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Those numbers don’t seem to match up with what you see IRL though do they? I’d be interested to see how the question was worded and whether they used the word “cheating” or just asked if having sex with another person while married was morally wrong because you have to take into account people in open relationships. But even then those numbers don’t add up to what you see in the real world, even 70% of conservative women thinking cheating is morally wrong is ridiculously low.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:38 AM
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I’m not advising OP to get a mail order bride but the narrative that they all just get to a better country and then divorce you is really untrue. I’m pretty sure divorce rates for mail order brides are far lower than the actual overall divorce rate and Filipinos in general are very family oriented and come from a culture where divorce isn’t even legal let alone accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:03 AM
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I had a house mate who used to use tinder like that, he would just send dozens of low effort texts asking girls if they wanted to come over to our house. He probably got rejected 99% of the time but he would get girls to come over more often than I would have thought. The guy was objectively very good looking though and didn’t have the highest standards. Probably wouldn’t work for 99% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:30 AM
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Hahah I’m not naive. Naive would be telling men to date women who make more money than them when women refuse to date men who make less money then them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:22 PM
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lol there’s no such thing as a “lower salary” for women doing the same job as a man, if a woman came to my company and did my job as me she would automatically get paid the same rate as me. Women don’t do that because my job is hard and women don’t date men who make less than them. How is it the man’s fault for not dating women who make more money than them when women literally refuse to date anyone that earns less money than them? You’re so out of touch with reality it’s shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:15 PM
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lol yeh men trying to earn more money to support a family is totally their own fault. They should take a low paying job and work less so if by some one in a million miracle they attract a woman with a high paying job they will be less fucked over by divorce. Solid logic there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:53 PM
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Men on average earn more money than women. Women almost exclusively date men who make more money than them. If men make more money than women then there is only going to be a small amount of women who earn more than them and those women are most likely looking to date men who are wealthier than them. Telling people to just date a small minority that don’t want to date them is like telling ugly guys to just date more attractive women. It’s not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:00 PM
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Being young isn’t feminine. Nothing you said made any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:18 PM
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How is it realistic? Women almost exclusively date men who make more money than them. It’s like telling someone to just date 10s when they are a 6. Also if they are already married to women who earn less money than them how is the advice just marry wealthier women realistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:14 PM
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I’ve always wondered what people on here actually think is “feminine”. I’ve heard people on here refer to guys like a young Leonardo DiCaprio or young Brad Pitt types as feminine when there was really nothing feminine about them. Being young slim and good looking aren’t feminine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:01 AM
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No one is asking for a solution, let alone a ridiculously unrealistic one like “just marry wealthier women bro” I’m merely pointing out that divorces do normally indirectly benefit women more than men which could be a contributing factor in why less men apply for divorce than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:04 AM
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There’s obviously no gender specific laws but divorces are always going to be more beneficial for the person who a) makes less money and contributed less to joint assets that need to be split and b) the parent that gets awarded primary custody. Both of whom are normally the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:53 AM
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Not really. If one of my friends has a girl who is particularly crazy, annoying or makes their partners do lame things I’ll think thank god my girlfriend isn’t like that but I don’t consciously rate her and compare her to other girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:48 PM
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I don’t understand the logic? The phrase tall dark and handsome has been around for decades so if women are still using that phrase it just proves they are more influenced by time tested universal attractive features like height and handsomeness than trends. Women being attracted to tall and handsome men is not a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:52 AM
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According to? This is the exact type of thinking that gets all these “friend zoned” guys where they are. They listen to a girl saying she wants a certain type of guy, try and become that guy and then complain when the girl still doesn’t want to date them. Because she wasn’t looking for any guy who fit her type, she was looking for someone attractive who fits her type. Just as a side note changing your whole identity and interests to become more attractive to an extreme minority at the expense of…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:05 AM
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I think you will find that outside of high school women aren’t as influenced by trends as you think. Also you seem to think if you fit a certain type they will automatically find you attractive. When women say “I like skater boys” or whatever that doesn’t mean they will fall in love with someone ugly just because he has a skateboard, it means that if they find you attractive you will be slightly more attractive if you fit her type. I like women with big personalities, who can talk to people and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:37 AM
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These kind of posts smack of people spending too much time on social media and not in the real world. I’ve honestly never heard any woman IRL use this terminology and view it as a positive. You will be shocked to learn that most people around share very similar values and social norms as you. Spend less time on TikTok and more time talking to people around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:29 AM
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Its like a everything in this sub. People on here are obsessed with specific numbers or putting very complicated human experiences into distinct categories. People in the real world care less about a specific body count and more about a persons reputation. I don’t want to marry a slut but I also don’t care if my wife has a body count or 4 or 10. The number doesn’t matter (up to a certain point) it’s how she got there that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:25 AM
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Bumble never really did anything revolutionary. Women already had the right of refusing a conversation by not swiping right on a profile. Plus it makes women do something that they don’t really like doing anyway which is starting the conversation. It actually makes starting interesting conversations more difficult because 99% of women will open with something extremely generic like “hey” or “how’s your weekend going” which takes away your options of trying to shoot for a more interesting ice bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:19 PM
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This is like saying your garden would look better if you actually looked after it. No shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:15 AM
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I worked behind a bar for 2 years in Canada in a female dominated establishment and a lot of the girls bitched about each other a lot but most didn’t actually “hate” each other. My career is in a male dominated field and a lot of the guys bitch about each other but most don’t actually hate each other. I’ve never really noticed much of a difference to be honest other than the fact women talk so much more at work than men which will make it seem like they are bitching about each other more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:56 AM
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Being hypocritical is a negative personality trait. However I don’t think having different standards and expectations of people based on their gender is hypocritical as we are psychologically and biologically different and face different societal expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:40 AM
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I don’t think it’s much of a mystery. This whole sub is obsessed with transactional aspects of dating. Who is getting more, why should I pay for a date if she doesn’t fuck me at the end of it? would “chad” have to pay? Etc etc IRL I’ve never had a problem with the whole question of who pays for a date thing. I offer to pay, the girl usually offers to split the bill and that’s it. Most normal people can navigate this very easy social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:31 PM
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I think the real question is what’s the point of these ridiculously oversimplified hypothetical questions? Every week there is some question like this that is absolutely pointless. No one is ever going to be faced with choosing between these scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:18 AM
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Is there even any true red pilled people left on this sub? I feel like most guys on here just say they are red pilled but really just like to complain about not getting sex and how hard they have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:43 PM
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You would probably be better off asking an actual woman but I don’t see why someone who wants to start a family wouldn’t worry about getting closer to an age where that won’t be possible anymore. Even as a guy turning 30 and still being single was a little worrying. Also just from an anecdotal perspective, all my female friends who were single all through their 20s have all miraculously found “the one” in the last year or two. I wouldn’t say they “freak out” it’s just natural that if you don’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:52 PM
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r/niceguys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:22 AM
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Thanks Dr Phil
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:39 AM
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I say this as someone who would feel slightly emasculated by a partner who earns more than me but feeling emasculated by your partner inheriting enough money for a house deposit sounds like someone with serious insecurities. Also I don’t mean to pile it on people who can’t afford a house deposit because I know it’s tough out there but if he doesn’t have enough money to seriously contribute to a house down payment at 30 and feels emasculated by women that can he sounds pretty committed to struggl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:34 AM
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I’m in my early 30s and most women I went to school with who haven’t had kids or let themselves go still look as good as they did in their 20s but I don’t think that’s what TRP primarily means when they say “the wall” I think “the wall” has always been more used to describe women who eventually want to settle down and have children who have been living the single life in their 20s all of a sudden are almost 30 and realise they have a very real timeline to find the right guy to settle down with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:45 PM
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I think there is some truth to it but a lot of people on here seem to misinterpret what that means. Society doesn’t inherently value youth in men as a positive like it does women, conversely it does value things like experience, status and maturity. When it comes to beauty standards on a whole we are less harsh about signs of ageing in men than we are of women (wrinkles, grey hair etc). When it comes to non physical attractiveness women find things like emotional maturity, status, wealth etc att…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:37 AM
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I think you’re just confused about what the term means.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:14 AM
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That’s not what simping is though. Simping is putting in time, effort, attention, affection etc into another person who doesn’t return it. Getting in shape and wearing nice clothes to attract a more attractive partner is not simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:46 AM
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I’ve literally never heard a woman say either of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:04 AM
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Breaking news: physical attraction is important
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:22 AM
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This subject is played out. Yes you can take womens advice but take it with a huge grain of salt because in my experience women give you advice that is nice to hear rather than advice that actually helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:18 AM
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I think this is because women will mostly only sleep with men who they would consider for a LTR while men will sleep with a lot of women they won’t consider having a LTR with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:43 AM
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I think this is extremely normal. It’s been two years of far less social interaction than we are used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:32 AM
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I think men and women are both capable of giving decent dating advice to the opposite sex, we both just don’t like being in awkward conversations that come from giving someone hard to hear advice so we both work our way around it. Men give vague non committal advice and women give overly positive non helpful advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:30 AM
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You will be fine. I’m 32 and didn’t settle down until a year ago, if you live in a large city there’s plenty of other single people in their late 20s and 30s and no the opinions on this sub definitely don’t reflect the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:16 AM
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This is a complete false equivalency though. You’re comparing a very insignificant difference in breast size to a possible massive difference in dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:48 AM
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I don’t necessarily believe this study but all the comments on here seem delusional and I wonder what world you all actually live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:44 AM
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I would be pretty surprised if even one of the women I’ve dated went on a date solely for free food. Maybe I’m just not dating close enough to the poverty line but I feel like that’s a lot of stress and effort for someone to go to just to get fed when they could order something for $20
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:39 AM
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Depends whether you mean to sleep with or to get into a relationship with. To get into a relationship I don’t really care much what specific hobbies or interests they have as long as they are active, healthy, positive, have a personality I find interesting and a vibe I enjoy being around and are in the same ball park as me in terms of core values.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:00 AM
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I remember this kind of thing happening a lot when I was in high school and in my early 20s but I can’t say I see much of it anymore from my wife’s friends. Women get a lot less bitchy as they get older in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:48 AM
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Haha fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:46 PM
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I had that misfortune. The middle part is just non sensical conclusions of someone who doesn’t seem to understand human relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:35 PM
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The jump in logic from reading study that indicates “men find women to be at peak attractiveness at 20” and coming to the conclusion that women should be alone forever because no man can love anyone over 20 is bizarre OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:30 PM
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I’m not asking for advice, just pointing out that suddenly standing up, throwing money on the table, saying goodbye and leaving the second you get an answer you don’t like is unnecessarily over the top and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:22 PM
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OP isn’t talking about “no sex” though, this guy says there is an “implicit promise” that you have a certain amount of sex in a monogamous relationship and if your partner doesn’t meet your expectations you have the right be able to have sex with other people. I’m just pointing out that that there isn’t a “promised” amount of sex in a monogamous relationship, it’s up to you to find people who are sexually compatible and that asking if you can sleep with other women when that imaginary sex quota …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:00 AM
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I’m not sure what this is trying to prove but I wouldn’t fuck any of these women so I don’t care who they sleep with
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:52 AM
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Attention acquired: Maximised.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:48 AM
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I too just move on after a first date if I don’t feel its going to go anywhere or I’m not feeling it but I would normally just continue the date and end it in a more normal and adult way. What you do seems a bit immature and overly dramatic to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:26 AM
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It’s still pretty misleading as even if it’s before the pay wall as the default setting on bumble was to be “no preference” you actually had to go into your settings and set a height preference, so this graph is just showing women who actually set a height preference and which heights were included in their preferences. Hardly any women that would be willing to date short guys would show up on this graph because they wouldn’t have bothered setting a preference. Even just from my own experience o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:17 AM
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Anything is reasonable as long as you and your partner agree on the same boundaries within a relationship. I wouldn’t consider this a reasonable request in a monogamous relationship though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:53 PM
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I think unattractive people are more likely to be ignored and unnoticed by attractive people than actively hated. I think you’re imagining that women feel this way about you when I’m reality they probably haven’t given you a second thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:58 AM
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I don’t think that’s the case. Seems like most of the anecdotal evidence on here comes from average or below looking average men struggling to get matches and dates from online dating. It makes sense though, there are far more men on OLD apps than women which means there is more competition with other men and an extreme amount of options for women who can be far pickier than what they would be IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:56 AM
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You could always turn her down and try and date someone younger but if you weren’t successful with girls under 25 in your 20s what makes you think you will have more success in your 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:52 PM
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It’s not automatically degrading it’s how people use it. It’s like when hardcore feminists say “straight white male” and saying it like an insult that I have a problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:16 AM
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This post is delusional. You start by saying the number one reason female beauty standard is harder to achieve because “you can’t build the ideal female physique in the gym” completely forgetting the fact that one sentence earlier said that all a man has to do to be attractive is “be tall, have a full head of hair, have a big dick and have proportionate features.” all of which can’t be achieved at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:38 AM
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Obviously this is an over generalisation but I think it’s as simple as the fact men are far more likely to have casual sex with someone they think isn’t suitable to be a long term partner than women. If a woman is having sex with a man 99% of the time it’s because she sees you as worthy of a LTR or is still trying to figure out if you are. If a man is having sex with a girl it’s because he finds you attractive enough to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:20 PM
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When did this whole idea of blaming the person you find unattractive for your own shallowness become common around here? I have my own personal preferences when it comes to women Im attracted to, I don’t like women who are overweight among many other things but at least I’m honest about it. Imagine if I started saying “it’s not actually me being shallow it’s the overweight womens fault for being insecure about this thing I find unattractive that actually makes them unattractive” Seems like shitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:45 AM
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I don’t think it means they necessarily want you to be vulnerable but it’s hard to say what if anything you’re doing wrong without knowing how you interact with people. You might not talk about yourself on a deeper level than what you did for the day and what you do for work and they found it hard to relate to you or it could just be that they aren’t that into you and are using a polite way of letting you down. Probably a conversation best had with a therapist to be honest because we don’t know …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:45 PM
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