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A) Age gap relationships The media opened heavy fire on Leonardo Dicaprio's most recent girlfriend being a 19 year old girl. While I don't find this appropriate, I could not help but notice that hardly anyone gave a lick of attention towards the age difference with Hiba Abouk and Achraf Hakim or with Olivia Wild and Harry styles, more examples. The age differences in their relationships in less than that of Decaprio's but it stands as a fact that the general media is only concered with age gaps …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:46 PM
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Best other option for you maybe, but it's not ethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:54 AM
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That still doesn't excuse cheating. If you can't handle dating someone who has slept with a lot more people than you have, then don't get into a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:53 AM
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It's not contradictory at all. Having the freedom of self expression (i.e. "uglifying yourself") does not mean that people should also have the freedom to betray a monogamous relationship. You're taking a bizarre all or nothing approach to this. Right? Like if you're no longer attracted to your partner then break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:49 AM
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But women are now getting involved in my sport. I have always thought that I am pretty safe because I dont live in a woke western country but it has come here as well. 🙄🙄 Hot air ballooning was already ruined by women in woke countries 🙄🙄🤣 As someone who does pole dancing with mostly other women, men are more than welcome to join the studio as long as they're 16+
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:09 AM
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As for your second point, yes, I agree they should have friends of all genders we have now, but hanging out with other guys and learning how to be men from other men is very very important. That is true, my girl friends are very important for me as well and I think a lot of gals would agree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:14 PM
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Women will not make you happy and you should not make them your sole source of happiness Is this actually a common belief amongst men about relationships I encourage men to look at women as icing on the cake. The thing that makes life extra sweet. But the thing is, there still needs to be a cake for it to have icing on top. And that cake is what men should be focusing on. This means their friendships with other men, their purpose in life, their careers. Women should be like a fine dining restaur…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:03 PM
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b) I seriously doubt that my view is that rare amongst women OP pulled the 99% stat out of their ass but I get why some women don't see the better access as an inherent privilege if they don't want casual sex. The better access to casual sex often manifests as men hitting on them when they're at the gym, buying groceries, going for a walk in the evening etc. Plus some women think 'what use is this better access to casual sex when the quality is so poor' (e.g. the gender orgasm gap). So while wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:06 PM
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Women complain that sluts are shamed, but sluts are, by women's definition, are doing something dangerous and kind of icky. For the love of christ, stop referring to women as 'sluts'. It's a sexist term. Women that like casual sex aren't sluts, but they do get slut shamed. This happens because society is sexist. But it does mean it's this risky, dirty thing that has negative feelings associated with it. Just because there are risks associated with casual sex, doesn't mean there aren't good aspec…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:52 PM
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Stop using the term 'sluts'.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:35 PM
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enjoy being stalked, soft raped, manipulated, and being used as a flesh light But they don't??? Having casual sex has the increased risk of rape, SA, and stalking attached to it, but that doesn't mean casual sex itself is rape, manipulation, or stalking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:33 PM
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Isn't it shameful or at least weird for a man to let himself be used like a human dildo? But to answer your question, women aren't a monolith. The ones who are having casual sex don't view their easier access to casual sex as a negative, they probably see it as a positive. "Having the ability to be used as a human fleshlight is not a privilege" I've never heard a woman say this. I've heard women say that getting frequent unwanted attention from men when they're going to the gym, buying the groce…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:15 PM
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I don't disagree, I also don't see a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:11 PM
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everyone deserves love/sex/attention Imo no one deserves sex or a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:30 PM
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Only clicked your first link, but that guy on the ama thankfully got downvoted loads
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:36 AM
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I hope
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:04 PM
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Wdym? Are you saying it's justified when men go "but what about men?" but not when women do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:41 PM
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Not really. They were saying "it's because women are narcissists", but there must be a different explanation if men are doing it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:13 PM
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You may not be able to completely eradicate it, but you can reduce it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:11 PM
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I was explaining how you were incorrect. What your saying is true to both genders, but with regard to killing over cheating men do it to women more often than the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:34 PM
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Yes she said that, she didn't say "women kill and beat all men for cheating on them"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:23 PM
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She doesn't have her info wrong, she didn't say all men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:06 PM
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I do think it's easier for women to find relationships with men than vice-versa, but there's not really anything that can be done. I also don't think being in multiple abusive relationships is more "privileged" than having no relationships at all. They're both equally shitty imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:37 PM
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I Heard bisexual women say that its so much easier dating men than women. What a surprise Really? I literally hear the opposite all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:00 AM
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I think it goes for both genders. What men think are attractive men =/= what women think are attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:01 PM
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I would also reccomend people not call women 'females' lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:51 PM
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Of course they can lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:34 AM
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I can agree that men are dangerous, but if you keep putting yourself in danger while you keep talking about how dangerous it is a little hard to feel bad for you. So I guess women shouldn't use dating apps at all then 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:22 AM
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It's fine to have these boundaries as long as you respect that women also have boundaries like not wanting their partner to watch porn and you don't call them insecure for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:20 AM
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that's different to the song's message being "women you don't need a man". Also, the hetero women will probably interpret it as being about an ex which the lyrics clearly imply (although they never imply it being about a man) and I wanna add that quite a few of her heterosexual female fans will be open minded enough not to assume the song is about a boyfriend. Plus there is nothing problematic about the message 'you don't need a partner/boyfriend/girlfriend to be happy' in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:21 AM
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Just because you interpret it to be about a man doesn't mean that it is. The language is gender neutral throughout the song, it could be about either an ex girlfriend or an ex boyfriend (Miley Cyrus is bisexual), you're just assuming it's about men. I forgive every word you said Ooh, I didn't wanna leave you It's pretty clear the song is specifically about not needing an ex, but tbh if it was about not needing a partner to be happy in life then that's a good message too. Edit: And one must also …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:06 AM
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Are you talking about the song flowers? Because I just read the lyrics and no where does it mention not needing a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:43 AM
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They can be worth the effort, but you also don't need a romantic relationship to be happy. I mean there is the aspect of punching up vs punching down, but I personally wouldn't mind songs about how guys don't need girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:41 AM
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Personally do not find him attractive but I would say he's conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:35 AM
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I mean we don't need a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:33 AM
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Yes, but we're not living in this hypothetical world where sex work doesn't exist. This person thinks now that sex work is not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:02 PM
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Depending how you define what a job is. Also, in the scenario the OP is describing, men would not seek sex for pleasure, so prostitutes and pornography wouldnt have a demand to profit from. Oh no I agree that number of sex workers would decrease. How do you define a job? do you think Cardy B (whose one of her major hits talks about her WAP) sell because she knows how to sing or because her oversexualized image? Well it's because she can sing, because she's a rapper lol. Women also like her songs…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:12 PM
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Idk what all the removed comments are but why blame just the mother and not also the father?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:58 PM
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Female influencers, a lot of actresess and singers, and of course pornstars would need to find a job. Firstly, sex work is work. So... you don't just listen to female singers because you like their music? Bear in mind, a lot of female singers have more female fans than male fans, and female fans tend to buy more stuff in comparison to male fans. Most of them are probably not gonna have to get a different career just because men stop jerking off to pictures of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:46 PM
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Maybe you got downvoted for assuming she wants children?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:03 AM
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On this sub and in mainstream society in general, there is this perception of, "men are going to be shitty no matter who I date or lower my standards for, so better to be miserable in a relationship with a hot/rich guy than miserable in a relationship with an average guy. And if I can't find that (sufficiently) hot/rich guy then I'm happy staying single." Imo most women I know would rather be single than miserable in a relationship with a rich guy. From my experience, the women that are sick of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:58 AM
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Yes, we call out actual problematic behaviour like upskirting and catcalling. Ops examples of prpblematic behaviour are shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:03 PM
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OP what do you think of women who won't date who watch porn (and don't watch it themselves)?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:00 PM
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Neurodivergent women tend to mask the symptoms better than men do as well. Autism used to not diagnosed in women as much as men because people didn't realise they exhibited it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:46 AM
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I've seen people say this a lot but is there proof like stats or studies that this is the case
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:29 PM
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That's so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:32 PM
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It's a symptom of that. Also, makeup can be a form of art too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:30 PM
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Saying you were lowering the bar implies excessive makeup is more problematic than natural looking makeup. Imo the actual problem is toxic beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:27 PM
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Totally agreed. Also, it's weird to target excessive makeup because if anything, I think it's less "problematic" than natural looking makeup. With "excessive" makeup, it's obvious someone is wearing makeup, it's often for art and self-expression, but with natural looking makeup, young girls look at these women on tv shows and in music videos and think, "why don't I look like that? Why am I the only one with acne?" it can perpetuate toxic beauty standards. But wearing makeup is also a symptom of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:21 PM
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Yeah, but the problem is the vast majority of women wear makeup so I had to lower the bar. Just because the vast majority do something doesn't mean you can't say it's problematic. Why is "excessive" makeup more problematic than makeup that looks natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:59 PM
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I think it's much more ethical than other porn. At least the person making it is actually getting paid as opposed to porn on pornhub, which often isn't even consensual. Unless you think all porn is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:57 PM
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Because they like expressing themselves? I like wearing really colourful makeup for the same reason I like colourful jewelery. If you're gonna say it's because they're insecure, you can say about wearing any makeup at all, not just excessive makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:52 PM
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But it's pretty shitty metaphor. Eating shit is physically dangerous, people paying someone for their nudes isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:50 PM
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Not everyone on OF is eating shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:48 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:45 PM
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They should be able to, but what if they just prefer wearing "excessive makeup"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:33 PM
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Exactly, a lot of guys will say they prefer women with no makeup when they don't actually know what that looks like! The fact he is calling 'excessive makeup' problematic kinda sounds like only has a problem when it makes the woman 'look bad'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:32 PM
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Why is excessive makeup problematic?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:23 PM
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But they still wear makeup to be seen as attractive. Even if they are, they probably aren't trying to seem attractive to you specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:34 PM
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In my experience, I know lots of women my age (18-20) who find older male celebrities attractive, but they wouldn't date someone that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:20 PM
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Yup. This is the reason you see incessant seething about Leonardo DiCaprio by middle aged and 30+ year old women. If an older woman dated young guys no one cares The French president was literally groomed when he was underage by his old lady wife and you will never hear a peep from middle age women about this. In fact they celebrate it. The shaming about age gap relationships is 100% mate guarding. I'm 20 and I see women my age talking about both 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:18 PM
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There are countless women making up stories and finger banging each other over “scary men”. How do you know they're making up stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:27 PM
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excessive use of make up, A lot of guys that complain about this say things like "she looks so bad with all that makeup", they don't care about makeup if they find the women wearing it pretty, and like... women don't exist to be attractive to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:14 PM
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Majority of women don’t use OF, they don’t excessively use makeup Also, why do men care about this? Regarding, "excessive" makeup, women don't exist to look appealing to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:11 PM
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Major yikes at how you avoided my questions. I think that says everything people need to know about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:20 PM
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Or a lot of them think there is a difference in maturity in life stage between an 18 year old and a 50 year old. You're probably gonna avoid the question, but would you fuck a 17 year old? Would you think that was weird and immoral? If the answer is yes then why would it all of a sudden not be weird on their 18th birthday?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:06 PM
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That's treating them like children. They are like children compared to 50 year olds 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:57 PM
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Men are wired to procreate. If a single 50 year old man can land an attractive 18 year old he would be going against biology to turn it down for social pressure reasons. These men would be going for 16 year olds if it were legal. If you wanna be a creep, go ahead, but people will judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:58 PM
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OP has made multiple posts on this, I want to believe he's a naïve 18 year old, but he's probably an old guy who wants to go after barely legal teens and not get judged for it. So many guys would go after 15 year olds if it was legal (I mean plenty are doing that already).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:50 AM
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Yeah, try telling a guy not to refer to adult women as "girls"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:40 AM
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So you believe women at 18 are less sexually mature than men? No I never said that lol I would never think anything of an age gap where a man was younger Okay, that's you When do you believe the average person is an adult and doesn't need shaming tactics to make the right decision I don't shame or judge them, I hella judge the 50 year olds who seek out 18 year olds because it's the older party who are making the bad decisions Also like I said, it's less about when is someone an adult and more ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:59 AM
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Yes, and children are children but most people can acknowledge that a 15 year old should be more mature than an 8 year old. Compared to 50 year olds, 18 year olds have less experience being an adult, less experience in general, and their brains aren't fully developed until 25 (especially the prefrontal cortex which is the rational part of the brain). You don't just wake up on your 18th birthday as a mature adult. If a 15 year old has the maturity of a 5 year old that is concerning, just like if …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:33 AM
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Not respecting their choices would be stopping them or trying to stop them. The lack of respect is aimed at the older party who goes after 18 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:36 PM
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Yes, at age 50 I do see college-aged women as children, relatively speaking. I srsly don't know anyone who would be offended by this. If someone is 50 and they don't see any difference maturity-wise between themselves and an 18 year old then that is concerning. Most women under 25 judge 50 year olds who try and engage an 18-year-old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:03 PM
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This is what you said in response to me saying older people going after someone who has just turned 18 is creepy. I just wanna point out that plenty of women under 25 view Leonardo Dicaprio as a creep, and view older guys going after a lot younger women as weird. It's not just women over 25. That being said, there have been many women who dated older guys when they were 18/19 and then years later when they have more life experience realised these guys were creeps. These women don't have a lack o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:48 PM
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The reasons people are judgemental is different plus gay people have been assaulted and murdered for being gay, they're really not comparable. Also, someone who is 18 may be a legal adult, but mentally they aren't that different to a 17 year old so it's creepy for older people to be seeking out people who have just become adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:37 PM
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No one is talking about targeting highschoolers, This has to be addressed because plenty of people do see nothing wrong with older people seeking out 18 year olds as they are legally adults. The fact is simply that you don't have any power over other adults just for having a better job. You can have power by having more money and this can lead to financial abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:30 PM
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If you wouldn't go for someone who was 17, going for them the second they become an adult is weird. This all goes back to the fundamental issue that women see younger women as little children where men see younger men as other men. Actually, plenty of young women (who are 18,19,20) find older people who seek out younger people to date creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:25 PM
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To make the comparison to how people view age gap relationships to how people view homosexual relationships is pretty gross. The two aren't comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:02 PM
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Having more money can give you more power. Also, having more experience of being an adult can give you more power. Someone who is 18 years old has been an adult for months, it's not like people flip a switch and gain maturity when they become 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:00 PM
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That's true, but still to act like old guys who are seeking younger women are oppressed like gay people is laughable and delusional. Also, imo older people who exclusively seek out younger people to date are inherently creepy, and older people who date people who have only just enteted adulthood (e.g. a 30 year old dating an 18 year old) are inherently creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:16 AM
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Lol they're seriously acting like old creepy guys who seek out young women are oppressed like gay people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:32 AM
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If one of them is 18 or 19 they probably don't have as much money as someone who is 35 and has a career. I was still in school when I was 18. Also, an 18 year old has been an adult for less than a year, it's very creepy if you're a lot older to go for people who have just become adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:27 AM
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Men go for younger women because they know she'll be easily impressed by dates to red lobster, trips trips to florida and your one bedroom apartment, and wont realize you're actually a loser. Now maybe at first read you might agree with that and think 'yeah this older men are tricking these younger women'. But how? Why is this man a loser? In this instance because he's going for younger women because they have less life experience, takes andvantage of that, and doesn't go for older women because…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:22 AM
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