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Same here man, I live in SEA where you based?
/r/askTRP26/10/20 07:36 AM
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The general accepted divorce excuse, unless it was physical “abuse”, there probably wasn’t anything wrong with the relationship she just isn’t ready to be a grown up or has found another branch to swing to.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 07:10 AM
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Have you ever seen a post on other dating subs where a woman complains that she can’t get attention from “guys”? What she means is attractive guys not beta males, hopefully that answers your question.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:21 AM
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Lack of attention from attractive men
/r/askTRP02/08/20 02:53 AM
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This is completely wrong my guy, if you are white try to visit developed countries in Asia (so that you won’t say, “they want a green card”) such as Singapore, Japan or South Korea. Women want mixed kids if they view them as having a better chance of replicating with high SMV people, this is what motivates the whole “cute babies” thing. Every Asian woman wants her kids to look like Kristin Kruek or the Asian guys from Altered Carbon. It’s because Kristin has a higher chance of getting with Zac E…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 11:58 AM
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Ask any white guy who has lived in Asia for a while, I can tell you that it doesn’t wear off. You are confusing it with “the cool guy in town” kinda thing, with race things work differently as some women perceive their children to have a higher chance of replicating if they are mixed. This is why Asian women have a reputation for wanting mixed babies, also a mixed black guy will probably have a lot of success in Northern Europe for the same reasons, it neutralises racist (if he is mixed with whi…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 01:41 AM
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I’ll delete it, just find it annoying. Thanks.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 09:23 AM
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Imagine when you meet your friends and someone is dressed just like you? It doesn’t even bother you guys?
/r/askTRP14/05/20 09:21 AM
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I feel posts like this are extremely useful for calibration, it’s not so much for a solution. You still have to go through different situations and figure out whether to and how to pursue a woman on your own.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 08:13 AM
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The harshest “it’s not always like that bro” yet, lol.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 04:36 AM
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My ex LTR was like this, she was a 6 when we met and during our 5 year LTR she kept on working on herself to the point where DJs in the were sending her dms. One guy bought her an iPhone, but the humility was always there. She still stayed with a broke dude like me even when she peaked, those are the best but are hard to spot.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 02:59 AM
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No, your post quality is poor that’s why you think about that. You don’t need to get “social proof” on social media, you just need to have over 500 followers and 100-200 who like and comment on your photos (showing that you’re not a complete loser) and post CONGRUENT content (consistent with what people know you or see you as) as well as high quality posts. PeteMckinnon is a good reference (photography content), JoosMooney (if you’re into men’s style) etc. Follow people you know and if they don’…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:23 AM
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Afterwards, if she stops you, you move on right? I don’t see anyway of recovering other than becoming a bench player/orbiter
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:53 AM
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Your next Challenge is to forget about her and move on, also work on your game it’s quite awful to be honest.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:55 AM
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This is how things work here you either get with it or get lost, TRP is harsh. I used my knowledge to decode your personality here, no assumptions. If knew how to talk to women you wouldn’t have said that or asked. You would have said something like “Getting nasty are we Sarah, lol.” And she would have continued the conversation if she wanted, that shows playfulness and maturity as well as an understanding that how women present themselves is not what they are. Your faggotry instead has an under…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:24 AM
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“Please” isn’t the problem, your conversation topic is poor. “Commanding” women is also some third world Islam rubbish, we use dread, high SMV and maintaining frame to control the dynamics of our relationships. She removed it to avoid her “good girl” persona being questioned by a blue pill faggot here, you don’t know how to analyse women bro. That’s why you took this silly stuff as an indicator of interest.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:12 AM
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Read bro, I am not going to spoon feed you, get The Mystery Method to know how to actually talk to women and The Rational Male to understand their behaviour, finally No more Mr Nice Guy to get over the rubbish self righteousness they teach you in Islam which made say “oh Sarah please remove...” who told you what right or wrong? And who made you an authority over her? Why do you think what she posted is out character? What if it’s not and you’re just a blue pill faggot holding on to some stupid i…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 01:29 AM
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Bro, you really don’t know anything, and I am not saying this to offend you. Start with sidebar material and gradually build up to books like The Rational Male. If you are Muslim (from your handle) forget it, there is nothing a practising Muslim can do to become Red Pill, which explains your ridiculous behaviour, assumptions and questions.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:30 PM
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This is very sad, the last years of my long LTR were like that, she would do anything for me but was just not in the mood (not sexually attracted to me anymore). You are purely a beta male provider to her, since you have been married for 17 years she probably over the wall so just puts little effort to avoid going back into the dating market (hence why you think she loves you). I gave two perspectives there, first paragraph is the blue pill one, second is the red pill rationale. What you choose …
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:34 PM
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Mmmmh, bro this is probably the most simpish stuff I’ve ever read on this sub, how old are you fam? Have you ever taken a look at the sidebar? I’m guessing everyone is too ashamed to even reply. Literally don’t even know where to start.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 01:02 PM
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Pre-selection = Attractive (High SMV) + Non Neediness (being unavailable - mission will help with this) + Good social skills (really just read “How to Win Friends and Influence People” plus be willing to walk away if people do things you don’t like). If you have all those sorted, you will not feel the need to fake it, in my opinion at least.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:33 AM
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You don’t need to fake it, you need to find a mission or “life destination” then start working towards it. You also need to find hobbies that you enjoy as well as find ways to spend your leisure time. Finally, start lifting, it’s not too much work it is really fun once you begin. The fact that you’re asking this question means you don’t have any of the above.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 01:39 AM
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I remember high school days, unfortunately there isn’t much you can do if you aren’t “cute”, have a “cool” car/shoes/clothes or go to a “popular” school or sports etc. Just wait it out, keep improving yourself, learn an instrument and keep working on your style. Don’t go to college in a shit city or state. And please move on maaan, remember all your crushes from childhood? She is soon going to be one em, just another distant memory, we all have them.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 04:22 AM
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Bro this is now sounding like an obsession, do you have a life? Do you have a job/school, go to the gym and have a direction in your life? Maybe your SMV is still really and you lucked out with a 6 at best and think she is an 8 now, you then fucked 4s hoping to get over her, is any of that correct? Move on bro, get a life, you are a red pill man, not some blue pill faggot who can’t get over some woman.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 03:44 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/askTRP11/04/20 05:16 PM
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They hamster bro, this is how attractive betas end up with attractive women. Once she likes you, because she perceives your SMV to be high and you are her type, she will start twisting these things to suit her agenda. Instead of it being weakness she will say “he is sweet” until someone else gives her tingles.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 10:14 AM
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Emotions, remorse, fear and laziness I understand. Not helping someone in need because women are watching is not something I am willing to do, we need to start questioning what women’s values as well and disqualify those who do not meet our bar, otherwise we are just pedestalizing pussy/sex. As our ladies over at FDS say, it is not a battle between sexes, it’s low value vs high. The top 10% guys have women fold to get their attention.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 10:06 AM
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4 fucking years, then I get a text and run to tell internet dudes while asking for their approval as I contain my excitement. How is that oneitis and a lack of options?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:39 PM
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Hahaha had the same experience, also met her at Church. It seems if they meet you there they always assume you’re a low value beta, mine was a 5, rejected me flat out because I wasn’t interesting enough. They go to church to get attention from low value churchy betas, it’s just another subgroup where women go if they can’t compete anywhere else, never approach women from church, they are not the good girls they present themselves as.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 04:40 AM
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This happened to me when I was your age, just laugh it off but don’t be a dick about it, “why would I fuck an uggo like her” don’t say stuff like that. It’s better to just say, when someone brings it up, “I’ve never said I single word to her I swear, must be some crush or something”. The latter shows more maturity and experience with women versus what you just said in the title, she doesn’t hate you that’s why she said you fucked.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 08:43 AM
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Bro your ego is going to lead to an unfulfilling life, just ghost her and start looking for other women, we all have been rejected before but instead of going back we just moved on.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 09:02 AM
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Yap, she has hit the wall, you represent the “beta in waiting” to her. In her prime she would have never considered you, even if you have raised your SMV, she stills sees you as a bench player who comes on when the game is about to end.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:02 AM
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I don’t know if this qualifies, but I also thought some of my recent experiences with women were also Beta Bait: • If your SMV is high (other women giving you attention) some will pretend to not be interested as a way to get you to chase them. I think this is beta bait because, if you are a beta, you will not be able to realise that she is manipulating you. The key here is seeing how she interacts with low value beta males, if it’s positive “brotherly love”, her acting indifferent to you is just…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 09:52 AM
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I was surprised when some guy from Jordan wrote on the main thread “we are very red pilled” yet the only way they can get access to sex is by sacrificing commitment. Women are kept in check by religion but they still hold the keys to sex so they act entitled but he went on to say “girls are raised like queens” because he did not understand this. I don’t think religious people can ever be red pilled, women cannot survive without external validation and join sub groups where they can compete bette…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 03:15 PM
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Bro just do as you will, if you’re bored and need some one to annoy just talk to some woman. I honestly don’t see what’s wrong with that, just don’t “game them” thinking you’re going to get some result. Been texting girls who gave me their numbers 3 months ago lately, it’s just out of boredom. You probably don’t want them anyway.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:38 AM
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I wanted to stay but I also had a dysfunctional family (my mother had BPD and likely NPD as well), so I had to leave. I haven’t heard from my family in years so really don’t have a reason to go back, I am just trying to figure out where to go next.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:47 PM
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I don’t brag, and rarely mention work and money. I avoid this because I understand it’s something many people from 3rd world countries would want that (settling somewhere a bit more stable). Sponsorship in this case means I am in a high paying job, the few ones which the government allows foreign talent. The biggest change from PUA days is that now I am bigger and have my own money. I also am smarter now having experienced a few girls that I had flings with when I was studying, but they now seem…
/r/askTRP26/03/20 08:33 AM
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Lol, been thinking about it, thanks.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 02:41 AM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 06:31 PM
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Thanks bro, I only go for Black African women as there is a sizeable student community here but can’t even get a date with a 5, this wasn’t the case when I was skinny and back in my native country. Asian women are a non starter here so I don’t even bother. I also never tell women how much I make, they just lose interest when I say I am working and I’m from SA. I don’t know why this gives strong beta vibes to them.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 06:02 PM
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Bro what would happen to all the arm chair alphas out there? Please let them be.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:50 PM
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😂😂😂...
/r/askTRP23/03/20 03:05 PM
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Yeah, I feel you on the money. I’d rather save my money than buy women too. I was just curious how you can approach 500 women lol, but I get your point.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 11:36 AM
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Do you have a high paying job or own a business? If you have either, 150 approaches is huge. You’d have to go out every weekend to reach that.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 11:25 AM
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My mother was a raging narcissist, behind all her actions I could see how the end goal was always to “one up” the Jones’s. I began to see that other women did the same, then I found this sub and learnt of the AF/BB was really disappointed that all women are like that.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:18 AM
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I’ve met a woman like this, she probably sees you as a beta male provider. The one I dealt with stayed with her sister’s family because she was doing her graduate degree to avoid going back to our shit hole. She was desperate for a beta male provider and I noticed she was surprised when I finally had enough (I realised that she was projecting her interest to me and decided to make me a circus lion thinking I would keep on chasing her). Unfortunately there is no way to game these women, by the ti…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 03:03 PM
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I’m at a similar stage as OP, worked hard in the gym, style is on point (everyone comments on it directly/indirectly) and make double what people my age makes. I used to be big into PUA and got an HB8 LTR for a while, kept gaming and got a few 7s and 8s inviting me to their place (was hella broke in college, my ltr paid the rent) so never went further with them. Now I raised my SMV, after months of monk mode, and have nothing to show for it in terms of women. I get lots of IOIs but when pursue t…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 04:12 PM
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Why do you desire to spend so much time talking to people over a keyboard? If a conversation is dead it’s just dead bro, I have friends and we don’t even text each other unless if it’s to meet.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 08:33 AM
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Yeah I feel you maaan, just move on, you don’t want to spend too much time worrying about this. Just clean up cause if you don’t it will look like what it isn’t.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:42 AM
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She doesn’t see it that way bro. To clean up your mess, when you meet her, have really high energy, raise your arms up and say, “What the fuck bro(this one is important)? you blocked me on <date>”. You should make it appear casual like that to avoid have a weird relationship with her and having her spread rumours about you. Find other women and may the force be with you fam.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:38 AM
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Move on bro, you have oneitis.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:04 PM
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Yes, I promise.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 12:45 AM
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Lol, bro. Get a nice haircut and buy some nice clothes, I promise someone will like your shit.😉
/r/askTRP25/02/20 11:38 PM
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No, you likely have some narcissistic traits and are afraid to admit that you may not “get likes” or “be cool enough to post” so you project that insecurity to “soyboys” by saying they waste time chasing validation. If it didn’t bother you, you would not even care about Instagram, or name call anyone who uses it. I personally don’t take drugs, for example, but I do not see the need to criticise anyone who takes them, I am not insecure about that.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 10:45 AM
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Can you tell me what’s wrong with that? What’s wrong with a successful business man buying a Mercedes to show his success. You should do whatever you feel like man, there is honestly nothing wrong with that. You might as well stop buying nice clothes if you born poor because “you are projecting an idealised self onto strangers” when we both really know you are a peasant. Do you get what I’m saying? This is rubbish over analysis, just do whatever you feel guys. What matters is whether you underst…
/r/askTRP25/02/20 12:43 AM
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Wrong wrong wrong, we approach in the real world but just happen to love social media. We especially love cars, urban or fashion photography as well as celebrities. We also love buying clothes and posting pictures of ourselves wearing them or travelling, soon as we see a thot on our search feeds we click “see fewer posts like this”. When we follow prospects in our social circles, soon as she shows low interest we click “mute” to stop seeing her shit (sometimes we even unfollow), we are not orbit…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:24 PM
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Damn dude, I have 6 numbers that I never even bothered to follow through with. I also used to think I had AA but realised I approach whenever I feel like it, I no longer even wait for IOIs. Problem is I feel so lazy to follow through, the only time I went on a date was when I bumped into a prospect and we decided to hang out. She was a bit 50/50 so I deleted her number afterwards. I really wonder how guys here can do 50 women a year etc, on the weekend I just want to chill, if a woman is not int…
/r/askTRP23/02/20 01:14 PM
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I really don’t know why they answer like dicks here at times😂😂😂😂
/r/askTRP20/02/20 11:08 AM
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Stop hanging around them/her and get a life. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 02:20 PM
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Bro younger girls come to church to socialise, especially the attractive ones, you sound like you hate someone you have oneitis for. Get a life bro, leave this one/ them alone, knowing this bullshit won’t help, hoe or not she/they will not fuck as long as you are in “why are they like this?” mode. This is a sign of scarcity, “why are they like this?” === “why will they not fuck me?”.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 01:24 PM
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As someone who cold approaches sometimes, I can tell you, especially with 7s and above, without IOIs you are probably going to get rejected. The way I think of it now is she would have probably been approached by a thousand losers by the time you go, so in her mind you’ll just appear to be like them. In contrast with IOIs, when you wait she will now think the one who isn’t approaching her is “the real one” and proceed to invite him. AMS once gave a story were he approached a girl at a club, with…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 05:32 PM
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Hahaha😹😹😹
/r/askTRP08/02/20 12:45 PM
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It was both, you are dealing with someone who can pick subconscious cues fast and was also shopping for a reaction. This is exactly how narcissistic (I mean NPD here) women behave as well as BPD, you will now start chasing for her validation, since she already has you wondering “why?”. Leave this one alone bro and move on with your life fast.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 02:01 PM
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This is exactly what I thought too.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 01:56 PM
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Lmao, Christ Almighty😂😂😂
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:25 AM
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Going through the same bullshit, asking myself the same questions, been wondering if it’s just maybe still a numbers game after all. What if we are just buff egotistical versions of PUA who just don’t memorise lines and rely on our “cool lives” when we talk to women, ultimately hoping for the best in every interaction.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 07:01 PM
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Bruh🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️, how do people just say this impractical stuff here and no one questions it?
/r/askTRP28/01/20 12:52 PM
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Maaan comeon, we spend lots of time watching Rollo’s videos, AMS’s videos, sidebar, PUA material, I even started wearing an earring on the right and my everyday stud on the left. I am also having OP’s problem, I do not over pursue, I flirt but not aggressively, sometimes they come to me and start telling me how I should be going out on dates (yap this really happens to me), but I can’t for the life of me break out of this “husband material” character they try to cast me as. I am attractive, 6 ft…
/r/askTRP25/01/20 04:06 AM
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The ones I know avoid their orbiters when you’re around (if she wants you), even sluts at the club do this, females at church, all of them evade their orbiters if they like you. If she keeps them she likely just thinks “you are cute” and would be a lovely addition to her fleet, she will keep teasing you like that giving you fake IOI’s. I’m really telling you man, it ain’t worth it, it’s not a marcho thing. Just game other women and move on, they will create opportunities for you to approach them…
/r/askTRP20/01/20 09:26 AM
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Exactly
/r/askTRP19/01/20 03:38 PM
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This is real world experience with a woman who sees you as a beta male provider, it’s not as straight as the books and posts describe it, but at the end of the day when she is a single mother in her 20s she is just looking to cut the financial and emotional burden of raising children. Move on for your own sake bruv, this is 100% not a good idea.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:01 AM
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Thank you so much for this, I have been thinking of moving to a big city (I live in South East Asia, Singapore etc) but my current workmates and social circles really like me. Weird thing is I live in a racist place (sometimes it’s even hard to find an apartment because I’m black), I am not paid well enough to save but it’s twice what New Grads make here, I have limited options with women as well (there are very few black people who live here), most are approaching the wall and tend to have prob…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/20 01:24 AM
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This, it’s not as straightforward as OP thinks.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:00 AM
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If you might need something from them (maybe you are in the same social circles), just put them on ‘mute’ if it’s Instagram, you won’t see what they post, basically forgetting them, it works for me.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 11:38 PM
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Bro been doing this and women have invited me over to their place, if you go from fun guy to seducer you just come off as a fuck boi (not the one that gets fucked), even PUAs do that shit when they “cold read” and stuff. You need to time it well, the IOIs will guide you through it, they are not difficult to see. Normally when escalate, she won’t even resist.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 12:41 PM
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Any advice, really thinking of dropping her.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 10:46 AM
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I guess this was my mistake, I thought once you have some shit things just start happening.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 10:44 AM
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I am not lying bro, my upper body (lats and shoulders) is really good, wish Biceps were bigger (still working on it) but triceps are okay. I keep my diet really clean, only bad stuff I take is a Soft Drink Can at lunch.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 10:42 AM
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My game is decent, I think, women actually enjoy hanging out with me. I always follow a format: Mr Sociable (jokes and stories) -> Mr Comfort (asking serious questions while keeping energy a bit high) -> Mr Seducer (here I start showing interest). I used terms from Gambler’s Natural Game.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 10:39 AM
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Thanks a lot man.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 10:36 AM
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You know what’s weird man, I’m 6 ft and weigh 95 kgs with about 10-12% body fat, I make twice as much as the guys my age in the area. My game isn’t bad and I got approached by the high SMV chick in her circle, I really don’t see how she “could do better”, you think there is something I’m missing? Maybe that alpha widow stuff? Or maybe I’m just hamstering with my own SMV (I use women’s IOIs to gauge it)
/r/askTRP22/12/19 03:38 PM
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Thanks, really needed this.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 02:59 PM
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Such a harsh reality to accept but that’s what being a man is all about, it gets easier to move on with time, you won’t even care at some point.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:41 AM
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If they were not engaged in the interaction, it was low/no interest. They just gave you a number to be nice (likely because you are white or a western Asian)
/r/askTRP02/12/19 12:02 PM
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Yeah, but the quality of life is very high there, no one wants to leave or marry “for a better life”. That’s why those countries have strong passports, a person from Malaysia can go to a lot of ‘better’ countries without needing a visa.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 11:17 PM
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This has always been my belief as well, it’s not about money or green cards and all that other visa bullshit. It’s about her access to a large pool of high value men (which to them are white). She will come with you back to the West but I imagine the sex falls as her mission now is complete and she begun evaluating her options again.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:13 PM
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Man, this isn’t a place to judge people, let people do what they want to get better access to women (sex).
/r/askTRP20/11/19 03:47 PM
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This. Malaysia, Thailand and Singapore are not shitholes, there is a reason those countries have strong passports, women there just have a strong preference for white men. Some even say “if you’re not pretty or cool you can’t get a white guy”, they are the ones that put in the work not you.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 03:44 PM
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Thing is no one even wants to hint at it anywhere, had my rude awakening while studying in Asia as an African. Couldn’t find an apartment or people to do group assignments with, I now know to avoid places like the US, my friends studied at Stanford and Carnegie Mellon and still decided to come when they were done. I can only imagine.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 03:35 PM
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Haha cool, it started with a durag cause I was waving my hair. I then got a baseball jersey (the dodgers), bought it random at mall, coupled with my ‘size 38’ instead of 36, I found myself back in 2005. Lol
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 09:33 AM
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Lol...don’t know if you’re being sarcastic or not, but it happens because that’s what represents a “cool black guy” in their minds, thanks to hip hop etc.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 08:10 AM
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This has been my experience as well, I was a student in South East Asia (as a black dude you have the lowest SMV here) when I started dressing like a rapper from the 05’s (durag, baseball jersey and baggy jeans) I started getting IOIs from women who want nothing to do with non Asian/White dudes.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 11:25 PM
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Since you have experience with them I have to ask, are 9/10 really worth it either way? I personally think the women who could be insta models but don’t quite make the cut are the best (8’s basically)
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 02:32 PM
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Not worth it bruh, some of us just want pussy we don’t really care about these women. I will gladly lie☺️😊why tell someone who can leave you at a moment’s notice the truth? Let her find out by herself. You are still operating on a “relationship based” paradigm and even what you said is moralising to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 02:03 PM
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It is, you think a slut really thinks, “Wow, a biochemist” and gets wet? This isn’t me hating, I’m in engineer at a “nerdy cool” company, I used to think working at Google/Facebook was cool😂😂😂😂
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 01:51 PM
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This is the real issue here, she is limited by something (money, competition for top tier guys, low SMV) but she is rationalising and saying instead “what angry internet men say is not true, look at me”. This is what TRP calls “hamstering”, she just can’t face the fact that she is limited. Both men and women date up and explore their options if they have the means to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 01:33 AM
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You under estimate “the different story” angle you presented here, I remember listening to a video by Rollo where he mentions how the same thing helps sell female fantasy stories, if 50 Shades of Grey was just about a dude who loves BDSM it wouldn’t have sold but a rich guy who is into BDSM, now we’re talking. Women care a lot about the validation they get from selling stories, what’s better than a “guy in a band”, she’ll think. I make a lot in my profession and could easily say I am top 10% in …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 03:13 PM
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You don’t need to be super famous, an example is a guy who has an organic follower base of around 5000, add also guys who “known to be rich” - lambo/Ferrari types, guys who are 3rd and 2nd division athletes, guys in local bands, it’s definitely around 10% that’s why I further said maybe 5%. These guys are really at the top, they are not easy to get for women vs top 20% which is usually cool hobbies, 6 figures, good body. You need something else to go beyond that, many people think they are alrea…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 12:33 PM
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What’s primarily motivating the ones that do? I think it’s the belief that now the woman has less power than she had when she was younger.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 09:43 AM
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Many people don’t know, I only realised it recently. Many women left for the west to “help the family” then after a couple of years she would remarry and our friends with these parents would only get a phone and a cologne every now and then.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 06:05 AM
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Jesus Christ, that’s the brutal shit I aspire to
/r/askTRP23/09/19 08:22 AM
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I feel like once it gets “too out of control” or if she was unaware of it she will leave once those sadistic traits emerge.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 06:14 AM
2

But narcissist do the same, they also think highly of themselves and are emotionally manipulative without the sadistic nature of psychopaths.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 06:13 AM
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I was about to write something along those lines but kept doubting what I thought, I think narcissist are more desirable to women especially after they realise the sadistic nature of a psychopath. I know one guy who is sadistic and impulsive, before I knew I got close to him and he would complain about how women avoid him after a few interactions despite him being “handsome”, he is extremely toxic and deceptive, when he wants something from you he will make you believe that you are genuine frien…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 06:11 AM
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Going to get hella downvoted for saying this but since I read this I thought OP was trying to make their personal preference a “standard”,. This is genuinely a useless post about a guys’ preferences and many others agreed because this aligns with their idea of an “ideal/perfect/good” woman. Soon mofos will say “if a woman drives a convertible she is risk taking and it’s a red flag” mark my words. Both men and women, when they eliminate a sub-group/race/etc (in this case “tattooed women”) from th…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 05:35 AM
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In a similar situation, I live somewhere were my race has the lowest SMV so even a social life is non-existent. You just have to live through it bro, I’ll be leaving next year in April if all goes well, planning to lift and start working on my photography skills till then.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 03:12 PM
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You always have to bounce when you’re done, but man I live here, many guys just stay and start living the beta male fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 08:37 AM
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They still view you as BB and they also want the “mixed cute babies”, Asian women are very shallow bruh, you may not even enjoy her company for long. Once she has secured her needs ain’t no telling what happens next.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 08:06 AM
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You personally define an “alpha” as someone “physically attractive and strong” as opposed to what an alpha really is, it is simply someone who is “unclouded by pretense, afterthought or conscious awareness of any influence that have hope of prompting introspection”. Basically an alpha defines their own reality and rules, there is nothing you can do to persuade them to change. Some are good people some are terrible, but they have a strong frame irregardless. It has nothing to do with being “physi…
/r/askTRP19/09/19 03:57 AM
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Though for males you also have to group them by age as well, I am not American either. What you say about top 10% is what I was trying to emphasise as well. I personally think you can slay comfortably if you are top 10% because it isn’t limited to Hollywood actors (hence why I mentioned an upcoming YouTuber), you also have B list celebrities, guys who play in second and third divisions of sports, Instagram male models, popular guys on Twitter and of course guys who are just extremely attractive.…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 04:21 AM
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At a certain point (around 10%) it’s only fame that separates the best from the rest, not money, not frame, not how alpha you are etc and that’s what top 5% really is, there is nothing stopping both you and I from getting there but what I said is the harsh reality. The only way around that is to rationalise your SMV and tell yourself that you are separate from other men and live in a vacuum where everything is fair. Acknowledging this fact will only move you forward not backwards.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:56 PM
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When I say up and coming YT I don’t mean some punk, I saw some of the girls a hip hop journalist gets now and even he acknowledges that it is the fame from YT that got him there, he has access to Instagram models etc. This is because he has more value to them now, these platforms allow you to grow in popularity we live in 2019 now not Nineteen Ninety Nine.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:48 PM
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Are you a Hollywood actor bruh or you are self proclaimed “top 5%”? I don’t get why people rationalise their SMV, your answer is going to be something like, “No, but in [insert closed-environment/subculture] I am “top 5%”” it’s just rationalising your SMV by telling yourself that you live in a different reality than real top tier men. This isn’t about alpha vs beta, this is SMV, so answer that question yourself, are more famous even than an up and coming youtuber? You might say, “I have mommy to…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:36 PM
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I have a friend who says the same thing and can’t even get a 5 to show up on a date, he also says he is “top 5%”. Honestly guys lmao, if you were top whatever you wouldn’t even be on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 08:07 AM
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Man I won’t lie to you, this is a one ticket one-itis land. It sounds like you could wait days/weeks/months for “the perfect moment” or study her friends etc. You may fool her initially but this is born out of a lack of options. I get your point that approaching women gives them validation, but this is why it’s common knowledge to get the number and wait. To mitigate the risk of validating her when you approach you could also only approach women who give what Mystery called Approach Invitations …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 12:38 AM
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I shamefully used to be one when I was a teenager, I relentlessly protected my one-itis (or so I thought). I became a whole new person for her, a very toxic, insecure beta with no identity of his own. I last spoke to the bitch 7 years ago but I am still fighting that Alta boy persona I adopted those days. I am always challenging myself to do those “bad” things because I am afraid of becoming what I was again. I am really grateful that I found and was receptive to all the knowledge on this sub. I…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 10:10 AM
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You challenged him to move out of his comfort zone and he rejected, he now associates you with having to challenge his fears, so he is now afraid of you and possibly even resents you now. It’s a real shame because it does not seem like you had ulterior motives, many people love to stay in their comfort zone and your friend is likely among them. I think you should just let him be and move on. Remember there’s a reason why most men are part of the infamous 80%.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 08:11 AM
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Thanks, personally needed this.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 02:19 AM
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My mother had my dad take two jobs so she could go to a western country and “better support the family”. She had been working with lots of European men at the time and I guess one or two of them used to flirt with her so she thought she had a better chance if she was not tied to a family and would also have unlimited access to them. She had not realised that she had hit the wall and was begging to come back after just 4 months. At the time I was 9 and remember her saying to my father “X’s father…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 02:36 PM
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Could you try to answer the question?
/r/askTRP01/09/19 10:14 AM
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Ultimately this gets you more friends (expands your social circle, which is a DHV), there is really no escaping self development (focusing on yourself and your mission) with TRP.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 04:01 AM
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What is this bullshit bruh?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 10:27 AM
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Great points, just want to add that I did not mention " bitch-ass social media app messaging" for a reason, what I am referring to instead is how women (sometimes) use social media to assess your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 05:24 PM
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I get what you're saying and especially the generalizing part. You need to remember though that, during initial interactions, women do not lean so much towards long term value such as your character, what you do etc. In some (most) cases short term value (appearances) can kill you in the beginning unless she stands to gain something from interacting with you. I think this is why we get a lot of shit test during this stage as well as she is trying to assess your SMV and how strong your frame is. …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 05:02 PM
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When you exchange information with a woman who is under 30, 5 and above Smv, she searches you on social media in most cases. Nowadays if she can't find you it does not come off as "mysterious", it instead looks like you are either "not fun", "broke" or "not cool". My friends always tell me, "I got her number then she sent me a request on instagram 2 days later" and this has been my experience as well. It's really happening if you're under 30 and the woman has some interest in you, but I'm sure m…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 11:48 AM
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Yeah bro went on blocking spree just yesterday, didn't want to keep on being reminded of old friends and chicks like her, like I said I was just curious what impact disqualifying women has on them, all this other stuff is great but it's not really answering my question, but thanks.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:59 PM
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I get it, thanks.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:42 PM
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I hard nexted her a while ago, just saw on social media and this had me thinking as I said.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:41 PM
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What do you mean by 'aloof'?
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:40 PM
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Bro I get it, but some shit is really disgusting to me.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:39 PM
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This woman was dealing with grief, this has nothing to do with getting laid. I even think this whole post is useless should be removed.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 05:32 PM
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Damn man, saw your comment history, you're seriously messed up try to seek some therapy and also volunteer a bit. You could end up doing something terrible if you stay like this...no offence intended
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 12:50 PM
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