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In my experience worrying about the awkwardness makes it worse. Just talk to her, communicate. Don't worry if it's awkward or not.
/r/seduction03/07/21 03:56 PM
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1 date per month means 12 dates a year. Of 12 women who agreed to go on a date with you, chances are at least one is gonna be interested. Remember that women want relationships too. You are the prize as much as she is.
/r/seduction21/06/21 07:04 PM
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I know this is just meant to be a sarcastic response, but you're really looking at the surface. Look a little bit deeper. Traits like being responsible, caring, family-oriented, traditional are what you're looking for. I don't think you need to be domineering, but you do need to show you are secure/responsible. Honestly it's not that hard to find yourself a reasonably attractive conservative housewife provided you're a reasonably attractive dependable guy with a steady job.
/r/seduction27/05/21 04:35 PM
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I strongly disagree with this sentiment. You can be funny and people still won't want to sleep with you. I know from personal experience. Being funny to make women like you/want to sleep with you is the same thing as as being nice to make women like you/want to sleep with you. Both are about changing your behavior in order to get attention/sex. That's neediness for you. Nothing wrong with being funny just as there is nothing wrong with being nice, they both help but lacking them isn't the root c…
/r/seduction06/01/21 04:49 AM
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you shouldn’t pursue women since they don’t like guys that aren’t a challenge, Definitely not universally true. Plenty of women don't have the time or energy for games like that. Usually the ones that want a challenge aren't gonna last long in a committed relationship if that's what you're after. it’s a turnoff if she knows you like her It's okay if she knows you like her (though it usually helps when there is an element of doubt in there). It's a turnoff if she feels like you need her. I’ve als…
/r/seduction30/10/20 10:11 PM
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You're equally in a position to judge. You decided to talk to her; that's a judgement. You decided to ask for her number; that's a judgement. You don't have to approach every woman and you don't need to get every woman's number and you don't need to call every number you get. The power is in your hands. Try approaching women without any intentions. Just practice talking to random people. Even people you're not attracted to. Exposure therapy is what this is called. Get used to talking to stranger…
/r/seduction27/10/20 09:51 PM
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That's why I recommend the self-assessment. I can't make a proper diagnosis, but you are displaying many of the symptoms of depression right now. There is no shame in having depression. It is medical condition. If you came to me with a broken leg, complaining about not being able to walk, I would tell you the same thing, get it looked at by a professional.
/r/seduction27/10/20 12:12 AM
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Depression is a medical problem. I suggest seeking medical help. Here is a link to a self-assessment tool for depression. https://www.healthlinkbc.ca/health-topics/tx4369#tx4371
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:58 PM
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As someone who works in customer service, I know that the way I see my customers is very different from how I see pretty much anyone else. They're not really real people. Sure you might be able to break that barrier, but it isn't easy. Way easier to just ask some random friendly stranger off the street, in a bar, etc. Being able to read people takes a lot of practice and patience.
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:21 PM
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Don't hit on women while they're working. If they show clear interest, sure, go for it, but most people don't want to date their customer. You're putting her in an uncomfortable position because as her customer she has to be nice to you, which makes it hard for her to reject you. I work in customer service and guys come in to hit on women working there and honestly it's never appreciated.
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:01 PM
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Not quitting social media even though you know it will be good for you because you're worried people judge you doesn't sound like a healthy or productive attitude. Yeah most girls have instagram but its not like they all have over a thousand followers. I always get peoples facebook or whatsapp and few have asked for insta or snap and no one cares. And honestly if people are that superficial that they are gonna judge you for you lack of presence online, do you want to spend time with them? They d…
/r/seduction19/10/20 08:32 PM
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I ended up calling it quits and going back to my table. Honestly sounds like you should've done that sooner. Doesn't sound like you or the girls were enjoying the interaction. No point in forcing it when it isn't working out. You should look up mirroring. It's one of the most important social skills out there, not just when you're hitting on women. Right now you're doing the opposite of that by overthinking it and ending up stuck in your head.
/r/seduction18/10/20 06:27 PM
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Being resentful about gender dynamics won't get you anywhere. This board is for people who actually want to improve their lives, if you just want to moan go elsewhere.
/r/seduction18/10/20 12:25 AM
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You have to be extremely attractive, confident and fun, to make them make the first move That's a bit of an exaggeration. I'm pretty good looking, but I wouldn't say I'm anywhere close to being extremely confident and fun, and I definitely get women initiating. I think the trick (at least for me) is spending time with bored women who like to flirt and aren't shy about it. A fit body and good taste in dressing are the first step. Add a good haircut to that. Though I will say that you definitely d…
/r/seduction18/10/20 12:23 AM
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Seduction isn't a replacement for good mental health. Start with a doctor or therapist, and when you're in the right headspace, come back.
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:22 PM
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I recommend speaking to a doctor about it. Anxiety and depression are medical conditions that can cause low sex drive. Similarly a doctor can help you to figure out if something else is going on. They might be able to just prescribe something for testosterone if that's the issue.
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:06 PM
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Now I am lost, depressed and thinking of multiple plastic surgeries to fix my face..... I suggest seeking professional help for depression.
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:48 AM
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Hmm ... not exactly sure what it is but you might need to work on your social skills a bit.
/r/seduction10/10/20 05:41 PM
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Looking at your profile: You're reasonably good looking. I don't think that's the issue. Your photos are okay, but not great. I'm not a photography expert in any way though. No offense but it might be a bit of a turnoff to be identifying as a Christian from the get go. Christianity isn't exactly sexy and most people on tinder are looking for something sexy. Maybe more variety in your pictures? They're all outdoorsy. Nothing wrong with showing off your hobbies, but if you have other things going …
/r/seduction10/10/20 05:40 PM
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Don't hit on women while they're working dude
/r/seduction09/10/20 10:52 PM
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Maybe you don't look great, maybe you have a major deficit in your social skills, maybe something else is going on, but I wouldn't say you're really on the right track. I think it might be a good idea to figure out what's going wrong and addressing that before continuing. Five years and literally zero interest isn't normal. I stalked your profile a little bit and noticed that you said you were having difficulty making friends with women which is even more concerning. I suggest posting your onlin…
/r/seduction09/10/20 10:17 PM
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