bareblar02 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Long distance hookup, looking for advice		bareblar02	/r/seduction	21/06/12 06:40 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	I went out, hooked up with a nice lady, got a number and exchanged a few messages on the way home. Now what do i do? You didn't do anything wrong and she reacted well but here are the red flags I see: You claim you hooked up but based on your texts it sounds like you talked a bit and got her number without escalating sexually as indicated by "I forgot your name, bad FRIEND x" You carried on the conversation and brought it to a close unintentionally because you forced her to continue which judging by her lack of response she had no interest in doing. You aren't in a bad spot yet, you just need to follow up and …	/r/seduction	25/06/12 05:19 PM
6	Out of curiosity: Once you guys become successful with pickup, did you apply it to your female friends you have known since before finding the seduction community? It's not a method to apply, it is a change in your lifestyle. The things you learn on seddit make you a more confident person so to say you don't use any of that on your friends would be completely wrong.	/r/seduction	20/06/12 08:26 PM
1	Going to a party where i know nobody. Need advice. I went to a party last night a friend hit me up about who ended up bailing, I didn't know anyone there except for one guy and I used to hate his guts, could have been a pretty bad night. Instead, I just kept it cool and chatted it up as though I were among best friends and ended up f closing the host of the party who I'd also never met. Don't psych yourself out broski, you are the boss in your life and you need to act like it.	/r/seduction	20/06/12 03:37 AM
2	[FR] Improv You're thinking into your behavior too much and that likely comes off in your behavior. You need to understand and use the principles herein as a guideline and not as much as a rigid set of steps to follow. Ultimately, do what feels right based on the situation.	/r/seduction	16/06/12 08:42 PM
2	So, did I just lose? Or still a way to save this? She seems like a bit of a headcase the way she's behaving, I'd forget it and move on to someone who isn't likely insane. Alternatively maybe she lost her phone or something, the fb deactivation I don't know about though. Don't worry though, you didn't do anything I'd say was wrong so that's good at least.	/r/seduction	16/06/12 08:27 PM
11	Does anyone dislike making friends with guys that are 'better' than you? You are the sum of your group of friends, if you associate with wimps you too will be a wimp. Having charismatic friends means having a group of people to learn from and they'd be the best ones to wingman for you because if they are successful themselves with women then they won't ruin your chances with awkward advances and the like that another less charismatic friend might. Good luck and don't be afraid to ask for advice as you move forward. The advice given here is generally close enough to t…	/r/seduction	16/06/12 04:29 PM
1	Studied Seddit for 4 weeks; Need Analysis on What Happened. No offense man but you absolutely blew it, you did everything pretty much right and then you decided "actually, I don't like being successful" and you did the following: Escalated the situation in a way that was shocking to her and awkward for both of you. Next, you pretty much cried and said can we still be friends? So in one fell swoop you ruined the mood of the evening and basically friendzoned yourself. You blew it, I'm really sorry to say that you have almost no chance of recovery. My hones…	/r/seduction	16/06/12 04:19 PM
1	Looking for date movie help I laughed so hard at this post, you were RUBBING FACES? I don't mean to be rude but even a blind man could see you were both in that awkward "I'm too scared to go for it" phase, just go for it, she's obviously interested, if you see an opportunity TAKE IT. I literally just signed up for reddit just to respond to your failure (no offense haha) but the bright side is that you are still in by the sound of it unlike some of the bumbling idiots on here who ruin any semblance of a chance for themselve…	/r/seduction	16/06/12 03:54 PM