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Yep which she clearly did
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:37 AM
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Yes but I don't think 2 seconds u csn tell. I think she was drunk as fuck. And first time drunk sex is never good I know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:56 AM
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Then the next day she was like " I wanted our first time to be special" like wtf??!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:50 AM
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Cos she was the one that started it and wanted it. She as the one that was ripping my clothes off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:50 AM
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True. Well she was gagging for sex. I tried to gondlow with kissing her and she was like " make something happen" so I went down on her slowly for like 5 seconds before she pulled me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:48 AM
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Also it takes time to get to know each others bodies. First time sex when ur both really drunk doesn't help. I was suprised I could even get it up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:44 AM
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What do u mean approach wasn't working? I have no idea with that chick tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:43 AM
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Yes but like within 2 seconds ? Although we were both very drunk. I mean I totally understand if I was down on here for a few minutes but like 5 seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:38 AM
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I'm the same by date 2 if she's not somewhat intimate or physical with me passionately in some way I move on. I wish mor women were like u tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:36 AM
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I meant the first time u get intimate and u go down on her and after a few seconds she brings u up and wants u to penetrate her. Like why not let a guy go down on her if that's what women crave from a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:29 AM
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Ok I guess that's u
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:21 AM
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Haha it doesn't take a frickingg degree. But what if when u go down on her she stops u from doing so? Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:21 AM
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No I'm saying the same women will behave differently fir different men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:20 AM
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You don't date men that don't fuck early? So u prefer men who have sex with you on 1st dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:19 AM
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Yes but surely u wanna know this quickly right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:18 AM
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I love going down on women I'm into yet they still ghost me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:13 AM
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Ok but how does that answer the question? The woman mentioned that she likes to vet quickly sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:12 AM
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How does a man vet quickly sexual attraction and compatibility? What if she doesn't fuck me by the 2nd or 1st date?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:03 AM
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What case
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:50 AM
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They said I was creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:01 PM
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I said the same thing to 5 different women. 3 thought I was creepy the other 2 really liked it. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:52 AM
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Women don't swoon over jack black like they do chris brown. Chris brown beats up women and still gets lots of women. Why? Cos he is good looking and a famous guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:51 AM
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That's projecting and implying that confidence is the first mover. I disagree with this cope. Confidence you get when you are treated well. And if confidence is the main thing then why do many men not get any matches on dating apps. Looks are king.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:50 AM
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You can be overly sexual and push for sex if she's into you it's not creepy. Have done that before
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:47 AM
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No one girl I was fucking for 6 months. She was very difficult to see more than once a week etc. 3 months in didn't want to spend new years with me. The sex has got nothing to do with it. They just had low interest in me from the beginning. And yes sex can only get better. This particular girl I laste 2 minutes the first time then we had sex for 6 months after.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:42 AM
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So I have a genuine question. If a guy you vibe with you sleep with on the first date and say another guy u date for 2 or 3 dates and you havnt slept with him, the inference is you don't vibe as well or as much as you did with the first guy? As a guy I want to be that first guy. So if that's the case knowing men you vibe with you sleep with on the first date, if you and I go on a first date and you don't sleep with me what's the point on a 2nd date?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:42 PM
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What is this chemistry women speak off? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:26 PM
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Why is it most women would friendzone a guy if he hasn't kissed the girl by the 3rd date? Why isn't she turned off by this lack of masculine man?
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/25 11:36 PM
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Do u want to be sexual with him?
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/25 11:34 PM
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She lives 10000 miles away
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:01 PM
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I slept with a girl on the first night who was into me and showing me messages of guys on her phone trying to dste her and buy her gifts and it was funny. She was making it so difficult.l for them. One guy she went on 2 dates with she told him she is celibate and doesn't believe in sex before marriage. Whilst she's fucking me after 3 hours on her period and then driving an hour thr next day to see me again! Like wtf? Explain that! And she also paid for my supermarket shop as my card wasn't worki…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:15 PM
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What about the women who u go on 3 dates with to get to know them and they they say "I'm just single and want fun"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:11 PM
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Btw she had a husband for 10 years he cheated on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:06 AM
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You in denial about how women operate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:05 AM
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Well I was correct. Read what she wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:05 AM
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That's my point. And other men in the past u didn't sleep with u weren't into right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:58 AM
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Women have told me what they do with men they like and don't like. So don't have a go at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:57 AM
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Sorry was watching man united lose again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:56 AM
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Because I havnt felt attracted to them. My point is to do with what women do when they really like a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:56 AM
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No I'm saying if a woman sleeps with a guy she respects him not the other way round
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:53 AM
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The ones who give me a blow job actually are into me. The ones who don't arent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:52 AM
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No that's incorrect. I have dated and waited and been dumped. You speak from your experiences I speak from mine. I waited 5 dates to have sex withba woman I wanted to marry who I knew the guy before me she really liked and fucked on the first dste and he just wanted casual sex. She dumped me after 6 months. She was never into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:52 AM
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What makes u sleep with a man on the first dste and ones that u don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:48 AM
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We get emotionally attached. And time and money are huge investments for us men too. I want a relationship. I'm happy to wait for sex if it's guaranteed even after 2 months of courting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:56 AM
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The ones i really like don't want me. The ones that want me I don't find attractive or want to kiss them. But they are amazing women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:55 AM
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They don't hook up with anyone. Iv seen these women messages and they reject a lot of men. Iv seen some use them for free dinners etc. They ain't sexually attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:23 AM
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I'm happy to commit after date one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:20 AM
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Most women I know are like you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:19 AM
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Or for women who you aren't into but are into you. Like the 3 s or 4s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:18 AM
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So you yourself do sleep with men on first dates. What is the reason why u choose those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:17 AM
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If she is into you. I suggest only go out with women with high interest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:13 AM
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So many of what posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:11 AM
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I wasted money and time and emotionally invested
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:10 AM
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These are what women do when they like a man. Why shame women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:10 AM
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No only 20 percent can
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:05 AM
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Iv been in a few situations where I have waited cos I really liked them and they told me they really like me that's why they are taking it slow. Then she says she's not feeling it and then I find out that they sleep with men on first dates. Iv been lied to and played. Iv had women tell me they don't kiss on first dates and I'm patient and realised that's a complete lie when they give bjs on first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:04 AM
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The girl I went on 3 dates with told me the last guy she was seeing she spent 48hrs with on a first date. Me she didn't even spend 6 hours. She told me " she vibed with the guy that's what u do"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:51 PM
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I know many women who have fucked a guy including myself on the first night and ended up being in relationships. Women do that because they have high attraction for the guy. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:49 PM
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Should I not tell her before the first dste I'm looking to hook up. Otherwise I'm wasting my time on the dste?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:21 PM
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So be direct about what we want upfront? Cos I always get played sometimes by women and get led on and go on loads of dates with unenthusiastic women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:54 PM
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And I assume it was them that rejected her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:49 PM
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It has to be reciprocated though! The first night they shared the bed with you did u try have sex?, what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:06 PM
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Did u fuck other guys sooner?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:04 PM
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No. My dick games the same with the last 100 girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:59 PM
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Well at least those first 2 gfs stayed in your bed the first night. That's interest in itself.!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:57 PM
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True but you have to have sexual desire from a women regardless if it's just casual or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:49 PM
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I 100 percent do. I'm happy to cuddle and not have sex. You tell me this then? I take a girl for a weekend trip 3rd date for my birthday everything paid and she forgets it's my birthday and not a card or anything. Doesn't even buy me a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:29 PM
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When u mean ben backwards how so? My goal is to make sure she is into me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:21 PM
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No my.primary goal is to see if she is into me. If she is willing to sleep with men on the first date that she is into but not me what's the inference? And secondly what if the girl directly tells u before your date " when I'm into a guy and I vibe with him I don't mind sleeping with the guy and want to kiss me all night", Then I go on the date and she doesn't want to sleep me or kiss me?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:12 PM
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💯. You have nailed it! Question- any way u can tell? Any tips to pick these clues up? Subtle I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:05 PM
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Explain that last bit also I'm.curious. the way women have sex is also very telling? Well if every guy is after sex and women know this and they only have sex with men they want then isn't going down the path of trying to have instant sex good- it will eliminate low interest women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:02 PM
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Yes iv seen it with my own eyes. They make rules for certain men they aren't into. Other women will rationalise why a woman hasn't kissed me by the 2nd date, not knowing she fucks a man on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:00 PM
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Exactly. Most women I know who give a bj on the first night actually like the guy and want to see him again. Whether the guy does that's another story. Point is you are correct. Iv slept with women on 3rd or 4th date and not once, NOT ONCE did it go anywhere. They always let me down saying they weren't feeling it. So for me if she isn't sucking my dick by the 2nd date or inviting me to her place by the 2nd date I'm out. No exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:58 PM
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Iv had a 6 year relationship with someone I fucked on the first night. As have many people I know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:55 PM
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You aren't listening to me or my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:54 PM
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True. I'm just talking about my experiences with women and what I have seen/observed. They are very different around men they are attracted to. Its mind blowing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:44 PM
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I don't. I want a genuine relationship. Someone to do things with. Wake up to and cuddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:43 PM
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No I go after women who are into me and have genuine burning desire
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:41 PM
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You live in a bubble. Women do this a lot more than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:41 PM
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I go after women who have high interest in me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:40 PM
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U have made women wait for sex? You must be in the top 1 percent of men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:40 PM
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Sex is the biggest indicator for a woman to shoe she's into a guy in that way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:39 PM
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Completely disagree. U should see my dating history. Women are master manipulators and can play a man like a fiddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:38 PM
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Even the ones who like hookups meant they were attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:38 PM
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1st date ideally. Cos they would with a man they respect amd have high attraction towards. If she doesn't get somewhat physical with me on the first date then I don't have a second date
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:32 PM
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I disagree. Immediate sex = high interest in the man. Slow sex = low interest in the man and he had to wear her down with dates and money. No immediate sex = likely to have no sex and friendzoned
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:29 PM
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Iv dated hundreds of women and slept with a lot too. What iv noticed is this : the ones where women would be physical and intimate with me very quickly (1st or 2nd date) they were really into me and wanted to be my gf/lover. The ones that it took a lot of effort and time to sleep with them they were never into me. These same women made it easy for men they were into. Women will be sexual a lot quicker with men they are attracted to and women know this from the start. Women will sleep with a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:25 PM
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Love your tedtalk:) She said she spent 2 days with him. I assume she did fuck him multiple times. I asked her how does that work and she said " we went on a road trip" You make a lot of good points. But one thing I would want to say is not that she treated the guy shitty before me but better than me. Most of the time her sexual desire towards me for example or lack off says a lot. I guess for me I want a girl to want to kiss me and be somewhat intimate with me on the first date. I want to be som…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:19 PM
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Thanx for your answer. Insightful. I have a question for you then seeing as you are very honest. Went on a first date with a girl. A long 8 hour date and got rejected early on for a kiss. Tried again later and then questioned whether she likes kissing or just not me. We ended up making out we were drunk. I dropped her home. 2nd date dinner dropped her home. She didn't kiss me that whole 2nd date. 3rd date weekend overnight trip stay for my birthday and I mention how iv never had a 8hr first date…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:47 PM
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Perhaps ur the exception but iv been with many women who have admitted this to me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:11 PM
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Your rational or attempts to are funny. The reality is if you fucked a guy on the first date is because u were more attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:57 PM
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How do these men know exactly how their girl treated their previous guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:53 PM
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No woman plans dates or pays for dates or gets you a thoughtful gift lmao. I took a girl out for a weekend for my birthday and I didn't even get a card
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:27 PM
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Yes perhaps. Also like I said you are the exception really. My sister is like you. Unfortunately a lot of women iv dated and women will say that if they are attracted to you they will sleep with u quickly. Iv been on 3,4,5 dates with girls who havnt done anything sexual with me and taking it slow and I'm thinking they are really into me. They aren't. The guys they are into are getting it on a lot sooner. Don't be fooled
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:35 AM
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You are an exception. You do not know how a lot of these modern way women think or act
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:29 AM
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Are you saying sex is important to me? Isn't it important to you also?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:11 PM
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Again interesting. Well I want and like relationships and I like fucking. I want a girl to want to fuck me even if I'm looking for a rship with her. This isnt something general women do. This sounds like a very specific type of exploitative person. Just like men who will also make things difficult depending on if he actually likes a woman. Yes this is how women work/date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:57 PM
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It's not porn. There are many many women who will be very physical early on with a guy they are into and not with guys they aren't. In fact this is every girl. You think every girl is sexual with every man? No. Just the ones they are into
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:54 PM
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I totally actually agree with what u have said and am trying to put myself in women's shoes like yourself. And you have explained yourself very well. The biggest difference is women choose. You choose who to fuck and who to be in a relationship with. I as a average male cannot. The question is why do u choose some men to give that sexual attention (and not just sexual attention I mean even invest in your time and financially) and other guys u make it more difficult? As a guy being the latter man…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:04 PM
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These men were never into that woman. I can have sex with a girl whenever it won't change if I'm into her or not. Perhaps u can see it from a guys point of view though- how would I feel say you and I went on a date. And we didn't do anything physical. Then I'm on a second date with you same thing. I would think (knowing you had a threesome with a guy u barely knew), that you didn't feel that sexual attraction with me, even if u did no where near as that guy. So then why would I settle or accept …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:21 PM
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The one he liked more and felt more attraction to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:07 PM
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Wait I'm.confused first- it was threesome or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:02 PM
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Wait I think you are coming from it from a woman's angle with regards to men. I'm coming from it from a mens angle and how women will act and should act. And I still disagree with your point because you are now logically rationalising why it didn't work out afterwards. And trust me when a girl meets the right guy she will and has done it before. And I saw a bunch of times how men take that for granted from women, so that clearly doesn’t mean shit to men either. The point is she still have natura…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:52 PM
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Unfortunately women will logically refute this statement even though if you poke them enough they will admit the same
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:47 PM
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Yh and these girls will generally have sex with u on the first meet because you have already spent hours building rapport beforehand. If iv spent a couple of months talking to a girl and then we meet and we aren't having sex/something physical ( should be lots of touching and making out at the very least) then she ain't interested. It's very simple
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:26 PM
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It doesn't you are right. But wouldn't u want someone who is so very attracted to you that they can't keep your hands off you? And trust me when a girl meets the right guy she will and has done it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:24 PM
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U can't even have a LTR without sexual attraction. It's the most important thing. It's the first step. Without even passing that everything else is a moot point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:06 PM
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Well I'm a guy and to me I disagree. Iv been in situations where iv talked to a girl one the phone a lot for a couple of weeks to a couple of months or longer and I already know that I like this girl and I vibe. By the first date I already know I like that particular girl and it is a case of confirming we vibe in person after weeks on the phone/face time. I still want to sleep with her the first night because a) I am sexually attracted to her and like sex/intimacy and physical affection. And b) …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:05 PM
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Yh that's why I rather have sex first knowing she's into me then after take her on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:31 PM
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I can relate and I'm a guy. Iv made effort girls I really like. Paid for all dates. Invited them to things. Keep in constant contact and phone calls. Showed them literally I like them. Plan dates etc. And unfortunately these women acted like they didn't know I liked them and took advantage. Women do know when a guy is into them right? When a guy asks u out on a date you already know he likes u? See the only way I know as a guy if she's into me is if she offers to pay and also if she wants to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:29 PM
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I also think women would pay for men they are attracted to and if they aren't attracted to them they won't pay. Have seen this a dozen times
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:23 PM
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Iv been with women who have told me this and iv seen it with my own eyes with women iv been with
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:41 AM
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Every woman has slept with a guy by the second date and if they havnt they will do for the right guy they just havnt met yet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:19 AM
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they are always DTF. never believe their profile
/r/seduction03/04/21 10:37 PM
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