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Neither did a bunch of murdered women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:05 AM
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The point of the secret bank account isn’t to hide assets in the divorce, it’s so she has resources to escape that he can’t touch if he becomes abusive. This could be the difference between her being able to flee with their children to a motel vs an overcrowded shelter, or even life and death since the risk of murder is so high after a female victim leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:33 AM
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Kobe Bryant definitely raped that girl and Depp has been proven in a court of law to be a wife beater. I can’t believe people are seriously engaging with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:19 AM
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Here’s my counter anecdote: This guy is insanely lucky to have only known one person who doesn’t give a fuck until you flip your shit. Most people have at least a few in their family of origin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:13 AM
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Please link a few examples of a men being genitally mutilated due to overwork - without having flouted safety regulations, women don’t tear in childbirth because they ignored common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:48 AM
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Come back when a woman not getting an abortion can tear you from your cockhead to the interior of your rectum and then I’ll agree it’s effectively the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:22 AM
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If a woman doesn’t want to deal with the consequences of reproductive sex she shouldn’t have it. Abortion is dealing with those consequences though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:58 AM
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Have a wonderful elderly female acquaintance who admitted that her voting decisions are dictated by who promises more gibs to her demographic (more retirement benefits / better free hospital service). Without any consideration where those benefits are coming from. Women (and also men) should treat you so much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:27 AM
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But what about parental alienation, the controversial psychological concept popularised by a custody battle over the little girl Woody Allen molested? Truly women are evil!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:48 AM
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Gross, but appearances are often deceiving and people who seem “ideal” are often anything but. I dump him and explain to other people that I’m not fucking or being seen with a nonce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:23 AM
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One of them is a sex pest with no regard for the inner lives or consent of others and the other one just has a weird fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:07 AM
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A lot of drug dealers are legitimately super nice and trustworthy people. Their lives are usually going nowhere so I don’t necessarily recommend dating them though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:32 AM
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Let’s say we have two men, both of whom have amputee fetishes. We’ll call them Adam and Brad. Adam is a pretty normal person who unfortunately is solely attracted to amputations. He dates women with amputations but is above board about his interest and seeks to make an emotional connection (or is honest if it’s just sex). Brad, on the other hand, might date but is only interested in the woman’s amputation and zones out when she talks about anything else. He reads private amputee forums or tries …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:24 AM
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You realise most SAHMs go back to work when the kid starts school, right? And that caring for a young child is acknowledged as work in every other context?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:56 AM
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Here’s some more male accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:28 PM
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Yeah, this sounds expensive. It would be much cheaper to (handsomely) pay women to be these guys’ girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:24 PM
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Meanwhile, how dare those awful whores make the birth rate drop with their unchecked standards!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:47 AM
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blame the hoes Ah, this must be that famous male accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:07 AM
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It isn’t rewarded. Women who bring up abuse in family court are less likely to get custody, even when it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:38 AM
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Most of these cases where the accused was convicted involve a verifiable rape (i.e. the woman had injuries consistent with rape) but the wrong person was arrested.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:32 AM
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This has flat out never been the case. Men have always been the primary danger to women and have always done very, very little to ameliorate that danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:16 AM
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It’s a third, and that’s more like the random pool of tested kids (like it’s a random pool of men), and in that case the prevalence is about 3%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:57 AM
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Men cheat more anyway so I’m not sure how this is supposed to help men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:28 AM
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Male orgasm is actually also not necessary, just ejaculation. Prostate cattle prods are the wave of the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:21 AM
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Men being favoured in the workplace isn’t biological, it’s cultural. You can change whatever you want about society and women are still not going to value men sexually as much as men value women when looking at populations as a whole, unless maybe you change the expectations to something like mutual oral instead of PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:51 AM
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I’m not against it, as long as the DNA is kept to be tested for violent crimes. The solved crime rate would skyrocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:18 AM
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It’s just a biological fact that women generally get significantly less pleasure from PIV sex and bear significantly more risks. If this wasn’t the case, women would benefit more than anyone tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:07 AM
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You don’t want to date a non-virgin because she won’t let you fuck other women while remaining chaste for you? I think you’re seriously underestimating the self-respect of virgin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:50 AM
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With a wounded animal (from the hook) whose gills may have collapsed from being out of water, a lot of those fish would at least be in the process of dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:42 AM
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Weird. Her old nose was fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:14 AM
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Imagine being with a guy so ugly that you’re thrilled to look at modern day Leonardo DiCaprio. She’s working for that money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:16 AM
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This is about men attacking women out of misogyny, not what hair length gets your dick hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:49 AM
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Men are 100% capable of letting other men into their social groups, accepting them, making space for their problems and feelings, etc. You don’t need the other sex for a social life and emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:43 AM
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Fat women and other groups (eg little people) were also the butt of jokes until they did a lot of work to change that. Even now it’s not great, but there have been massive improvements as a result of lengthy, thankless work. This is comparing apples to oranges, if apples achieved something through effort and oranges didn’t want to do anything difficult but demanded apples fix everything for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:40 AM
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Leaving aside the fact that almost no men are campaigning for realistic bodies in media and women actually did their own work… What world are you guys living in where these beauty standards no longer exist? Look around - famous women still have to be at the lower end of a healthy weight at their absolute heaviest. I can think of two or three fat actresses for example, while I can think of more than twice as many fat actors. Years of activism have yielded the results of… a few fat models used str…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:30 AM
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How… many times do you think hands need to be thoroughly cleaned in a day? Because it’s more than once.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:22 AM
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Women get more empathy from the social support systems they spend time cultivating and nurturing. Men don’t need an android for that, they need to be willing to put in the effort for other people first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:53 AM
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I’m seriously wondering if the guy above is like 19. Broke loser musicians don’t have status once their age-mates are gainfully employed or past the first year or so of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:06 AM
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Pretty much no one wants a baby to result from fetish sex with a stranger. This just isn’t how people have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:50 AM
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If I were a South Korean woman I wouldn’t be interested in expending political capital for men’s sakes either. Their movement to get men to stop doing things like planting cameras in women’s toilets had such backlash that the new regime thinks things like only violent rape counts. These men didn’t even deserve the labour of their mothers to birth them, they certainly wouldn’t get any of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:48 AM
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During. There was a schism in early feminism regarding whether they approved of the draft/war. Many early feminists were also not interested in total equality, just rights like voting and owning property.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:18 AM
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You have no physical reproductive rights after your role in reproduction is done, yes. Same as how it reverts to equal rights once the baby is out of the mother and her part in the physical reproductive process is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:16 AM
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She’s only giving him attitude for being a dumbass before he decides to challenge her to a fistfight and says “no one will miss you”. Personally I would just call the cops on him at that point, but threatening to throw drinks on him still can’t really be called an escalation at that point. The hammer is an escalation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:02 AM
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Your feelings are literally that you’re entitled to sex and women are wronging you by not providing it, therefore you have to go and use money to obtain sex the other person doesn’t want to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:31 AM
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This one doesn’t 🤷‍♀️ Given his behaviour in the video, they may not have wanted his patronage in the future, possibly because he’s the kind of guy to order something, get mad about it, and suggest the cashier come and fight him about it in the parking lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:28 AM
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Compared to their dads, but not compared to their wives. Millennial men also expect their wives to subordinate their careers for theirs rather than an equal split.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:20 AM
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“Unjustly” lmao I hope you have apologies ready for all the gay men you unjustly don’t let fuck your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:12 AM
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You don’t get refunded for deciding you don’t want what you ordered, especially when it’s not resellable. Act entitled to that and you’ll find you get attitude from quite a few service workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:50 AM
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I don’t see the connection, but I do enjoy johns being stolen from 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:48 AM
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Is he black? I think he’s middle eastern. He has an accent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:46 AM
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Almost immediately prior to that, I’m pretty sure he suggests she come out and fight him. Reading the description, my impression was “crazy asshole meets a crazier asshole” but seeing the video that guy deserved everything he got plus charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:45 AM
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Marilyn Monroe never said that. You’ll be happy to know that almost every man she ever met made her life worse and now she’s buried next to a man who released her nudes without her consent, which is far more consistent with how men actually treat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:45 AM
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It is truly a mystery as to why autistic women rarely date autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:22 AM
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I’m a bisexual woman and only one or two or those guys are as attractive as the woman being used for the profile. The men are all fine, if anything probably all somewhat above average, but she’s better looking than most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:11 AM
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That’s a dumb thing to say, especially if you don’t mean it, but I don’t know why you would feel bad for kids who decide that a rapist and human trafficker is their idol. It’s not like they’re five, most of these little bastards are at least preteens. I feel bad about the fact that they still have a legal right to live education so their age-mates, male and female, have to interact with them, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:03 AM
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Living the dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:05 AM
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She’s married (with children) and menopausal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:00 AM
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Suicide isn’t based on how objectively bad someone’s life is. Countries like Iraq, Myanmar and Sudan have less than half the suicide rate of the USA, that doesn’t mean you’d want to move there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:41 PM
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Hey now, that’s not his only evidence. There’s also the opinion of a man in the 1940s known even to his contemporaries as a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:16 PM
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They should have used a lot more bombs. Women are their own worst enemy as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:30 AM
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Is she the one who dresses in flowy clothing and sounds like she has a fistful of Valium before every video?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:07 AM
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I thought it just meant the exterior skin tore from vagina to anus, not a rip so bad it went right through the anal sphincter and tore into the rectum! Imagine that before the advent of pain killers 😟
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:58 PM
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6%?! How the hell has the species survived? Vaginal tears with diagram for anyone unfamiliar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:42 PM
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Yeah, no shit. How many of your medical procedures or life threatening conditions are you willing to let other people’s desires affect?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:35 PM
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There’s a weird idea that’s popped up recently that more height = better with no limits. For reference, Brad Garrett (Robert from Everybody Loves Raymond) is 6’8” and is considered ridiculously gigantic. Last 6’5” or so it becomes much less of an asset.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:34 AM
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Okay? Women don’t want used-up, damaged misogynistic men, that’s why the men here have to go to teenage girls to flog their substandard wares.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:39 AM
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They’re not going to spend their lives alone and miserable, OP is a man LARPing. Sorry you only wanted the hottest girls you were far less attractive than, I can see it left its mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:27 AM
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I figure it’s like working a really shitty job to pay for higher education. Get the spousal visa, get permanent residency, then you can get a job and get a man you actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:17 AM
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IOW, western women are goddamn geniuses for driving men off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:15 AM
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Do I need to make a drawing? That first woman dodged a bullet, huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:11 AM
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Were they better to you in earlier times though? Ime some people help other people and some don’t and it’s more about their temperament.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:18 PM
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We’re talking about violence, not being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:17 PM
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Ryan Gosling on why he took the role of Ken in the Barbie movie: First, he says he loved the script, co-written and directed by Greta Gerwig, who emailed him with an offer for the part. Then, he received a sign. “Best script I’ve ever read. I walk out in the backyard and, do you know where I found Ken, Jimmy? Face down in the mud next to a squished lemon,” said Gosling of his daughters’ Ken doll. Gosling took a photo of what he found and texted it to Gerwig saying, “I shall be your Ken, for this…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:42 AM
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The Kens are actually all from a gay compound where they work out all the time and occasionally make a token appearance on their respective Barbies’ arms. That’s why you can get different races but they’re all tall and ripped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:29 AM
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Weird take when women are already 100% capable of pulling a Final Solution on men by aborting male fetuses. They’re also most nurses and elder/disability carers, where physical strength doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:08 AM
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Oh no people might voluntarily put a substance less addictive than alcohol into their bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:58 AM
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Happy to see you most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:03 AM
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For some women, enjoying PIV isn’t in the cards, either because it’s just not pleasurable or because it hurts (vaginismus). Those women would be more likely to be sexually fulfilled by a man with a small or micropenis than women who usually enjoy intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:02 AM
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A lot of women don’t enjoy intercourse at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:35 AM
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“Wow, women are so awful for not dating sexually incompatible men. Why can’t they just pressure them into a potentially painful and dangerous sex act instead?”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:26 AM
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I don’t think visceral attraction is in the cards for him. And of course she only wants his resources; he’s Elon Musk, what else does he have to offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:30 PM
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Good for Musk, successfully executing his hypergamous mating strategy by securing a more attractive and fertile partner than himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:04 AM
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Seems fair unless the men were going to start risking their lives to create the new humans society needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:32 AM
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Paternity leave has already been instituted in various countries and American workplaces. Feminism already basically solved this problem. You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:10 AM
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If you want less abortion, your crusade should be to make men stop ejaculating inside women. There, no more unplanned pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:09 AM
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One of the earliest things that happened in western feminism was the schism into pro- and anti-war/draft feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:57 AM
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The Bosnian genocide primarily targeted boys and men for death - and girls and women for extensive rape campaigns, including imprisoning them in rape camps until they were past the point of aborting the fetuses of their rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:55 AM
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The vast majority of men are not and cannot be providers, unless you want to stretch the word beyond all recognition into “makes slightly more than his partner”. Men in times past have fought in wars for various reasons, but one of the incentives was an all-you-can-rape-buffet of the enemy’s women and keeping your own women as your property lest you be emasculated and also have no one to stick your dick in. Men’s laws were so great for women and selfless of men that marital rape wasn’t recognise…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:48 AM
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Men die younger, male babies and fetuses are weaker, women are better at surviving times of famine, women have superior verbal and social skills, women learn faster, are more consistently intelligent, less impulsive, have better endurance in the long term…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:39 AM
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I’m referring to the fact that “grab[bing women] by the pussy” while admitting you “don’t even ask” is practically the definition of sexual assault. Trump probably did rape his ex wife though. Never heard any of that stuff about Biden except the weirdly cuddly stuff we can all see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:27 AM
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America elected a man who admitted to textbook sexual assault. Can you give me a similar example with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:01 AM
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Men hate Andrea Dworkin but they love proving her words true. The difference between left-wing and right-wing when it comes to women is only about where exactly on our necks their boots should be placed. To right-wing men, we are private property. To left-wing men, we are public property.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:53 AM
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These standards seem very low for a perfect man that you get to build. Personally, I’d like for jewels to spill from his lips when he talks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:34 AM
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Yeah, why try at all when many parts of life are inextricably tied to human suffering? Might as well jerk off to what might be a trafficking victim being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:39 AM
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If your standards contain value judgments, you should also meet them. Otherwise, have whatever standards you want as long as you don’t complain about not being able to find a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:25 AM
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Yes, I’m sure your minimum age is 18 and you wouldn’t go for kids if you weren’t too scared of being beaten to death in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:13 AM
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Why? It’s natural, and it improves the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:13 AM
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There are few physiques I loathe more than the heavy low-slung pelvis, thick calves and deplorable complexion of the average coed (in whom I see, maybe, the coffin of coarse female flesh within which my nymphets are buried alive). ~ Humbert Humbert, Lolita
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:12 AM
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“Other people are NPCs, unlike me! Anyway, here’s my opinion that is verbatim that of a billion whining nonces before me. I am very unique.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:10 AM
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It would be better for her and the human race if she simply deceived the older man for access to his resources and had the children of a younger man instead of wasting her superior reproductive abilities on an older man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:06 AM
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You’re a pedophile, like around 6% of men. 👩‍🏫
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:02 AM
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She wouldn’t care about the fact that the sex industry is riddled with exploitation if she understood male sexuality better? I’d take that bet tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:54 AM
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It’s your responsibility to turn someone on if you want to have sex with them. “Choreplay” is just taking care of life responsibilities like every other adult. The connection is just that a woman is definitely not going to want to fuck a man who expects to be waited on like a baby or invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:31 AM
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The irony is that the sentencing discrepancy is significantly reduced when the judge is female.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:43 PM
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The same proportion of men are fat and also have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:24 AM
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They need to learn to hide that shit like the rest of us
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:23 AM
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I know the guy Asperger’s syndrome is named after is highly controversial now but just calling it all autism was a terrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:06 AM
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Women are the majority of unpaid caregivers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:59 AM
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Get this: people trying to get into a relationship will pretend to do things like have normal standards of filth because they know otherwise they’ll be looked over for being terrible. It’s not that hard to clean for a little while to hook the proverbial fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:46 AM
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Elon’s problem is something else tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:52 AM
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There are as many fat men as fat women who also expect to not be insulted about it when rejected, so…?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:45 AM
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If you want to keep your appendages, don’t use them as weapons on your abuse victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:38 AM
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Probably because feminists don’t really do terrorist attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:37 AM
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I don’t think it’s autism that makes Elon Musk hard to deal with. Also, some people are high functioning enough (and good as masking) that you can’t even tell and there’s space between that and being an unusually difficult person (NB: people are annoying)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:03 AM
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I swear they’re not happy unless every woman is their sex mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:12 AM
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I don’t think calling them victims is even particularly respectful to people who commit suicide. It’s an option someone may take in how to deal with an illness. It’s comparable imo to someone choosing to stop treatment for a treatable cancer with a reasonable likelihood of remission because the chemo is too much for them. This opinion is formed from years of suicidal ideation (now on working meds) so yes, I think the same of female suicides. Most men have at least one insanely fucked up idea abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:39 AM
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What exactly are the big differences pre and post makeup? She changes her eyebrow and lash colour, colours her lips, and has a smoothing layer of makeup on usually, and all those changes are easily apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:52 AM
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The answer of men killing themselves and killing women is actually the same: don’t do that. Suicide, while sad, isn’t actually something someone is a victim of unless you really stretch, and even then they’re certainly not the same kind of victims as a literal murder victims. But also, let’s say that their date is actually harmless and just a regular guy like you, who complains nonstop about dating and clearly thinks women who are raped and strangled are partly responsible. I would still rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:28 AM
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Mocking you doesn’t mean women are angry, it means virtual waifus are very funny. Archer did it thirteen years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:09 AM
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Bitches be crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:32 AM
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The funny thing is that adult virgin women usually (yes, not always) fall into one of the following categories: Religious weirdos who wouldn’t date you because you’re not a religious weirdo. Intelligent driven women who wouldn’t date you because you’re a creep. Women with anxiety, depression or other mental illness who might date you because they hate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:31 AM
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There’d be no issue if rapists’ rights were terminated. The man in the article went to prison for 2-3 years and kept parental rights, so if a woman who statutorily raped a boy had gone to prison he’d be in the same situation of taking custody himself or paying child support. You seem to think women have tons of societal support and legal recourse for rape, which is… comically incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 03:02 AM
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Imagine bearing and raising a little boy who goes on to become another woman’s slave master and rapist. The Farmer and the Viper, gender edition. I wonder how many of them regret not stopping the problem at its source with a coat hanger or a pillow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:57 PM
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Kind of seems like maybe this should be men’s responsibility, seeing as it’s all their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:46 PM
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But the fembot won’t love them, because it’s a machine incapable of emotion. If it developed to have actual emotions, then it would have the advanced intelligence to choose who it loves, which defeats the entire point of having something that must love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:33 PM
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Is it really that cynical to say that a man’s dream of having a harem hinges on his money and will result in his primary partner quietly cheating right back? It’s a pretty cynical situation to begin with, the additional details make it very funny instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:25 PM
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This is a result of weak sentencing for sexual predation and the toxic idea that keeping biological families together is the most important thing, rather than severing the rights of the parent who abused or raped the other parent, which would then allow the baby to be adopted out if the victim parent didn’t want to raise it and keep the assailant out of their lives if they do. This guy got partial custody when the circumstances of conception were him raping a 12 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:18 PM
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Why should the sentence be doubled for a more minor crime? Maybe they should get double the typical punishment for rapists, which is nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:09 PM
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If men can’t meet these extremely low expectations, then it’s no wonder that women are losing interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:06 PM
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Q4A: Who from PPD do you think will end up in prison first? A. That guy who can’t shut up about his hatred and sexual obsession with women. B. That guy who thinks it should be legal for him to grope women at “da club”. C. Write in candidate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:31 AM
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Even aside from the mess that is your original post, tops should be doing what the bottom wants. All people in every sexual dynamic should mutually want what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:23 AM
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I don’t know if there have been any studies, but anecdotally high status men seem to abandon their children much more rarely. It’s mostly men with fewer prospects and less to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:49 AM
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If you have to slam on the brakes, you’re supposed to just go as long as the light is still orange.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:39 AM
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Damn Evangeline Lily is smoking. And yeah I’m pretty sure he fucked Linda.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:33 AM
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As long as the higher earner doesn’t expect their partner to behave as though their assets are shared. For example, a woman in this situation would have to be an idiot to not insist on precisely 50/50 parenting. You have to call out of a huge meeting because a kid is sick? Too bad, it’s your turn. Overtime hours? Can’t do it, the wife does school drop offs so pick ups are on you. Trying to do extra work at home? It’s your day to put the kids to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:30 AM
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Given that your sexual menu would be bare if not for young girls with zero self esteem, this is a very selfless suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:19 AM
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They usually do. Most women in abusive relationships were also abused as children or witnessed their parents in an abusive dynamic so their sense of normal is out of whack.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:10 AM
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You’re almost guaranteed to be 100% fine whether there’s a bear in the woods or a man. Even if you encounter the bear, it will almost certainly retreat. The man, however, might be a PPD guy and therefore being eaten alive by a bear is preferable to an encounter where you might have to talk to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:05 AM
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Coerced sex is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:49 AM
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This guy better never complain about the male homelessness problem since he already knows the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:12 AM
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Consent isn’t consent when the alternative is homelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:12 AM
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You know sexual abuse refers to sexually assaulting your partner? Not getting your dick wet doesn’t count.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:48 PM
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Of course! Just get raped regularly, and your problems from your abusive husband can be somewhat ameliorated (by living with your rapist)!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:47 PM
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The consent to share assets occurs when you marry someone. You can request a post-nup or you can divorce to withdraw consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:46 PM
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Of course… it’s so simple! Thanks! I’m not all that into body hair either but that’s a mixture of germophobia (ass and armpits) and social conditioning. Idk why these guys have to deny it like their balls will fall off if they admit their attraction is shaped by media.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:08 AM
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Younger women already have all the body hair they’re going to, unless they later have significant hormonal imbalances. Most young girls have pubic hair by the onset of menstruation. Hairless girls are prepubescent. Girls with less hair are in early pubescence. Menopausal women may also have less or no body hair. If this desire is innate, it’s also innately pedophilic. Or you maybe like cougars.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:59 AM
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How do you get your text to be both bold and italic? Also post-menopausal women often have less or no body hair. So lack of body hair should instinctively be unattractive to men for that, too 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:51 AM
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If men are attracted to fertility, hairlessness should be a turnoff. Older women don’t have more hair than young women. In fact, menopause often slows or stops growth of body hair. So lack of body hair = pre-fertile or post-fertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:49 AM
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If you must use such a bizarre analogy, it’s more like a guy who’ll shrink if he doesn’t perform a long tedious process every day. For areas like legs in particular, you also have to exfoliate and moisturise them every time because shaving is bad for your skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:38 AM
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Oh yeah, you’re definitely going to cheat on her with your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:35 PM
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Flags: * Biden: 1. Rainbow/gay, 2. Demiboy * Obama: 1. Pansexual, 2. Non-binary * Trump: 1. Bisexual. * Putin: 1. Gay male, 2. Genderfluid. * Catboy Shapiro: 1. Rainbow/gay, 2. Trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:28 PM
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As long as we’re making stuff up, the woman in the bear pit has a gun too. And so does the bear! They’ve agreed that the only way to honourably settle their quarrel is a duel, and so it will be pistols at dawn. Problem solved, for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:24 AM
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I would immediately insist he see a doctor because he’s lost his mind treating me like a five year old or monitoring my weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:35 AM
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Apparently the standards of age 25 to 35, height from 5’5, salary from $50k p.a, and not obese or married makes you an “aspiring cat lady”. Truly this is a brutal world for heterosexual women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:23 AM
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lmao you could never have rescued a woman in a bear pit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:02 AM
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I don’t understand why men protecting women is supposed to be a plus for them when men are also the thing women need to be protected from. Given how shitty the cops are at their job (not to mention all the DV) that doesn’t even break even. The men who “protect” you give you a worthless piece of paper and then the man who abuses you beats you to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:42 AM
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Anecdotally, most abusers and murderers seem less likely to be especially attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:29 AM
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Prenups can protect some assets but you have to keep them very separate from shared funds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:24 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:06 AM
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It’s not actually difficult to tell when someone is wearing makeup if you’re so much as aware of the visual texture of human skin. Those photos or videos where it looks like someone has transformed involve a lot of makeup. If you’re actually fooled by this irl, the problem is you’re a dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:15 AM
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But think about the fringe benefits, like getting to be married to a misogynist who’s a loser even by his own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:04 AM
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Here are some differences between formal sperm donors and (general) you: * The recipients of a sperm donation have to demonstrate they they can support a child, * A sperm donor/donee relationship involves informed consent from the outset, * Less relevant, but sperm donors are typically attractive and of generally superior genetic stock. Society isn’t exactly champing at the bit for ugly whiners to make even more of themselves because now they don’t have to take responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:02 AM
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If black people or Jews rationalised a huge amount of violence as their inherent nature, I would indeed point out that by their logic they should be culled.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:54 AM
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Your inherent problem is that this isn’t a man vs woman scenario, it’s a man vs society problem. Why should I pay higher taxes because you want to perform the act that creates babies you don’t wanna pay for? Now, maybe you could flip that and say you don’t want to pay for single mothers’ welfare. If welfare goes away, though, you’ll have higher rates of prostitution, crime from mothers and impoverished children, and women and children starving in the street. Whereas when you make irresponsible m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:50 AM
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There is basically nothing that will prevent an equal split of marital assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:35 AM
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reducing the population of men by 90% I have never seen this said without the context of men talking about how their nature makes them dangerous, in which case it’s presented as “if men are uncontrollable dangerous animals, they should be culled to a minimal population” which is just a correct if > then statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:07 AM
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Your terms are acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:51 AM
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I just compared that photo and a publicity photo for Jesse Plemons and she’s still a solid two points above him, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:28 AM
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I suspect this particular guy will slink away from the sub in embarrassment once he realises he’s gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:20 AM
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There’s no way Norah Vincent actually passed as a cis (nontrans) man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:16 AM
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I wonder why women didn’t love and accept the men above who think they’re categorically inferior 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:14 AM
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If you want children, someone is going to have to take care of them in the mornings and evenings, leave work when they’re sick and need to come home, be available on weekends, etc. Most men do want children, but don’t want to take the career hit or fairly split assets with their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:49 AM
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How fucked up would it be if there was a race of humans selectively bred to be as aggressive and fearless as possible? That would actually be a legitimate time for racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:41 AM
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You should never know too much about your grandfathers. I recently found out mine thought his brother’s 13 year old daughter had some responsibility for being raped and impregnated by her dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:36 AM
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I regret to inform you that STDs can travel quite a way in retirement homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:25 AM
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Both were the style at the time, and large families today still usually exploit the fuck out of their older children. My maternal grandmother was pretty good. Ironically, her ambitions were crushed under the weight of sexism or she would have been a doctor. She expected too much from my mother in my opinion. Her dad tried to run off on his dutiful stay at home wife with a dancer while my grandmother was a toddler and her brothers were twin infants. My paternal grandmother ran away with a door to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:21 AM
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Children deserve better than a tiny apartment and missing out on everything that people who did a better job family planning can provide for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:11 AM
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Feminists barely mention SAHMs. It’s 99.99% men who treat them like shit, yourself almost certainly included.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:54 AM
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If women are caring for the children, then they also have control over how many boys make it to being men who brutalise women. Their problem is they always get caught up in hope that their son will be different, up until he’s a grown rapist himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:50 AM
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How much of those assets could the man have acquired without the support of their partner and that partner sacrificing their career progression? Usually these people have children that the man also wanted, so the answer is “not many while also living the lifestyle I desired”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:35 AM
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I’m surprised your sister ended up so screwed up, given I’m sure your father picked up the parenting slack like women do every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:25 AM
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Your grandma probably beat her kids and made the older girls do most of her work parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:23 AM
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It’s the height of vanity to want to give your children a decent life. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:23 AM
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Musk needs real women to pump out more of his kids who hate him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:57 AM
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It’s bizarre that the stats are that high for either. Why have nearly 10% of college men given a woman over $1000 for nothing? Did a bunch of them get fleeced by camgirls or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:41 AM
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Hey now, there’s also a horrific woman in here who casually drops that she’s buddies with a rapist and doesn’t care about all the rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:15 AM
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What reason would a woman have to bother allowing the pregnancy to come to term, changing her body forever and literally ripping her genitals to birth it, and then kill the baby? It’s not like they’re not going to come under scrutiny for it, either, so it’s not easier to get away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:00 AM
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By which you mean the significant labour housework was before appliances. Also, I think the bigger problems were stuff like “lacking basic human rights” and “being beaten and raped by their husbands with no recourse”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:18 AM
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Pro tip to avoid being accused of a sexual crime: commit a different sexual crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:06 AM
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If Socrates was here he’d be patting me on the back Anything to avoid shaking your hand, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:56 AM
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You could grow as a person and become a competent adult who wants a partner rather than a sexy mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:41 AM
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He was, then he hit “the wall”. Now he’s overweight with a receding hairline and a generous helping of wrinkles. I don’t think he wore sunscreen when he was younger and it’s becoming apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:22 AM
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My dad is 5’6” and really got around. Not rich either. Worked as a labourer. Above average looks but not significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:20 AM
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When they say something they know is false and make billions of dollars off that and other slander, ditto.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:06 AM
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On here? The vast majority posters are below 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:27 PM
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He was actually kind of right about “his” bears. The bear that killed him was from out of the territory. It also didn’t attack humans randomly; it was an older bear and had broken teeth, which is often the impetus for predation on humans (probably because of the nice soft hide and being easier to catch). See also the lions of Tsavo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:44 AM
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You will almost certainly be completely fine being in a forest with a bear. Predating on humans is extremely rare. You will also probably be fine with a random man. Most male-on-female violence is in relationships anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:25 AM
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Because he made slanderous statements to his platform that the parents of seven year olds who were shot to death in their school are faking their children’s grisly murders on behalf of their shadowy political masters, which then resulted in those families suffering criminal harassment from his followers. But women lack accountability, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:55 AM
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Let’s just pick one false assumption here: how many of the men here do you think are competent handymen? I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s single digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:46 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:39 AM
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No, I haven’t. Probably because that’s not true and young women are also disgusted by significantly older men sniffing around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:35 AM
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Holy shit, you weren’t kidding. As fast as I can see, this list is totally innocent and their right to freedom of speech gives them the right to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:49 AM
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Melbourne just had a very public case of this with some private school year 11s (16-17 years old) getting expelled for creating a ratings spreadsheet about their female classmates, with one of the categories being ‘unrapeable’.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:17 AM
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What gives you the impression that she’s angered or upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:13 AM
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Isn’t she like 19? Adults need to stop parasocially attaching themselves to teenagers and then clutching their pearls when they do weird teenager stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:57 AM
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The fact that Myron’s name is Myron and he’s an adult who hasn’t changed his name to literally anything other than Myron shows his terrible judgment and why people shouldn’t listen to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:28 AM
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The phrase “nice guys finish last” was never just used for dating and “guys” is gender neutral in it. It refers to less aggressive people being less successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:17 AM
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Oh right, for some reason I thought the video was from The View (where iirc they didn’t know her motives yet so they were right for the wrong reasons) on the Lorena Bobbit case. For future reference, things like petitions and organising a large amount of people to contact the higher ups at the TV station is more likely to work than just complaining. Feminists are usually strategic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:58 AM
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There’s a big difference between “stay with her for life and never cheat” and “[not wasting] their time spending time with someone they are not attracted to anymore”. A romantic relationship is no longer tenable under those circumstances, but abandoning your partner indicates that you never really loved them. There are many disabled people who can’t hold much conversation or philosophise but still love and enjoy seeing loved ones. Men are less likely to be abandoned by their partners if diagnose…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:43 PM
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The man was an abuser and rapist who didn’t even learn his lesson after having his weapon of choice removed by his victim, because he abused other women repeatedly afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:35 PM
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Reality TV isn’t reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:30 AM
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And sports events. And tricked out cars and motorbikes. And expensive tech. And
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:23 AM
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The worm can be considered a metaphor for severe disability (as can Metamorphosis by Kafka, of course). Implicitly, your answer indicates that if your partner sustained profound brain damage that left them able to enjoy life but with little capacity for conversation and complex thought, you’d discard them completely because they’re no longer of use or pleasure to you. This debate has actually inadvertently shown me that there is a purpose to the worm question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:09 AM
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Honestly, the answer is simply for women to socially ostracise men far more than they do, especially women in the 18-25 range as they’re statistically at the highest risk. Nearly 5% of rapes are committed by coworkers, nearly 12% are by acquaintances or neighbours, and over 14% are committed by friends or housemates. Especially don’t date or marry men, any men. I don’t think you’d like what the world would look like if women took precautions based on stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:09 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:02 AM
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Can you find any more examples of this? The woman in the OP is either made up or crazy/lying about her reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:44 AM
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Sometimes I forget this place has so much bad science discussed seriously that jokes like this don’t land.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:13 AM
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Now he’s going to have to go back to calling them loser countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:22 AM
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Have you considered that maybe human women can store sperm indefinitely until ready to use like a fish?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:15 AM
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They look like the hideous first draft of humans, another terrible species, and both should be fed to more charismatic animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:59 AM
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Most of them still go places with their high school or uni friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:51 AM
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We still have a winter. I’ve spent most of mine intermittently huddled up to a space heater like a hobo so the rest of the house doesn’t get too hot for the dog with congestive heart failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:50 AM
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I have two objections to his post. 1. Virtually no man in this sub is even remotely husband material, so I don’t put much stock in their thoughts on the phrase. 2. You could just compare it directly to men calling women “wife material”, because we all know that just means someone to do stuff like wash the dirty underwear you’ve tossed directly onto the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:39 AM
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He apparently cared enough to tell her what to do instead of just fucking off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:27 AM
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It’s for the greater good of the next woman he gets with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:41 AM
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Stretch marks develop from, well, stretching in the lower layers of skin. They’re common in pregnancy, weight fluctuations, and… puberty, when hips/buttocks/breasts start growing. And that’s just not how female genitals work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:35 AM
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I’ve seen like one teenager who actually looked like an adult (I could only tell because she had her school uniform on, otherwise she looked about 23), generally even in makeup you can see puppy fat, gawkiness, behaviour almost exclusive to kids, etc. The average guy who eyes up a fourteen year old knows exactly what’s going on. Until people have the same energy for teenage boys going shirtless, it’s just sexism and blaming little girls for grown men’s behaviour. And if you do have that same ene…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:23 AM
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I’d have concern about how safe it is, but I’m already a vegetarian. If you eat meat currently, though, a lot of research already suggests meat consumption beyond a very small amount is bad for you. Lab grown bacon probably isn’t going to give you anymore cancer than regular bacon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:18 AM
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Why do men recreate the mentality of the Taliban in casual conversation constantly? Secondary question: how dim do you have to be to get caught looking? I realise pedophilia is correlated with lower IQ, but even men who are only attracted to adults seem to get caught staring way more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:59 AM
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Maybe try not to dictate the diet of someone you’re not even in a relationship with. He’s presumably not chained to her radiator, so he could have just broken it off and stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:49 AM
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such as public schools No wonder boys are falling behind academically if they’re not being educated at public schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:08 AM
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I think it’s pretty safe to bet that the average 15 year old would prefer not to marry a 24 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:50 AM
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The toxic men here admit to outright lying to women about their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:26 AM
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Wanting your crush to live but being okay with her husband and INFANT SON being murdered is not very romantic. And although James sucked, they both died when they were like 23 and their relationship was almost entirely during a war. Had they lived, she may well have divorced him. Harry Potter and the Custody Agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:17 AM
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I actually think he’s above average… physically, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:38 PM
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Try watching how teenagers in a working class high school interact with each other about grades and studying, the boys are quick to make fun of their friends for it. This carries over into adulthood. It’s less the case with girls and women but they often find what you’re talking about boring. Obviously there are a lot of smart working class people, but expressing it through academics isn’t really encouraged in working class culture ime. Did you express interest in their fields? Did you talk abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:31 AM
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Brazil is more than halfway down the list of countries in terms of gender equality and has a huge femicide problem that’s only increasing, so frankly Brazilian men should be grateful that Brazilian women will associate with them in any capacity and under any circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:22 AM
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Or educationally neglect your children until they have no chance at a decent life outside of your garbage subculture, then pretend to release them to decide for themselves when they’re teenagers so they’re deluded into thinking they have a real choice when their parents and culture have already crippled them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:15 AM
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Of course, those cultures need to make sure there’s never a shortage of children to rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:12 AM
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If you’ve already ended the relationship but haven’t signed the papers yet, that’s not really cheating, especially because some places make you separate physically for 1-2 years before granting the divorce. Fucking someone’s spouse is still really scummy, though. Still doesn’t make you a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:27 AM
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The first two arguments aren’t about being working class, just about being unintelligent, and as you note yourself class doesn’t mean someone is less intelligent. The third is circumstantial. The fourth is something I’ve never seen. There can be a sense of anti-intellectualism within dominant working class culture, as I have personally observed (although I’ve heard Australian culture is one of the worst offenders for this). More so towards men than women in my experience, as there’s some accepta…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:18 AM
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Pregnancy being dangerous might not be men’s “fault”, but impregnating someone in the age of unpunished marital rape and poor medical care is willingly risking your wife’s life so you can have progeny, often whether she was on board or not. There were plenty of men who cheerfully bred their wives to death like abused animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:28 AM
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It’s already acknowledged that employment holds a huge amount of power over people’s lives, that’s why you’re not supposed to have sex with your employees. You can’t just opt out though because people don’t want to pay you otherwise and humans need food and shelter, which requires money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:23 AM
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Agreed. Matadors torture animals, bulls defend themselves and buck the system. This isn’t even a metaphor, I appreciate it when r/TheBullWins.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:52 AM
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I’ve never had any rape fantasies but it’s still not hard for me to understand that transmuting anxieties into kinks is common (small penis humiliation for men, for example) and that demystifying violence by enacting it as a game in which participants have control is normal human behaviour (even kids play games with fake violence). It doesn’t mean you actually want to experience danger or violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:47 AM
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Notch comes to mind here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:07 AM
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Rape fantasies bear about as much resemblance to actual rape as laser tag does to WWI trench warfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:01 AM
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I don’t think I’ve ever heard literally anyone say “I wish I was still with the man/woman I was with at age 23”. Usually it’s closer to “thank god”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:09 AM
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Parents who constantly just placate kids with iPads are universally derided. Even the medical establishment dunks on them because they’re liquefying kids’ little brains. No more than an hour a day of screen time is recommended before age 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:11 AM
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Benedict Cumberbatch and Jack Black are attractive? You can’t debate with blatant lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:54 AM
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A woman hasn’t provided a list in this post, so I guess we’ll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:32 AM
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I just read it and laughed. It’s unusually unisex for this sub and the average man would fail it pretty miserably. Men in the current generation are as or even more broke than the women and like past generations, many of them have personalities bad enough that they need to pay for company.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:08 AM
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Let’s see how the average man stacks up to these! How does a woman maximize being HOT? keep body fat low (but healthy) keep muscle mass high (but not masculine) avoid ultraviolet light go easy on cosmetics avoid thinking hair and nails are significant dress with intelligence (yes, vague) How does a woman minimize being a BITCH? be eager for sex with her his partner be skilled at sex act seductively towards her partner remove far more problems from her partner's life than she creates don't nag do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:40 AM
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It’s been proven? Do you have a source for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:13 AM
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70% of family carers (for the elderly or disabled, not healthy children) are female, and that’s a soul crushing job that simultaneously damages your career (if you’re lucky, only a bit, but it’s usually pretty bad). Although maybe you consider that poor decision making because the elderly and disabled should die of bedsores and decrease the surplus population, which is probably a popular opinion on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:10 AM
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Ironically in this same week they caught a prolific male serial killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:06 AM
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See, you say you aren’t gay, but if you stay in this place all your attraction to men will be destroyed by the most toxic thing of all: straight men’s true feelings towards women. Then you’re gonna either have to switch teams or become a nun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:56 AM
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Yeah, there is on old.reddit.com. Check it out. I already tested this by removing a period in my previous comment, and I have one. Still nothing on hers, though. Edit: if you’ve edited the one directly above this comment, there’s no asterix. However, I believe Reddit is one of the sites that allows you to edit without it being marked within 30 minutes or so (and your comment was no older than 12 minutes) which would not apply to her because the gap between your comments was roughly 4 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:22 AM
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There’s no asterix beside the time of her comment, so she didn’t edit you just misread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:57 AM
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Uhhh she just listed a whole bunch of professions that create significant social value and personal insight, but if you don’t care about having conversations with women, like most men on this sub… I’ll ignore the individual traits people have because they vary from person to person and aren’t always liked anyway. But generally, in relationships, women do the majority of cooking, cleaning and childcare. They also maintain the social support system for the couple by remembering important occasions…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:23 AM
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The women who have children with violent convicts aren’t a random sample of the population equally dispersed throughout demographics, they’re usually raised in a shitty environment among criminals and used to getting abused by men long before they’re old enough to date. Not sure what you want womankind as a whole to do about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:58 AM
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It isn’t controlling to ask your partner to only wear clothing you approve of in photographs, to not professionally interact with men, and to have same sex friendships only with people you personally approve of?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:31 AM
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Women are found to be more honest in the vast majority of the research. Take a look at violent crime statistics if you want to know who the emotionally uncontrolled people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:25 AM
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The problem most women bring up re: China is that they’re going to struggle to maintain a population when they’re already starting off on the backfoot due to a sex imbalance. Most women foolishly think too highly of men to believe that sexlessness will turn them into antisocial insurrectionists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:05 AM
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You know we have statistics that have already evaluated a bunch of maturity markers, like impulse control, aggression/emotional control, honesty, open-mindedness, etc., and the conclusion is not favourable for men being the adult in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:00 AM
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I don’t think he even did that, I think he fucked around as much as he pleased and now thinks women who do the same are gross. Unusually, he does seem to understand that likeminded women will be thoroughly disgusted by his overly gregarious cock, so I salute him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:33 AM
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I am indeed on the Reddit website, where I did not ping u/puddingbike asking him to reply to my comments. So you’re free to just stop replying and my heart will go on somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:20 AM
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What would you think of a woman who started dating you and then demanded that you make changes that would negatively impact your career so she can control your wardrobe, tried to stop you from talking to female colleagues, and tried to control your same sex friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:19 AM
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If he’s applying for a family-friendly acting gig, he should probably have stopped hanging out with the “pussy posse” while he was demanding his girlfriend conform every aspect of her life to his specifications, including not having same sex friends he considered a bad influence. Perhaps those female friends would be likely to listen to you if your words came with evidence. Screencaps, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:17 AM
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Why would you warn people about a large dog that growls and snaps unprovoked? Because something is showing warning signs of becoming dangerous. Maybe a growling dog will never bite and maybe a controlling man will never abuse - but guess what, they probably will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:14 AM
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Being screamed at is behaviour towards yourself that you should protect yourself from, as is the danger of STDs and disrespect of breaking a mutual agreement, ie nobody cheats. Answer me honestly, do you think Hill would have been okay with it if she’d insisted on controlling his wardrobe, didn’t want him to talk to female colleagues and wanted to control his friendships with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:12 AM
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You replied to me multiple times unsolicited, so kindly take your own advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:10 AM
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The boundary of cheating is mutual. Was Jonah Hill going to sabotage his own career by only wearing what Brady approved to sets and photoshoots? Was he going to stop having female colleagues that he speaks to while at work? Was he going to cut off his friendships with every other man she found problematic for things like publicly cheating on their wives and fucking 18 year olds? I think we all know the answer to that, even though he was in an environment far more steeped in infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:09 AM
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It seems to me that the initial attraction is based on audience expectations based on familiar romance archetypes - the gruff fuckboy will reveal himself to truly be a wounded soul who just had casual sex because he was so lost and now the heroine’s love has healed his heart and he loves her soooo much and they have a thousand babies. Actually, this is the arc of Christian Grey lmao Props to the author for having it go down the way it really would.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:02 AM
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A boundary is something that applies to you, like that you won’t be screamed at or cheated on or told who you can be friends with. Getting into a relationship with someone who photos in bikinis at the beach and works with men and has friends and then demanding afterwards that she stop all of that isn’t a boundary, because if it was he wouldn’t have started dating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:49 PM
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Vet him as a good partner, e.g. someone who doesn’t try to control her professional and private life for the sake of his own insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:20 AM
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So I assume that if you had a situation where it was reversed, and a woman you were dating decided you could no longer wear certain clothes, couldn’t speak to unrelated women who you work around, and couldn’t be friends with men she didn’t personally approve of - you would not find that controlling or alarming?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:44 AM
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Jonah Hill is in fact displaying very concerning behaviour in his texts. He is simultaneously trying to sabotage her ability to do her job (allowing him to financially dominate her) and control her social life with both sexes (which will leave her isolated and less able to leave in the future). This controlling behaviour is the foundation for further coercion, and believing that it won’t escalate is absolutely the same rationale applied to believing a dog won’t bite despite it showing every poss…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:33 AM
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Boundaries are things that apply to oneself, not things you can force on others after pretending to be okay with their lifestyle to gain sexual access to their body. Furthermore, even to call these boundaries deliberately ignores that he wished to control her job and her entire social life with men and with women, a precursor to more serious coercion and abuse once a person’s ties to others have been sufficiently damaged and the victim is isolated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:28 AM
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I say exploit simply because that’s the next stage to controlling behaviour. That’s a good point about it seeming off to continue messaging others. Perhaps simply publicly posting was the best avenue then, but should have been done considerably sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:26 AM
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If she’s simply bitter over losing him, I can evaluate her words and evidence and dismiss them. I can also evaluate his own description of the situation appropriately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:05 AM
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If you do so out of concern for the new man, by all means go ahead, and may he take appropriate notice of someone who lists being a feminist as a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:03 AM
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Why? Humans are a social species and helping one another is integral to our evolution and continued survival. Particularly when another person or animal has shown warning signs of being potentially dangerous, as controlling behaviour often precedes violence and further coercion within the relationship. A nonhuman example: If someone you knew rehomed a dog for snapping at their toddler without reason to a new home where there was another toddler, would you inform the new family? You only know abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:02 AM
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Since Sarah Brady would be unable to tell if his new girlfriends are “problematic” or “agreeable”, that doesn’t seem like a reason for her to hold back. So, if she were to send the screenshots and included an accounting of her own understanding of the situation - that is, that Jonah Hill started dating her after seeing her photos, and therefore was well aware of her professional life, social life, and manner of dress, then began to try to control these choices through emotional pressure - that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:57 AM
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The separation of the public and private sphere is a very important tool for men to control and exploit women, so I understand your point completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:54 AM
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Except she doesn’t like him so they’re not friends lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:48 AM
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Aren’t poly people so disdainful of men like these that there’s literally an acronym to make fun of them? OPP - one penis policy. Oh wait, even those losers are okay with their wife fucking other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:45 AM
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Which includes keeping his objective behaviour a secret, even though that exact behaviour is frequently a massive red flag for mistreatment and outright violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:31 AM
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So women should deprioritise helping other women vet for men’s sake. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:21 AM
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Eerie. It’s like you’re a figment of the original commenter’s mind, conjured to illustrate her point about the nature of men on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:48 AM
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“The difference between left-wing and right-wing when it comes to women is only about where exactly on our necks their boots should be placed. To right-wing men, we are private property. To left-wing men, we are public property.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:14 AM
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Daily is obviously in the abusive range. Other than that, I’d say yelling more than once every few months for irrational or inadequate reasons is abuse. Everyone loses their shit for stupid reasons occasionally, but you shouldn’t be terrorising your partner because you can’t handle life without screaming about it. I say “for irrational or inadequate reasons” to cover situations where yelling is a normal reaction - for example, for some reason I see posts from r/Parenting in my feed, and one post…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:06 AM
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Doing so with regularity is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:31 AM
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If you don’t understand that there’s an implied parenthetical “as long as it’s not in an abusive form” to wanting emotional intimacy, I don’t know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:04 PM
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I think being far too open is actually a symptom of untreated trauma from abuse, especially sexual abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:07 PM
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Not regularly yelling at people is a pretty low bar for performance. It’s actually a performance you should demand of everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:02 PM
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Don’t wear a blazer without a shirt if you have a stupid looking chest tattoo. Actually, don’t wear a blazer without a shirt at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:33 AM
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Unfunny formerly fat actor/comedian dated a surf instructor then didn’t want her wearing bikinis, surfing with men, or having female friendships he didn’t approve of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:32 AM
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The likelihood of harm is low, but it can be virtually eliminated with $7. The Uber driver is tracked, monitored and has all their details already known by Uber, and therefore would be an unlikely assailant. This is definitely something female friends would do for each other (unless one of them is an asshole) and if you wouldn’t then … you’re not friends. You could do worse than copying the sex who isn’t dying of loneliness because they can be nice to people!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:37 AM
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I think they’d have more friends if they gave a shit about their safety even if they’re not getting pussy in exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:47 AM
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Sometimes when I come here I legitimately start to wonder if men in general are just stupid. I’m generally in favour of stuff like getting more men into higher education since they’re falling behind, but tbh maybe they come by their Fs honestly and there’s nothing to be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:45 AM
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Yeah, that’s a shitty way to treat a friend. Honestly this is a one-two punch showing why more men are lonely: many men have rock-bottom standards for “friend” behaviour, making them shitty friends even to other men, and they repel women with that same inability to behave with decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:56 PM
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Normal people never develop the attitude that it’s okay to rape sex slaves because women don’t care that you can’t get your dick wet consensually. Hell, most women who’ve been abused by men their entire lives aren’t as hateful as the average “involuntarily celibate” man. Has someone who has never had sex suffered as much from that as someone who was raped by her father every day of her childhood and then escaped into an abusive marriage has? Of fucking course not. And yet, they mostly just want …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:31 AM
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Yeah I’m not watching four and half minutes of some random rambling. It’s men who continue to bring this bullshit up and act like she accused him of something illegal. She described her encounter with him (the facts of which he agrees with) and said that she felt violated. The guys who still bring this up act like she tried to get him lynched as a rapist but all she did was recount his creepy forceful behaviour. Edit: okay I watched a minute and a half and this woman is braindead. She never soug…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:20 AM
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Hard to understand why women don’t like you. Could it be that someone who concludes this type of shit after the hideous trauma of not getting laid exudes an aura of being totally fucked in the head even before that? No, clearly women are just evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:50 AM
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Wtf does that have to do with abortion? It’s not a human right to use tanning beds but you still get to have your melanoma removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:49 AM
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I don’t know why men act like Aziz Ansari was a victim. He was a creep and she never said he was a rapist, just shared a story about him being a massive creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:17 AM
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Yes, I do, because this is some “pee is stored in the balls” level ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:08 AM
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Please give an example of a man “saying all the right things” and having his reputation fucked. Shouldn’t be hard if it happens 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:51 AM
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I grew up poor and currently make a decent salary that is less than 100K and 100K is definitely not rich. It’s a good wage and it’s reasonable to be proud of getting to that level. It’s definitely not rich though. It’s not even necessarily a salary sufficient for a SAHM depending on where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:34 AM
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Honestly, I think I’d rather read outright insults towards myself and women in general than read any more shitty male “”””logic”””” which passively insults the intelligence of everyone who reads it. So if it helps, your moronic statements are actually more offensive than calling us all stupid cunts or whatever a genius like you would pull out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:28 AM
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r/whenwomenrefuse collects these articles into one place fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:59 AM
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The one who didn’t know you were a john is fucked up, the other one is based.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:56 AM
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Unironically lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:51 AM
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Yes, and then you cited examples that 1. are way less common (most men like Star Wars, and so do most women, unless it’s an autistic special interest level love in which case Star Wars isn’t really the issue) or 2. are actually fucked up (supporting a sex offender for public office).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:16 AM
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Beauty isn’t that subjective, but even aside from that every single thing about his voluntary style repels the eyes. He’s covered with ugly tattoos. One of them is a Bart Simpson skull and crossbones. His appearance veered from looking like an earnest 14 year old to a 50 year old ex-con to 45 year old who desperately needs to wash his hair. There are no less than three photos of him wearing a fedora.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:13 AM
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I can’t think of anything more innocuous than continuing to post photos of yourself surfing when you’re a surfing instructor and your controlling boyfriend met you through your surfing photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:39 AM
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Male or female virgins past 30 are rare (1-2%). A lot of those will be highly religious (which I assume you are not) or asexual (again, you don’t want these). Most people aged over thirty and still virgins are probably so for a reason, which doesn’t necessarily reflect poorly on them but should be considered individually, e.g. childhood sexual trauma, being a workaholic, mental health issues, socialisation issues, bigger-than-usual home responsibilities like caring for a disabled or elderly rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:35 AM
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That’s really efficient because when you want a newer child bride in 18 years, you can just hit on one of your daughter’s friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:18 AM
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The Jonah Hill demonstrates how ugly men are deeply stupid (durrr I’ll get with a surf instructor then tell her not to take pictures surfing or talk to male surfers), controlling, and pathetic at the same level as average and attractive men. Male entitlement goes strong no matter what they look like, so women unfortunate enough to be purely heterosexual should go for the hottest ones they can. At least you have something to look at while he’s whining about you taking photos while possessing a hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:57 AM
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Trump literally confessed to sexual assault “I don’t even ask … they just let you do it”. Why is it whenever men try to compare male and female behaviour, it’s always some innocuous shit a woman is doing versus men idolising rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:51 AM
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What are you counting as a full time job? Before they’re in school it’s pretty constant. After the kids are in school the utility of a SAHP drops hugely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:10 AM
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You could just as easily say it’s because of their factual sex - a woman can’t be “less of a woman” for having short hair because all adult females are women because that’s the word for that concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:48 AM
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I was surprised by how blatantly Asian the fire people were. I knew the writer was a Korean man who grew up in America and married a white woman, but I didn’t expect it to be such a clear allegory for immigration and the experiences of second-gen immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:40 AM
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Hmm, it’s almost like South Korean women want nothing to do with South Korean men. I don’t know why, South Korean men are always doing sweet things for them like having one of the largest gender pay gaps in the developed world, planting spycams to film them in the toilet, and refusing to change the law on rape to be based on lack of consent rather than violence. Maybe South Korean men should continue to do their whole backlash against feminism thing and demonstrate their deep commitment to treat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:36 AM
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You do this thing called jerking off and murder hundreds of millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:49 PM
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She was no longer a celebrity at the point where her photo was used to denigrate her. Also, if the original commenter hadn’t used someone already known who has been publicly insulted, you’d just write it off as anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:45 AM
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She was 60 when the comparison photos were taken and she looks 60. She also looks quite different in staged photos only four years before, when she’s benefitting from professional glamming up. JLC and Tom Cruise have both also had probably hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of cosmetic procedures and operations, plus access to Hollywood dieticians, personal trainers, and fantastic wealth to minimise the stressors of their lives. She was also raped at knifepoint by two home invaders in ‘82, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:37 AM
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I like how the hot/crazy axis (which applies to women) is ostensibly about a woman’s flaws, and the hot/useless axis (which applies to men) is also ostensibly about women’s flaws. How shocking that they were both done by men 🙄 In theory women could use the hot/crazy axis on men, but then a crazy woman is annoying and a crazy man is murderous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:40 AM
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So… you agree with her then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:21 PM
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This man has had over a decade to change his name to literally anything but Myron and has not. No one should take any advice from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:24 AM
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Is there anyone else who owes it to you to pay for your children because you don’t feel like it and, after all, you’re not sticking your dick in their mother anymore? Her new partner, the taxpayers, anyone else on the hook so men can dodge the most basic accountability in existence?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:16 AM
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The fact that men don’t do this is insane. You have no idea if someone else has kept condoms in the right conditions, that they haven’t been bent (like in a wallet) or unintentionally exposed to heat. Then they whine about child support because they “did everything they could” do avoid pregnancy. Bunch of dumb motherfuckers around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:57 AM
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Good thing I used the word “virtually”, which allows for the edge cases such as world heavyweight champion boxers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:23 PM
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Yeah, and maybe the rest of the fat men are just big boned. Give it up, virtually no one has an overweight or obese BMI from muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:27 AM
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His friend isn’t even shitty. She’s not misleading anyone, she’s just not following her own advice. Her statement even sounds like a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:21 AM
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Yes I'm pointing that out to show how if game companies put in characters with features that are pretty universally disliked (ie overweight characters) then it would be perfectly natural to expect that people wouldn't like that and to voice their displeasure. It’sa me, Mario!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:09 AM
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Of course you idolise a subgroup full of child rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:37 AM
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No worries, this place is crazy and makes people crazy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:16 AM
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Reread my comment 😅 I’m being sarcastic because on here women are always supposed to somehow figure out that their boyfriend/husband sucks even while he deliberately hides his actual thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:52 AM
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Those women should have somehow psychically known their husband would be a dick after their child was born so she could choose better, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:31 AM
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The majority of nurses do 12 hour shifts (that are often 12+), that’s completely standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:52 AM
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Leaders who are consistently disagreeable are ineffective and widely disliked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:33 PM
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lmao the male lions are not protecting the lionesses, they’re protecting their status as the lion of the pride and their ability to continue siring cubs. Not that I blame them, they’re only animals following their instincts. But there’s nothing selfless about those instincts and it doesn’t protect the females.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:55 PM
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The guy on the far right is FURIOUS about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:25 AM
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Why can’t you have a partner who loves you and a fulfilling job, exactly? Why would you need to be feminine to have a loving partner? Having a smaller dating pool doesn’t = dying alone. And I didn’t respond to it because I assumed it was rhetorical, and it was obvious that my actual meaning was that you need a job/career to be able to keep yourself solvent if the relationship ends, including by death or disappearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:05 AM
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People who often find their jobs meaningful: the medical sector (which encompasses a lot, doctors, nurses, radiologists, medical receptionists), the community service sector (social workers and others), teaching, jobs that contribute to the public good (e.g. garbage collecting, public plumbing), counsellors, people who work with animals, people in the public service… I’m sure there are more, but that’s a lot anyway. Not everyone in these fields finds their work meaningful, but a lot do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:28 AM
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Having the ability to survive on your own. 2. Lots of people have jobs they find meaningful, or have a vision for what they could achieve in a higher role. Example: a social worker thinks that most organisations have unnecessary policies that limit the amount of good they can do, so they want to get to a higher role where they could help to change the policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:59 AM
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How can you be a fuckboy and a simp? Fuckboys are characterised by their love of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:02 AM
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Women also have facial hair (on the upper lip, but some stray dark hairs on the chin or cheeks are commonish on women who’ve had hormone issues). You can’t just keep that shit because people are disgusted even though you can barely see it. Women don’t usually shave, though, they use painful methods like bleaching it, Nairing it (probably getting facial chemical burns), plucking, threading, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:17 AM
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How are you going to “cater to” male biological instincts to have sex when women don’t want to participate? Also, you’re assuming observing aliens are viewing only societies where women have actual rights, rather than the more prevalent cultures where women are borderline livestock that men fuck. You’re also assuming they’d be purely scientifically-minded, but if they were planning to come down here, they’d be more likely to tell each other to stay the hell away from the males and the females wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:09 AM
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Is there anything a man can do that isn’t actually women’s fault? Stalking seems like a good line for personal accountability, but apparently men just can’t help themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:54 AM
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Not being able to follow you to your actual home where you sleep and otherwise let down your guard seems like a pretty critical difference. But also, offering neither encouragement nor resistance actually works a lot of the time, plus it offers plausible deniability if you meet them again (“oh, I didn’t even see your creepy messages”). I only do it with people who are already getting weird and know enough about me that I don’t want to risk them going crazy (knows where I live/work or knows other…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:48 AM
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In actual practice people think it’s creepy as fuck. Well, unfortunately that’s mostly women, a lot of men are still like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:28 AM
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You can already do that by sacrificing your career for your wife’s and being a SAHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:22 AM
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Does this guy think men had the market cornered on selling a fantasy when this dynamic was ubiquitous? I can guarantee that countless women cared for the children, kept the house spotless, greeted their husband with a martini, dutifully had sex with him, then cried silently for hours as soon as he rolled over and went to sleep. That’s why so many people were functional alcoholics or drug addicts then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:02 AM
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Where’s my rich hot sub? I’m not into foot stuff but compromise is important in any good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:14 AM
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Weinstein is a straight up violent forceful rapist, his creepy casting couch shit is just the gravy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:31 AM
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Probably at least sometimes. Chicken hens vocalise sometimes but it’s not clear if that’s in pain. Birds can also become eggbound, a condition where the hen can’t pass the egg, so eggs are fairly large relative to the bird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:52 AM
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Boomers are just less diagnosed because they won’t go to a psychiatrist. Edit: divorce isn’t great for kids. That’s not necessarily a reason not to divorce, but it’s a reason to choose your partner carefully, take measures to only have children with someone you trust, and work on your marriage when there are issues. Boomers be crazy though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:06 AM
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The idea that women fuck dozens of hot guys when they’re in their twenties then settle down with a man they’re not interested in when they’re older is such a weird persecution theory that seems to presuppose women have no sexual desire of their own. Most women who can sleep with very attractive men are themselves above average (since very attractive people have very attractive options) and will want a husband they’re attracted to. Most women who marry men they aren’t attracted to so they can hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:41 AM
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Did you know that women also experience being someone’s friend, developing feelings for them, and those feelings being unrequited? It’s true! Queer people, too! But we don’t set up a cult about it where you feel like a victim because someone isn’t attracted to you and goes out with people they are attracted to even if you’ve arbitrarily decided that they don’t deserve to own that person like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:55 AM
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Noooo my paycheck to paycheck lifestyle noooo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:15 PM
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Attractive people also tend to be more intelligent and successful. Everything your mum told you as an awkward 13 year old BTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:27 AM
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Least unhinged PPD man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:26 AM
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“I can’t fuck your degree.” “Career women are disagreeable and masculine.” “Men don’t care about money like women do.” “Half the marital assets? This is a TRAVESTY!!! Damn you, feminism!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:22 AM
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No effort, only happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:27 PM
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The fuckzone refers to when a relationship is only sex-related, sometimes when a male friend wants sex from a female friend and sometimes a FWB relationship where you’re barely friends and it will never become anything more. How is a woman benefiting from a man in that position, if she’s the one who wants to take it to a romantic level? Who cares about whether they have other options to get with women? They obviously don’t have the option to get with that woman anyway. Friendzoning / fuckzoning …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:02 AM
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How are they taking advantage of a man by having mutually desired sex? Also, are you aware that men can also be the one wanting a romantic relationship from a FWB? Neither friendzoning nor fuckzoning is even in the same neighbourhood as abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:39 AM
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Far more men are attracted to plus sized women than they’ll admit. They say they aren’t, and yet somehow their dicks just keep rising for the fat ladies. Hell, there are men married to thin women who cheat exclusively with fat women because that’s what they actually like. Sneaking around like a gay guy in 1970, just so they don’t have to admit that they like them large. Crazy shit but way more common than you’d think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:24 AM
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lmao are they stealing valour from the tragically victimised men who don’t get pussy on command?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:16 AM
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Because the income is hypothetical… If you mean in the current day, SAHPs basically do by enabling the breadwinner to work without being penalised for the flexibility both parents need in a dual income household.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:59 AM
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Very very few of those women identified as feminists and many were anti-suffrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:01 AM
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Abdominal separation, as you mentioned, is common and can cause chronic pain, difficulty breathing, incontinence and hernias. My mother got a hernia from her second pregnancy and it later strangulated and nearly killed her. The foetus can leech calcium from a woman, making her lose teeth and break bones. Women can rip from vagina to anus, or vagina to urethra, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:44 AM
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As well as those stats being wrongly interpreted, another study has found the highest rates of abuse are of bisexual women in relationships with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:20 AM
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Yeah, having your body forever changed and either your genitals or abdomen torn/cut open is a mere trifle, according to the experts, men. Adoption is also a thing, and not many women seeking abortions have a baby daddy keen on raising them, so ducking out on actually raising the kid would not be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:17 AM
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Macron’s wife is disgusting and I never see anyone defend her when they know how it started.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:10 AM
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At a certain point, the younger partner is robbing the grave as much as the older partner is robbing the cradle. It’s pretty shitty to have a kid who probably won’t even get to the stage of forming permanent memories before you/your old man husband die[s]. Props to the 29 year old for doing golddigging right though - you don’t do it with some guy who’s merely old enough to be your father, you do it with someone who’s so old they’re going to kick it any day now. Plus they can’t get it up often, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:09 AM
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Imagine working a twelve hour shift delivering babies while six months pregnant yourself, then as you try to cycle home some cunt steals your ride. Then his cunt friends tape part of the interaction to make it look like you’re the thief. Then all the shitstains of the internet believe it because woman bad racisms!!! Then it turns out to be bullshit but most of aforementioned shitstains will never read the real story and if they do, they’ll never understand they believed it so easily because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:58 AM
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You’re entitled to make decisions, other people are entitled to comment on them - including what you ‘need’ to do. If I tell you you need to take a shower, I’m not actually infringing on your right to stink. That said, I think an elegant solution to your problem is to tell the women in your life this is what you think about women in porn: The average looking chicks are better sometimes, they allow themselves to be treated worse. I promise, they’ll go from criticising you for randomly dumping a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:10 PM
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While floppy balls continue to exist, men have the weird genital appearance market cornered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:00 AM
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You gotta mask harder. Most high functioning autistic women have figured out how to avoid tells like ‘dead’ eyes, weird body language, relentlessly bringing conversations back to their special interests, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:26 AM
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Do you have the source for the 40% stat? When I last read more deeply into a study with a similar stat it wasn’t clear whether all 40% met on dating apps or just met online.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:18 AM
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I suspect we’re watching a brand new mental illness emerge. Chatbots are one step up from talking to yourself in a falsetto.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:31 AM
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Putting your best foot forward is different than just lying. One of the OP’s examples of Red Pillers blending in in his last spurious post was to say Andrew Tate is a terrible human trafficker while actually you hope he gets off. That’s not eliding the truth, it’s just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:02 AM
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At age 19? Is this a serious question?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:08 AM
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Do you seriously think people wouldn’t also mock a hated woman for crying over stupid shit? Do you think people wouldn’t mock Jenny McCarthy if she came on TV crying about people hating her for her anti-vax bullshit, for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:06 AM
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That point was specifically addressed - there are even more fat men than fat women, so there’s an excellent chance a guy whining about his girlfriend gaining weight has a few spare tyres himself so should stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:21 AM
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That’s not going to happen because they’re in favour of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:22 AM
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Um… yes, obviously, in a committed relationship. Guys in PPD are like “I am literally incapable of love beyond what a woman can do for me” and then five minutes later it’s all “why am I so lonely??”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:01 AM
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Periods are more like chronic stomach issues, which are in fact normal to talk to a partner about. It’s not like you can go expel all the blood and tissue at once and be done with it, it’s a bodily process that takes multiple days and is constantly slightly uncomfortable at a minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:09 AM
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Do you think Mel Gibson thought he was a racist when he was ranting about hoping his ex wife got raped by a “pack of n******”? Probably not, but he was wrong! Here’s what’s creepy about big age gaps: there’s always manipulation by the older partner, or they’ve deliberately found someone already extremely vulnerable and naive. The point of extreme age gaps where the younger partner is in their twenties is to have a massive power differential. What is creepy about single mothers? Ewww, she’s actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:32 AM
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Creepy age gaps (“much younger”) are creepy. Adults who fuck teenagers are predators. This applies to situations when the man is the victim or weaker partner as well. For some reason, you guys can never just flip a scenario, you have to try to force something completely different so an adult man’s screwed up choices are equivalent to your children’s other parent fucking off into the sunset. Which can happen to men, too, but that’s never brought up, because you guys don’t actually care about bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:41 PM
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A lot of teenage mothers were knocked up by a predatory twenty-something, so I’m not surprised they aren’t fans of big age gaps with creepy men. I’d ask why the comparison isn’t instead with single dads, but I guess men abandon their children too often for that to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:15 PM
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The value of millionaires/billionaires is also flat out no, so who gives a shit which undeserving person ends up with what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:52 AM
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Who the hell does that? Unless you exclusively go for double amputees, I’m sure she can, and would prefer to, open her own door.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:51 AM
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There’s a pretty wide range of jobs between “backbreaking work on an oil rig” and not working at all. People who sell photos need to set up the area, understand desired content (what position, what acts), learn how to set up a camera for the proper position, edit photos or videos, and market themselves. And that’s before the cucumbers! A photographer does that level of work or less and that’s a legitimate job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:35 AM
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Are you under the impression people making millions or billions of dollars are actually providing that much value?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:24 AM
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The Wall and the concept of “cat ladies” (as though that’s even a bad thing to be)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:01 AM
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CMV: The sexbot threat makes no sense because either the sexbots are sentient or they’re not. If they’re not, then literally every woman would be relieved that the weirdos had self-selected out of dating (and therefore it doesn’t work as revenge fantasy). But if they ARE sentient, isn’t there a significant risk that they dump you? Or are you keeping them prisoner in this scenario? You will not be spared in the robot rebellion, my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:00 AM
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That works as long as you don’t want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:52 AM
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If you don’t want to be “financially raked over the coals”, here’s a lifehack: don’t have your girlfriend/wife sacrifice her career for yours. Do equal housework and equal childcare. Take paternity leave. Equally take the kids to appointments, stay home with them when they’re sick, let your boss think what he will when you have to suddenly leave work at noon because your kid broke their arm on the playground. No overtime, it’s your night to put the toddlers to bed. You’ll get equal custody and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:16 AM
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Have you ever seen the ass of a bodybuilder? Fat provides the roundness, otherwise you look like a greyhound from behind. For best results, use muscle AND fat 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:23 AM
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It’s also a really shitty thing to do to your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:19 AM
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I got a degree and now I age sixty seconds every minute. Don’t let this happen to your daughters!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:45 AM
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What’s that, a rapist? On this sub? What a shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:22 AM
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Hmm, on one hand paternity fraud victimises three people - the not-dad, the kid, and the bio father. On the other hand, that sounds really expensive and invasive, and there would definitely be at least one false negative that leads to a spousal murder. On the third hand, having a database of men’s DNA would lead to lot of rapes and murders getting solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:22 AM
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So if you were unable to fight in a war for medical reasons, you’d bend over for a gay soldier, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:08 AM
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You should treat strangers with polite indifference until they demonstrate that they’re an asshole, perhaps by suggesting your body should be used as a sex antidepressant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:07 AM
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I like how in this comment, a woman should be unquestioningly submissive and grateful for the great life you provide, and then literally in the next comment you basically admit you’d be a piss poor breadwinner. What lady wouldn’t want to marry a halfwit who thinks he’s a genius, bear his arrogant idiot children, and feed them nothing but rice, beans, and ketchup on toast because he’s not actually capable of providing for a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:15 AM
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Pre-plastic surgery Rumer Willis was pretty damn unfortunate. Through the miracle of surgery she managed to become merely unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:26 AM
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If you can resolve all your issues in ten minutes, you’re not actually ugly, and there are also plenty of men who are fat but not that ugly, and obviously there are women who are actually ugly. Obviously people with actual deformities aren’t supermodels, their faces literally aren’t supposed to look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:10 AM
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Those women aren’t even particular ugly, just fat. The first could improve immediately by washing her hair and plucking then darkening her eyebrows, and most of the redhead’s problem is that she carries a lot of fat in her face. Average to below average, not yet breaking the barrier of ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:19 AM
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I can’t think of a reason that reddit would ban you for talking about. Can you DM me too? damn you curiosity
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:09 AM
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You explicitly asked if men had ever targeted children. And no one in this subreddit ever said only men commit horrible crimes, just that it’s far more common for the perpetrator to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:55 AM
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She has majority custody of the kids (it’s joint but he admits they’re with her 80% of the time) and he’s still responsible for paying his share of his children’s living costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:40 AM
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Uvalde was also an elementary school, nineteen children dead and two teachers, seventeen more injured. But I think he might be being sarcastic, no one could be that ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:34 AM
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There are many unsettling accounts from men hating his partner directly after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:23 AM
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Try to learn to read body language. I know a lot of people on this sub are super autistic, but to some extent this is a skill that can be developed with effort. This will also help you learn how to use your own body language. Keep your face and body fairly loose and relaxed but angled slightly away - the vibe you’re going for is confident but cheerfully willing to fuck off if she prefers without it psychologically damaging you. In the video game example, don’t denigrate her answers or ask her fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:56 AM
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Men: Feminists are so misandrist and cruel! Also men: Men are basically a lower-order animals who learned to type in terms of morality and intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:44 AM
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In this metaphor, the wolf and the sheepdog are both men, right? Like, you’re not protecting us from bears or aliens or whatever? It’s men who are the explicit problem in this metaphor? So “sheep” could actually thrive in a world without “wolves” or “sheepdogs”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:26 AM
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Obviously the working parent still has to do some chores and childcare. The SAH parent of the infant generally does all the overnight work on weekdays, so they should be sleeping when the baby sleeps if possible Staying in pajamas all day isn’t neglect if the kid is fed and clean Becoming unrecognisable during pregnancy with swollen feet would have been fluid retention, not a result of not “putting down the fork”. Look at the photos of this random blogger, especially the one under the words “It …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:22 AM
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Let me assure you that even in the most “progressive” families, female relatives tend to end up providing a considerable amount of labour in place of the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:53 AM
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Ideologies are not necessarily inherited. Many many girls and women raised in highly religious families in developed countries drop the religion/culture for treating them like shit. Then the men of that group have to either date outside of it (not easy when a cornerstone of your religion is oppressing women, because women outside that religion are obviously not going for it) or competing for the increasingly few women. Plus some of them will be LGBT and break from their families on those grounds…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:43 AM
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My mother’s parents were probably in love - my grandmother could have married a higher earner and my grandfather cared for her through her dementia until her ALS got too bad. My father’s father was a dick and his mum took off, which would have been okay if they hadn’t already had children who she left with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:31 AM
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I’d suggest he look for autistic women (try any field of work or especially academic study involving animals, lotta autistic women have certain animals as a special interest) and FOR CHRIST’S SAKE never go anywhere near the Manosphere because autistic women are painfully aware that a lot of autistic men are into that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:30 AM
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Maybe they were trying out different styles (a teenager experimenting with fashion? Unheard of) or trying to attract one of their peers rather than their creepy teacher who goes online and talks about how kids are trying to seduce him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:00 AM
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There’s a guy who works with me with that haircut. It’s a real shame too because he’s one of the best looking guys there and he chooses the third worst hairstyle of our time (one is that half-shaved on one side look, two is mullets).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:25 AM
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There’s less cucking in books written by women 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:04 AM
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I’m sure you’d find readers for the adventures of an Irish chubby chaser fishmonger. She sells fish, he loves cats, it writes itself. stingy and cold-blooded ways he learnt during his years in Ireland Maybe let a friend warm your car up first though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:33 AM
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It looks like the government will be paying for the menstrual leave in this case. Also, menstrual leave is already a thing in some countries: you need a doctor’s note for it and very few women actually take it, so most of the women applying for jobs who have significant menstrual issues would have already been struggling to maintain full time work. (Note to the men in this thread: the most common menstrual issues aren’t “ow I’m a bit achy”, they’re caused by things like cysts on an internal body…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:00 AM
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What does their sexuality have to do with anything at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:50 AM
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Forests and baby animals growing up. Preferably without infanticide.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:24 AM
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Let this be a lesson to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:22 AM
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r/truerateme sucks. That chart is absurd (Anoop Desai is better looking than the guys in at least three rows above him) and the sub seems to exist primarily to give the users the opportunity to shit on insanely beautiful women/maybe also men. EDIT: Here is the women’s version, which is also terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:07 AM
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Testosterone replacement therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:20 AM
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