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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:41 PM
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Just because you ignore something doesn't mean it doesn't exist. I wasn't being genuine because the idea that all men struggle with not having sex is not genuine. That's a you problem, not an "all men" problem. It's not factual, it's your feelings. Periods aren't temporary. Maybe learn a little bit about women's health.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:00 PM
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I did comment on it every time you brought it up. Not only did you misread my original comment, but also you didn't actually read any of my responses. Now, I'm only telling you why I didn't stop. Because I know people like you. You nitpick arguments to make you feel better about "being right" then you go to your buddies (assuming you have any considering your inability to listen to other people that I've seen in our conversation) and you go "oh man I got into an argument with a feminazi (knowing…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:09 PM
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I'm not reading your nitpicking. I'm only telling you why I didn't stop. Because I know people like you. You nitpick arguments to make you feel better about "being right" then you go to your buddies and go "oh man I got into an argument with a feminazi (knowing nothing about me) and she got so triggered. Couldn't even argue right." Then paint me in a bad light and lie about what happened and feel good about yourself and get a high five from your friends about how you do totally won against some …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:32 PM
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I've disputed everything, you refuse to actually read what I wrote and then you don't respond to engage, you respond to argue. Maybe do some self reflection
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:35 PM
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You're wrong and refuse to listen to what I actually said so I'm done here. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:01 PM
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Well im exaggerating a bit but then again some men who fail end up committing suicide or losing it like a elliot rodger so it can be dire. This is wildly trivializing to suicide victims. You're saying that men who commit suicide are doing so because they can't get laid? Grow the fuck up. i know you want to just argue Real rich coming from you bud i mean if you got that many brothers then you defiantly understand men and have some sympathy. Yeah, that's why I'm actually willing to have this conve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:14 AM
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You understand that it's not dire to be horny right? You're not the only man I've ever talked to about this. I have 6 brothers and I've dated quite a few men and enjoy being around y'all. You are being extremely dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:51 AM
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I responded solely to the remark about women not having hormones. I didn't say men can ignore their needs, I suggested distraction from your obsessive wants. When I'm on my period, I don't get to blame someone else for not having sex with me to relieve my cramps. I go get a heating pad, masturbate, then watch TV and scroll on my phone until I can go live my life. I'm not one upping you. I'm sharing my experience with having dealt with something you also experience in an attempt to connect with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:10 AM
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Bro I bleed out of my vagina every month and it fucks up my hormones a different way every day of the week a different way every single month. No one can fulfill my hormonal need of not wanting to bleed profusely out of my genitals every month. Please understand that women and men are all people that have difficult lives in totally different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:00 PM
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Right because women don't have raging hormones ever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:43 PM

Or just focus on less sex related hobbies more often and decentralize sex from your requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:31 PM
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Byee
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:39 AM
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You think they wear a sign?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:38 AM

I'd be happy to help you out! I don't disagree with you about your concerns. They're totally valid. I actually have struggled with being possessive and, in my experience, controlling. I've unlearned these and a lot of other bad behaviors through dialectical behavioral therapy, and practicing setting and keeping boundaries which is how I'll be able to answer your question. So, you have this list. It doesn't seem unreasonable, however, upon learning about boundaries recently the issue I see is tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:38 AM
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You're very lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:20 PM
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Guys have joked TO ME about rape. Please don't lie. I'm not stupid enough to fall for it. I grew up with 6 brothers. I know what happens when guys hang out in groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:17 PM
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Oh so, you also don't care about the safety of the people in your community. I don't have demands, you jumped on my comment and started responding to an answer I gave to someone else's question. It's not my fault you got triggered because you're scared to confront men. I'm not, so I don't feel the need to defend myself from you. I don't expect anything from people like you, but I'm also not going to waste my time on this conversation with you anymore. I'm gonna go outside and enjoy the nice day.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:12 PM
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So, you're just scared. Yeah, I mean, I don't know why I suddenly became the rape victim in this scenario but whatever. I can't make you brave, so this conversation is pretty useless. Have a good rest of your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:01 PM
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That's not what I said. I mean you can blindly accuse people if you want to. That would be shitty of you, and there would hopefully be consequences to your actions if you do decide to. But, I guess since you seem to want to, go ahead? What I said was "don't stay silent when you know someone around you rapes people." I phrased it like that intentionally. Don't stay silent. (If you see something, say SOMETHING. Even if it's small like "that's not cool, man." When you hear a rape joke. When someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:14 PM
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Don't rape people and don't stay silent when you know someone around you rapes people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:31 AM
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You answered a question I didn't ask, then ignored the two questions I did ask
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:14 PM
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Where's the statistics of their history of sexual assault? What about the statistics for men? Why'd you choose to leave that out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:41 AM
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:08 PM
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I went to a park with a bunch of young boys and some of them really could not act right. Some were chill and I chatted with them while I protected my toddler from the preteen boys who were running and stomping past my kid like they wanted to kick her. Like WTF is going on. What are all these "boy moms" that have been around since the 90s, what are they doing? Where are the parents of these men? Do they talk to them? Do they teach them how to talk to people? How are men and boys so fucking neglec…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:01 PM
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You're explaining to women that they're wrong about the toys they use when you're not in the room with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:22 PM
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I have four toys, my most used toy literally doesn't even go inside me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:21 PM
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I've dated one man above 6 ft. The other 30+ men I've been on dates with, as well as the man I've been with have all been shorter than 6'. Some shorter than me. As long as the partner I'm with gives a shit about my pleasure, dick size doesn't matter. Lesbians don't care about dick size! They use toys and their other body parts. IQ number is not something anyone really cares about. What matters is how do you react to learning information that makes you uncomfortable. Do you get angry? Do you quie…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:20 PM
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I've never said that in my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:14 PM
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Like, most of it?? Also, why is shaving legs on there? Some of these that you listed, for both genders, are wild
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:14 PM
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What the fuck is an S tier women?? Who makes this shit up??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:13 PM
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Also "be 'interesting', whatever that means" What?!?! Who doesn't know what "be interesting" means? Do you not have literally any hobbies? Any experiences? Anything to talk about? How could anyone possibly not know what it means to be interesting or want to be around interesting people? Has op ever left their house? Have they ever met real people? What's happening here??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:11 PM
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I have met thousands of women in my life. I know of ONE who has a rape "fetish" and I wouldn't call it that. Knowing her back story it's a way to take back power over the horrifying trauma she experienced. However I've had several men ask me to push past my boundaries and play a rape scenario with a friend after I repeatedly told them I and my friends would never be interested. You're repeatedly lying here. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:08 PM
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Why are you watching women's tiktok videos as if they're "all women" AND apply to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:06 PM
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I think we all do. There's too much pain. Thanks, it took decades of therapy and a lot of mistakes. Hope you have a nice weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:44 AM
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I'm so glad you said this. Yes. Our whole society treats men and women so differently. It's so bad. We're all people and we all deserve love, compassion, and respect. Men, women, children. There's so much anger at how poorly the last handful of generations treated each other, and it's valid. But it's so important that we move forward with love and understanding of each other's struggles and kindness. I speak out to women who just shit on men for being men. I have for a long time. But not forever…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:27 PM
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My last 3 exes Most recent: he was really affectionate. He was about an inch shorter than me. We walked miles together and were VERY physically compatible. 2: he was so sweet but could get mean. That's why we broke up. I recently discovered when I reached out to him last year to see how he is and chat about life, that he thought I was cheating on him. He seemed relieved when I explained that I didn't and we had a nice conversation. He was emotionally intelligent and really easy to get along with…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:22 AM
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It sucks because I know why people think this way but it's just so hateful and untrue and it just hurts them and everyone they deeply interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:52 AM
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Oh, honey. I hope you heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:02 AM
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I'm seeing a theme here and it's that your friend was really mean and kind of hateful to you. You weren't interested in girls being interested in you, yet he told you rumors about a girl you seemingly didn't care about so you would spread them and ruin her reputation. This also ruined your reputation because people knew you were spreading rumors about her. It sounds like the same , is that right? Told you no girls like you? How in the world would he know that? He sounds like a huge jerk. I had c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:20 AM
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They're very. VERY. similar to male vulnerabilities. Boys and girls, women and men, all feel shame. Just out of curiosity. Have you ever thought about this from a different perspective? What if another girl had a crush on you and was quiet about it, then she saw the smear campaign you led on this other girl and she was so afraid you'd do the same to her that she never spoke up about liking you. So you not only ruined the girl's experience at school and probably many of her friendships, but also …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:03 AM
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You don't know and you're lying because you're mad at her and want to ruin her life because she won't fck you. That's it. That's the whole story I've read.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:48 AM
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Sounds made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:48 AM
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Doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:19 AM
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But you don't know, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:18 AM
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Also told you what
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:58 AM
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I wouldn't call them vindictive but I agree. It's frustrating to me when people get so angry they can't have conversations anymore. But I've also been there and I get it. Sometimes you just get so angry you have to walk away and cool off. But yes, if a pre teen is exhibiting sexual behaviors then that's a social service issue because it indicates sexual abuse in the child's home life and since a child cannot consent to any kind of sexual act then the potential abuse and safety of the child needs…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:58 AM
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If I'm getting this correct, you have a vague memory of not liking the way she dressed and she spoke to people, presumably the same people you spoke to. That's the entire reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:51 AM
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This is untrue. Every person on Earth feels shame and pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:52 PM
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CPS is child protective services. It has been around for longer than you. Sexual activity in children should always be reported because it indicates sexual abuse occurs at home in almost every case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:51 PM
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"she probably was" based on what evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:49 PM
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I don't read between lines, I read the words that are written. But okay, have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:15 PM
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You keep saying fault but I don't see any fault in being unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:07 PM
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Okay but what's the alternative to men improving for their own happiness? If you're saying they don't need to, what's your suggestion? Saying someone needs to improve is not an attack on their character. Everyone needs to improve. Men's happiness is the target here, so men need to improve to develop their own selves. Sure it wasn't said in the kindest way, but I don't think kindness is gonna solve the problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:49 PM
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There's no fault in not being happy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:21 PM
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Why do you think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:13 PM
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Happiness... Isn't that the whole point of this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:12 PM
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As much as the person experiencing it wants as long as all parties are consenting adult humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:43 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:10 PM
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I try not to let words that other people say hurt my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:26 PM
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Screaming =/= feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 09:59 PM
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Oh that's funny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 05:52 PM
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Why do I hate this sub? It just feels a lot like a sub made by men who hate women for having something that they aren't able to have, like using their looks to get what they want. Which isn't true, my last boss fucked his way up the store ladder then harassed me when I refused to do whatever the fuck weird ass shit he wanted me too. Also, it seems like a majority of the people on this sub assume that all women use their looks to get whatever they want when a) not all women are good looking enoug…
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/19 12:15 AM
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Honestly I think this is a stupid fucking sub. But I fucking love this video. It makes me laugh every goddamn time.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/19 02:35 AM
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