| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | After a (very short) breakup...Dudes a big baby for crying, wtf is the matter with him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/24 01:36 AM |
| 5 | ”women expire after 25” no bro ur just into minors.Who hurt you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/24 08:26 PM |
| – | Am I (24F) wasting my time with my boyfriend (26M)?If my girlfriend tries to strong-arm me into marriage before year 2, then that relationship will not work out and it's best to move on. Marriage in 2024 is very risky business for men, it would take a complete idiot to not see that. Therefore the best, most careful move for the guy is to take his time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/24 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Porn addiction in men (reasons to avoid?)Men by and large seek sexual access from women, much less than they seek validation from women. Women by and large seek validation from men, much less than they seek sexual access from men. Therefore the equivalence still stands. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/24 11:21 PM |
| 6 | Porn addiction in men (reasons to avoid?)Porn undermines love for sure. I never understood why guys want anal so much? Maybe the porn has twisted their sense of reality? However, do not equate porn watching in men with porn watching in women. For women their "porn addiction" is social media validation addiction, aka seeking attention from many men. Attention from "one" guy won't be enough. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Guys I date don’t compliment my physical appearanceMeanwhile I’ll go for a walk and a random weirdo on the street will tell me I’m pretty or beautiful almost daily So you don't date those guys who do complement you, while you date the guys who DON"T complement you. Now this is funny | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/24 03:18 AM |
| – | I got what I thought I should want, and I miss what I threw awayPolitics is a circus, a theatrical event and someone who defines their life around their political beliefs is a clown | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/24 07:09 PM |
| – | How Women Keep ScoreSo if I kiss my girlfriend on the head say 10-15 times in rapid succession, does that equate to 15 points? Or is a logarithmic transformation applied in that scenario? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/24 03:57 AM |
| 1 | I’m terrified I’ll never experience romantic love. Think I’m unlovable and unattractive.This is an everyday experience for I reckon 70-80% of men, especially in that age range | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Dating 4+ years, boyfriend hasn’t proposed and I’m ready to be married and have babiesProbably due to the slaughterhouse for men which is marriage and divorce court | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/24 06:49 AM |
| 1 | SEX WITH NO DESIRE?I really don't get why men stay in relationships / marriage with a women where they are not aligned on something as significant as sex? What's wrong with parting ways and finding someone that has a more aligned sex drive? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Extremely different sleeping habitsThat's just your mind and imagination. I'd probably learn how to *genuinely* meditate, so after some time in the practice you create a detachment from "your" thoughts, and understand you're merely witnessing these thoughts, and they only have power over you if you let them. Just sounds like that underlying anxiety expressing itself in that way. Meditation will also tackle that, but the trick is to experience it out without resisting it | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/24 02:07 AM |
| 0 | Extremely different sleeping habitsWhy don't you just ignore the thoughts? You're giving the thoughts more power than they deserve simply because you label them as "MY" thoughts. They're not your thoughts at all | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/24 07:45 PM |
| 12 | Years have gone by and I still think about my high school boyfriendBecause you're attaching far too much importance to what your mind conjures up as "thoughts". Thoughts are impersonal and our narcissistic attachment to "our" thoughts is what causes suffering. Ignore the mind | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/24 08:54 PM |
| 1 | My 30M boyfriend is always upset about smth when we travelTell him to man up and stop acting like a woman | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/23 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Do men really enjoy providing or a coverup?I'm very very happy to being a provider for a feminine women, not from the West. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/23 11:12 PM |
| 0 | Am I going for guys that are out of my league?Relationships are in the domain of the feminine, mens lives should be centered around drive and their purpose. When a man brings up wanting to be exclusive when she is not there yet, then the relationship will implode, therefore it is always best for the guy to wait for the "what are we" talk from her. The advice for men "Never Ask a Woman to Become Exclusive" does not exist for no reason. If a man asks first, he will never know his woman's true interest level in him, Becoming exclusive with a w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/23 02:27 AM |
| -1 | Am I going for guys that are out of my league?No, the women should be the one to bring up exclusivity, not the man | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/23 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Is a man talking about men’s nature (polygamy, need for sex) a red flag?One women is a handful, a man is a giga-simp if he needs or requires more than one. A slave to his lust. Sex is nice, but putting sex on a pedestal is pretty simpy | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/23 12:23 AM |
| 1 | The “girlfriend effect”Kind of implying that women "change" men, and that men need women to improve? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/23 08:43 AM |
| 1 | I’m a formerly poor woman who married into extreme wealth. AMA!This is why I STRONGLY advise men to not lead with their wealth | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/23 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Husband is (almost) perfect: How to balance his sexual fantasies and my faithThe way porn works is it inflames that desire, therefore the more porn that is consumed the greater this desire grows and the more that is "required" to fulfill it, which always leads to suffering. This is one of the greatest challenges for men, to be able to handle and harness their libido. Porn definitely undermines love. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/23 07:57 AM |
| 0 | Lost a High-Value Man"but I could tell he was turned off by my interest in spirituality" " I feel things were ruined over trauma and tarot cards" I seriously hope you are not conflating spirituality with "tarot cards". That's probably by far the biggest issue at hand here, not that you lost a "great guy". | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/23 09:05 PM |
| – | Dating someone who never wants to get married"Sacrifice anything", you mean put his balls on the chopping block to get absolutely sodomized in the event divorce happens (even if you weren't legally married, AND even if you signed a prenup) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/23 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Dating someone who never wants to get marriedWhat business does the government have in a man's love life? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/23 09:59 AM |
| -1 | "I told you so"?Contemplate on the "I told you so". This is your pride and ego speaking and trying to belittle another human (whether consciously or subconsciously), trying to manipulate and control. The thing that you said "I told you so" about is probably extremely inconsequential, is it worth destroying a relationship over? This doesn't mean go into guilt about having an ego as every human inherits one, but it should be a trigger to investigate it so it doesn't have a hold on you. I'm willing to bet most con… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/23 10:34 PM |
| 1 | I don’t like that my boyfriend is a gamer.Do you have an Instagram? A facebook? A Tiktok? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/23 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend calling me namesRead the book Letting Go by David R Hawkins | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend calling me names> because it’s true that I can often be highly intolerant about any small comment I don’t like Is this because of your pride? Maybe a little self-reflection will go a long way. Ask yourself why does this comment make me feel this way? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/23 03:47 AM |
| 1 | A waitress was rude to me and I feel like my boyfriend is more concerned about her than me. Ladies, what do you think of this situation?So you are the victim here? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/23 03:42 AM |
| 1 | A waitress was rude to me and I feel like my boyfriend is more concerned about her than me. Ladies, what do you think of this situation?The problem is not out there. The problem is in your mind and how you perceived this. Look within, try to find out why it made you upset. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/23 03:37 AM |
| 4 | What would the “Surrendered Wife” approach be to husband’s excessive porn use?Just a guy's input here; please understand that it is NOT personal (it is not a reflection on you or your attractiveness). Porn addiction tends to be strong. Porn addiction for men is on par with something like social media addiction for women. It is not an easy battle by any means. You are taking the wrong approach by being "forceful". He has to come to it by himself, that's the truth, you're basically emasculating him at this point (but we can see that you definitely mean well). Many people tr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/23 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Do most HVM and women view waiting for marriage as archaic? If you express this desire to a decent man what will his take generally be?Well considering men in the west get absolutely slammed in divorce court, I don't find it unreasonable for a guy with options to not wait until marriage | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/23 03:49 AM |
| – | loyalty until marriage?I probably wouldn't listen to anyone who has in their title: "spiritual mentor", what a joke | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/23 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Finding the right man has been a very frustrating journey …Probably because you give off these vibes: https://www.reddit.com/r/Diabla/comments/103hhud/securing_the_bag_through_marriage/ High value men can pick up on this shit immediately, i.e seeing a man as a means to an end: securing the bag. Only beta-simps will fall for that. If you are not genuine in your intention, then good luck, you will need it | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/23 04:00 AM |
| 26 | I love this group and I am curious if there is a similar one for women who are with high value men?Are you a woman in the top 1% of attractiveness and demeanor? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/02/23 03:48 AM |
| 15 | Thoughts on “Passport bros”?> And that brings us to the crux of the problem: passport bros need to understand that they are attempting to use Beta Bux Game on women where the asking price may be cheaper thanks to the power of the American dollar/euro. Yeah, clueless guys do this worldwide. If a guy chooses to go this route (which I definitely do not recommend) he's better off doing this route overseas than locally. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/02/23 03:38 AM |
| 14 | Thoughts on “Passport bros”?I am overseas currently and have a job in an area of data science/AI/engineering. Let me tell you, the way women treat the men here is like a night and day difference. You may think that I'm maybe unattractive but that's not the case; I am 6'4 200lbs athletic, late 20's. I know AWALT, but it seems in general the women where I am currently are MUCH easier to talk with (even with the major language barrier), men crave feminine women, we are happy to take good care of them. I can get women in the w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/02/23 03:30 AM |
| 8 | How do you guys feel about dating/marrying a man who watches porn?Men should definitely do what they can to avoid porn use as it effects much more than relationships with women. I find when I completely avoid porn (and social media) I'm much more focused on creating my business / focused for uni study / gym. I believe porn destroys men's will and drive and cause them to subconsciously simp to women. Porn use to men is the equivalent to social media validation for women (in the form of "likes", including the validation from online dating). Finding a man who doe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't sex ed teach young women about their fertility?You were so close, but you forgot one little thing, I'll give a clue; it's been pushed HARD the past 1-2 years on the population | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/23 04:26 AM |
| -1 | Not quite sure what else I can do to prove my worthYou proved my point about women shaming men for it , thank you, take care. Like I said it's a visceral gut feeling universal to men - hate men for it all you want. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/23 08:05 PM |
| -5 | Not quite sure what else I can do to prove my worth> Then, when pressed, explain how that information would affect them negatively and how you're a changed woman now I don't want to sound like a dick here but that would tell a guy all he needs to know, you may say it's a "double-standard", but this is just instinct for guys, instinct is how we survived for millennia so I'd wager to bet that this instinct that men have serves a very important evolutionary purpose. Women "shaming" men for being bothered by it is really a spectacle. It is a viscera… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/23 09:36 AM |
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