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Good for you. It would’ve been fun to see you pick up your stuff and walk the few steps to sit right next to the moms. Force him to make it an inclusive thing.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 02:38 PM
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My husband had the exact same conversation, I got my tubes tied with no questions asked. Yes, he did know and approve but the doctor never asked.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 08:25 PM
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I don’t understand why anyone is allowed to conduct interviews in the locker room. Male or Female?! There’s cameras involved most of the time. No one should have that level of privacy invasion.
/r/MensRights04/07/21 04:49 PM
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You’ve mentioned several times that its not a big deal. But it is. Society has taught us all to be polite and act like these things are not a big deal but you deserve the same respect and appreciation. Did the females who did get flowers notice the slight? I’m truly appalled and incensed on your behalf.
/r/MensRights21/04/21 10:28 PM
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I think an example of toxic femininity would be the matriarchal mom/grandma who never worked a day in her life but still controls the family (especially the men) with emotional manipulation. The gold digger perhaps except she losses all power if the man doesn’t accept the game she’s playing.
/r/MensRights21/02/21 10:05 PM
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I’ve been here all along. I’ve learned a lot and fully support men’s rights. I once made the mistake of sharing on a stay at home dad subreddit in support of the dads and was quickly told to stay in my place it was “their” subreddit. So I’ve just lurked here.
/r/MensRights15/04/20 11:50 AM
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I work retail and started out this way. I assumed that since I’m a middle aged plump mom type it would be safe to do so. But the number of men who took it to mean I was interested made for very awkward moments. My heart is broken for these men, to need so much that so little genuine kindness can send them into a tailspin. I still try to find a balance.
/r/MensRights17/08/19 02:26 PM
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Then keep trying, she can grow and mature (and if she can’t find out sooner rather than later). Tell her you want to have a real conversation and start by explaining what you posted here and then see how she responds. Listening is a skill that can be learned and she certainly isn’t aware of her bias,teach her. Also, I’m sorry this happened to you but good job on putting yourself out there that takes a lot of courage and strength.
/r/MensRights15/06/19 12:16 PM
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I know several feminists who would flip out if a guy admitted attraction was a factor. It's completely ridiculous. Yet these women find the money issue acceptable. Sorry, the internet really needs an eyeroll font.
/r/MensRights26/08/14 11:09 PM
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Sorry, I was being completely facetious. I do know several feminists who would be enraged if a guy admitted such a thing. Even though it's the most basic component of a new relationship.
/r/MensRights26/08/14 11:05 PM
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Not only flipped what if a guy admitted to his fiance he only went after her initially because she was "smokin hot". But it's okay for a girl to be a gold digger as long as she confesses it. I think that part is equally as repulsive as the cheating.
/r/MensRights26/08/14 11:21 AM
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Death is inevitable, everyone is going to do it no matter what. So your logic suggests the government should pay for funeral services. And yet we don't see bodies piling up in the streets.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 07:17 PM
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I think that is an excellent opportunity for charity. People who feel strongly about making birth control available more widely should organize and donate their time and money to such a cause.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 07:15 PM
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Personal responsibility, it's not popular. It's just right.
/r/MensRights11/11/13 08:44 PM
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I'm a woman and I think the two individuals should pay for their own birth control, and no one else.
/r/MensRights11/11/13 02:43 PM
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Statistically, shouldn't she be more worried about the female teachers?
/r/MensRights16/09/13 03:34 PM
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Burn Notice is a constant yogurt commercial.
/r/MensRights22/08/13 09:22 PM
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The double standard IS what drives me insane.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 03:14 PM
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Female here. This part of our current culture drives me insane. Grown women holding campout parties for the premiere of Magic Mike or openly ogling teenage boys. They creep on boy bands and most of my married female friends are constantly posting their lust for male celebrities on social media! Such a huge double standard!
/r/MensRights21/07/13 01:03 PM
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just trying to imply that obviously, she wasn't taught proper manners.
/r/MensRights26/03/13 02:42 PM
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reply with,"oddly enough my particular breed has been known to display such behavior in the wild." EDIT: spelling
/r/MensRights25/03/13 05:42 PM
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I would've gone the other direction with,"apparently you are not."
/r/MensRights25/03/13 05:39 PM
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If she responds with 'just kidding", immediately dish it back with a light-hearted," Great, then be a good girl and go make me a sandwich, willya?" If she was truly joking you've established the argument but without offense, she might think it over. If she is truly contemptuous towards men you've called her out and she'll brood about it for the rest of the day.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 05:38 PM
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I am also raising my son(and daughters) to not be a thief, or a murderer or an extortionist, or a jaywalker or an arsonist the list is endless.
/r/MensRights24/03/13 11:17 PM
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I agree with you. Everything about this was about power and arrogance. They could've done the same thing to a boy and the "rape culture cry" would not have been invoked.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 10:27 PM
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Fewer women than ever are married, and more are choosing not to have children. Those who do are increasingly starting a family later in life. All of which indicates the growth of a ‘me first’ mentality, which may be admirable, as it means more independence, rewarding careers and sexual freedom, but I suspect many (younger) women forget that inevitably they will one day be old, needing care and support. What the What?! I gave up on feminism the day I realized they were ok with me being anything I…
/r/MensRights13/03/13 03:58 PM
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I love this! We need more, much more of this.
/r/MensRights23/02/13 04:09 PM
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Then why did she post that crap in the first place?
/r/MensRights13/02/13 05:56 PM
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Thank you. I rarely receive kudos from strangers. Most people assume I am sheltering and overprotective. My main desire was to customize the learning program for each child. I'll admit selfishly that I am also crazy about these little people and love being a part of their learning experience. I am also married to a wonderful man and want my son to emmulate him rather than confrom to the culture's current definition of manhood.
/r/MensRights03/02/13 02:51 PM
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Thank you for writing this. I sensed some of the bias as my son approached the age to start kindergarten. We chose to homeschool for many reasons but this was definitely one of them. Ironically, I have had people tell me(total strangers) it's not good for him to be at home with just Mom and his sisters all day.
/r/MensRights02/02/13 02:20 PM
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Exactly!
/r/MensRights30/12/12 09:02 PM
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Agreed. They also have a fairly narrow view of women. They do slut shame and virgin shame. They also tell a little girl she can grow up to be ANYTHING she wants to be, unless she wants to be a wife and mother. Then she's villified.
/r/MensRights29/12/12 07:21 PM
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It happened to us in Texas.
/r/MensRights20/12/12 08:22 PM
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My husband was told he needed my consent. We later decided to have my tubes tied(for non-related reasons), no one ever mentioned me getting his consent. So biased!
/r/MensRights20/12/12 08:18 PM
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Except for White House staff.
/r/MensRights23/10/12 01:49 AM
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Only if the child is male. If it had been girls she probably wouldn't have said anything to anyone.
/r/MensRights18/10/12 02:33 PM
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It's the equivalent of the "Do you still beat your wife?" question, there is no answer that will not totally screw you. That is why it still gets asked.
/r/MensRights17/10/12 08:16 PM
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You are the professionals she called to address a situation that was beyond her expertise. You should not have been treated that way. I personally thank you for doing what you do in spite of people like this.
/r/MensRights03/09/12 02:31 PM
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I had a son. It made me aware of how the media paints men with a broad brush. At first it was just tv commercials and then sitcoms. Slowly I came to see how pervasive the epidemic is. I never did agree with my feminist friends but now I see why.
/r/MensRights23/08/12 05:50 PM
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and when there is unpleasant, manual labor involved.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 03:41 PM
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very good article. Now even the kids are portrayed as smarter than mom and dad combined.
/r/MensRights27/04/12 05:29 PM
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I'm a woman and I joined because I thought I was the only one who noticed that men, especially fathers, are portrayed as imbeciles on tv.
/r/MensRights27/04/12 02:17 AM
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My father once held a door open for a female and she protested(You don't have to hold the door for me just because I'm a lady) He replied," I don't know if you are a lady or not. I held the door because I am a gentleman."
/r/MensRights27/04/12 02:08 AM
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I was being flippant but that seems kind of sad.
/r/MensRights15/04/12 12:55 AM
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I don't see the word always anywhere.
/r/MensRights15/04/12 12:55 AM
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You bring up an interesting thought. How would these women classify transgenders are men who become women off the hook? Do women who become men assume new responsibility? Are lesbians then totally free from any rape concerns? I'd like to hear their logic played out.
/r/MensRights14/04/12 02:10 PM
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Absolutely agree.
/r/MensRights14/04/12 02:05 PM
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Good for you.
/r/MensRights13/04/12 02:37 AM
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National Organization of Women
/r/MensRights12/04/12 08:24 PM
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National Organization of Women
/r/MensRights12/04/12 08:22 PM
4

I hope you made him the sandwich anyway.
/r/MensRights12/04/12 07:41 PM
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That sounds good, but it doesn't flesh out that way. The NOW website tells a different story.
/r/MensRights12/04/12 07:38 PM
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Thanks. I read but don't post often (on reddit, in general) I'm not thick-skinned enough yet. I do get very tired of feminists telling me how "we all feel". I just don't share their reality.
/r/MensRights21/03/12 06:48 PM
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As a woman, I just audibly sighed; a sigh of relief. I'm not the only one that feels that way.
/r/MensRights21/03/12 06:05 PM
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I made the appointment and then changed my mind (for scheduling and financial reasons) I am old(reddit-old, at least) and have children already, so there was no effort to talk me out of it. My husband went for the vasectomy consult and they gave him a consent form for me to sign. So we have experienced firsthand both sides. It really is unreasonable.
/r/MensRights15/03/12 02:16 PM
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No, it is not. I would have no problem getting a tubal or hysterectomy. I have had the discussions and made the appointments without my husband being referenced at all.
/r/MensRights14/03/12 09:19 PM
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I have been making this complaint for years. I have taught my children (2 girls and one boy) to look for biases and point them out.
/r/MensRights04/03/12 06:53 PM
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Wow, what topic did you think you were there for?
/r/MensRights04/03/12 06:50 PM
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So, just today I was watching tv with my kids. First Cars 2, the female cars swoon over the italian car's "open wheels" quite a bit. Then we were watching "Cool Runnings" and in the opening 2 minutes the local towns women exchange comments about enjoying the runners backside. I asked my daughters if they thought this was right and before I could finish the question they jumped in with "yeah they wouldn't be allowed to talk about women that way."
/r/MensRights13/11/11 12:50 AM
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This is almost word for word my rantings this morning.
/r/MensRights10/11/11 06:02 PM
1

Everyone else has posted some good advice. You definitely want to talk to her about culture and how it perpetuates these stereotypes. I just want to add one other perspective. She is a teenager, which means she is part adult/part child(notice I made no gender references there). The child still wants to believe that such things don't really happen and wants to feel totally safe. The adult part thinks,"wow, I could be in that situation, what would I do?" As a female she may have been using her wor…
/r/MensRights27/10/11 02:19 PM
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As a nonfeminist female I found this article enlightening. I had never heard of the white feather story and would like to read more about the CIA and Rockefeller connections. I've always felt shamed by feminist for not conforming, It's as if either I agree with them or I'm some stupid pathetic child who wants a caveman to club me over the head and drag me into the kitchen. Both of those options are ludicrous.
/r/MensRights14/10/11 11:09 AM
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Agreed, I actually meant it's not an indicator one way or the other. It doesn't tell us if the person is misogynist or not.
/r/MensRights03/10/11 02:04 AM
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Isn't it sexist to make broad sweeping judgements about other people's sexual preferences? It's 2 people having the sex, if they both agree(one way or the other) then it's all good. If they disagree then they aren't compatible and shouldn't waste each other's time. I agree with OP, not necessarily misogynist.
/r/MensRights02/10/11 11:04 PM
2

Ms. Laskas doesn't have a husband.
/r/MensRights24/08/11 02:05 PM
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Upvote for awesome documentation skills, a rare find on the internet.
/r/MensRights07/07/11 03:21 PM
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When I was pregnant with our first everyone's comments were along that same vein. I always pointed out that my husband was 13 when his little brother was born and I never so much as babysat, so all of our baby expertise was his. It really bugged me that he was assumed to be inept with babies because he is male.
/r/MensRights27/12/10 12:49 AM
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I chose to homeschool my son for this reason. We had discussed the idea before we had kids. However when Kindergarten rolled around the public school down the street only gave them 30 minutes of recess and the rest of the day was spent sitting at a desk. I couldn't let my boy get a label because he would rather make gun noises with his mouth.
/r/MensRights25/12/10 03:41 AM
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