barrister19 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Field Report: Three Girls, One Day		barrister19	/r/seduction	29/07/19 02:41 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	"Why do you like me?" Sure, it was a shit test, however, I would argue that not handling the obstacle (her friend) caused you to lose the target. The obstacle is what caused her to leave( at least in your opinion). Remember, the obstacle needs to approve you as well in many cases.	/r/seduction	05/08/19 08:43 PM
1	Jealous of friends Maybe as a suggestion you can record one of the nights you three go out. This way you can analyze the differences in what they, what they wear, how they act from your actions. Do you approach as many girls as they do? When your group is with a set, how are you engaging with them? Do you allow them to take over the conversation, or do you hold your own?	/r/seduction	05/08/19 07:28 PM
1	FIRST APPROACH EVEEEER!! This is the first step, my friend. The fact that she was a 9, in your opinion, makes it even better. Keep going and soon anything less than a 10 won't be worth it for you. Have a great day and happy hunting!!	/r/seduction	05/08/19 06:35 PM
1	Is it possible girls ignore all your good qualities simply because you’re not good looking enough? Attractiveness is so subjective. What is attractive to one, could be attractive to another. Addiitonally, most women don't concentrate on looks as much as men do in that they look at a variety of facts and men thinks of looks first then considers other factors after he starts to get to know her.	/r/seduction	31/07/19 04:20 AM
1	Casual sex offer, would you take it? Yes, what's your next question??	/r/seduction	31/07/19 04:14 AM
3	I feel basically all success can be defined under neediness vs non-neediness. I also believe that dating more than one woman would rectify these issues as well, because you have more options. You're not texting her too much because you're doing other things, such as: 1. texting other women, going out with your wingman for a night of Sargeing; 2. You're on other dates with women; and/or; youre texting multiple women so you're not worried about one. Obviously, if one has many women to date or attempting to date it keeps their mind occupied and will not be worried about losi…	/r/seduction	29/07/19 12:55 AM
4	Semi-pro PUA needs help I would say don't worry about it. I had good results in Germany with non-english speaking girls during my time. Just think of yourself as exotic and start with very basic phrases. Try to learn some basic phrases to get to know them a bit. Unfortunately, you can't run game as a PUA without the language but remember only 7% of communication is based on what you say. I hope this helps. Happy Hunting!!!	/r/seduction	26/07/19 02:08 AM
1	Depressed and needy. I would disagree with you only to the extent that its much easier to approach a girl online than it is with Daygame. Once you've had a few conversations online rapport is established on some level, which makes it easier to open up when there is a meeting. At one point, I was much better online than I was anywhere else.	/r/seduction	26/07/19 12:20 AM
1	How do i stop being a loser who cant talk to women and cant make friends? I think im not good enough for anyone. I hate my self and my family.. what do i do to make people like me?? Whats my biggest problem? I would say you need to do three things: First, stop calling yourself a loser. Perception is projection meaning if call your self a loser or think of yourself as a loser, you will project yourself as such to everybody else. I guarantee you are no different than most of us out there. Most of us have thought ourselves as a loser at one point of our lives, but also think to yourself; "what's the purpose of calling yourself a loser?" It doesn't get you anywhere. I recommend you read The Game by Neil…	/r/seduction	26/07/19 12:08 AM
3	Dealing with rejection in a social circle I would say the best thing to do is treat her like one of the guys, if you want to preserve a shot one day. What I mean by that is don't react emotionally toward her by blowing her off on purpose or going out of your way to say Hi!! If you do see her say Hi and move on. Don't ignore her, but don't give her attention at the same time. If there is another female you may even want to engage with her more than your target to create a need for her to get your attention. I think what's most important …	/r/seduction	25/07/19 11:45 PM