bass_voyeur Archive

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0	Overcoming a sticking point: Making the conversation a SEXUAL conversation! Some pointers on how to do it. I think this is great general advice, but I think the suggestion to give the girl a high five while simultaneously trying to eventually escalate can be counter-productive in some scenarios. Would you care to elaborate on why you pick the high five? It seems best to judge according to the girl (she may merit a different touch) as to how to reinforce that sex can be casually discussed and that you would ultimately like to have sex with her without treating her as you might your guy-friends.	/r/seduction	07/06/13 07:40 PM
1	“I wasn’t attracted to you because you didn’t pay for our second date.” Haha, you are just an independent woman. I can appreciate that. I think we're just talking a different culture/upbringing in regards to dating. You find it respectful for the person inviting/asking for the date to pay up, I find it respectful for both people to pay their own way. I date women that reinforce that and to me it just makes sense. Agree to disagree?	/r/seduction	18/02/12 11:49 PM
0	“I wasn’t attracted to you because you didn’t pay for our second date.” Ok, I think its very situational to pay for her on a date. As a rule, I don't do it on the early dates. I think these things should be shared. If the woman becomes my significant other, then I start to pay for things. Most women I date find it respectful that I don't treat them like they can't take care of themselves; the women I date want to pay for their share. I find that is preferable for my lifestyle.	/r/seduction	18/02/12 11:41 PM
2	“I wasn’t attracted to you because you didn’t pay for our second date.” So you are saying that dating a girl is a business affair?	/r/seduction	18/02/12 11:31 PM
2	“I wasn’t attracted to you because you didn’t pay for our second date.” Well then... it seems that the true colors are shown. By the way, this isn't really a "women's lib bullshit" thing; if you want a guy to shower you with material goods on date #1, I'm sure he's out there for you. But you should be clear what YOUR intentions are going in, not just expect him to be clear what HIS intentions are, you appear as if you intend to be given things.	/r/seduction	18/02/12 11:20 PM
2	“I wasn’t attracted to you because you didn’t pay for our second date.” Yes, there are filters that I can run to make sure I'm not being used or anything. I also have to say, there may be a difference in how I ask a girl out vs. how others may ask women out. I don't invite her to join me for dinner, I ask her if she'd like to "meet up" or something along those lines. Either way, I think dating should be a cost-sharing enterprise.	/r/seduction	18/02/12 10:32 PM
5	“I wasn’t attracted to you because you didn’t pay for our second date.” I don't really follow your logic. I just think its polite and equal to meet each other half way. I will never pay for her on the first few dates because I think it sends the signal that I am paying her for access to her. Those dates should be a mutual benefit for finding each other out, it should be as fun and good for her as for me and not be an extra burden to my wallet.	/r/seduction	18/02/12 09:54 PM
2	Alpha response to "It was nice meeting you"? Don't inquire about a boyfriend. You ask her for the number and you hang out. Any hypothetical boyfriend is none of your concern until she makes it your concern. There is clearly chemistry between you two so you should continue to pursue it. You are an awesome dude and its a privilege to hang out with you, that is your perspective. She will hop on board.	/r/seduction	28/01/12 11:44 PM