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I honestly used to use this argument but minus the porn. Basically as a Christian I was saving myself for marriage/the one I would eventually be married to. I had a few women coming onto me that I knew I didn’t want to settle down with/ be in a relationship with but was at the same time sexually attracted to. Therefore, instead of potentially getting into trouble/involved with these women, I would just jerk one out to relieve the sexual tension and would avoid them altogether. It lowkey worked o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:20 PM
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Let me say this bro: As useful as it is to learn about TRP, the people on this sub are fucking degenerate nihilists. Never come here expecting good relationship advice. You seem like a really good guy to me, and I think the right thing to do here is potentially break up with your LTR if you’re in too deep with this other woman but I personally think you are chasing excitement and newness and abandoning something that is much more valuable.
/r/askMRP18/10/19 05:02 PM
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Gonna go right now 💪 that’s the whole thing for me, if she likes dad bods (which she doesn’t, based on how horny she was last night), too bad.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 07:13 PM
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Yeah she was pretty horny last night and we fucked hard. Hard to imagine the same if I had a port belly slopping around.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 07:11 PM
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I’m just sort of weirded out by this “dad bod” thing. It makes sense in the age of daddy issues. Is it possible that there are actually chicks out there that are more into that kind of body than someone who is ripped?
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:06 AM
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Haha I love that video 😂 it’s actually what I thought of when she said that. It’s still sort of insulting because I put time into my body and it’s like she wants to tear that down.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:04 AM
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Yeah it sort of just rubbed me the wrong way. Like she wants me to become a fat mediocre piece of garbage now that we’re in a relationship, but since I’ve been into red pill stuff for a few years now, I know that’s exactly how you lose your girl.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:54 AM
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I agree with your list. To me, if a girl doesn’t have social media that’s a huge green. Rare, but if she doesn’t have any sexual experience, that’s a green if you are looking for LTR.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 07:03 PM
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Well I don’t know the circumstances of his situation, but I assume it’s healthy. He made it seem that it was more of a circumstantial thing where it would have to be LDR, which I personally wouldn’t want, but that’s up for every couple to decide for themselves. The point is that many couples have survived LDR for periods of time.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 12:02 AM
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Forsure bro! I’m in a LTR myself and I love the girl and I post something about it and I get blasted by “oneitis” or “she’s probably banging Chad behind your back”, just super cliche sayings that made me realize how cynical these dudes truly are. I was once in that same place, borderline MGTOW, but I found a woman who lives up to the standards that I have for a relationship. There is a ton of stuff that the red pill is correct on, but not every guy is a piece of shit who cheats on his gf or want…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 10:14 PM
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If you want my advice bro, you’re asking the wrong forum. The dudes on this forum don’t really believe in LTRs unless you have 4 or 5 “plates” on the side. If you want a healthy LTR I wouldn’t be on this sub anymore. Keep that red pill knowledge and focus on self-improvement and everything, but I’m finding out more and more how much trp guys lack any sense of nuance when it comes to women and relationships.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:38 PM
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Cool word bro. It’s actually just a healthy relationship. Which contrary to this sub, actually do exist.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:27 PM
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I said I was red pill. I’m purple pill now. And I’m not a fucking miserable prick anymore like half of the people on this sub.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:27 PM
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What do you define as a top 20 percent guy?
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:21 PM
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Thanks! See I’m 24 and my gf was 20 when we met (21 now) after a certain age I imagine it’s almost infinitesimally rare to find a girl who is the full package and hasn’t been riding on the CC.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:27 PM
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I will say that I was very red-pilled, borderline MGTOW when it came to women, where I just kept my distance. A year later I am in an awesome relationship with a girl who I love very much. She pursued me and so I was basically given leverage to set the boundaries of the relationship and make her live up to my expectations. She was a virgin before we started dating, as was I, she has no social media, doesn’t go out and drinking unless she is with me. She understands that over stepping boundaries …
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:17 PM
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The question doesn’t pertain to me personally dick head but thanks anyways.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 05:14 AM
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I’m really confused about your response. So you would allow it because you do it, but you wouldn’t date someone who wants to go out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:53 PM
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I am currently in a relationship. I understand the whole point of holding frame and whatnot and letting things bounce off of you, as I do for the most part. Last weekend though, my gf called me an idiot in an extremely bitchy, non-joking fashion, and I basically told her that if she ever does that again, our relationship will be over. How does that boundary of respect line up with the idea of holding frame?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 08:08 PM
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harsh truth :/
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 04:51 AM
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Thanks bro! I honestly appreciate your comments. I have the same view. I am very cautious, and I have been hanging out with this girl for 4 months with the MGTOW mentality that told me that I couldn't let this become anything more, never really talking on a deep level about anything, and yet she has impressed me to the point where I have developed feelings and now have opened myself up to her. It's a very scary feeling, but I have definitely been moving slow with it.
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 04:29 AM
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Also I am going to add that we both were raised in the church. I have had relationships in the past where I have set the boundary that I was not going to have sex before marriage, so basically I am a virgin by my own choice (even though I wouldn't mind having sex before marriage at this point). She was kind of a late bloomer as far as she has told me. She had bad acne/ was over weight and didn't get much male attention, but now she looks really good.
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 04:24 AM
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Yeah key-words being "single" ahah. Totally agree with you on everything though man. I am starting up something with someone right now, even though I fought against my feelings tooth and nail. I am 24 years old and a virgin, she is 20 years old and she has told me that she is a virgin (I am trusting her on that). We have talked and she has told me that she wants to save her virginity for marriage, and although we have gotten physical, she always stops me when I seem to be advancing too far. She …
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 04:18 AM
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Yup! It's a battle between what they subconsciously want, and what they tell you that they want (commitment, flowers, etc.). When you do give them that commitment, they might subconsciously perceive you as weak. But when you are strong and unwilling to submit, they are trying to make you commit like it is some sort of challenge.
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 04:08 AM
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Forsure! I think that is a very level-headed thing to say. Of course we can't think that every woman is going to cheat/ has cheated when in a long-term relationship. In the same way, if us guys are honest, it would be the same for us. Many guys would cheat on their girl given certain circumstances. In my view, the thing that most correlates with the change in female fidelity from the past is the "sexual revolution", whereas in the past it may have been very easy to find a virgin woman, it is muc…
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 03:59 AM
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What if the chick is "lower" than the dude? What if a guy who is a 9 or a 10 is dating a 7 or an 8, as in, she already has a good deal.
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 03:39 AM
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Us dudes are such suckers for "love"
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 03:38 AM
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It's just kind of a weird thought that the Brad Pitt's of the world would have to worry about a woman sneaking behind their back, provided that the man showed nothing but loyalty to the woman. I don't think a lot of those guys are loyal to their spouse because every woman on the planet wants to sleep with them.
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 03:26 AM
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I have definitely noticed that when the women cheats it's because "he wasn't paying attention to me" blah blah blah. What if the guy is paying attention to her? Would she still have that impulsion to cheat?
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 03:23 AM
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Do you believe that there are any women who still have virtue? As in, they wouldn't just impulsively cheat on a guy just because they were going through a rough patch?
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 03:22 AM
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That's a good point... Scary world bro lol
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 03:01 AM
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Ohh okay gotcha! Thanks for the clarification. So by definition to monkey branch means to seek the "better deal", and they wouldn't do that unless the person was the "better deal", but that doesn't mean that they wouldn't cheat on someone they perceived as a high-status man.
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 03:00 AM
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As in, yes they would cheat, but only if the person they were cheating with was perceived as higher on the food chain the dude they are with?
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 02:58 AM
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I guess my question is, would they cheat on that person with someone that they perceived as "lower" than him, or would they only monkey branch if they found a better option?
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 02:56 AM
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Sorry, is this response in relation to the title of the thread, or the question itself? I just realized that they sort of warrant opposite responses.
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 02:55 AM
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So what you're saying is that I should drop her and go MGTOW? Thanks bro!
/r/MGTOW24/01/18 05:05 AM
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First post bro, my bad.
/r/MGTOW24/01/18 05:02 AM
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