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I can understand wanting to marry a woman in her thirties at that age- still young enough to be physically beautiful and have children but with over a decades life experience as a fully grown adult, past jobs, past relationships etc. But I really cant imagine being sixty and wanting a twenty year old woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:58 AM
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Effectively so, although I know of one couple who have a big age gap and are genuinely in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:55 AM
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It's just biology
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:54 AM
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Many of us don't, tattoos are cool look good and are somewhat traditional in white culture
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:32 AM
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Didn't really trick them as they still found you attractive enough to fuck. It's like completing a challenge and if we're honest is how most people approach dating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:15 PM
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Probably lie or bend the truth but more to see if I can successfully than because I actually want to have a one night stand
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:56 PM
-2

I fight amateur mma. Does this mean I should avoid dating any woman who likes seeing me fight?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:44 PM
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In terms of the human body (of which the mind is a part), physically observable processes taking place in cells, tissues, organs and organ systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:38 PM
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So the op, who is even flaired as BP, clearly didn't seem angry about the paradigm he was describing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:09 PM
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Neither of them are scientific. Anything psychological that isn't provable or beyond all reasonable doubt inferable doesn't meet the floor to be classes as biology in my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:57 PM
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Most self aware PPDer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:57 AM
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Just don't cheat and it isn't an issue, not like a DNA test is arduous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:01 AM
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Oh right join the club
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:30 PM
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What does this comment chain have to do with the assassination of Caesar 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:24 PM
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What statistics do you have to support your view
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:03 PM
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The vast majority of people aren't dating outside of three years or so, so that explains some but not all of the dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:01 PM
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There are five possible reasons logically speaking: Large numbers of women are lying about being in a relationship when they are single. Large numbers of men are lying about being single when they are in a relationship. Large numbers of women are dating the same smaller number of men. Larger numbers of women are in lesbian relationships then the number of men in gay relationships. The statistical sampling is flawed in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:42 AM
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I don't have a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:36 PM
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Lol probably. I don't think I'd be aroused by it or disgusted, if anything it would be strange to think of my partner (if I had one) with someone else before I knew them. And I mean strange in the mental sense. I've never dated so wouldn't know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:31 PM
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It doesn't benefit anyone to live in a society that coldly regulates people's gaze and uses mass surveillance techniques in the same way that making guns illegal doesn't make life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:30 PM
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You apparently don't understand my statement. What I'm saying is there is nothing wrong with living your twenties wildly, but there is also nothing wrong with not. And people are most compatible with others of the same lifestyle. As for my own life I'm sure I've made people sad before. I don't really care
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:29 PM
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I refuse to believe this is anything other than trolling. You're advocating for insane dystopianism
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:03 PM
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Right. But people spend their twenties in myriad different ways. I'm barely into mine and I intend to continue spending it in the gym and the outdoors and away from drugs, alcohol, nightclubs and women because that's the lifestyle I prefer. People enjoy different things and live their lives in different ways. Personally I think reaching your goals is far more worthwhile and important than having fun, especially when young
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:59 PM
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For most men it would just make them uncomfortable or make them want to break up I would say
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:54 PM
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And you'd be best finding a man who did those same things, not one who was single throughout his twenties and never did any of that stuff through lack of desire or follow through (I assume your current partner is what I described i.e. someone with similar experiences)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:53 PM
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Single permanently despite being largely what ppd claims is Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:01 PM
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You called?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:19 PM
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I am aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:42 AM
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Neurodivergency is genetic. This post has the same energy as telling the parents of a crippled child to just take them hiking since it will fix the fact they can't walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:17 PM
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Yes, mostly for legacy and such. But I've always been good with children and been quite naturally paternal, something that's been remarked upon many times. I doubt I'll ever find someone to marry though so my best hope is FWBing some wild oats lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:58 PM
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I love snakes, they're cute and interesting plus some can even be friendly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:40 PM
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I wouldn't say that fits the bill for the definition of creepy used on here, it tends to be more mild in these discussions whereas the situation you described is false imprisonment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:39 PM
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Why would anyone criticize someone with multiple kids just because they fucked random women, they're winning in life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:05 PM
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I'm not going to have kids with just anyone, it's just I've seen enough of human relationships to know people can't be trusted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:54 PM
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To continue my legacy and bloodline. I don't care about what deranged femcels claim to be irresponsible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:50 PM
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I've met two couples as you described, so it's rare but not impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:27 PM
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There's a world of difference between a 35 year old versus a 25 year old with an 18 year old. I've only known the first once irl (before I knew them but still happily together with kids a few years later)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:27 PM
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Modern women don't care about social class lmao, at least not unless they're from the aristocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:23 PM
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I don't trust anyone that much, I'm doing a paternity test for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:17 PM
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I agree everyone is transactional, but she tried to take the moral high ground and demonize men who want a prenup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:15 PM
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He is morally sure but he's not boring which is what is considered unattractive lol. However most people will find a hero more attractive than a villain. They'll probably also find a villain more attractive than an NPC
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:31 PM
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Face is mid, but I'm very tall and in good shape
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:30 PM
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Damn I have most of those things in excess, goes to show the depth of the skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:42 PM
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Classic passive aggressive deflection when called out on irrationality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:41 PM
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Right, but if we combine height, physique and face and weight them equally could a 4.5 face still be 8 overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:03 PM
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That doesn't answer my question and I believe personality is important anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:59 AM
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But you're not cast into it. You can just leave the relationship and find a better one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:59 AM
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But if she actually cares about morals or feelings she'd break up with him when he asks for a prenup. She clearly is ok with transactional relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:20 AM
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So you'd stay in a relationship even after losing all soft feelings because your partner is rich, but you claim to not be a gold digger?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:59 AM
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Eh I don't even find trash anymore tbh, stopped getting OLD matches some months ago. I think the bulk of humanity isn't great to spend more than a limited amount of time with regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:35 PM
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I've met very few people who weren't absolutely terrible candidates for romantic relationships lol, idk where you seem to find them all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:14 PM
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It's easy, since I'm omnipotent I willed each man into existence then fucked him to determine his smv
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:10 PM
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The op described three men who are at worst sevens and at best nines, you're just all telling on yourselves lol. AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:53 PM
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Lots of old money types really hate self made men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:51 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:20 AM
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Everyone manipulates and everyone lies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:19 AM
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Oh yeah that explains a few ghostings I've got lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:25 PM
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Yesnt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:53 PM
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I want a cookie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:39 AM
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I'm autistic and pretty asocial lol so that checks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:02 AM
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Some do, it's called delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:52 PM
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Your point is analogous to someone who is struggling to find a job refusing to for example work in the office and instead holding out for a WFH gig right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:31 PM
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Yes that's call being friends, which contrary to terminally online people exists between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:24 PM
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I get coy flirting once you're already dating but at some point early on I think it's necessary establish attraction exists. That's all I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:21 PM
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As a preference I suppose that works, I just find it annoying and confusing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:00 PM
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Or people could take accountability for their childish behavior and learn to openly communicate using words like adults
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:07 AM
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That's the main red flag but nothing in the prompt said we can't work on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:25 PM
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It's removing my comments for some reason. I eat animal based so not a vegan, unless she's a health vegan who can be convinced otherwise rather than an ethical one. I'd go for Sally first easily followed by the nerd and then the normie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:47 PM
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Not really it's just a sign someone gained muscle lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:35 AM
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Men supporting and encouraging (and being close to) other men is not "gay", it's fraternal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:12 AM
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No idea. But of the incels I've interacted with personally none had children or were even overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:42 PM
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Aren't making choices beyond that is what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:41 PM
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How am I making it personal? Your issue just means the issue with your statement. You also don't need to be beautiful to be a top actress, look at Olivia Colman for instance. She's not ugly she just looks normal but is a good actress in what I've seen her in. I don't know what Margot Robbie looks like enough to comment. Once again I don't think most men struggling to get dates on here are rejecting women full stop, much less plain ones. This is just women wanting to feel better about the situati…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:41 PM
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I think your issue is many of the men here aren't picking. They're rejecting morbidly obese women and women with kids when they are healthy weight and without offspring. But they don't have enough options to make choices beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:21 PM
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I'm sitting pretty at -14 and not exactly a catch lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:14 AM
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Quite obviously the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:27 PM
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In that case it's just a skill issue at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:04 PM
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These people are just demisexuals who need to get a grip and go on dates with new people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:00 PM
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What made Chad "Chad" in this context? Height, face, money, something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:25 AM
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Who cares about that shit achievements are what matters most
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:03 PM
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If I'm including women I've sexted with and tinder hookup requests it's around 15-20. Many of which I fumbled by being socially dumb lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:27 PM
1

2-3 is low, I'm mid and I have had probably 10 realistic chances and I'm just out of my teens. I agree porn is bad which is why I've never watched it, eating pussy is also pretty fun lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:47 PM
1

I haven't ever seen women attracted to the male body, moreso the face. Stuff like abs being talked about positively tends to be more men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:53 PM
2

Someone is desirable if they're desired, there are no morals attached to it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:52 PM
1

Porn is bad in all ways and I've never watched it so there's no argument there. It just won't fix the actual problems which mean they can't get female attention in the first place. Are the people here delusional enough to think people are sexually attracted to ugly people who give good head? Just looks like more denial of privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:12 PM
1

Who am I apparently "victim blaming" here? I'm merely stating giving men who can't get dates for whatever reason advice on how to fuck is jumping the gun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:11 PM
1

Probably not after a certain point, at least in my experience being various bodyfat percentages
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:10 PM
1

I see young men who aren't visibly unhealthy but don't have flat stomachs or large muscles with girlfriends all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:41 PM
6

I personally do not struggle with this, however it appears obvious to me that a tiny fraction of men who are unsuccessful in romance are so because of their sexual prowess. General physical condition I agree with, but that's because they are often in too poor shape to generate initial attraction (although even that is overblown, generally just not being obese is fine)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:04 AM
45

Most men who struggle aren't bad in bed or have small dicks, they're several steps behind even making out let alone actually getting a woman into bed with them. Men aren't generally just having sex once then getting dumped because they suck. Many of them are not even getting dates to begin with. This advice is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:34 AM
1

Or you're Chad 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:06 AM
1

Or it's just less painful than getting tattooed on your front because your boobs aren't there? Can someone from the older generations confirm if this is an actual thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:28 AM
2

What do those tattoos mean? The only context where I've heard a rose tattoo meaning something is a dropkick Murphy's song
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:29 AM
3

Probably just mental illness caused by trauma. There was a horrible terrorist attack at one of her concerts a few years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:54 PM
2

The Red Pill is about individualism, imposing your will upon the world, and above all rejecting the just world fallacy. It is opposite to Christianity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:58 PM
5

Then make one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:15 AM
2

The discord server, would be cool to have your takes there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:20 PM
2

Join the discord
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:45 PM
0

You can be in an LTR without marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:08 PM
7

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:06 AM
1

Hard to quantify, but it's more like a man who is on steroids versus a man with hypogonadism. In terms of most women's horniness ovulating versus not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:05 AM
-1

What? Traditional working class people stay together more than the middle class
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:31 AM
6

According to how redpill views those terms alpha means not taking on responsibility and beta means taking it on and self sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:29 AM
0

In terms of sexual attraction is goes able to cheat and chooses not to >>> cheats > unable to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:30 PM
5

Appropriate name for a time bomb. Probably the CCP laughing at us
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:58 AM
2

Jawline is not to do with testosterone levels and neither is height. Men with klinefelter's are hypogonadal and are taller than average
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:54 PM
1

You should presume exclusivity from the first date and make this clear beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:06 PM
0

Sleeping with your partners friends is much more personally hurtful than just some random
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:45 PM
6

The only addendum I would add it it's clinically proven women get more horny just before and on the day of ovulation. So they would be more likely to cheat at peak fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:35 PM
11

What you're describing isn't true of all masculine environments. I've been in some of the most masculine environments possible and they're very supportive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:35 AM
0

This is the most autistic reply possible to this post but what are you favourite sandwiches and crisps lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:32 PM
3

Middle eastern culture has stricter gender norms than the west and they hug each other all the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:06 AM
2

It's from a song, I'm saying I've never been in love
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:53 PM
0

Wouldn't know, never seen the stars reflected in the reservoirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:37 PM
4

Because for most of our history a shy, introverted woman could still do her part to provide for her children but a shy, introverted man (or rather a man unable to be aggressive or collaborative when needed) could not. Therefore humans have evolved to broadly select against passive men. For their constant bashing of fundies using a 2000 year old book to legislate, most liberal bluepillers seem quite uncomfortable with applied evolutionary biology
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:57 PM
2

They are more a weird mix of theocratic cons and black pillers. None of them advocate for holding frame, being the prize etc. and their pushing of traditional marriage and curtailing women's rights has nothing to do with redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:54 PM
0

None of these people are actually redpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:55 AM
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Of course it hurts, and it hurts because you loved them. Just because something is also painful doesn't mean it isn't joyful or beautiful, and it most definitely doesn't mean that the experience cannot galvanize your soul. My condolences for your mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:04 AM
1

Killing an animal for sustenance is a sacred ritual, it is not enjoyed in the sense of sadism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:33 PM
1

Sounds delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:39 PM
-1

Disgust at meat consumption is a sign of a sick mind
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:39 PM
2

Damn sounds amazing. How do you cook the salmon? Id probably just eat it raw lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:54 PM
4

You are fulfilling nature's role for you as a predator, and you are taking the strength of a lesser being to feed yourself and your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:53 PM
2

I also hate when aliens ride past my house on dinosaurs at midnight. Really disturbs my shut-eye
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:15 PM
3

I'm thorry, he'th from Barthelona
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:13 PM
1

Chad detected
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:12 PM
3

Plus it's fun. You get to kill something and then cook and eat it. A fun activity for all the family as well as a healthy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:11 PM
3

This works well because finding dead fish gross is a red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:10 PM
8

Someone I think on the discord posited that it's one of the few times it's socially acceptable for a man to ask someone to take his picture
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:10 PM
0

As a 6'4 man height is overblown
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:24 AM
1

Are you trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:03 PM
0

Yeah truth in general not the woman who wrote it. It's like accusing Charlie Chaplin of supporting fascism or George Orwell of being a Stalinist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:17 PM
0

Who turned you on to this ridiculous preference? Was it the voices?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:25 PM
3

How would you search for this? Are we talking more soldiers/police officers, or MMA fighters/boxers, or both? Something else entirely like their vibe or muscularity?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:21 PM
10

The woman who wrote the song wrote it as satire about dating and people having long checklists lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:20 PM
8

OP's fanfiction aside, a cemetery should be a place of joy and strength: celebrating the past and your heritage, and using it to bolster you. Sharing a meal with your ancestors and the descendants they never got to meet sounds lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:27 PM
1

Anyone who pays money to a dating coach is a sucker
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:16 PM
3

Irl of course average people are fine. It's just on apps all you can really filter for is looks rather than the 90% of communication which is through body language and non verbal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:44 AM
1

I didn't say it's not an advantage, I said compared to other factors it's not that important
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:20 PM
1

Yup hence my point that height alone doesn't matter that much. It may get you rejected if you're too short, but women shallow enough to do that sure as fuck will not be able to appreciate a neurodivergent personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:25 PM
3

Yeah, hookup culture isn't the only problem also rampant disrespect of both genders and of course pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:18 PM
1

I would know because I've never been successful in dating compared to my shorter peers who are neurotypical and in some cases (but not all) more facially attractive. There are so many better things in life than worrying about romance, id suggest more men do what I did and check out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:16 PM
2

I mean height alone isn't really anything in the dating world. I am 6 foot 4 and maybe even a little over that as I haven't been measured properly since I was 17
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:13 PM
-1

I think it differs person to person and is probably about the moment where you stop seeing your partners as people and more as vessels for your pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:12 PM
1

Height doesn't really matter compared to general demeanour and face
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:33 PM
-2

Pretty much anyone stops being able to pair bond after they've had a certain n count. Polygynous men in history were using their junior wives for sex, status and offspring after a certain point, the same spark likely wasn't there as with their first encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:22 PM
5

Red pill would say handsome alone gets you laid, handsome plus good personality (assertive but kind) gets you laid then cooked for/hugged after, good personality but not handsome (to her) gets you friendship, neither looks nor personality gets you ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:21 PM
-6

Nobody truly knows or cares for you. Even parents love their children as extensions of themselves who can further their directives. There is nobody who truly loves you but you yourself, and your children until they grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:19 PM
2

If they're obese slobs then they're not doing their best by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:01 AM
1

Normally less egregious than that id say
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:11 PM
9

Most likely it's men telling women they're committed to them but lying about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:41 PM
1

Solitude is not bliss, that's just a lie to make people feel less lonely. Like many things in life it sucks and there's no solution. I'm not asking for sympathy, I just speak the truth so others reading this realize there's people in their position also
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:12 AM
1

I have a couple of friends who are on the spectrum but I've never clicked with anyone Romantically, only sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:02 AM
3

Autistic people don't particularly understand other autistic people better than neurotypical people do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:56 AM
1

Fuck that lol I'll ride or die as me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:51 AM
3

Nope, tried it and autistic women don't want to be with autistic men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:51 AM
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More importantly it's largely bullshit anyway. I get on very well with men and women from all backgrounds and have a wide social circle, but my neurodivergence means I'm an obviously unsuitable candidate for dating. I once had this discussion with a female friend and when I made the point that while we're friends shed never set me up with one of her single female friends because she recognizes that whilst I'm fun to be around I wouldn't make a good partner, she paused to think
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:32 PM
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You're no longer a virgin so that social box is ticked, sex isn't that great compared to just jerking off anyway, and getting rejected by someone you care for sucks ass
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:06 PM
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Once you've done it once not really
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:45 AM
-3

Red meat is the healthiest food for humans besides oily fish
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:01 AM
1

Not in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:19 AM
1

Not really if you masturbate regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:24 PM
2

You end up masking long enough to have sex/do sexual stuff, and then trusting that person enough to show your true self, then getting rejected brutally lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:57 PM
3

If you're training a huge amount and natural your test can be significantly lower than baseline actually
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:05 PM
2

You're talking about liberal feminism then, there are plenty of feminists who attack the other feminists who do what your second paragraph said from a socialist perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:39 AM
-1

It doesn't take a few hours lol, my family did this and you just boil wash them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:18 AM
1

So you believe anybody who expressed reactionary views should be imprisoned or killed?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:17 AM
1

My ideal life would probably be living on a farm where you're still doing those things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:16 AM
1

Yes there was in most Western countries when the unions were stronger
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:15 AM
0

They are, but I find indoor jobs to be extremely hard on the soul
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:15 AM
1

I'm not saying they're right, but if you want to move someone away from holding an opinion you must first understand the core emotional reasons why they came to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:00 PM
1

Depends on how rich you are but yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:59 PM
0

In some small businesses it's different but yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:59 PM
-4

Why would you buy disposable diapers? They're horrible for the planet and pointlessly expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:42 PM
14

I agree with all of that. But for men and women spending your day preparing food, being outdoors, and being with your children is in my opinion better for your mental and physical health than sitting in an office or working in a factory
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:40 PM
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Honestly in a few years you could just buy a self driving car
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:56 PM
1

Lots of the men complaining aren't emotionally part of society. They don't feel any sense of belonging to a nation or even to humanity, because they feel deeply disenfranchised with their position in the aforementioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:54 PM
2

I think your third paragraph explains it. The atomisation of the modern social and economic system has broken down social bonds so that many people, often men, don't actually feel part of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:52 AM
3

I'm sure you're trolling but you don't understand tren. It's not a beginner compound, is inappropriate for most non competitive bodybuilders, and without a test base and other drugs in your stack you will permanently nuke your hormones. Most bodybuilders don't even use it it's very niche .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:24 AM
1

I'd never take steroids to get pussy, only if I for some reason needed to for career or financial or health reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:34 PM
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I follow world politics and affairs as a hobby. Although I don't agree with him I find his concept of Russian identity (European in many ways but still not Western) very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:05 PM
5

I mean you can take PCT right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:22 AM
6

If you're doing tren without a test base you're an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:21 AM
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That's silly, I speak ten words of Russian and have a passing interest in Dugin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:42 AM
1

You're an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:30 PM
1

I mean irl
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:39 AM
3

I don't pay for dates and I want someone my age
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:38 AM
-1

If he's also middle aged and 4/10 sure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:26 PM
1

I've never seen this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:26 PM
5

Nobody is talking about education here lol they mean looks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:30 PM
4

This comment reeks of capitalist classism. A regular working class job is fine for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:27 PM
-1

That's because of autism not misogyny. They likely believe it works the same for women trying to date, or for homosexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:57 PM
2

Oh look, more proof that black pill is blue pill in disguise
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:45 PM
1

China has been focusing on soft power heavily but they are also suffering from a demographic crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:57 AM
0

No, but their masters in Beijing will
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:51 AM
1

Very few want kids? Who are you socializing with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:55 PM
1

I've been in mixed groups ethnically which are fairly balanced or white minority, and everyone insults each others race. Nobody uses slurs but I'm talking stereotyping etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:54 PM
-1

In the head office sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:53 PM
2

Yep, and most male groups do a good job of policing and calling out bullies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:14 PM
3

I've been told enjoying fighting is toxic masculinity on multiple occasions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:42 PM
3

They misunderstand male social interaction (banter which may seem brutal or cruel to women) as being destructive and toxic when it actually builds social bonds between men and is how we express affection and warmth to one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:41 PM
11

There are multiple examples of positive masculinity in my personal life, it just requires interacting with ordinary blue collar men. Do you really think there are college campus style feminist inquisitions on construction sites?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:39 PM
1

SMV 7, RMV 3-4
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:10 PM
1

I literally wouldn't care. If anything I'd find it nice and refreshing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:18 PM
1

My main hobby is fighting, the idea that money equals masculinity is crazy to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:11 PM
0

I can't imagine caring about my wife making too much money. Why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:59 PM
0

So reverse AWALT basically lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:48 PM
1

It's over
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:46 PM
4

Plenty of the traits you described in women are autism
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:29 PM
1

Join the discord my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:09 AM
-4

Second standard is stupid, just look for someone who doesn't care about money because people could make six figures and still be resentful you make more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:54 AM
2

There are Paralympic sprinters who have cerebral palsy and run the hundred metres faster than I can as an active man. There are other sufferers in wheelchairs unable to talk. Although I personally believe high and low functioning autism are actually different conditions, your argument proves nothing in actuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:27 AM
3

Autism isn't actually one condition, how can you say a non verbal sped has the same condition as Elon Musk?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:21 AM
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Fuck off with your self hating bullshit. To all the men reading this, you are worth more than scattered crumbs of affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:17 PM
1

I'm autistic, I will always struggle with reading people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:11 PM
2

Exactly and we don't know which one it is because women don't communicate like adults for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:00 PM
6

There's plenty of guys who are on the spectrum and you'd never expect it. Fighters for instance
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:05 PM
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Cold approaching is how you make friends as well if you think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:29 AM
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Could just have said autism lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:22 AM
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Your friend sounds like a great guy and I'm sure he's a good mate. However it sounds like women are just giving him their number to get him to go away
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:21 AM
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There's nothing wrong with being attracted to attractive people, folks just put the cart before the horse as they don't want to appear shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:18 PM
5

Probably the latest wonderdrug with horrible side effects like thalidomide
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:53 AM
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Because as a guitarist I can confirm it isn't true. People think it's cool but it doesn't make you sexually attractive in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:55 AM
2

This is number one bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:12 PM
2

You need to wank more
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:32 PM
8

Most men absolutely struggle to have multiple women interested in them. They're just invisible to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:34 PM
8

So the analogy here is that most men are occasionally getting scraps of female interest and taking what they can. A few in either side are drowning in options or completely without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:09 PM
8

Half of people are struggling to make ends meet and have few savings easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:50 PM
1

No rules on ppd discord lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:48 PM
5

Rubbish. This makes you friends and that only
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:48 PM
1

I was replying to the person saying you can be fulfilled without love. If you're not asexual that isn't true. You appear to have just asked what my quote was
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:59 PM
1

All humans crave deep connections with others, even asexuals in the form of friendship and blood ties. What is sold to us today is transient and transactional, and I for one refuse to settle for it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:51 PM
1

Yeah that's fine it's just hair
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:48 PM
2

So your comment reeked of the false positivity the ruling class sells you, where being alone and poor and on SSRIs is just normal and not the sign of a corrupt regime
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:54 PM
1

I've never understood men liking shaved hair personally, pubes are a sign of sexual maturity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:53 PM
1

I don't want to learn game. I don't want to crawl and dance for scraps of affection, I would rather spend my time becoming the strongest version of myself that I can in all facets of life. If people don't accept my personality then good for them they can find someone compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:29 PM
1

I don't online or in person date anymore, I'm happy to have a more extensive discussion in chat though. Not over the line at all dw
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:25 PM
1

It's probably more likely that I'm unattractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:20 PM
1

Maybe but it doesn't really matter as it sums up the zeitgeist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:09 PM
2

As an autistic person I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:09 PM
1

Either you're a liar or I'm very ugly 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:08 PM
1

Because as a normal looking man if a woman on OLD gave me a thoughtful first message then didn't ghost I'd be very interested as would all the men I know who are single. So it stands to reason you're only matching with noticeably handsome men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:46 PM
1

Are you agreeing or disagreeing with me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:45 PM
0

Oh, it means a corporation. The joke was a company replying offensively to your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:44 PM
4

It's a common phrase used by critics of dystopian postmodernism, where everyone basks in a communal morasse of mediocre entropy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:23 PM
0

People online are so dense sometimes. Did the PLC part not make the joke obvious?? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:22 PM
1

Once they were losing the war they went to work for their ideological enemies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:22 PM
3

What percentage of men did you swipe on would you say
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:48 AM
2

The CEO made millions from it, she did fine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:00 AM
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Dating apps work fine for women, they just generally don't need them. Women are not being screwed over by apps and have dating far easier than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:41 AM
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Then why don't you message him first with a question you'd like to be asked
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:35 AM
3

At the end of the day looks based hypergamy will still exist whether you have a swiping system or a search based one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:34 AM
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It's true of all ideologies in the business world. For an extreme example look at German rocket scientists
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:54 AM
5

Nobody reasonable thinks this stop being obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:51 AM
3

How is a basic greeting bad? Would you complain if someone's first greeting to you irl was "Hello, what brings you here?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:51 AM
1

Fuck off. Sincerely, Bantha PLC
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:49 AM
2

Sure, but the OPs question is why. Everyone agrees that they shouldn't be forced to do business a certain way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:46 AM
7

You will own nothing and be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:26 AM
1

Probably, I just don't care or engage in dating anymore full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:15 AM
1

Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:14 AM
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ADHD isn't fun and I'm more referring to autism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:25 PM
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Either that or they're obviously neurodivergent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:53 PM
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I don't know why but the idea of having a talking phase, or situationship, or FWB makes me want to run a hundred miles away
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:59 AM
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I'd rather chat if you don't mind as it's quite personal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:06 AM
1

Eh I'm at least self aware to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:25 PM
1

Yay me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:59 AM
1

Is it possible to be both narcissistic and have low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:42 AM
1

Seems like cope to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:24 PM
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How is it not betabuxxing, she wouldn't be with him if not for his money. Plenty of redpill men use money as a cope for lack of masculinity imo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:22 PM
1

So if he realises this but chooses to stay he's no longer a beta bux?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:27 PM
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You're describing a beta bux according to redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:25 AM
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But I've had sex with a woman and she said we didn't have chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:29 PM
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Can someone explain what chemistry is in this context and how to know if you have it with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:18 AM
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What actually is chemistry in this context and how do I know if I'm experiencing it? This isn't a trick question btw
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:17 AM
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You can totally see a woman as a sister rather than as a girlfriend or wife wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:16 AM
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No it's because most men are physically unappealing to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:34 AM
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I don't really know anything about him besides him being an NFL player, but he is conventionally handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:28 PM
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Generic male would make him Asian since most males are Chinese or Indian
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:27 PM
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If he's average then I'm hideous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:21 PM
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Plot twist the bear is of the human variety
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:29 PM
1

You're either being intentionally obtuse, are ESL, or are just an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:30 PM
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It's also because it's masculine coded and socially acceptable to admit to being horny, but not to admit to being lonely and craving love. Therefore many men only admit to being horny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:37 AM
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Wouldn't prostitution just reinforce their shallow and transactional view of relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:36 AM
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If you're on SSRIs, get off SSRIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:35 AM
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He's asking you this in order to illustrate how sexist and disingenuous your original position is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:34 AM
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Are you paying for the meat, fish and gym membership which enabled me to look good enough to get the date? What about my suit and haircut? I can't believe you're not trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:32 AM
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If you see the date as something you're doing for the other person rather than because you want to spend time with them, then you're obviously not attracted to them and just view them as a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:31 AM
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I'm tall and this isn't my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:08 PM
1

As a non American, the second amendment is amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:25 AM
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I have never watched porn or used OF, besides looking at porn out of curiosity when I was a teenager once
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:56 AM
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Modest means downplaying your achievements and abilities. I always strive to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:41 PM
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You're confusing modesty with manners
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:59 PM
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Are you slow? I was backing you up by saying that no matter what you said, the OP would have found fault with your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:35 PM
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It's not about thinking you deserve it, it's about preserving your dignity by walking away.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:31 PM
1

he has kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:29 PM
1

His brother is good looking but he's not that facially attractive, face trumps all usually
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:29 PM
1

Agree with TRT and possibly HGH, but where are you getting tren from
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:28 PM
1

Their father died in 2015
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:27 PM
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If you consent to PIV sex you consent to the possibility of pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:23 PM
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If you'd said your husband bought you a $5000 dress he'd probably have accused you of AFBB lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:21 PM
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That isn't poverty, it's just not being extravagant and materialistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:21 PM
2

Women are attracted to good looking men regardless of politics*
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:58 AM
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Because of what it implies: that she finds you less attractive than the previous partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:11 AM
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Nope not even close, read my other replies. And once again, this doesn't apply to me as I've never been in the position of dating/being close to dating a woman in the aforementioned position.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:23 PM
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The youtube clip you shared appears to be from a film. With actors. Who are pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:22 PM
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To be fair I would hate to be anything other than myself. I refuse to compromise on my goals and am confident, plus I don't like being stagnant or safe as it were. If I were naturally more of a "BB" I am sure I would be fine with it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:34 PM
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What does what mean
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:16 PM
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I wouldn't say I desire a relationship full stop at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:11 PM
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I have never had the problem my original comment described and don't even date. You also literally just described the AF/BB paradigm from TRP, and I would hate to be a beta
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:10 PM
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I have almost no emotional baggage from sexual/romantic relationships. I have emotional baggage from coming through mental health difficulties and self harm as a teenager, so I would match well with a woman with that same baggage as we could relate to and understand each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:42 PM
1

there's plenty of single mothers my age
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:58 PM
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What race and what height?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:57 PM
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I think the truth is the truth regardless of the age of the person saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:56 PM
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According to common sense. When it comes to analysing human behaviour it makes sense to look at things from an evolutionary perspective, since maternity is assured and paternity isn't in nature it makes sense women care less about previous partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:15 PM
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If you don't play CK2 you are missing out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:14 PM
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Emotional baggage from dating previous people is very different to that which arises from other things. Another commenter summed it up somewhere else in this thread in terms of why men viscerally tend to dislike it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:10 PM
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no u
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:47 PM
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Yes, men should also not be abusive. I'm doing my part by not abusing women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:28 PM
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No, more like "you let him treat you like shit because you were attracted to him. Therefore since you enforce different boundaries on me, you're probably not as attracted to me." The issue is the potential lack of physical/sexual attraction from them to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:20 PM
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Yes, it's a hypothetical. I've never been in that situation. A slight to one man is not a slight to all men...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:19 PM
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I never said it was a slight to men. The best outcome would be women not accepting abusive behaviour from any men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:10 PM
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I'm not going to engage with this leading question. It doesn't bother me, she is free to go her way and live her life. I do not want to date someone with significant emotional baggage because I don't have said baggage. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:52 PM
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I don't know why you're so mad that I personally don't want to date someone who carries lots of emotional baggage when I don't. We can simply shake hands and agree to not date in that situation, and may well end up being friends afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:50 PM
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Maybe if you're good at telling when people are subtly lying to you (or even themselves). I am not. I even failed to murder my imbecile liege on CK2 when I was Spymaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:41 PM
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Really just from observing what I see around me in life, media, etc. From snippets of conversations on public transport to deep conversations with friends, really thousands of bits of information. I'm not saying that's always the case, just that the paradigm I described is something not talked about that men should be aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:37 PM
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I am saying that if you don't believe affirmative action to be a good thing it won't be part of a business' ESG strategy. It's like saying because Hitler invaded Poland militaries are automatically bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:36 PM
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Of course I've made many decisions I regret, I'd just like my first experience of a LTR to be with someone else who isn't jaded by previous bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:29 PM
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No problem, hard to tell over the internet sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:28 PM
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What is your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:28 PM
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I'm not nice at all just a sperg and I have a visceral dislike for lying and performative behaviours (it's why I also do badly in platonic "high society" and in certain white collar job interviews). I've never been an emotional tampon or paid for a date or anything like that. This assertion from you is also classic red-pill, but even more extreme because even r/RedPillWomen accepts LHL relationships (where the woman is more dominant/the leader).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:25 PM
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I don't feel personally attacked at all, the bluepillers on here are apparently mad that I don't want to date a hypothetical woman, I.E. exactly what they accuse the men on here of doing in reverse. Seems like projection from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:22 PM
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This isn't vitriolic. It literally starts with "this could be construed as" then uses a relatively mild analogy. The only rude word in there is "shit", which describes a hypothetical ex partner's treatment of a woman. This entire thread you've strawmanned and tried to make out that I'm some deranged misogynist, whilst I've argued exclusively in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:21 PM
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You never asked me this. It's not personally attacking me at all and I have no idea where you got this from.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:20 PM
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That's why you use your mouth, ears and brain to learn about each other and whether you'd be compatible...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:19 PM
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The older generations fucked the West almost beyond repair, pulling the age card to get me to accept the wisdom of my elders won't work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:17 PM
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I'm not bitching about them at all. If a romantically inexperienced woman asked me whether she should date a guy with a crazy ex, I would tell her to find a similarly inexperienced man. I agree with your statement besides that. Insecurity to some extent is absolutely a healthy thing because if you are secure you are never going to grow. And the differences are explained by biology in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:14 PM
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I think she's talking about me not you, at least I'm the one she owes $10 xD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:13 PM
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It doesn't bother me in isolation. However, experience in my peer groups has taught me those women will very often leave the nice, safe, rebound guy they get with for another of the previous ones they said treated them badly because the "spark isn't there" (read they got with a safe option they weren't attracted to in the first place). Watch people do not what they say As someone who struggles to read people anyway it's mostly why I don't date anymore, there are too many minefields to navigate f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:09 PM
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Where is there vitriol? I haven't used insulting language or got angry anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:06 PM
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almost 21
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:06 PM
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I would suggest those women seek out men who have similarly been hurt emotionally as previously said
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:05 PM
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I'd rather not even get that emotionally entangled to begin with, I am fine with just not dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:43 PM
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You owe me $10 mrs seng
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:41 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:40 PM
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peepee poopoo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:40 PM
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No, I'm saying a rational adult accepting another adult treating them like shit emotionally (not referring to physical abuse where resisting it can risk your life) is a red flag and you should avoid dating these people even if they claim to have changed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:40 PM
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It would seem my sentiment is shared by lots of men on here due to the amount of upvotes the original comment has got. I've heard many men stating it as well. I think letting an attractive man walk all over you then expecting men without similar emotional baggage to accept that you're all OK now is peak female entitlement to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:31 PM
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I believe in a mixed economy rather than government funding private businesses as a general rule. Even then, ESG does not mean you are choosing workers outside their skills. It literally means considering the impact of your policies on the environment and wider society. Lastly, women have worked since world war 1, if men earned enough most mothers would choose to stay home or do limited WFH.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:30 PM
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Not really. I've never had a relationship full stop so I'm not going to date someone who's jaded and gone through that type of thing the same way I won't date a single mother. They would do better dating men with toxic exes who can relate to them and have gone through the same thing. Broadly I think people are happiest dating others with the same level of experience as them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:19 PM
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Why should I accept being held to a higher standard just because of someone else's character growth? They can do as they please but I am under no obligation to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:17 PM
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But there's no way of knowing whether she actually matured, and there are far too many examples of women lying about it then going back to their old ways, or just doing it because it's convenient. Before anyone interprets this post as shitting on women exclusively, men do the same thing. Look at how Russell Brand reinvented himself as a born again Christian wellness guru once he realised his original fans would disown him for his prior behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:15 PM
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I totally think businesses should consider all three aspects of ESG, I just come to radically different conclusions on how they should apply than modern feminists. The minimum wage should be enough that one man can work and his wife can stay home and raise the children without them being rich. I believe in strong borders and unions so that foreign workers don't undercut the natives, and so that cultures aren't destroyed. I believe big businesses should invest in the local community and train loc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:13 PM
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What does environmentalism have to do with modern gender politics? We 100% need to stop forests and rivers being poisoned by big corporations, otherwise I won't be able to take my sons out hunting/fishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:45 PM
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It's because punching down is easier than punching up most likely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:41 PM
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He also hates sand
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:41 PM
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Put yourselves in the shoes of a man dating one of those women you just mentioned. It can be construed as saying "I accepted being treated like shit and receiving no effort from a man I found attractive physically. Because you're not as attractive, you have to put the work in or I won't date you."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:39 PM
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Very few men get approached by women irl, he's ignorant of the facts because he's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:36 PM
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based and fatphobia pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:14 PM
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I assume she's talking about clitoral stimulation being required for orgasms which is true for many women and has always been true (hence we have historical records of women liking oral for thousands of years)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:04 PM
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Pro tip, if a man knows you do jiu jitsu and asks you to triangle him agree to it then slap on a triangle armbar and break it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:00 PM
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Interesting papers. My only criticism is that DT studies tend to be self reported and there's no real objective mechanism for someone to assess them in an unbiased fashion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:23 PM
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Right, and where is the study showing women as a whole are attracted to dark triad personality traits? This just links antifeminism to DT traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:48 PM
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The person I was replying to is blue pilled and feminist based on their other comments, from context it appeared obvious it was a misunderstanding. Could you link that paper?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:15 PM
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no lol but somebody else thought this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:53 PM
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You seem to be unable to let this go... The idea that using the second person in a reply isn't a direct statement to the OP is absurd. I'm not sure why you're so upset about this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:57 PM
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You said I was either unattractive or naive and delusional, which is on a par with illiterate. If you didn't me specifically then I accept that and let's move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:48 PM
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based but your original reply is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:41 PM
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You are obviously illiterate, I encourage you to read the first three words of my comment: "the argument runs." I do not believe in the argument and also the most toxic men I have met tend to be less physically dominant/capable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:40 PM
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The argument runs that if women as a whole do that, non-toxic committed men don't get to experience love and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:31 PM
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Please explain your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:30 PM
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I've never even been on that subreddit besides to read the sidebar once. Obviously those things are terrible if they did happen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:29 PM
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I've seen many comments I disagree with, but never a man saying a woman should be glad to be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:25 PM
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Fighting is extremely fun tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:25 PM
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phew just scraped in
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:24 PM
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Lol I asked what makes him fuckable not unfuckable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:24 PM
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I haven't seen any examples of what you said, and it would be deleted by the mods for breaking sitewide rules
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:23 PM
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How many women here have you actually seen saying they want 6/6/6 or even a dominant man? You could argue that they secretly want that but claiming they do is just fallacious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:10 PM
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That interaction you described has nothing to do with redpill. One of the biggest problems with these spaces is normies conflate incel/blackpill and redpill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:08 PM
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What makes a man fuckable in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:06 PM
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The amount of intelligent people I have seen get into abusive relationships is genuinely staggering. It's just more often noticeable for straight women because they get physically assaulted. However, I've known lots of men who rationalise the abusive behaviour of their wives/girlfriends because they're attractive. It's just they're less likely to wind up hospitalised or dead so it gets swept under the rug.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:05 PM
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No, and it also has no kernel of truth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:03 PM
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The implication is they're accountable for what they desire
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:56 PM
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It's impossible really because men who don't get picked really want to be more attractive to women. Forcing women to pick men they're not attracted to because of neurology probably won't help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:56 PM
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Hilarious that he literally wrote an album called "The Wall"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:29 PM
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Humility 100% has a place. Most women would rather date someone who is polite to service workers than rude, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:42 AM
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He begs for money from his followers because they pay him and he's happy to exploit them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:41 AM
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They are gathering wood for the fires of neighbours of course
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:45 PM
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There isn't one, he just wanted to tell everyone that he got laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:23 PM
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Fr*nch try not to be condescending challenge (impossible)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:33 PM
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Donald Trump has slim to no impulse control
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:28 PM
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OK so two things here. There first paragraph may well be true, but is has nothing to do with narcissism. It's like saying your ex was both the fastest 100 metre sprinter you ever met and enjoyed eating radishes. Probably both true, but unrelated. Secondly, that is totally untrue. I don't have children but when I do I highly doubt I will treat my wife like this. Children are an extension of ourselves so I would never resent any attention being on them. Narcissism/DT traits don't make you inherent…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:36 AM
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This has nothing to do with narcissism though. I'm saying his behaviour is not to do with narcissism. I'm a narcissist and I hate manipulating people as I on an emotional level feel like they do/should love me regardless of what I do, so I'm myself all the time. It sounds like you were sheltered and a devout follower of an Christianity who got played by an abusive man. Very common because abusers prey on the weak
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:40 AM
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I guarantee the signs were obvious from the beginning, they almost always are. Also, narcissism doesn't make you a good actor at all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:07 AM
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The only thing worse than liars is indeed skimmed milk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:05 AM
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Once again, women being terrible at selecting partners
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:05 AM
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I don't know why you're so irritated, I'm just curious about your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:00 AM
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You don't discuss body count/sexual morality and preferences early on in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:03 PM
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Honestly I would just get the ick from someone who has FWBs. As a romantic partner anyway: I have friends of both genders who engage in this behaviour so I have no problem with it morally. Even if I had no issue with casual sex, the idea that my date would fuck another guy for fun but made me wait would just be a huge insult/turnoff on an emotional level. I was curious if it had come up before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:52 PM
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Hello, we were talking on another post but it was locked. To answer your question about relevance: you said that you have a FWB but you make men wait to have sex after dates. Speaking personally, I would instantly block someone who did that as I would consider it deeply insulting. I would assume many other men feel the same way. I don't say this to attack you, I'm just curious if you've ever thought of it from the male perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:20 PM
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Two questions: Are you worried that future partners will reject you for having sex with your ex even when you're not together anymore? And is he (I assume your ex is male) seeing other people besides yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:39 AM
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Could the more attractive men just be better manipulators than the ugly ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:28 AM
1

I am extremely confident but I have no real social skills. Bad would the wrong way to describe it, more "extremely eccentric/autistic"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:36 PM
2

Yes I'm 6 foot 4, and no height doesn't rule all. I'm also average facially and in above average physical shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:28 PM
2

Took up too much mental energy and in about 18 months I didn't get beyond first date/ONS on one occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:14 PM
1

Waste of money, just hang them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:07 PM
2

That's quite insightful. I suppose it does bring out your true colours more than just making you worse
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:57 PM
1

even if it doesn't reduce the rate substantially, letting rapists and pedophiles live is a sign of an uncivilised society
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:56 PM
1

Dating brings out the worst in people, stopping it is very freeing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:52 PM
2

bring back the death penalty and use it more
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:46 PM
1

I was saying that most men don't respect the women they're having casual sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:45 PM
-4

I think blaming women for getting raped is bad... is that particularly controversial?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:41 PM
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I personally hate social cues where they're used rather than open communication, so it may just be a me thing. Also, I thought bluepillers were all about starting out as friends and meeting partners in the workplace/irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:35 PM
-4

I'm just going off what women in my family/circle of friends would always say, I've not seen a study on it and am open to being proved wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:34 PM
1

No and I stopped dating altogether recently
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:32 PM
1

English is my first language, and I write poetry in English regularly. Your problem is that you don't realise you're telling on yourself. The young woman in the OP's scenario puts up with the exact same treatment from the attractive man she's sleeping with (basic, one line messages; him having multiple partners; no emotional connection) because he's attractive. This behaviour is so natural that you don't even question it apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:31 PM
2

I've only ever experienced the first one maybe 10 times. The others never.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:26 PM
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What do you mean "why are some men like this"? He found you attractive and signalled this in a perfectly appropriate and friendly manner, then stopped pursuing you when you used childish nonsense to show him you're not into him (rather than acting your age and saying "Hey Bob, sorry but I'm not attracted to you.")
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:23 PM
0

You think most men women are having casual sex with respect them? Self-respect doesn't exist in dating, everyone has a price and a bottom line
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:19 PM
-7

I've always heard from women that if you go out wearing revealing clothes you rae more likely to get catcalled/SA'd
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:17 PM
-3

I think that statistically predators are more likely to sexually assault women wearing revealing clothes. This doesn't mean I think it's a good thing or that the victims are at fault. That would be like claiming that thinking black people are more likely to be killed by police is evidence you hate black people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:54 PM
1

What does a romantic connection actually look/feel like
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:48 PM
4

That would require abundance of options or not caring about getting a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:37 AM
1

Possibly, or the children want to be with their mother, or they believe it's best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:26 AM
1

You have me confused for someone else. I never claimed that fathers have a hard time seeking full custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:01 AM
1

Yes I still want children, unsure if I'll end up having them though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:42 AM
3

I don't care what clothes women wear. Suits, dresses, skirts- it has zero factor to my attraction to them. An attractive woman is attractive in any clothing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:39 PM
1

I'm right-wing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:34 PM
7

Personally I really don't care about any of those things as a man. Clothes are not inherently masc or fem, as for being stoic I don't get on with people who never show emotion in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:30 PM
4

I honestly don't care if a woman has a masculine personality, if anything that's the type I go for. I don't get along well even as friends with traditionally feminine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:29 PM
1

I would be confident the post is either fetish content and/or ragebait. Probably the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:14 PM
0

It's funny that you arguably just described AF/BB without realising it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:24 PM
7

This is false, the woman who coined the term was a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:15 PM
-3

Some standards are objectively superficial because they are based on looks alone and not actual praxis whilst others are not. For instance, wanting a tall man is a superficial standard as it isn't relevant to being protective but wanting a man who can physically fight is not a superficial standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:59 PM
6

no it doesnt, im way taller than that guy and didn't do great on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:48 PM
1

I really don't have an opinion on it as I've never looked at it closely, I just thought it was funny you accidentally linked a post on pomegranate molasses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:07 PM
2

Yes, and average looking men generally do fine in terms of getting partners
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:01 PM
9

If someone makes me food that's 15 minutes of boring meal prep I now don't have to do, what's the problem here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:12 AM
6

I think practically every piece of mass media is instructive as to how society and its values are structrured, even in a more esoteric way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:25 AM
1

im off it for a while lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:47 AM
2

Yes, hence why I was telling OP it was a poor analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:46 AM
-1

In this scenario it would be your family providing for him, not you. You providing for him would be you being a businesswoman or high flyer, not coming from inherited wealth. Money doesn't exist in nature so can't be a sexually dimorphic trait, especially in "civilised" societies where weak people horde wealth through trickery and divide-and-conquer tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:07 AM
1

It isn't like that at all because the obese woman could get to a healthy weight then be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:01 AM
1

I'd recommend that to other people, personally it doesn't interest me anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:26 PM
1

An example would be, a random clip from some dating show popped up on my YT feed the other day. I watched it, and the participants were talking about "vibes". I have no idea what vibes feel like or how to pick up on them, and when it comes to romance I can't tell when women are into men. Generally if I like them and they're single I used to just assume they are and hit on them regardless, which contrary to the crazy people here doesn't get you arrested (just turned down politely.) No longer dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:21 PM
4

It's more ability to read people. I am confident to the point of appearing crazy in certain contexts as I don't really have a developed fear response in any way. I actually do well in terms of being superficially extroverted in all social contexts, public speaking, foreign countries etc. IQ also doesn't have much to do with it. Humour is also possible, people often say I'm funny and my jokes tend to get laughs. It's just there's a whole spectrum of human interactions/emotion I have no way of per…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:05 PM
11

most of the men talking here are neurodivergent. Looks don't matter that much but genetics in a broad sense 100% do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:32 PM
4

You appear to have linked a recipe blog from 2009...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:15 PM
12

everyone knows that, babies are made by holding hands
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:13 PM
1

I don't think that's a fair judgement. I could go plant based (and did at one point) and still be the same irritating bastard
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:58 PM
1

He either did it wrong or had a genetic mutation then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:57 PM
1

polygyny just means one man having multiple wives. If the wife cannot divorce that has nothing to do with the relationship being polygamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:35 PM
1

Paul Saladino isn't a pure carnivore, he consumes a large amount of fruit. I do as well and also eat a limited amount of non-seed vegetables.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:10 PM
5

Plants 100% release defense chemicals when attacked, besides the fruit portion they don't want to be eaten. Some animals who are incapacitated or have nerve damage can't feel pain, so the ability to feel pain is a silly argument to be vegetarian. There are also a huge amount of dairy farms which adhere to Vedic principles and don't harm cows, so there's no reason not to eat dairy. Bloodwork will look like that if you don't overeat and you exercise regularly. The only risk from eating a meat base…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:39 PM
1

Plants die for you to live. The only way to attain power is to take it from something or someone else, because there is a finite amount of energy in the universe. Many vegan products are also estrogenic which is obviously far less bad for women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:10 PM
4

Yes people can have multiple interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:57 PM
-4

I recommend you view Dr Paul Saladino's content on YouTube or check out r/carnivore. If you are not eating ultraprocessed foods and you are not eating in a caloric surplus it is clinically impossible to raise Serum LDL levels on a natural meat-based diet. The food pyramid is not based in actual science.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:56 PM
4

What do you expect me to say? Congratulations?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:44 PM
10

I'm not that attracted to feminine personalities. Although they can be physically attractive and that's totally separate, "girly girls" have never really done anything for me. Specifically, women who are easily frightened, dislike the outdoors/nature/messes, women who are into pink/"cute" stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:23 PM
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Both men and women should eat a diet rich in animal products to attain optimal health: especially pregnant women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:38 PM
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10 first dates a year is a large amount
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:33 PM
2

man-sharing is polygamy except the woman has fewer legal protections
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:27 PM
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Your first paragraph describes autistic men, and the second entitled autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:51 PM
1

I never said you don't understand loneliness per se, I said you clearly can't empathise with what these men are going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:51 AM
1

Women have some things harder than men. Men have some things harder than women. The issue isn't you claiming that as a woman you have your own mental struggles that I as a man don't understand- I'm fine with accepting this and agree. The issue is you denigrating the struggles of men as unimportant or lesser than your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:18 PM
1

Most men would probably just think "doesn't matter, had sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:13 PM
2

Serious question because I'm curious: do black people commonly refer to each other as brothers and sisters in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:10 PM
1

That isn't generally how men work. Even as a man who doesn't partake in ONS, I'm just indifferent to them rather than disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:09 PM
1

I've heard a lot that women like long hair and I shave my head
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:58 PM
1

Right, and many men can't get even a one night stand. You're moving the goalposts again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:03 PM
1

Unless you are severely deformed, what I said holds true. The only way for you to test would be to make a tinder account and see, but obviously you're in a relationship so this will have to remain a hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:42 PM
1

Nobody is saying women do not get rejected. However, it's an objective fact that unless you are in the bottom 0.1% of women in terms of looks you could make a tinder profile and have dozens of matches within the hour. A man of commensurate SMV could not. Therefore, in the same way I have no idea of the struggles of childbirth or menstruation, this is a struggle you have no lived experience of.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:52 PM
1

Det Som En Gang Var
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:44 PM
1

Just look at the IQ tests from the Nuremberg trials. I'm sure if they'd ran them on the British/American cabinets or the Soviet Politburo the results would've been the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:00 PM
1

As I said above, there is no political or religious ideology that has become in any way globally mainstream which hasn't been responsible in some form for mass murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:57 PM
2

Name one ideology that has been widely dispersed amongst human beings (as in millions of people exposed to/adhering to it in some form) which has not been responsible for massacres.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:57 PM
1

Being in a loving romantic relationship to non-asexuals is orders of magnitude more important to one's mental health than having the right to vote. Most men didn't have the right to vote in Europe until around World War 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:49 PM
1

Yes, and he's saying that because you're a woman that would never be a reality for you. It's like someone born into a trust fund saying they went through a phase of not getting pocket money but didn't grow up to complain on the internet about being poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:48 PM
1

Actually a quote from Michael Meade afaik
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:46 PM
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Nobody is denying the need for physical resilience, I've been doing combat sports for years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:09 PM
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I have female friends and it's a completely different dynamic to romance, what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:54 PM
3

from my understanding he didn't have desirable AF traits in his youth but had BB traits, so when he was older women potentially settled down with him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:42 AM
5

It fixes it if your issue is looks, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:40 PM
3

Tyson Fury has been on global television talking about his mental health struggles. Is he a fragile little pussy in your world?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:25 PM
1

This is me except I don't really have high standards beyond not being very overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:24 PM
6

been like 56 weeks for me, i will accept a new coffee maker but i'd prefer a nice cast iron pan xD
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:22 PM
4

How long are we talking and what prizes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:53 PM
1

Obviously I don't know you at all but what you described would imply AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:52 PM
6

As in you have no hands or just one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:51 PM
3

I'm just genuinely curious really
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:50 PM
6

These kinds of attitudes get people killed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:47 PM
3

Were the girlfriends you found equally inexperienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:44 PM
5

You think this is going to be a good one?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:43 PM
9

Are you trolling? Having people to vent to when you're feeling low would have saved the lives of a few people I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:43 PM
4

Did his advice help you as far as you can tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:39 PM
1

If it ever got to this stage you could just, as the hip youngsters say, "eat the rich"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:35 PM
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Whilst the facetious answer to this post would be that human beings are not birds and our hormones do not work in remotely the same way, I would be interested in seeing a study on the effects of loneliness and low social status on testosterone levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:34 PM
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As a 6'4 man, women do not consider us a god. This is delusional insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:15 PM
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There is more money in plant based food than there is animal based globally. Meat is also not harmful to health.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:28 AM
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I'm not female, you're just annoyed that your argument doesn't wash. The majority of Y-chromosome bottlenecks (like the one that happened in England around 410 CE) happens when invading men killed or chased away (or enslaved) native men they'd colonised then took the women as slaves and impregnated them. Which is nothing to do with hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:04 PM
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Feminism can just mean legal equality between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:43 PM
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Once you filter out young men killed in battle and the fact that boys are more likely to die as children than girls, the majority of men have always reproduced.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:42 PM
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Most men who live past puberty have always reproduced. Your claim is without evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:10 PM
-1

The probable cause here is subeightitis-induced pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:01 PM
26

The "if she really liked you she wouldn't care" trope is true, claiming otherwise is just cope from people who've never experienced genuine female attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:43 PM
1

Slightly separate from my main point, there are two issues with this article. Firstly it doesn't describe a hunter-gatherer population, it describes Early European Farmers attacking and butchering settlements of hunter-gatherers. Which is proof of what I was saying: hunter gatherers were less violent and were generally beaten by more violent agricultural societies. Secondly, it was an external attack. In the context of resisting tribal invaders, "greater beta" traits like honour, self sacrifice,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:21 PM
2

The main cause of the end of hunter-gatherer societies was agriculture. These massacres did happen but compare them to the 20th and 21st century wars of conquest with millions feeding the meat grinders and you realise things were actually more peaceful then. Practically every British/American of a certain age will know somebody who was mentally or physically scarred by the post 9-11 wars, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:16 PM
1

Pretty much read any anthropological study. Violence did occur but when you compare it to the wars of the present day it would have been lower per capita.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:06 AM
1

Potentially or potentially not depending on social class. If you take the world entire, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:04 PM
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Violent competition for women does not exist intra-group in hunter gatherer tribes and there is no evidence that it does any more than an industrial society. Threat from foreign invaders was actually less per capita than up to and including the Industrial Revolution if we include wars of aggression. Lastly there are very, very few wild animals that will attack human settlements unprovoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:58 PM
1

Every study of the ancient hunter-gatherer societies that have changed the least since our beginnings as a species (like the Khoisan people) shows that they are built upon mutual cooperation and trust. This is because members of the group tend to be biologically related.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:29 PM
3

Traditionally, biologically, men compete by physically threatening or overpowering one another. Most hunter-gatherer societies are less violent than modern ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:15 PM
-1

You're not entitled to anything as a man besides what you can earn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:46 PM
4

Are you a socialist?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:45 PM
1

No because I have weirdly high self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:43 AM
3

It's generally a social class thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:10 PM
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Literally, the middle eastern guys I get on well with would say something like "fuck off you're not having my oil"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:10 PM
3

It is surprising to me how many times I've heard "he listens to what I say and responds" as one of the major reasons some of my female friends say that they like their partner. Yeah, it's also socially acceptable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:09 PM
5

Hi sprout
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:07 PM
5

Furthermore, I read the study you linked and 48% of men who took a paternity test because they were concerned they may not be the father were in fact not the father. False paternity is consistently estimated as being 1% by all the studies linked on your site. The figures of 12% and 11% earlier on included men raising children who aren't there's biologically intentionally (stepfathers).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:06 PM
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I don't but I've seen others do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:03 PM
5

Only if you are a complete and utter moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:23 PM
12

Logically this makes no sense. If a woman cheats once per month with another man her main partner is still far more likely to be the father of her child because there's only going to be a 10% chance of pregnancy even at peak ovulation. 50% false paternity is one of the dumbest claims I have ever heard on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:49 PM
6

50% of hookup app users being in a relationship does not mean 50% of actual cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:47 PM
2

I offer an escrow service for the bargain price of $20 per month. Reduced to 15 if you refer a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:46 PM
8

I'm not old enough to even begin to remember pre-Internet, but the watershed moment for me was Covid. Many things have not gone back to being the same since.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:46 PM
1

AF/BB
/r/RedPillWives29/03/24 11:04 PM
1

Go not gently into that good night: rage, rage, against the dying the light.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:16 PM
2

My argument is pretty simple: there is no such thing as "male sexuality" and "female sexuality" and there is no scientific evidence they occur through separate processes. There is also zero proof that libido cannot be taken care of through masturbation: it's the need for companionship and affirmation that sexual intercourse takes care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:51 PM
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Your writing style didn't go over my head, you're just an insufferable tool spouting random psychobabble about "male sexuality" and "female sexuality" without any actual science behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:33 PM
4

If you're horny, masturbate. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:57 AM
5

The Wall ultimately refers to a biological reality. Men are attracted to both beauty and neoteny (youthful lookingness) in women. Speaking personally I don't find it particularly attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:49 AM
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